HandJobs!

[Studio 110 by Sophia 150333]

Strongly agree about the eye contact. I feel this key. In fact I notice that many SPs close their eyes when they come, which I find disappointing, since a great turn on for me is to look into a woman's eyes while I am making her writhe with pleasure.... I realise that's off the topic of hand jobs, but hey, you brought up the matter of eye contact (-;

 

I do SEE your point, lol....haha love puns:)

 

I just want to point out, this is a very delicate and personal thing for almost any provider to do. Mainly because it IS SOOOO deep and intimate, that sometimes can take time built such a close and intimate experience. By this I mean, not too often my first meeting is so close as to look into my soul...but as time goes on, and trust is built and earned then perhaps this will happen naturally. BUT when it does happen...all the better!!

Sometimes, just doesn't reach that pinnacle tho. That is ok too;)

 

I like to watch the ending myself, hehehe, love the explosion and fountain of fun at the climax, hahahah...but that is me:)

[castle 38816]

For me personally, it's pretty simple to get me off with a HJ.

 

Spit (I've always preferred good old fashioned spit over lubricants when it comes to HJ.....plus the sight of a beautiful woman spitting on my cock is freakin' HOT!! LOL).

 

Stroke hard. Stroke fast. Full hand grip (None of this thumb and forefinger stuff lol). Dirty talking is always helpful but not required if the lady isn't into that.

 

 

Also enjoyable, provided we're taking our time and that the lady has good arm stamina lol, is bringing me to the edge and back again a few times before finally letting me go (I think the term for this is "edging" if I'm not mistaken?) Makes the orgasm that much more intense and.....explosive :p

 

 

And ending with nice pearls, cim or a facial (provided the lady in question enjoys this).

 

To me personally, there's nothing more anti-climactic than having an awesome bj or hj with mind blowing build up and then ending with someone treating my jizz like it's a toxic chemical spill.

[Hollywood Thomson 553]

Why does it always feel so much better when someone does it for you, than when you do it yourself?? :)

One of the great existential questions!! :)

 

This is actually something that I don't agree with. I very rarely if ever finish because of a handjob, maybe once a year if I am doing a duo and there was no finish during intercourse and they pull out the lube. I very much would rather use my own hand than have an escort or random hookup try.

[Guest C**Tra****er]

I stooped in to write that there isn't such a thing as a bad handjob, but then I was thinking that wasn't true.

 

A girl I dated briefly in university had an incredible grip; she would grab on hold on for dear life almost as if she thought the little guy was going to escape! I had to tell her that as much as I enjoyed the attention, it was attached and I preferred that it remain that way! Talk about hurt!

[crankF 12893]

Wow, I LOOOVE a great handy. Some stroking is always a great way to end a nice massage or even a FS session. Lots of lube or spit is needed and especially so if circumcised. Ladies always rub the sack a little bit, but I like the eggs kneaded and rolled around a bit and some tickling of the taint. Varied strokes are good, a light fingered touch is good for me as well as stroking the shaft with one hand while circularly massaging head with other hand. Toward the end; grip right above the head and power stroke.

 

I like the lady to take her time, slow is good. A couple build-ups to near gasm is good, but not too much because I have gotten so over stimulated and sensitive that I couldn't cum and that's a drag! Some of my most memorable handys were from a friend who liked me to stand in front of her and after some titty fucking, she would have it slathered with spit and lube, squeezing the bag while yanking the crank at light speed until it sprayed. One time my knees buckled and I smashed my head on the dresser---ouchie!

[piano8950 32577]

After doing a little site browsing and not really finding what I was looking for, I decided to ask my question.

 

I enjoy this aspect and have been told I have great hands. When it comes to a hand job, I'm making an assumption everyone likes an attentive SP ie: varied tempo and pressure, attention to the balls, varied grips. But when it cums to a finish, do you like to build straight to it or do you like multiple builds? Or like anything else, does this depend on what you're in the mood for at the time?

 

In addition, is there anything you REALLY enjoy about it (certain grips, strokes etc)?

 

 

Multiple builds...always

 

As for something I enjoy, I didn't know this before, and I can't do it to myself for angular reasons, but twisting while stroking feels fantastic.

[Midnite-Energies 110563]

As a side question to this thread because a few people have mentioned this but also added to it which leads to my question. When you are looking for multiple builds (and they are being provided) do you communicate you proximity to orgasm to your partner or do you leave her to intuit when you're close? And if it is the latter, would you be willing to communicate this for your own benefit if asked?

 

I ask because some days I'm tuned in and some days I'm not and it also depends on my partner and my newness to him (or him to me). I had the pleasure of being lead through a tantric session and it involved communication about proximity and I found that communication in itself became stimulating to me but also guided me to provide the most pleasure. It could be as simple as saying the number "9" when you're almost to the point of not being able to hold back (or saying more if so inclined). Would this get in the way and interrupt the flow or would it be okay?

[piano8950 32577]

Ideally, I'd like not to have to say anything. But practically I doubt that would be possible for me. I'm quiet. I hated it when guys would make a sound in pornos, so I kinda trained myself to be quiet.

 

So unless a woman really knew me, it would be me informing her about getting close. I think the 9 idea is great. Removes the need for structured sentences which I'm terrible with during the moment. All that usually comes out is fragmented bits. (Hmm Good...yeah me happy)

[PistolPete 61421]

Multiple build ups and yes always love talking, in fact dirty talking really helps the intense explosion, and yes giving her a detail report as we go along makes it very intense, I might just say...okay stop and play with my nuts, or glide your nails into my inner thighs.

 

I also love to DFK if offered really turns my crank, I can get so tense that my legs will shake and my thigh muscles will tense up so much that I might even be sore after cumming and yes I might even yell happiness groans. :) Then time for a massage to work out the tense muscles.

[mrgreen760 37785]

Personally I like a team effort approach.....a little of me and little of her and back and forth. She gets to watch a bit. Kissing while it's happening is great. I'm a bit of a shooter so.....keep your head up ;)

 

 

Peace

MG

[PistolPete 61421]

Almost forgot, I like having my nipples pinched and tweaked while she is giving a hand job, if she isn't doing it, I do it myself...my nipples get very erect :)

[Midnite-Energies 110563]

Almost forgot, I like having my nipples pinched and tweaked while she is giving a hand job, if she isn't doing it, I do it myself...my nipples get very erect :)

 

Is it getting hot in here or is it just me??

[PistolPete 61421]

Is it getting hot in here or is it just me??

 

I always swear to tell the truth about my thoughts, always...and yes if it is just hand job, it isn't much fun, there has to be much more variety of erotic play to heighten the experience, in fact the use of nipple clamps is cool with me too ;) or ice cubes melted all over my nipples, and private areas, pin wheel, feathers...what ever it takes to make the session really "hot" :) = goosebumps and hair on end ;)

[Alyssa Staxxx 4412]

....it is gettng hot in here...love it!!

[fiskaa 2600]

Definitely enjoy building to the edge then holding back two or three times....seldom make it any further than that. Verbalizing how close like by stating a number (nine) is an excellent idea for when someone is not real familiar with you. Another exciting variation is having her watch and tell you how quick, how hard, order you to stop then start again and then finally let you finish or she takes over to finish the job.....requires good control but can be very exciting. Also very hot to have her massage the pre-cum over the head of your cock when first starting.

[antlerman 17064]

God i love a good hand job. In fact that is a prime reason fir me in this hobby.....so mnay hands so little time.

I love a nice long tease.....gentle play with the balls......slow long strokes......more tease to almost release.....then start again

 

A hand job is not just up and down.... Alternate hand and finger styles and motions....

Nipple are a must for me......i am at the point of getting some light clams to bring along

Then there is the area between the sac and hole.....lots of lube and glide over that area often....go from tip to hole in one motion

 

Sorry i can not continue......gotta go practice on myself now

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[emiafish 30979]

Sorry i can not continue......gotta go practice on myself now

Posted via Mobile Device

 

I trust your practice session is in the comfort of your own home. I noticed the "Posted via Mobile Device" tag and envisioned Antlerman in traffic driving one handed or better yet on public transportation. :handjob: :icon_eek:

[bcguy42 38594]

... and that region just below between the legs.

 

 

That particular point of anatomy is properly referred to, so I've been told, as the "t'ain't". As in t'ain't this and t'ain't that.

 

Of course this reflects the Southern element in my upbringing.

 

Oh, and to get back OT: I love the multiple build-ups.

[castle 38816]

Almost forgot, I like having my nipples pinched and tweaked while she is giving a hand job, if she isn't doing it, I do it myself...my nipples get very erect :)

 

Yes!! (I don't do it myself though). I particularly like having my nipples licked and lightly nibbled while getting stroked.

[Maverick 2873]

When I'm close to finishing I say "almost there" or "almost done" and let the lady decide how to react to that. Generally in my experiences so far they slow down/back off for a while and then start the build-up again and it feels amazing.

 

Generally speaking for handjobs I like a lighter touch because I'm very sensitive, and I love when ladies use their breasts, even if its just rubbing my cock on them and not going full-on with a titfuck (not always practical/possible). I also think it's amazingly hot and intimate getting to kiss while she's still holding me in her hand.

[swampgas 838]

Multiple builds are great, but in my experience they are hard to achieve. I quickly get overstimulated and then try to hold back, only to have some kind of intense internal orgasm and then I can't actually cum, which is kind of unsatisfying. The lady needs to be a very confident and assertive communicator who can get what is required from a participant who's brain has shut-off almost completely. This is much appreciated, especially by those who are kind of quiet or shy. A take charge woman with a plan is so sexy.

 

For me a slow and steady build is best, with a delicate, slow and sensuous touch with varying tempo that increases when its time to release. I prefer a very sensual atmosphere and approach where all of my erogenous zones are stimulated during the course, not just the big obvious one. Sucking my nipples or earlobes while talking dirty would be enough to make me cum, throw a HJ into the mix and it could be over before it starts if you come in fast and furious! I don't have the stamina of those porn stars.

 

I also enjoy a lady who uses all of her assets (hands, feet, breasts, bums, lips, tongues, thighs... mix it up and be creative). So much fun to be had. Excuse me while I go make an appointment.

[Guest D***el B***e]

I once saw a lady who did a great hand job, actually let me rephrase that, she did a fawking hawwwt and amazing hand job. We had agreed in advance that as soon as I reached a certain level, I'd give her a sign that she could slow down and bring me back from the edge ... she did this quite a few times, alternating back and forth how she brought me to the edge and then she told me the next time to just let myself go .... HOLY FAWKING GOD ... was she ever right! I don't think I've ever come so much in my life ... she had to repaint the ceiling of her apartment! lol lol

 

Unfortunately I never returned because I never felt the chemistry I need to feel to warrant a return trip... but what a hand job ... one for the books!

[PhantomKnight 7914]

Def the foreplay leading up to it is key. Casual encounters with a woman won't get me off during a HJ, however every time I get a massage from an MA, it's almost like experiencing an amazing orgasm every time they finish me. Sometimes I finish faster than I can even imagine. The sights, smells, textures of thing. The heat, passion and build up is just..... Hell, AMAZING!

[PistolPete 61421]

Perhaps I'm in tuned with my body, I don't know, but if she is working it below with 2 hands, I will caress my nipples, pinch them and my goosebumps will rise.

 

I find it very arousing and I will even drag my my fingers along my body to just feel more aroused. Having your hands and fingers doing nothing I might as well play with my upper body, while she is busy below.

 

I know some ladies that will look up at me and they get turned on by how I enjoy tweaking my own nipples.

 

I think there is nothing wrong with knowing your body too well,to fulfill the entire experience.

 

I also love,love giving a reverse massage,and find it very arousing to myself. I have had ladies feet up in chest area, and have them tweak my nipple with their toes, I love erotic play a lot I guess, oh and love sucking their squeaky clean toes too :)

 

And yes nothing like the lady biting my nipples too! LOVE IT!!! Bring it on!

 

 

 

Yes!! (I don't do it myself though). I particularly like having my nipples licked and lightly nibbled while getting stroked.

[swampgas 838]

A great handjob definitely has to involve a lot of teasing and pleasing and sensual seduction.