Nicolette Vaughn 294340 Report post Posted May 14, 2013 The personal relationships I have been involved in, all of them knew what I did for a living and if they had an issue with it, I could not be with them. I do not want a relationship based on insecurity, volatility or jealousy. The men I have been involved with were secure with themselves and also in me. They had their own jobs or careers and knew what I did for a living didn't define who *I* was as a person. They never sponged off of me and it was always equal. I do not support deadbeats who are unemployed or those who have no ambition and only desire is to live off women. I am too strong of a personality for that and not someone who is insecure. I also don't put up with shit from men. I would rather be alone and not afraid of this. They knew it was my job and at the end of the day, I was with them.. In fact, for one of them, it really turned them and were flattered knowing that other men wanted to be with the woman they were with. If there is trust and communication in a relationship, anything is possible. Love knows no bounds. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites