nylonfeetlover69 100 Report post Posted July 18, 2009 curious to your reasoning... Just doesnt seem right for me. Id rather have an SP as a best friend but for marriage, I feel her job will come in the way alot. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Missy Mariposa 234 Report post Posted July 18, 2009 I'd only be with a man who was okay with it. These type of men do exist. That being said, I'd also let him be the "stay at home" and pamper him. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Seymour 3970 Report post Posted July 18, 2009 It is not a black and white issue. Most men will have a problem with their partner being intimate with multiple clients and then coming home to them. Most men are jealous and can not or do not know how to really handle the thought of their partner being intimate with others -while having a 'relationship' with them. We have to face something head on - as clients we do not know how or what our female consorts go through physically and mentally to cope with this 'job' and therefore we as men are at a disadvantage from the get go when an opportunity arises to entertain a 'relationship' outside of SP/client with one of our lady friends. Though it may be easier to date - there are aspects of this world that will scare or disturb us men if our lady friends choose to open up to us - and that will affect the eventual relationship. In my opinion, for this to truly work, there has to be a tremendous level of mutual trust, understanding, maturity, openness - attraction in and out of the bedroom and from a guy perspective - one has to look beyond the profession and look at the person behind the SP persona. Ultimately, it is the person that really matters - not what they do to generate income. And to level the playing field - us guys need to get some insight into how you ladies cope with your daily grind to perform this 'job'. Only then would we stand any reasonable chance of participating in a 'normal' relationship. 4 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
YoungStud 468 Report post Posted July 18, 2009 Wise words Seymour. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Emma Alexandra 123367 Report post Posted July 18, 2009 Any man who dates you is very lucky :). thats sweet Ava....thank you.... Just doesnt seem right for me. Id rather have an SP as a best friend but for marriage, I feel her job will come in the way alot. cool...I was just wondering what your answer would be....everyone is different... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
whatsup 11893 Report post Posted July 18, 2009 I do beleive that many of us hobbyists do have what it takes to have a wonderful relationship with an EP, We partake in the hobby for our benefit and the wonderful ladies partake in the hobby for their benefit. I know what it is about, and the Eps know what it is about. It can and does work when two are joined as one. Personally my biggest problem would be for a disrespectful client as I have nothing but admiration and respect for every EP that I see. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
etasman2000 15994 Report post Posted July 19, 2009 Yes to both. As a general observation I have found the SP community as one with the largest group of non judgemental individuals around. They also seem to excel as communicators. Both these qualities are attractive ones to me. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest S***e Report post Posted July 20, 2009 Over the years, I've spent some time with some very special ladies and with a few who were less than reputable. That said, I've been married twice and neither lady was in the socalled business. At my age, 61, I would have no problem dating or spending time in a social situation with an SP who had become a close friend as I find the level of communication to be very high. With respect to marriage, I have no desire to ever marry again. But, never say never. I would never close the door on anything in the terms of a meaningful relationship be it with an SP or a non-SP. I'm not a jealous type of person, but I tend to be very protective of people I care about so having a long-term relationship with a working SP could be hard for me to take, not because of what she does, but for what someone may do to her. Yes, I understand the nature of her choice to pursue her chosen career and I accept that, but as I said I tend to be protective of those I care about so if she were every assaulted or abused in some form, the person responsible would definitely have me to deal with. Ols Spike Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
coachg 388 Report post Posted July 20, 2009 Well put Spike, old boy..I totally agree with your line of thinking. I would have no problem being in a relationship with a SP, but I, like you, would be very overprotective and that could lead to some unforseeable problems in the future. There appears to be a lot of special, amazing ladies out there who would be prime candidates for a serious relationship....very open, warm, loving and intelligent. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
misterme 110 Report post Posted July 20, 2009 I don't think I could. It's not so much a jealousy thing, but just that I don't like to think that the SPs I've seen see other men. And if I'm dating one, it would be hard to convince myself I'm the only one when I know I'm not the only one. Did that make any sense? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MandalayBay 575 Report post Posted July 21, 2009 Any lady who lands the heart of CoachG is going to be very lucky and very happy! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest S***e Report post Posted July 21, 2009 There's probably a few good ol' dogs around CERB who would make many of the ladies here very happy for an entire lifetime MB. Old Spike Any lady who lands the heart of CoachG is going to be very lucky and very happy! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PistolPete 61421 Report post Posted July 25, 2009 IF YOU MARRY THIS IS THE TYPE OF CEREMONY YOU SHOULD HAVE..A NICE "FEEL" GOOD STORY...KIDS HAVING FUN..APPPARENTLY LOTS OF HITS ON YOU-TUBE http://ca.yahoo.com/s/940559 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dirkgently 1778 Report post Posted July 26, 2009 without hesitation, yes, as long as they don't listen to rap. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
