Tell Me Your Secrets. ;-)

[FootFetishTess 1261]

Okay, darlings,

This is the fetish board, so I'm asking: What are your kinks? What turns you on and gets you off that's outside of that narrow, confining box called "normal"?

 

Clearly, I like feet - no kidding. ;-) I like people who like women's feet (ideally mine) and I like women's feet, myself. But I also like the crack of a good single-tail (I only just learned how to use one, so I won't be taking aim at actual people any time soon). I'm also curious about suspension bondage, about what it takes to make another person fly, about how to make the rope an extension of one's own arms.

 

What are you into?

 

 

- Tess.

[whiteman 14028]

It's strange, but my fetish could be considered "just normal sex" in the real world, but in the alternate world of Internet porn, escorts, etc., it's a very taboo subject. I'm talking about creampies, i.e. cumming inside the pussy bareback. The reason it's strange is because the Internet porn is supposed to let you live your fetishes that you can't usually do in the real world, but this is one of those things that are considered an underground activity in the porn world, but normal activity in the real world. So it's taboo in the porn world, but okay in the real world (i.e. with a wife or girlfriend, etc.), an interesting reversal of values.

 

Obviously the fantasy is a bit more involved than simply cumming inside a pussy. I also like to watch it dripping out of the pussy, licking the girl's vagina afterwards, putting my nose into her vagina, etc. But still, when all is said and done, this just regular old heterosexual intercourse in the end, so why should it be a fetish? We now need a fantasy world from our fantasy world. :confused0024:

[piano8950 32577]

I'm also curious about suspension bondage, about what it takes to make another person fly, about how to make the rope an extension of one's own arms.

 

 

 

 

- Tess.

 

Never heard of this. Could you elaborate? It sounds interesting

[Wolf Knight 29667]

Well Tess,

 

I don't necessarly have a foot fetish as such, but I do get an very healthy amount of satisfaction from giving a woman a killer foot rub.

 

Over the years I've come across some pretty (IMHO) odd fetishes. Some I personally tried (I'll try anything once) but the most bizzare I encountered was watching the show "Kink" one night and they were in Germany at what could only be described as a old war time warehouse and people (men) were being dressed up in rubber "pig" suits complete with masks and were down on all fours on the floor of a large (room sized) shower. Well women (dom's I assume by their attire and deminor) were giving these "pigs" enema's and the "pig men" were grunting and squeeling like pigs the whole time until enema was released in an explosive fashion. Now seriously by this time I was totally flaberghasted and quite frankly somewhat dumbfounded by what I had just witnessed and decided that many of the things that I once engaged in that I felt were pushing kinky now seemed very vanilla. So bondage and such just didn't have the same hint of taboo as before. LOL

 

I digress.

 

For me two things stand out as being a "mild" fetish for me when taken into context:

1. The sensation of being bound with sight and sound removed as senses. Then to have your "trusted" partner explore you slowly and deliberately being only able to sense them through sensations they provide I find extremley erotic and sensual. Its a real turn on to give someone that power and control of you.

2. The sight of when a penis just enters a vagina. (I mean to watch the flesh meet and become one while the tip slowly enters as the lips softly part to accept it in.) It almost drives me mad I could watch it all day over and over.

 

Good thread to see what makes people tick.

 

Chuck

[IrishWhiskey 370]

It's strange, but my fetish could be considered "just normal sex" in the real world, but in the alternate world of Internet porn, escorts, etc., it's a very taboo subject. I'm talking about creampies, i.e. cumming inside the pussy bareback. The reason it's strange is because the Internet porn is supposed to let you live your fetishes that you can't usually do in the real world, but this is one of those things that are considered an underground activity in the porn world, but normal activity in the real world. So it's taboo in the porn world, but okay in the real world (i.e. with a wife or girlfriend, etc.), an interesting reversal of values.

 

Obviously the fantasy is a bit more involved than simply cumming inside a pussy. I also like to watch it dripping out of the pussy, licking the girl's vagina afterwards, putting my nose into her vagina, etc. But still, when all is said and done, this just regular old heterosexual intercourse in the end, so why should it be a fetish? We now need a fantasy world from our fantasy world. :confused0024:

 

Same fetish here, but in addition I think it's a turn on to experience sex after she already has a creampie. Sloppy seconds.

[whiteman 14028]

Same fetish here, but in addition I think it's a turn on to experience sex after she already has a creampie. Sloppy seconds.

You mean after you yourself have creamed her and you're going in for a second shot, or after somebody else has already creamed her and you're next in line?

[Malika Fantasy 144625]

I'm also curious about suspension bondage, about what it takes to make another person fly, about how to make the rope an extension of one's own arms.

 

What are you into?

 

 

- Tess.

 

Ropes is my passion and obsession.

Hell in less than 3 weeks I am going to Japan to further study bondage and literally spending thousands on this simply to pursue it.

 

What it take? Ropes, dedication, patience, love, skills, a capable bottom.

 

Bondage, especially suspension is not sexual for me. Yes I may get a bit wet at time, but I don't have the urge to have sex or have an orgasm, but it is, extremely cathartic in it's own way.

 

I get tied, I tied other and also tie myself.

Tying/being tied is like a tango. It take two to dance, it's the same with ropes. You need to be in fusion and trust the person that is tying you. Sometime with your life.

 

Tying myself in a way is the best therapy possible :D I can tie myself in a slow,sensual, comfortable suspension and enjoy it or if I am feeling stress, need to feel adrenaline, I can do a harsher tie to make my blood flow

 

@piano8950

I'm going to use myself as an example.

Here some pics :D

 

Trusting someone with your life...If I didn'T trust the person that tied me this way, I would never let her do this. It's not something anyone can do

 

It's trust, intimacy

 

This is a self suspension :) ( I tied myself up in the air this way)

 

Okay I'm out or I will never shut up about it

[docottawa 541]

I love this question. I hope that many Cerbites will respond because I'm fascinated with the kinks of other people. I enjoy hearing about them, I enjoy discussing and dissecting them, I enjoy learning about why they do what they do to whomever they do them to.

 

For my own part, most of my kinks center around power exchange. Mind control, damsels in distress, sexual training, hypnosis, etc...

 

I think that some of it stems from the television shows that I used to watch as a child. My earliest recollection of being sexually aroused was watching Yvonne Craig, Batgirl, in the campy television series. In one scene she was captured by a villain and dropped into a huge vat of quicksand-like goo and as she struggled to escape she became more and more exhausted, i.e. submissive. I remember breathing heavily and getting an erection as I watched her struggle and weaken. I think that I was six or seven.

 

As an adult, I've enjoyed many D/s relationships and have explored pretty heavily into the realm of BDSM where I've met fascinating and creative people who have shared expressions of their own kinks and fantasies and I feel that I've learned much from these experiences. It's always a special treat when I get to discover something entirely new that excites, something that I never even considered until being exposed to it. One example is a Japanese form of rope bondage, Shibari, which I was introduced to years ago and have since taken up as a hobby.

[piano8950 32577]

@piano8950

I'm going to use myself as an example.

Here some pics :D

 

That's the best way someone's given me an example of anything ever.

I'm familiar with that, I just thought the phrasing had to do with something completely different.

about how to make the rope an extension of one's own arms.

 

 

 

 

What are you into?

 

- Tess.

 

Anyhow, to respond to Tess's question, I don't know how much of what I'm interested in can be considered out of the box but here goes.

 

This just sounds absolutely fantastic.

For me two things stand out as being a "mild" fetish for me when taken into context:

1. The sensation of being bound with sight and sound removed as senses. Then to have your "trusted" partner explore you slowly and deliberately being only able to sense them through sensations they provide I find extremley erotic and sensual. Its a real turn on to give someone that power and control of you.

 

But it would be both ways for me. From my understanding of bdsm terminology, I'm a switch. I have times where I need to be in control, and it gives me a strange but amazing sense of pleasure to see someone completely give up control. Obviously within the constraints of everything being consensual, I don't have rape fantasies.

 

Something I read on here last month which intrigued me was about a slow tease. I heard about this before, but never found it appealing. Still, since the topic was brought up, I started thinking about it more, and now I want to try it. Being at someone's complete mercy, letting them decide how long they want to tease me, and let me orgasm (if at all). Of course, being on the other side also appeals to me.

 

There are a lot of fetishes (or what I think are fetishes) that I like that I've never tried. One that I did, was with wax (and it was awesome). It wasn't painful, at least not in the general sense of the word. So I'd like to explore that area more (play pain stuff).

[FootFetishTess 1261]

Brilliant description! The tango metaphor is really apt.

Thank you!

 

- Tess.

 

Additional Comments:

@nlwoodchuck, Sensation Play is wonderful! I love to watch - and ride - the reactions of my partners, but bottoming for it is also a highly enjoyable experience!

 

@piano8950, wax play can be lovely and gentle. It was one of my first forays into kinky play - spilling wax on myself (on purpose) while in the bath. (A bit of a mess to clean up after, as it turned out). It has the potential to be really intense, but can also be sweet and sensual... with just enough "bite" to make it interesting. ;-)

[tonyb 1028]

I enjoy being helpless, squeezed and crushed by the woman, and then used for her sexual pleasure. I enjoy trampling because it allows even a woman of moderate size to appply lots of pressure to my chest, easily, for an extended period of time.

 

Apparently, some people with autism find it very comforting to be squeezed long and hard. I'm not autistic, but I do find it therapeutic.

[Wolf Knight 29667]

Hey Tess,

 

I've tried all different bondage components over the years but it wasn't the bondage as such that I'll found got me excited it was either the loss of control and holding that edge of nervousness and excitement or the power of control.

 

I must say that I've had lots of fun over the years but sensation play was always my favorite. My first foray was when I was 17 and I had my girlfriend all tied up and blindfolded on a bed and used a cherry popsicle and my warm breath as my tools. At that age it was very erotic.

 

Over the years I've continued with the bondage sensation aspects but found that on a bed a person can feel you move around them and begin to anticipate so I now prefer a table (massage table) and I used a blindfold ear plugs. But after my wife and I read the Fifty Shades books and copied the whole earphones and sensations accompanied to music and timed to go with the music it really was amazing. For me I'm all about experiences so I like to try both sides equally depending on the mood.

 

(Just a hint if people do decide to work the music into their sensation fun, I'd recommend that the Dom create the playlist independant of the Sub. That way the only notion of what might be coming for the Sub next will be when the next song starts to play. (Nine Inch Nails, "Fuck you like an animal" - as soon as it starts she always starts to tense up because she knows where the stimulation is headed (I'm smiling right now) v.s. something soft like a piano melody).

 

Oh my, I think its time to go and work up another play list. (Oh BTW if the woman is the Sub the Doms use of Ben-wa balls can really drive her off her head especially if the table is inclined)

 

Have fun everybody.

 

Chuck

[jbrook 192]

I enjoy having a woman submit herself to me. The trust she has when she places her whole body in my control, and allows me to do as I wish. Being able to see the physical reaction when a woman is blindfolded / bound, that she has no idea what I will do, but trusts that I respect her, and will stay within her limits. It's the ultimate kind of trust, and really gets me going. I've never experienced this with a SP however, I think mostly because there is more to it than sex. For me, an SP would just be taking a risk, not giving trust. Correct me if I'm wrong.

[rob_otteast 142]

Lady in a business suit with skirt above the knee, no underwear or stockings, simple black pumps, verbally and visually teasing me, but I am not allowed to touch her.

[FootFetishTess 1261]

Lady in a business suit with skirt above the knee, no underwear or stockings, simple black pumps, verbally and visually teasing me, but I am not allowed to touch her.

Oh, I like the sound of that. :-)

Tease-and-denial for the win.

[whiteman 14028]

Lady in a business suit with skirt above the knee, no underwear or stockings, simple black pumps, verbally and visually teasing me, but I am not allowed to touch her.

I agree with everything, except the not touching part. ;)

[Ashley Ann 75247]

One of my things that I love are when a man has cold hands. I love cold hands all over my body, makes my nipples more erect than they already are and makes my her down there very appreciative...I think it has to do with the fact that a doctors hands are always cold..who knows.

 

The reason that I mention this - is that it seems to me to be a little outside the box because, many times when my cients come to see me ( winter time especially) they always warn me, my hands are cold, since I guess most dont like that. However my response always is : That's ok-I love cold hands , so you can use my body to warm them up :boobies:

 

 

Okay, darlings,

This is the fetish board, so I'm asking: What are your kinks? What turns you on and gets you off that's outside of that narrow, confining box called "normal"?

 

Clearly, I like feet - no kidding. ;-) I like people who like women's feet (ideally mine) and I like women's feet, myself. But I also like the crack of a good single-tail (I only just learned how to use one, so I won't be taking aim at actual people any time soon). I'm also curious about suspension bondage, about what it takes to make another person fly, about how to make the rope an extension of one's own arms.

 

What are you into?

 

 

- Tess.

[Guest happytimes]

I get turned on watching a sexy woman smoke a cigarette. My fantasy is to watch a horny woman lift up her skirt and rub herself while enjoying a cigarette. She would then command me to "get over here and put your tongue in me". If there are any SPs who would enjoy this type of a smoke break, PM me.

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[whiteman 14028]

One of my things that I love are when a man has cold hands. I love cold hands all over my body, makes my nipples more erect than they already are and makes my her down there very appreciative...I think it has to do with the fact that a doctors hands are always cold..who knows.

 

The reason that I mention this - is that it seems to me to be a little outside the box because, many times when my cients come to see me ( winter time especially) they always warn me, my hands are cold, since I guess most dont like that. However my response always is : That's ok-I love cold hands , so you can use my body to warm them up :boobies:

Wow, that is unusual, I've never known any woman (or man for that matter) appreciate being touched by cold hands. Better enjoy it while the winter is still around.

[PcarSub 316]

Wow.. thanks for the discussion and opportunity to contribute.

 

my not so secret desire is to be totally bound by a beautiful Goddess dressed in black lingerie and stillettos.. bound to the point where i am stretched to the limit.

 

She could have Her way with me.... humiliate, tease, deny, anything Her wicked desires want.

 

in a perfect world i would be forced to reciprocate what i make my partner do... including BBBJ, COF, etc. etc.

 

mmmmm.. searching...

 

thanks again for the chance to share...

 

i'm a newb to the group, and already feeling the love.....

 

m.

[Wolf Knight 29667]

Wow.. thanks for the discussion and opportunity to contribute.

 

my not so secret desire is to be totally bound by a beautiful Goddess dressed in black lingerie and stillettos.. bound to the point where i am stretched to the limit.

 

She could have Her way with me.... humiliate, tease, deny, anything Her wicked desires want.

 

in a perfect world i would be forced to reciprocate what i make my partner do... including BBBJ, COF, etc. etc.

 

mmmmm.. searching...

 

thanks again for the chance to share...

 

i'm a newb to the group, and already feeling the love.....

 

m.

 

PcarSub,

 

There are quite a few awesome ladies here on Cerb that will do that for you ;), some have posted in this thread already.

 

Chuck

[FootFetishTess 1261]

Wow.. thanks for the discussion and opportunity to contribute.

 

my not so secret desire is to be totally bound by a beautiful Goddess dressed in black lingerie and stillettos.. bound to the point where i am stretched to the limit.

 

She could have Her way with me.... humiliate, tease, deny, anything Her wicked desires want.

 

in a perfect world i would be forced to reciprocate what i make my partner do... including BBBJ, COF, etc. etc.

 

mmmmm.. searching...

 

thanks again for the chance to share...

 

i'm a newb to the group, and already feeling the love.....

 

m.

NLWoodchuck beat (ha!) me to it.

There are lots of ladies here who would have a great time bringing that fantasy to life for you. :-D

 

- Tess.

[ottbadboi 100]

Mine would involve domination and degradation ... being tied and having no safe word - only the preset limits ... ass bruised, assplay, and perhaps being humiliated by showers ...

 

Am i alone?

[Phaedrus 209521]

Mine would involve domination and degradation ... being tied and having no safe word - only the preset limits ... ass bruised, assplay, and perhaps being humiliated by showers ...

 

Am i alone?

 

I am by no means an expert on this, since this isn't my scene, but... I'm sure there's someone, somewhere who will. Or, more likely, several someones.

 

The only thing I'd say is... no safe word? I doubt any professional would go with this, but if that's really what you want, just don't say it....

[deepblue 110]

I myself..huuuge footfetish. I love worshiping and taking pleasure from making sure a woman is totally taken care of.

I will do anything to lick a woman and her feet

make her feel like a queen

 

weird ... but where I am...