Wolf Knight 29667 Report post Posted March 15, 2013 Well while exploring the possibility of indulging in another little fantasy I was prompted to start thinking about a new one. I have a voyeuristic eye and do find viewing others engaged in sex (specifically live sex) very stimulating. Personally I'm straight and don't particularly have a desire to engage in activities with another man however have no issues being close proximity to another man while he endulges in the sensuality of another beautiful woman even my partner. Only once I have been involved in an encounter with another couple and it was essentially both couples kept the sex between their SO's. Dispite the lack of interplay it was extremely erotic to see and hear others enjoying themselves. Which bring's me to my reason for posting. I would like to further explore this aspect of sexual play a little more so I'd like to throw a thought out to the community for comment or ideas. I am planning on booking a very large suite at an Ottawa area hotel for some play of my own and thought that while I have it anyway I might be able to gather some others for some fun. I was thinking maybe 10 (maybe 12 depending on the suite but at least enough to make a good "daisy chain") people in total, 5 SP's 5 hobbiests the event would be by invite only. The SP's would be invited to participate first and based on their extensive knowledge of their clients and connection and rapport with each would extend an invitation to that client. This is so there is a good vibe in the room and no "newness" to overcome. I was thinking that it would have to be a 2 or 3 hour session and it would be planned a little ways onto the future to allow clients enough time to save up if they needed to or make travel arrangements. I don't know if this is something that has occured in the CERB community in the past but I'd like the community to comment, critique or express interest in this type of an event. I don't ever get offended so please feel free to tell me if my idea is out to lunch. Thanks, Chuck Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cat 262460 Report post Posted March 15, 2013 Darling Chuck, Your idea is not crazy, just exceedingly hard to coordinate. There are many dynamics that need to be considered and much planning to be done. Perhaps you should take a peek at Paradiso? Our very own Victoria Jolie actually hosts a series of these amazing parties across Canada. I had the honor of attending the Toronto event and will say it was the most memorable sexual experience of my career. Over a dozen amazing women and screened hand chosen clients together for 5 hours of delicious food, drink and debauchery. I would recommend without hesitation to drop her an email. Her Calgary event was last night and she has another coming up in Montreal in early summer. If you have any questions about it feel free to ask! http://www.victoriajolie.com smiles, cat 4 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Wolf Knight 29667 Report post Posted March 15, 2013 Thanks Cat for the input. Actually Paradiso is on my to do list so I'll keep an eye out for the Montreal event. I can appricate the logistics involved in pulling something off like that. I'll keep it in mind. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cat 262460 Report post Posted March 15, 2013 Darling Chuck, I am a private player by nature, I love the one on one connection and never imagined being part of an interactive sensual experience until VJ approached me. I've attended swinging and kink parties as a voyeur, am an active member of the kink community and very liberal but never played publicly. It was astounding the atmosphere that VJ provided with Paradiso. That night the key to these events struck me. It's the host. If the host knows what is important the night will be a success. Each female attendant needs to be vetted and on the right page. Each male guest needs to not only have the willingness to attend but the essence to appreciate without reserve the events happening. I've seen nightmare like interactions from drama royalty to downright hostile action at events and Paradiso was unlike anything I'd imagined. The guests were outstanding in behaviour and interaction and the ladies approach was stellar. Not a diva amongst them. I'm also aware of the months of preparation that goes into the screening of attendants which is where the real challenge lies. It seems there is a review for last nights events here... http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=118480&highlight=paradiso cat 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Genevieve Marceau 68000 Report post Posted March 15, 2013 I am an exhibitionist and I love this type of program, which I have been involved in the past. The only issue I would see in terms of coordination is that since SP would be first choosen, I just wouldn't see myself contacting a client to come with me and of course expecting donation. It would feel like solicitation for me :S Also, I think 2 hours would be too short for a bunch of people to socialize, get to know and get comfy with each other and then start the party. Plus, it wouldn't let much time for swinging :b However, I really do think it's an idea that is worth exploring and developing on! 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Wolf Knight 29667 Report post Posted March 15, 2013 (edited) I deleted my previous post. Thanks to cat and Genevieve for the responses. I believe my newbieness caused a little bit of over excitement :) and possibly "biting off more than I could chew". For now I think that I'll defer to cats experience and heed all her advice. Again, thanks ladies. As for any further posts, you can let this thread die. Chuck Edited March 16, 2013 by nlwoodchuck defer to experience Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
