MandalayBay 575 Report post Posted July 30, 2009 Okay, I'm retiring soon so I can let loose and ask some questions I've been dying to know about. I would LOVE to hear responses from pooners who have been with at least a few different escorts. 1) Are spinners tighter than more voluptuous women? (I hope this question doesn't offend anyone, but have always wondered the answer to this. Please be honest gentlemen.) 2) What do you do (if anything) if the SP you are seeing isn't clean down below? 3) What do you do and how do you react when the picture does not match the lady you see (either a bait and switch or posts old photographs)? 4) What got you into seeing SPs in the first place? In other words, how did you become involved in this sexy, wonderful, amazing world of the sex trade? 5) What makes for a good blow job? Please give details about how an SP gave the best blow job you've ever received. xoxo Mandalay 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Andee 220524 Report post Posted July 30, 2009 This should be interesting..can't wait to read the responses.:boobies: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
A***** A***** 510 Report post Posted July 31, 2009 I am interested as well, spill the beans gentlemen :twisted: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
R********2 100 Report post Posted July 31, 2009 1) Are spinners tighter than more voluptuous women? (I hope this question doesn't offend anyone, but have always wondered the answer to this. Please be honest gentlemen.) -- No... I've been with voluptuous women who are "tight" and spinners that have been "not so tight" and vice-versa... depends on the woman. 2) What do you do (if anything) if the SP you are seeing isn't clean down below? -- Never had this happen with an SP... only in my personal life when I was younger. Many of us guys have the "dip test"... while concentrating on the breasts you bring your hand up after being down below and check for any smells that you may not like. The debate I've had with friends is whether you should put your dick anywhere your mouth won't go... some guys say "my dick doesn't have taste buds", others will put their dick where their mouth won't go... as it hasn't happened to me for many years I don't know what I'd do... in my younger days I went with "my dick doesn't have taste buds" theory :roll: 3) What do you do and how do you react when the picture does not match the lady you see (either a bait and switch or posts old photographs)? -- Try to find something attractive about them but still go through with the date... again it's been many years since this has happened, thank goodness for these boards! 4) What got you into seeing SPs in the first place? In other words, how did you become involved in this sexy, wonderful, amazing world of the sex trade? -- In my late teens early twenties, (mid 80's), while partying on the market I saw a hot girl checking me out as she drove by in a car. On my way back from the bar she was working the street and I just had too have her. 5) What makes for a good blow job? Please give details about how an SP gave the best blow job you've ever received. --The best blowjob I've received is from an SP who has the most incredible eyes... when she looks at me while doing a BJ with those sexy, sultry eyes it's so good that I can't come as I just want to make it last forever! She also got the "porn star" thing going on... you know the come on my face/in my mouth look when she does this... GOD, now I've got to go see her! Roam Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
m**k 153 Report post Posted July 31, 2009 These are 5 questions worthy of individual posts...but here goes, IMHO. 1) Are spinners tighter than more voluptuous women? A: In my limited experience, yes, they tend to be, but not always. A 5' girl may be "smaller" everywhere than say a 5'10" girl, much like shorter men tend to have smaller hands, feet and yes, a smaller penis. 2) What do you do (if anything) if the SP you are seeing isn't clean down below? A:I don't go there for dinner, and I keep the digits away (only happened to me once with an SP...everything else was great so no big deal.) 3) What do you do and how do you react when the picture does not match the lady you see (either a bait and switch or posts old photographs)? A:Only happened once, was very surprised but tried to not look disappointed, opted for the short stay, came as fast as I could but tried to be a gentleman (didn't say anything rude etc...), ran to my car and shook it off. 4) What got you into seeing SPs in the first place? A: I was recently single and not looking for anything with a new SO. A NSA/FWB sounds good, but at my age (mid 40s) they are few and far between. SC just give me blue balls, so I took the plunge. It is a temporary fix, but sure beats jumping into an intimate relationship with a friend of a friend or a co-worker...when one is not ready or interested in this. I am staying away from online dating...too many nut-bars!:) Being selective as to which SPs I see, I am able to find the qualities that I like in a woman, have great conversation, great sex, and the next day, I don't need to call. 5) What makes for a good blow job? Please give details about how an SP gave the best blow job you've ever received. A: A good blow job is part attitude and part skill. The technique should be firm enough and include lots of saliva. A dry blow job with teeth is just nasty. The best BJ I've had was many years ago by a really hot girl at work. I haven't had one like it since, she did admit that she had a lot of experience! She used her tongue (on the under/bottom side) and had really full lips. Her ability to suck was and still is lengendary to me but didn't involve any theatrics (no spitting, unnecessary hand action etc...) BTW a good blow job shouldn't need any hand action if its done right:) Monk Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest f***2f*** Report post Posted July 31, 2009 1) Are spinners tighter than more voluptuous women? I'm not into spinners but have had a few....I'd say no but usually it's about whether a woman has had a baby or not in my experience. Women who have had a child are generally not as tight...unless their friendly doctor gave them an awesome episiotomy (spelling?):mrgreen: 2) What do you do if the SP you are seeing isn't clean down below? I have not encountered that problem. I think I'd have to stop...it would really turn me off. 3) What do you do and how do you react when the picture does not match the lady you see (either a bait and switch or posts old photographs)? Again I've not had this problem but I would not stay if that were the case...I'm from the Cowboy Kenny school of honesty.....hate scammers! 4) What got you into seeing SPs in the first place? In other words, how did you become involved in this sexy, wonderful, amazing world of the sex trade? Marriage on the rocks...lonely...looking for adventure. 5) What makes for a good blow job? Please give details about how an SP gave the best blow job you've ever received. OK first of all it has to be bbbj for me. cbj just doesn't cut it so I have a saying "NO BBBJ, NO BONER" Best was a lady who was my fav last year...most know who that was....she was very persistent....kept sucking till the very last drop was out.... she had a very good technique....combination of hand and mouth...steady speed and pressure and picked up the pace a little at the end but just kept going till I was twitching and begging her to stop...it was something she obviously enjoyed doing (most people enjoy things they are really good at) and if she didn't enjoy it, she deserves an oscar award! She had a nice little technique of taking it out of her mouth and regarding it with a sexy smile....sticking her tongue out and slapping it on her tongue...she could keep up a pretty good pace while sixty nining too which a lot of girls can't (they get distracted)....all in all she loved oral...giving and taking... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
H***r_d*h 147 Report post Posted July 31, 2009 1) Are spinners tighter than more voluptuous women? New to the hobby, so I'll have to do some homework ;-) and get back to you on this one. 2) What do you do if the SP you are seeing isn't clean down below? Obviously more important to gents who like DATY. I'm the type who likes to shower shortly before and after any date and expect the same in return regardless of professional status. It's just more pleasant. If I've seen her before and I like her then I may suggest we shower and hope it was a one-off and doesn't cut into our time. If it's a new encounter, I would have severe reservations about repeating. I expect a clean workzone as part of the service. 3) What do you do and how do you react when the picture does not match the lady you see (either a bait and switch or posts old photographs)? This one is an elective. If I still like what I see, then there's no change in my gameplan. The weather may be different than forecasted, but it's still a nice day overall. If I don't like what I see, then I would express my disappointment and disapproval and leave. 4) What got you into seeing SPs in the first place? In other words, how did you become involved in this sexy, wonderful, amazing world of the sex trade? The end of a long-term relationship. I wanted to keep it simple with NSA. This is going to sound a bit clinical, but SPs are very "efficient" for me. I get only the sweet spot of "dating": I choose who/when/where we get together and I'm guaranteed satisfaction without any performance anxiety. 5) What makes for a good blow job? Please give details about how an SP gave the best blow job you've ever received. Again I'm pretty new to the hobby so I'll go by lifetime experience. I would qualify myself as a "challenging" partner. Although quickies are nice, I've never been a "slam-bam thank you ma'am" kind of guy. I'm more focused on the lady I'm with and derive the majority of my satisfaction from a job well done. I am NOT a love god by any means, I just really enjoy seeing my partner getting off. Unfortunately, the longer I go the more desensitized I get. I still have a boner, it's just hard to get over the final hurdle. This used to dissappoint some of my GFs (the good ones) - go figure. I think the ideal blowjob is very much an individual thing and there's no single foolproof method. Different strokes for different folks. I agree with igotaboner with respect to BBBJ though because I like the technique of alternating between HJ and BJ which just wouldn't feel right with a safety hat. The best and biggest BJ turn-on is when the lady actually enjoys what she's doing and zones out, like I'm not even there anymore. It's just her and my cock, and I'm just a spectator. Her singleminded goal is to make her new found toy do as she commands. I had a GF that was able to make me cum two consecutive times without interruption after swallowing my first offering. She was just so in tune with my body, it still gives me shivers. OK, I need a very cold shower. Over and out. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest f***2f*** Report post Posted July 31, 2009 I know eh?? Remembering a particularily good bj or bj artist just gets the sap flowing...so to speak!!:mrgreen: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MandalayBay 575 Report post Posted July 31, 2009 I love hearing these responses. Looking forward to hearing more responses. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sexnonstop724 1727 Report post Posted July 31, 2009 1) Are spinners tighter than more voluptuous women? In general yes, but it is also age and race specific. An Asian, European or Ebony of the same measurements could vary in tightness. Having babies also makes a difference. 2) What do you do (if anything) if the SP you are seeing isn't clean down below? I have not experienced this, but I would be turned off and would likely stop and ask for a shower together. 3) What do you do and how do you react when the picture does not match the lady you see (either a bait and switch or posts old photographs)? Have been lucky and careful. But would mention to SP, finish the appointment. Everyone needs to make a living, this is like padding your resume. 4) What got you into seeing SPs in the first place? In other words, how did you become involved in this sexy, wonderful, amazing world of the sex trade? No strings attached. Beautiful ladies. Availability. And works well when scheduled properly. 5) What makes for a good blow job? Please give details about how an SP gave the best blow job you've ever received. Soft lips, tongue work, full length. Attention to surrounding areas, multi-tasking, moaning, eye contact. And being playful and naughty all helped. It took me half a day to uncurl my toes. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Ou**or**n Report post Posted July 31, 2009 1) Are spinners tighter than more voluptuous women? (I hope this question doesn't offend anyone, but have always wondered the answer to this. Please be honest gentlemen.) -I haven't found much of a relationship at all 2) What do you do (if anything) if the SP you are seeing isn't clean down below? -just move on and find other things to do during the session, however if I see her a second time and the problem persists then I doubt I would see her a third time 3) What do you do and how do you react when the picture does not match the lady you see (either a bait and switch or posts old photographs)? -find something about her that turns me on, however I do not like women that are too big and if this happened I'd have a hard time. In fact I'd probably settle on the donation and leave 4) What got you into seeing SPs in the first place? In other words, how did you become involved in this sexy, wonderful, amazing world of the sex trade? -was in TO often on business during my divorce and was lonely so I decided to try out an SP, haven't looked back 5) What makes for a good blow job? Please give details about how an SP gave the best blow job you've ever received. -eye contact!!! -an honest love of doing it (or become a heck of an actress) -variety of physical positions - on bed, on knees, me on bed, me standing -DT, BLS -don't make it a glorified hand job however hand contact and stroking at times is great Hope any of this is useful and best of luck in your future. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
d*mm*y 887 Report post Posted July 31, 2009 See Below; Okay, I'm retiring soon so I can let loose and ask some questions I've been dying to know about. I would LOVE to hear responses from pooners who have been with at least a few different escorts. 1) Are spinners tighter than more voluptuous women? (I hope this question doesn't offend anyone, but have always wondered the answer to this. Please be honest gentlemen.) The thickness of the lady has nothing to do with how tight the kitty is, some ladies work very hard at developing strong keegles and they can really tighten down. 2) What do you do (if anything) if the SP you are seeing isn't clean down below? Never happened but I imagine I would suggest a shower I think ladies in this business are very self aware and keep clean. 3) What do you do and how do you react when the picture does not match the lady you see (either a bait and switch or posts old photographs)? If it is a bait and switch I leave, if she is not what I imagined because of some artful photography I may stay. If she as cute or cuter than the pics regardless of the pics I stay!! 4) What got you into seeing SPs in the first place? In other words, how did you become involved in this sexy, wonderful, amazing world of the sex trade? I am a sexaholic and this is the easiest way to get a fix. 5) What makes for a good blow job? Please give details about how an SP gave the best blow job you've ever received. Even pressure the hole length good depth feel the back of the throat and lots of suction, added marks if the hand can move with the mouth at the same pressure. BTW I am available for tutoring. xoxo Mandalay Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest f***2f*** Report post Posted July 31, 2009 See Below; See that's the thing about dummpy he's always willing to give....extra tutoring....excellent...why didn't I think of that??:mrgreen: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MandalayBay 575 Report post Posted July 31, 2009 If you're going to be in Winnipeg between now and August 5th (afternoons and evenings only) I could take you up on that lesson. LOL Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
phigment 3310 Report post Posted July 31, 2009 1) Tightness....body type really doesnt have much correlation, but background of child bearing definitely does. also if you're pregnant and still sexual you can expect to be a little looser too, as the body circulates a hormone called relaxin (which gets the pelvis ready to pass the baby). however the truth of the matter is, a woman is as tight as she wants to be. the pelvic floor encompassing the anus and the opening of the vagina is really one big strap muscle. "tightness" is a function of the tone present in these strap muscles known collectively as the pubococcygeus. these muscles, like any other can be trained. Dr. Arnold Kegal came up with a series of extremely effective training excercises ( the "kegals") designed to strengthen these. ironically it is primarily the child bearing women that pay the most attention to these, and hence often end up being the tightest of all, provided they are diligent with them. some i know ( and the cerbite readers do too) can clamp onto a dick like a pit bull on a porkchop, even be lifted off the bed with nothing more than their pelvic muscles tightened around the retreating penis. and this is despite having had a few kids and falling into the "voluptuous" category. like anything else, tightness, just depends on how well a woman takes care of herself. for those of you who like exploring alternatives, a reflex contraction of these muscles can also be achieved through a reflex arc known as the bulbocavernosus reflex. this reflex tightening of the vagina is triggered by anal dilation. so the old thumb in the bum or the "shocker"will tighten her up a bit too, but dont expect it to last very long. 2) stinky snappers....any muff diver whose ever had the misfortune of stampeding too quickly for the Y, (without doing his due diligence), only to find he's trapped with a nose full of less than freshness, will forever more do the old "scratch and sniff" on each and every cunnilingual opportunity, regardless of SP status or not. investigative methods vary, i have my own preference. not surprisingly i dont know of any SP who didnt make the cut. i think these ladies are too wise to not know that no one likes a smelly honey pot, and if they allowed themselves to have one, they may as well just put a bullet in their career. 3-5) nothing to add. 3 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Emma Alexandra 123368 Report post Posted August 1, 2009 you are so wise and knowledgeable...:smile: i'm so glad you have joined our site. I can't wait to practice me kegals ...;-) now get your ass over here... kisses, Emma Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PistolPete 61421 Report post Posted August 1, 2009 Okay, I'm retiring soon so I can let loose and ask some questions I've been dying to know about. I would LOVE to hear responses from pooners who have been with at least a few different escorts. 1) Are spinners tighter than more voluptuous women? (I hope this question doesn't offend anyone, but have always wondered the answer to this. Please be honest gentlemen.) No, been with voluptuous women and spinners, and both type of ladies really know how to work their magic and know how to grind, to ensure a very nice tight ride with an great explosion for a beautiful end result 2) What do you do (if anything) if the SP you are seeing isn't clean down below? Shower with her, to ensure she is clean, nothing wrong with conserving water, and requesting her to do so. 3) What do you do and how do you react when the picture does not match the lady you see (either a bait and switch or posts old photographs)? IF it is pure B & S...I say good-bye..if the other, I sample anyways..no sense just looking at the menu, you might as well dine in 4) What got you into seeing SPs in the first place? In other words, how did you become involved in this sexy, wonderful, amazing world of the sex trade? I've said it before, and will again, I love women,I love sex, and having sex as many times possible. 5) What makes for a good blow job? Please give details about how an SP gave the best blow job you've ever received. I really like the licking up and down the shaft, and with tongue action around my penis head,also sucking the entire scrotum, then her slowly sucking and swallowing my whole cock while looking up at me..I also love to hold the back of her head..yummy! BEST WISHES IN YOUR RETIREMENT xoxo Mandalay Please see above, hope you enjoy Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
VedaSloan 119179 Report post Posted August 1, 2009 Please see above, hope you enjoy Well, now I know just how you like it....:-D Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TonyPDaddy 122 Report post Posted August 1, 2009 1) Are spinners tighter than more voluptuous women? (I hope this question doesn't offend anyone, but have always wondered the answer to this. Please be honest gentlemen.) I have had the pleasure of being with all types of woman who have different shapes and sizes. Woman are just plain beautiful in all aspects of their body. I think it's up to us to find out what makes them twirk. However to answer the question it all depends on that woman. I have found in my time spinners to be tighter but as long as the sensation is good for both parties and we are equally satisfied it works for me :) 2) What do you do (if anything) if the SP you are seeing isn't clean down below? One of the things I always do is come clean before I arrive to see my date for the hour or 2. I always ask if we can shower together on the phone before I arrive as I like the sensual feeling of holding/caressing in the shower and just talking in the shower before we get right into things. If shower is not an option then DATY would not be ok for me. It did happen 4 months ago to me and it was no big deal we hoped in the shower to get all cleaned up. I did not say she smelled but it is quite a big turnoff when it does happen. 3) What do you do and how do you react when the picture does not match the lady you see (either a bait and switch or posts old photographs)? I had this experience happen twice to me just over 2 months ago and of course I will not mention any names, but it shocked me when I the door opened and it wasn't who I thought it was. I still continued on with the date only cause she seemed very nice but it was disappointing that the pics were not her. I also met another provider years ago and it was not her, but when the door opened she was upset and crying so I didnt know what to think or say so she invited me in and started in on her life story and that she was no good for anyone etc....... I stayed there for 2 hours listening and talking to her......we never did anything as she was traumatized. I didn't know if it was a scam or real...but it seemed real and I would have felt guilty even asking or suggesting anything.. I payed her for our time, when it was really her time and ended up driving her to Toronto 3 days later as she did not have a way back home and paid for breakfast, lunch and shopping for her..... All I got was a hug, a kiss on the cheek and thank you. Yes I am a sucker for falling for it. 4) What got you into seeing SPs in the first place? In other words, how did you become involved in this sexy, wonderful, amazing world of the sex trade? I did not have time for a relationship as I go to places all over this country/world so a committed relationship was not in anyone's picture and who would want someone who comes home half of the year anyways when the beginning of a relationship is team building and getting to know each other on all levels etc........... I went to my first date and I did not even think sex was involved actually until that door opened and she was in lingerie. LOL what a sight to see :). I never followed up or even asked, or questioned about this profession so I was clueless as to what would happen. I will say that my first time was truly amazing so it gets you coming back for more. 5) What makes for a good blow job? Please give details about how an SP gave the best blow job you've ever received. It's about the motion and the look in her eyes when she is doing it. I think it is sexy and a big turn on when she looks at you when it's happening. You must know what I am talking about here :) Tony Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
d*mm*y 887 Report post Posted August 1, 2009 If you're going to be in Winnipeg between now and August 5th (afternoons and evenings only) I could take you up on that lesson. LOL How far away is Winnipeg from Ottawa again? :D Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
S**b*****3 115 Report post Posted August 1, 2009 1) Are spinners tighter than more voluptuous women? A- The spinners I've been with have been very tight, but I've also been with beautiful, voluptuous women who are also very tight. In my opinion, being a spinner does not guarantee tightness 2) What do you do (if anything) if the SP you are seeing isn't clean down below? A- this has never happened to me with any women , but I would be as kind and respectfull as possible if it did...perhaps suggest a shower together or use digits to lubricate first. Female lubrication has a nice cleansing effect along with being damn yummy....just take more time and enjoy the moment 3) What do you do and how do you react when the picture does not match the lady you see (either a bait and switch or posts old photographs)? A- This also has never happened to me. If it did I would go forward and do my best to please the lady. Never, Never, judge a book by it's cover....I've had some amazing, passionate , sexual experiences with women who don't fit the term of "spinner" 4) What got you into seeing SPs in the first place? In other words, how did you become involved in this sexy, wonderful, amazing world of the sex trade? A- An extemely strong sex drive, an intense love and respect of women, and CERB BABY CERB!!!!!! 5) What makes for a good blow job? Please give details about how an SP gave the best blow job you've ever received. A- I could go on for hours on this subject, but I recently spent a beautiful hour with an incredible SP....the short version is: 1. Lots of eye contact..she had the most amazning cat eyes 2. WET, WET, WET...spit saliva all over little Pete....yes..yes ...yes 3. vary the speed....hard and fast...then....slow and soft.... 4. work that "majic" spot under the head with your tongue 5. Say" I love your c**k"...over and over again.. 6. take away the hands and just use your mouth ....very nice... 7. Watch for that first drop of pre-cum...then gently tongue it to your lips while saying" mmmmmmm , so sweet" - I'll be right back...... ahhhhh...that's better Great thread!!!!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PistolPete 61421 Report post Posted August 1, 2009 Winnipeg is 1386 miles or 2218 kilometers...from Ottawa:razz: How far away is Winnipeg from Ottawa again? :D Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PistolPete 61421 Report post Posted August 1, 2009 Should also mention that it is a 2 hour and 43 minute flight, from Ottawa to Winnipeg..Seat sale with Westjet is 149.00 one way..lol:mrgreen: then add your taxes..etc..etc.. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
AttilaTheHun 356 Report post Posted August 2, 2009 1) Are spinners tighter than more voluptuous women? (I hope this question doesn't offend anyone, but have always wondered the answer to this. Please be honest gentlemen.) Can honestly say that I have had both spinners and voluptuous women and it depends completely on the woman and how she takes care of herself. I've some very loose spinners and some women who have had 3 children that were very tight. Pregnant women do tend to be looser but they are also very wet most of the time. 2) What do you do (if anything) if the SP you are seeing isn't clean down below? Only happend to me one time when I smelled condom lubricant on her pussy. I politely asked her to wash and we resumed our activities right after. 3) What do you do and how do you react when the picture does not match the lady you see (either a bait and switch or posts old photographs)? Never happened to me. The only bait&switch I have ever encountered is dealing with agencies. Which why I stopped using them. 4) What got you into seeing SPs in the first place? In other words, how did you become involved in this sexy, wonderful, amazing world of the sex trade? I was getting so little sex at home that I was afraid of the old adage "use it or lose it". I've been hooked ever since. 5) What makes for a good blow job? Please give details about how an SP gave the best blow job you've ever received. Attitude is key. Running her nails around my cock and the inside of my thighs Slow tongue movements up and down my shaft Gentle rubbing and licking on my balls Tongue twirling around the head while using her hands with a gentle but firm grip. Eye contact, moaning with my cock in her mouth and some spit. I particularly enjoy anal play/prostate massage while getting my Blowjob. (drives me insane) if I'm standing in front of her kneeling then she grabbed my ass with both hands while thrusting my penis into her mouth. ATH Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Jackie James 215 Report post Posted August 3, 2009 I love hearing these responses. Looking forward to hearing more responses. So do I, thanks for the thread! :D Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites