gr8fun42 115 Report post Posted March 10, 2013 I think its great that a woman can be so orgasmic . I enjoy watching a woman climax multiple times and always wished there was a way to experiance this....lol 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cometman 35115 Report post Posted March 10, 2013 Aw, jeeeez.......you mean women fake orgasms? God love them! (as long as they're convincing). Orgasms are the coolest things out there and I love being a contributing factor. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
The General 11309 Report post Posted March 10, 2013 I enjoy it if I can have my partner orgasm more than once... Some women's bodies give away obvious signs of having an orgasm, others less so... I like the ones that give it away when they have reached their peak.. If they are faking it, it is a turn-off for me. 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kubrickfan 12836 Report post Posted March 10, 2013 I think if you are properly involved in ... ahem ... the orgasm-making process, you can usually, but not always, tell if they are real or not given how the lady's body responds. There are a number of ladies that I have seen that ... especially once we get to know each other and they can let their guard down a bit ... really seem to enjoy an orgasm, taking a break, and then starting again. Things are a lot more enjoyable for me if the lady is really enjoying herself; thats also why seeing a lady on a repeat basis really helps this sort of thing. I agree that acting it out is a massive turn off and its better not to do that. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nathalie L 112512 Report post Posted March 10, 2013 When I'm with a woman I prefer to take my time and really learn what she likes. I play the 'optometrist' game (is one better, or is two better? one, or two?) There are many different kinds and intensities of orgasms. Even women who are multi-orgasmic have some orgasms that are 'better' than others depending on a multitude of factors... I like taking my time in that sense... I would never think that a woman was faking it in my presence, because I hope that I create a safe enough space for them to be honest with me if what I'm doing isn't working for them! If someone fakes their orgasm I'm assuming it's because their partner is putting too much pressure on them to get off. If I knew they were faking their orgasm, I would try to have a conversation about it and reassure them that I wouldn't get offended if they didn't orgasm. My self-esteem isn't that sensitive. It would just be a learning opportunity... To answer the question simply, I wouldn't assume she was faking it because she was multi-orgasmic. However, I wouldn't assume that there wasn't something I could do to make her orgasms better. There's always something you can do to make it more intense! 4 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Butterfly Kisses 2301 Report post Posted March 10, 2013 I get totally turned on by a lady who is truly reaching and having an orgasm. Once, twice or as often as she can. If the lady I am with wants to orgasm I will spend the whole session with her just to achieve that for her. If there is time for me after then bonus. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Mutau 2516 Report post Posted March 10, 2013 If my partner can be multi orgasmic during an encouner so much the better. We are meeting to have an enjoyable time. What better way! No, I do not think that a lady having multiple orgasms is faking. It is simply her body reacting to the caring ministrations of an attentive lover. What is really a turn on is maintaining your partner at an orgasmic plateau level as her body repeatedly spasms and squirts. Delicious! But a word of caution: please allow her to rest from time to time. There is such a thing as too many orgasms as her passionate parts may become too sensitive to stimulation. Once rested, you can then tease her and please her so that she may reach many more orgasms. 7 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Hastings56 1148 Report post Posted March 10, 2013 I think if my lover has multiple orgasms weather she is a service provider or not .....It's "GREAT"! I get even hotter knowing that I helped her get there!! Remember, what goes around cums around ......... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Gia Wren Marlowe 67985 Report post Posted March 10, 2013 Like Genevieve, I can have one orgasm after another. While orgasms are a sure sign that things are going well, allowing a cool-down is definitely ideal. The quality of the sex really isn't defined by the shear volume of orgasms. I prefer to be given a chance to recover and enjoy the moment after a while, rather than being treated like a wind-up doll. Fortunately, most men seem to intuit when it is the right time to switch things up. And those that do get over-excited have always been polite and understanding when I ask to shift the focus back to them for a bit. ;) 8 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
monctonian007 1357 Report post Posted March 10, 2013 I love being with a woman who can have multiple orgasms as I always want MSOG in my session so why shouldn't they. The biggest compliment I can think of is when a lady wants you to stay longer so she can keep having more. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mrgreen760 37785 Report post Posted March 10, 2013 I am humbled if some one I'm with has an orgasm. And I don't think it happens as often as we think or hope it does. Peace MG Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Old Dog 179138 Report post Posted March 10, 2013 As I get older, the more appreciative I have become of honesty and the expressions thereof. That being said, I too would like to reinforce the beauty of that expressiveness, the feel of nerves betraying control, the sound of excitement expressed in a myriad of tonalities. It's like a symphony reaching a crescendo... you feel the pace rather than set it, you sense that something magical is happening and you know that you are no longer just watching or hearing... you are a part of it. You are the conductor... and she is the orchestra and together you have created a masterpiece, if only for that briefest of moments. I love to know that we have done well - for your multiple orgasm is mine as well. I may have just one manifestation physically, but in my mind your body has given me many many more. Never apologize for giving me that gift. 11 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NotchJohnson 214123 Report post Posted March 10, 2013 Keep in mind ladies and gents that there are 2 types of orgasm, vaginal and clitoral. The most common one I have encountered are the clitoral and that is when you massage the clitoris with your tongue or finger(s), this one can be faked although I don't think anyone ever did with me. Next one is the vaginal orgasm (G-spot) and this one you can't really fake it, fluid is pushed out of the vagina with pressure. Any lady having this type of orgasm should keep a bottle of water near the bed in case of dehydration and to keep the fun going also. So to answer your question I LOVE having a women that is orgasmic the more she does the more I want to give her some. 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest c**io**m7 Report post Posted March 10, 2013 Multiples make me feel like we both enjoyed ourselves and the overall satisfaction from the session increases exponentially. For that encounter, I feel like the physical encounter moves from a straight business encounter to a physical connection. As a hobbyist, I like to feel that I am a friend, not a client. I like to feel like I am the sexiest man alive...an irresistable love-making partner...not a walking wallet. Multiple orgasms, if only for that brief time, gives me this feeling and satisfaction. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
IsaMassage 54318 Report post Posted March 10, 2013 I think all women are capable of mutiple orgasms.., having the right stimulation, parthner and many other factors... Most importantly is up to us ladies to be there not just in body but also in mind!! Be there in mind body and soul.. Enjoying the moment, and forgeting about everything else about out of the space and moment we are sharing with our parthner! 8 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PistolPete 61421 Report post Posted March 10, 2013 I have been very blessed, yes I said blessed!!! in meeting some very orgasmic ladies. I like the chatter back and forth and watching a lady rise with goosebumps,quiver and shake with a full body orgasm. Using your tools, and assets with a lady and thorough chatting to get to that height is mind blowing for both parties. I love giving a lady head, nothing like DATY for her, I love my smooth lips sucking and using my tongue and finger very gently, it's delicious fun! I enjoy so much more the foreplay for her, as that itself really gets me off too, where I would be dripping with precum (I usually will get a wash cloth and clean up in needed ;) ) , I get hard as rock, nothing more then satisfying your lady. I also find great kissing a orgasmic rise to both parties too. I love it :) When that orgasm is achieved, then it's time to reverse roles and I love it from both perspectives. You ladies are the best :) 3 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Winnipegcub 21293 Report post Posted March 10, 2013 I don't really keep score on the number of orgasms reached. I much prefer just letting things unfold naturally. Now having said that I also like longer appointments which I hope gives us opportunity to try different things and take pauses between climatic moments. I do find ladies who enjoy and want more than 1 orgasm do well with variety. First may come from DATY, then maybe her on top, cowgirl and grinding and/or maybe some kissing, nipple tasting and a toy. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Claire Heavens 51771 Report post Posted March 10, 2013 More Roar Please. Slurp. 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
frenchbrute 1090 Report post Posted March 11, 2013 On this issue I have wondered as of late. I mean, all I can base my opinions on is what I have seen and experienced. For myself, what turns me off or "does it" for me is to watch and see the pleasure the woman is having. I am a person who always observes with intent, paying attention to details, noticing reactions to the smallest nuances. What works, what doesn't what is enjoyable what isn't. I have found that for alot of things most women are similar in what works well pleasure wise. The physical reactions or results are what tend to vary. I tend to concentrate alot of orally pleasuring my partner. Usually within the first 5 minutes or so...is when the first one happens. I get a little more focused on grip, pulling the body towards my face deepening my tongue pressing harder...usually a second orgasm follows. AS of late..that about where I get really intense...some have requested a break at that point and some have pulled my face inward and began to sweat and swear about the intensity! at the 20-30 minute mark I am wondering how she is doing to keep her legs up, she's usually reaching for hair or sheets or whatever she grab a hold of...this is typically where I have wondered where the difference is between who is faking and who is real? I am pretty quiet generally, but at that point or orgasm #3 I ask or am usually told that we must break, which is when I ask if she is ok and would like to continue or try something else...if requested I head right back to it without complaint. The last woman I was with claimed she had 6 orgasms over a course of 3 and a half hours of daty..damned if I know si i will go with her word! At this point, I have had varying reactions from.."damn..I need a few minutes breather" to geez..my freaking legs are numb..or comments about asking why I'm single to even asking if I was ever a male escort"(that made me laugh) so I guess my question or questions have always been...I have never sought comments like that so which ladies are exaggerating and if some are...why? Also, I have always figured faking involved moreso the screaming, panting, etc.. but its difficult to fake twitching, goosebumps...or when you see her juices flow! I don't know ladies..you tell me !!! Some ladies of cerb could also share there opinions with me on this! 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
yabut 1460 Report post Posted March 11, 2013 Nothing better than slowly working your way around the outside before you hone in on the clit and just keep working it, feeling her breathing increase, legs shaking and finally have her cum and just stay down there and see how many times you can make her cum bfore she can not take anymore. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Wolf Knight 29667 Report post Posted March 11, 2013 To address the OP multi-orgasmic is great and I would assume that members of a community such as CERB would tend to be more sexually progressive (I have been wrong before) so the giving and receiving of pleasure should not be a foreign concept. Many of the clients that have posted here seem to appriciate giving pleasure as much as receiving which is wonderful. For someone that is inexperienced and not intuitive to body language an early orgasm could make them think "fake". My wife does take a little time and foreplay to get excited enough for an orgasm but when she's there she stays at that heightened state with multiple O's until it becomes to sensitive. For her, when she cum's she goes quiet so if I had my eyes closed and wasn't touching her it's be hard to tell. If she had a O in the first five minutes I'd get up, wipe my chin, point and say "faker". I hate fake and consider it an insult as such but I've had her fake O's for me and I mean really fake it up to see how real she could make it and I'll tell you that a guy that was not used to her would never know. Now there is a flip side as well, one of my buddies has got the other issue, his wife is hyper sensitive. She can cum in like two minutes and then is way too sensitive to touch (neither of them feel this is a good thing) because there is issues with him being able to finish. Sure there is a bj or hj but it's his wife, sometimes he'd like to cum in her. They've learned to make it work by him being pretty much ready to blow before they engage. For me, I'm confident in my pleasure inducing "techniques" but the idea of visiting with a new SP is a bit stressful. Like many of the guys posting here I'm always a guy who is focused on the ladies pleasure and in fact it's where I derive a significant portion of my pleasure. Being with a new woman and having to learn her buttons in a limited amount of time presents a bit of a learning curve and when your aware in the back of your mind that your on a clock (even if there is no clock watching) not hitting those buttons right away can be a little unsettling. For that reason I think longer appts are better with a new SP/client encounter to allow that feel you out (no pun indended) period without the pressure. For me, I feel like a little bit of a failure if the lady doesn't orgasm and receive the pleasure she deserves BUT if she faked and I knew it, I'd never visit her again because to me it'd be an insult. That might be harsh but hey thats just me! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest t****ster***ke Report post Posted March 11, 2013 not to say the only purpose of having sex is to orgasm, but it has to be pretty high on the list :) with that in mind, who wouldn't be in favor of a woman getting off as often as possible? in the event she is faking it, i guess that would be a turn off, but in the end, that's kind of her loss, no? i say, viva la multiple orgasm! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Jabba 18389 Report post Posted March 11, 2013 I kind of look at the lady's pleasure as a proxy for my own. The reality for me is, the older I get, the less capable I am at achieving multiple Os. As a matter of fact, I don't think I've ever been able to achieve multiple Os in the span of 30min...oh, wish that I could! But anyway, if I can truly pleasure my partner more than once, that is a rewarding thing. Faking - not so much rewarding & it's hard for me to tell at times. But, if my partner decides to fake, I appreciate the gesture in generous spirit. If we part with genuine affection, then I'm uplifted. How the hell do you ladies manage to do multiples?? Ladies - if you're partnering with another lady, how can you tell if she's faking? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shaved 3174 Report post Posted March 11, 2013 When I'm with a Lady that is my whole objective is for her to have as many orgasms as she can have. There is nothing better than seeing a Lady enjoying herself and letting go. It all is not about me. I love a Lady who loves to kiss a lot. That gets me into it right away. Then I work my way through to her earlobes down her neck with kisses. Then to her nipples licking the nipples and sucking on them and kissing the whole breast. Then kissing her belly and navel then to her thighs. Then kissing her labia and licking it till the juices flow. Then I spread her lips insert my tongue and proceed to lick her clit. There was one Lady that I spent over a 1/2 hr down south. I loved watching all the twitches in her body the moans and groans etc.. Watching her orgasm numerous times was amazing. I thought at one point everyone in the hotel where going to be knocking on the door. If a Lady where to fake it I would be disappointed. Instead of faking it just stop and tell me what you really would like. I'd rather have direction, every Lady is different in there areas of sensitivities. My thing is I know I will have an orgasm my objective is to make sure the Lady is enjoying herself too. It makes for a GREAT time for all. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NotchJohnson 214123 Report post Posted March 11, 2013 Look at this from a different point of view, I have been with a Cerb lady (no names please) and she had multiple orgasms but I never knew until we were done and she said that the 7th one was so strong she wanted me to quit because she could not take it anymore, but in another way it felt so good. I asked her why did she not tell me before and she replied that most man don't care if a woman orgasm or not and I told her it was not true. So please ladies let us know when you are getting pleasure we love to know we did something good. 4 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites