Grass_Hopper 18263 Report post Posted August 5, 2009 Lot of guys are calling me, asking me how I work, if there's somthing they should do before coming to my place, how to be at ease toghetter... Here's my Top 10 of things I appreciate... They are not always available (the guy having a relationship, or in a rush), but others are VERY appreciate from most of escorts, I think... 1. I feel more confident when the client places the money in a way I can see it and count it as soon as he enters my room... 2. I preffer when he uses my stuff instead of his... If I am using a certain brand instead of another, it's because I feel more cormftable with it, and I know this stuff is safe. Also, some SPs may be allergic to yours, and eventhough you lost your time, but hers also... 3. I love when we get to know each others a bit before the session. I'm not the kind of bang-bang, ciao... I'm about to give you the best service I can... Help me by telling me what you like and what you don't... 4. I feel a little nervous about cops... I preffer he undresses before I have to ask... I am an SP, your not the first guy I saw naked... And don't worry, NOBODY has a perfect body, so don't be shy, I've seen worst! 5. I feel more at ease when he's asking for a quick shower before the session... In most of incall places, there's shower and towells available... Use it! 6. There's a line between rough and violent... Please, respect your SP... 7. Alchool and drugs can create issues or behaviors that will make both uncormftable... 8. If you are not an expert (and there's no experts in sex) take the SPs advice... We are doing this for a living... If there's something she feels wrong about, either she will teach you how to do it properly, or asking you not to do it... Everybody has something to learn... 9. Rough beard can causes a lot of dammage to an SP... Either in kissing or DATY... Also, it's not fun to suck on an hairy dick and sack... Please think of us... Sanded nails are also always appreciated... 10. TO RESPECT EACH OTHER'S LIMITS IS THE MOST IMPORTANT THING FOR YOU AND HER... Again, showing up to your wife with a shaved sack, when you never did it in 20 years is a bit suspicious... Not all of lines of conducts are possible, and we, as girls, can understand that... But please understand that due to different factors your mileage may vary(YMMV) according to how many efforts we both put into are meeting... AFTER ALL, AN SP IS SOMEBODY YOU WILL NEVER EXPECT TO GET A DATE WITH, BUT IS THERE TO GIVE YOU THE BEST MOMENT OF YOUR LIFE!!! 11 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MandalayBay 575 Report post Posted August 5, 2009 Here are a few more: Floss and brush your teeth and use mouthwash beforehand Make sure you are freshly showered and have soaped your armpits and genital areas several times. If you are uncircumsized, please pull back the skin on your penis and rinse that area really well. Take care of the money issue immediately without speaking any words so as to avoid doing anything illegal (communicating publicy for the purpose of prostitution) Verbally tell the SP what you like as we are with such a different range of different men that it is hard to guess what you like. One man may like his nipples sucked on while another man may hate that sensation. Be verbal. This will allow us to do everything right and make the most of our time together. 3 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
veronikahouse 210 Report post Posted August 5, 2009 Great post! A few more. 1. Smokers...please wash hands...especially if you want us to suck on your fingers; for non-smokers this is not a very nice taste. 2. I also agree with the two ladies prior; please leave the money out...within the first few minutes. Please do not make us ask. 3. Be happy!! We are both here for some fun. 4. Respect, respect, respect...a two-way street. :) Kisses, V 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jerican 657 Report post Posted August 5, 2009 Possibly one of my favorite threads in a long time. Keep it coming, I work very hard on my hygiene on a daily basis and am an incredibly respectful person (imo:-D), but tips to further please all of you amazing women is greatly appreciated. There was a do not do thread a while ago, but a do thread is oh so positive and helpful. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Emma Alexandra 123368 Report post Posted August 5, 2009 but my most important lesson when coming to see me is to relax ...go with the flow and savor every moment... 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
H***r_d*h 147 Report post Posted August 5, 2009 I love this thread and look forward to hearing from additional SPs. Even though these are business arrangements, there's no reason they can't be pleasant and fun for both parties. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Grass_Hopper 18263 Report post Posted August 5, 2009 I love this thread and look forward to hearing from additional SPs. Even though these are business arrangements, there's no reason they can't be pleasant and fun for both parties. I agree with that, but again, the last word belongs to the SP... If I've started this thread, it's because some guys are abusing... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Suzirider 737 Report post Posted August 5, 2009 I agree with that, but again, the last word belongs to the SP... If I've started this thread, it's because some guys are abusing... I hope they get their deserved dishonorable mention in the appropriate forums, and are banned from the playing field till they learn to play nice !!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
H***r_d*h 147 Report post Posted August 6, 2009 I agree with that, but again, the last word belongs to the SP... Yes, indeed the SP should have the last word. Dang! Now you have to post something again :wink:. I'll shut up now. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
coachg 388 Report post Posted August 6, 2009 but my most important lesson when coming to see me is to relax ...go with the flow and savor every moment... Very sound advice from a very wise and sweet lady...just enjoy the moment. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Exotic Touch Danielle 31725 Report post Posted August 6, 2009 Shower shower shower lololol Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
AttilaTheHun 356 Report post Posted August 6, 2009 I wrote a nominated piece on this on while back on How I prepare for a Special Date. There may be some ideas there that were not touched on in this thread. ATH http://cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?p=64648#post64648 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
antlerman 17064 Report post Posted August 6, 2009 but my most important lesson when coming to see me is to relax ...go with the flow and savor every moment... yah....like if that is possible!!!....relax???.....get real babe.......hahahahahahah Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Emma Alexandra 123368 Report post Posted August 6, 2009 Very sound advice from a very wise and sweet lady...just enjoy the moment. that's right...:-D yah....like if that is possible!!!....relax???.....get real babe.......hahahahahahah haha next time antler I'll just leave the box of kleenex outside the door for you...lol Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Gabriella Laurence 301887 Report post Posted August 6, 2009 (edited) Here are a few more: Floss and brush your teeth and use mouthwash beforehand I know this is not directly related to the thread subject BUT I would like to point out an important detail! Flossing and brushing your teeth before an intimate rendez-vous with a lovely Lady (or with a gentleman) should be avoided!!! Why? Because flossing and brushing can cause your gums to bleed therefore creating a perfect opening for HIV to get into your bloodstream. http://www.aidsmap.com/en/docs/C858FF44-5E81-4F59-8030-B5A3C7A93654.asp "Look after your mouth. The likelihood of oral HIV transmission increases if one has bleeding gums, ulcers, cuts or sores in the mouth. Don’t brush your teeth or floss before oral sex." Something to think about ;) Use mouthwash and stay safe! ;) xox Edited August 6, 2009 by M***c*** Adding an information link to my comment! 5 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MandalayBay 575 Report post Posted August 6, 2009 I know this is not directly related to the thread subject BUT I would like to point out an important detail! Flossing and brushing your teeth before an intimate rendez-vous with a lovely Lady (or with a gentleman) should be avoided!!! Why? Because flossing and brushing can cause your gums to bleed therefore creating a perfect opening for HIV to get into your bloodstream. http://www.aidsmap.com/en/docs/C858FF44-5E81-4F59-8030-B5A3C7A93654.asp "Look after your mouth. The likelihood of oral HIV transmission increases if one has bleeding gums, ulcers, cuts or sores in the mouth. Don?t brush your teeth or floss before oral sex." Something to think about ;) Use mouthwash and stay safe! ;) xox That is very interesting to note. Thanks Miss Cloe. It is just soooo much nicer to kiss when a client has freshly brushed teeth. But safety is more important. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
whatsup 11893 Report post Posted August 6, 2009 I know this is not directly related to the thread subject BUT I would like to point out an important detail! Flossing and brushing your teeth before an intimate rendez-vous with a lovely Lady (or with a gentleman) should be avoided!!! Why? Because flossing and brushing can cause your gums to bleed therefore creating a perfect opening for HIV to get into your bloodstream. http://www.aidsmap.com/en/docs/C858FF44-5E81-4F59-8030-B5A3C7A93654.asp "Look after your mouth. The likelihood of oral HIV transmission increases if one has bleeding gums, ulcers, cuts or sores in the mouth. Don?t brush your teeth or floss before oral sex." Something to think about ;) Use mouthwash and stay safe! ;) xox Miss Cloe, Appropriate post and important fact. I do wonder the time frame that would be acceptable to brush your teeth prior to an encounter. :?: I personally use mouthwash and Listerine pocket packs for oral freshness before any encounter. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
okneil 2007 114 Report post Posted August 6, 2009 (edited) Great thread. I think it is good that there is a seperate section dedicated to service providers. It allows you to let others know if you had an unpleasant experience. How about an area where you can let each other know if you have had a good experience with a cerb member. You don't have to go into details, but it may provide a level of comfort to other service providers. I appreciate how busy you are but maybe the mod can make it as easy as possible. Edited August 6, 2009 by okneil 2007 help post read better Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Grass_Hopper 18263 Report post Posted August 6, 2009 Great thread. I think it is good that there is a seperate section dedicated to service providers. It allows you to let others know if you had an unpleasant experience. How about an area where you can let each other know if you have had a good experience with a cerb member. You don't have to go into details, but it may provide a level of comfort to other service providers. I appreciate how busy you are but maybe the mod can make it as easy as possible. In fact, we also do have a warning section for SPs with restricted access... The MOD is always thinking of us:-D Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Annessa 22743 Report post Posted August 6, 2009 a big one for me for incalls is RESPECT THE SPs DISCRETION when it comes to her location and her surroundings. once you walk in enter quickly and dont stand in the doorway saying something like "wow, you're hotter than your pictures" (even if its true) you never know who is passing by in the hall etc. enter quickly and close ythe door behind you, then you're free to do as you please. ;-) same applies when being walked to the door, when about to leave try not to discuss to heavily in detail her profession or your hobby....i rememebr in my old place you could hear an entire conversation from the hall if someone was talking outside.....its something that we always tend to forget until we realize how much we can hear others. so saying something like "I had a great time, I'll see you next week? same price?" might not go over well if heard from a nosy neighbor, lol 4 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ava Foxx 1747 Report post Posted August 6, 2009 a big one for me for incalls is RESPECT THE SPs DISCRETION when it comes to her location and her surroundings. once you walk in enter quickly and dont stand in the doorway saying something like "wow, you're hotter than your pictures" (even if its true) you never know who is passing by in the hall etc. enter quickly and close ythe door behind you, then you're free to do as you please. ;-) same applies when being walked to the door, when about to leave try not to discuss to heavily in detail her profession or your hobby....i rememebr in my old place you could hear an entire conversation from the hall if someone was talking outside.....its something that we always tend to forget until we realize how much we can hear others. so saying something like "I had a great time, I'll see you next week? same price?" might not go over well if heard from a nosy neighbor, lol You are so right!!! I've meaning to mention this on my website. Thanks for reminding me! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
F***s*t 145 Report post Posted August 8, 2009 I'm a clean freak so I never have issues. I always: brush / floss teeth shower shave and the boys too! clean nails So I've always had +ymmv when seeing a SP. Why all men don't do this is beyond me. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Andee 220524 Report post Posted August 9, 2009 I think all the obvious expectations have been stated. I think the most important being that I expect my gentleman callers to have proper hygiene. I always have soap (pump style) and fresh hand towels available. A shower is also available if need be, but please respect that that is part of the time we are together. I have gotten to the point where I almost never allow Digits unless I already know the client and he has washed his hands and has trimmed nails. I am not going to take the chance of being jabbed with dirty and or long nails. I always say, push the pads of your fingertips, not the nail! Even guys who do not intend to hurt you that way can if they're not careful. I only use my own condoms and I put it on to ensure it is on correctly. If I perform oral with a condom, I will change the condom if we go to intercourse. I have only had a condom break once and it was after a guy fiddled with it by pulling the end tight and not leaving a little slack. That was years ago and has never happened since. If I don't want to kiss you, perform oral without condom or suck your balls, think about why that is???? If I have to spell it out for you, I will. If your a smoker, I will not allow CIM..I do not like the taste of nicotine. If you have an issue I should be aware of (ed, premature ejaculation, prostate problems (blood in semen), etc.), please let me know. I will not judge or laugh at you. By telling me, you may be sparing us both embarassment or frustration during the session. I am fairly assertive and for the most part do not get men who are "rough" with me. I don't know if it's because I'm older, but I rarely experience someone trying to cross that line with me. Sometimes guys get a little excited, so I have to watch they don't pull out too fast and have the condom go flying etc. Since I state my boundaries up front (no head pushing, no real deep throating, no coming in my mouth without telling me you're going to bust), I rarely have to give warning. Please, don't go near my bum. Exit only. Don't try to negotiate that with me. I am old enough to know I do not like it and, yes, I have tried it and no, I do not like it. Don't think you're going to be guy who is going to show me how to enjoy it because those other guys didn't know what they were doing. You know nothing about me, so don't even go there. Luckily, this does not happen very often. Finally, don't aske me if I'm "open minded". What the hell does that mean? In my experience, most of the time it means, do you do anal, but hey, not always. I have been surprised at what "open minded" means to people. That's like saying, do you like food? Be specific. What exactly is it you are trying to ask me. I am a big girl. I can handle being asked a question, it's just the way you might ask me: "do you do anal" is a lot different than "can I fuck your ass". Finally, please respect the time limit. I am not a clock watcher and I do not rush my clients, but if you have paid for a half hour session, please do not try to push the envelope by continuing to "try" after the half hour is up. I may go over a few minutes, but if you would like to stay longer, then you need to up the donation. Thanks for this thread Grasshopper..good one. 3 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ava Foxx 1747 Report post Posted August 9, 2009 I find that this happens to me a lot and it makes me very uncomfortable. I have yet to find a "comfortable" way to approach the situation when it occurs. How do you deal with the situation? Advice and/or ideas would be greatly appreciated! Thanks in advance! Finally, please respect the time limit. I am not a clock watcher and I do not rush my clients, but if you have paid for a half hour session, please do not try to push the envelope by continuing to "try" after the half hour is up. I may go over a few minutes, but if you would like to stay longer, then you need to up the donation. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Grass_Hopper 18263 Report post Posted August 9, 2009 Finally, don't aske me if I'm "open minded". What the hell does that mean? In my experience, most of the time it means, do you do anal, but hey, not always. I have been surprised at what "open minded" means to people. I do not provide Wife Experience... Don't insist... I do anal, bbbj, cim, pearl necklace, cof, gb... I consider myself pretty much open minded, but I do not have sex without a condom... I don't even have unprotected sex with my boyfriend, what about a stranger? This is DISCUSTING and DANGEROUS... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
