Grass_Hopper 18263 Report post Posted August 6, 2009 Do you expect your SP to have a GFE or professionnal attitude? Meeting you in public or at her place? Hotel, appartment, brothel... Where? What about discretion, shower, drugs, and all those details? We may have certain rules that we follow for OUR safety, but what makes you feel the more comfortable, WHAT LINES OF CONDUCT DO YOU EXPECT YOU SP TO HAVE WHEN MEETING YOU? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest gagagaga Report post Posted August 6, 2009 this is a great thread Sabrina... 1. I prefer an sp to have more of a friendly attitude than strictly professional...I hope that attitude slides quickly into more of a porn-y attitude however. Lately I have been with a few sp's that have not seemed that "into" their work. If want to have sex with someone who is bored by me, I'll call my wife. 2.because I am married, I cannot meet a female in a public place, so i prefer her place or a hotel. I have been to a brothel once, and it was fun, but only because there was no way in the world I could have bumped into anyone I knew there. 3. a shower is a big plus and complete discretion is a must except of course for on here...then details are great!!! I hate crackheads and although I am not opposed to pot, I prefer that no smoking be done in my presence so that I don't stink after. 4. I don't mind if when I meet an sp at her place, she has a friend there so long as the friend is female. I hate when there is a guy there...actually, I leave. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
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veronikahouse 210 Report post Posted August 6, 2009 Another great post. Anxious to see the replies. V Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
whatsup 11893 Report post Posted August 6, 2009 Do you expect your SP to have a GFE or professionnal attitude? I like my provider(s) to have a GFE + attitude by being very friendly and putting you at ease by making you feel very welcomed. Meeting you in public or at her place? Hotel, appartment, brothel... Where? I have to do incall's, so I like to meet at the provider(s) hotel, apartment or place of residence. Also that the location be tidy. What about discretion, shower, drugs, and all those details? Discretion is paramount for both parties. Client timing between sessions, I don't really want to see another client coming or going. Shower facilities important. Drugs, I prefer not to see them. I especially do not want to see a provider that is on hard drugs. We may have certain rules that we follow for OUR safety, but what makes you feel the more comfortable, WHAT LINES OF CONDUCT DO YOU EXPECT YOU SP TO HAVE WHEN MEETING YOU? I prefer to meet the provider by herself but if there is another female that is acceptable but hopefully she will vacate the premises, I just do not want to see a guy. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Grass_Hopper 18263 Report post Posted August 6, 2009 I agree on the phone thing... I think this is important for all participants... Nothing but a phone ring to cut off the mood... Also, I've noticed the fact of discretion, wich, I think, is very important for all of us... For the attitude, GFE is definitly a must, and drugs are not welcome, even pot... Wich way should she dress? How do you react if B&S, but the "replacement good" is even better? Any safety rule you want to respect, or area you would avoid at all cost? What if she is drunk? Or beautyfull body with ugly face? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sexnonstop724 1727 Report post Posted August 6, 2009 (edited) A nice lovely smile as I walk thru the doors, add a wink and some physical contact however brief and simple. Like a hand on my arm, hug, a pinch or pat on my ass is ok too. Clean room, bed, sheets, bathroom preferred. Phone off No third person, unless girl as pretty as you willing to jump in. Smoking is fine, but this is personal to individuals. And not in the same room. Being playful is definitely a super +, laughing togeher sharing the moment is pretty cool. Edited August 6, 2009 by sexnonstop724 typo Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jerican 657 Report post Posted August 6, 2009 Most of it has already been said but, expect is one thing, some of this is obviously what I expect, other things are what I would like, especially on first visits, repeat visits often I jump right in, but the first time should be handled with care. -GFE+ is important, the best experiences I had start with a chat on the first visit, in fact I usually book extra time when I see a new SP just for that reason. The truly exceptional ones were the ones that messaged me in advance almost reminding me (not that I would forget) that I am seeing them in a few days or hours. And of course when you are there the phone should be off, laptop closed, etc.. -Like any business that you want to be successful care about your clients, you are supposed to be our GFE for the experience, take a few moments to re-read the PM's, remember the name, any special requests, any details they mentioned. What impresses me is if I mention I liked something about them, or it is a repeat and we talked about an outfit or prefered actions that you respond with those suggestions. In business I always research the company so when I meet my clients I know what they do and their needs so I can respond to them...it is the same in any industry. -I have to do incalls and prefer to meet at the hotel or residence the SP works out of. Discretion obviously is important so definitely no calls to me, texts imo are fine as long as they are careful. Another great person also deletes my number from her phone (history and texts) after our time, not because she doesn't like me, but to protect me. -Shower facilities are a must as I usually opt for early morning sessions and go to work afterwards. I am very well groomed so generally am not asked to shower first, but love shower play so would have no issues starting with that:-D -Absolutely no other people in the room unless it is a duo, privacy in this hobby is key to me and I think it would be highly unproffesional if someone else was there (male or female...male way worse of course). The arrangement is between me and the provider..anyone else is an unknown and my spider senses would tingle and I would probably, no I would definitely, leave. -Space your visits apart...please! I know things go long sometimes and people are in this as a business, but what will guarantee no repeat from me is bumping into the next guy on my way out. It has never happened to me, but it is something I have worried about, part of the reason I choose the ones who are well recommended and will never TOFTT (sorry). -It doesn't really need to be said, but no drugs and very little drinking, a glass or two of wine together is fine, but walking in and seeing a person wobbling will have me right back out the door. -It sounds cheesy but make me feel special, I can get sex in other ways but I am here for the experience, if it is mechanical I am done...I know that is not always easy depending on the client or the chemistry, but put that effort in there and the success will come (imho). 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
YoungStud 468 Report post Posted August 6, 2009 Great quiz, Sabrina! You’re always thinking about interesting things. Do you expect your SP to have a GFE or professionnal attitude? I could care less about a phony girl friend experience. I’m looking for a professional who has a friendly, experienced attitude, who knows what she’s doing and how to do it and is comfortable with a variety of ways of having sex for fun. And if you stay in the general $200 - $400 per hour range, that’s pretty much a given, though there can, unfortunately, be exceptions. Meeting you in public or at her place? Either works for me, as long as she’s discrete, well-groomed and tastefully dressed if we meet in public. Hotel, appartment, brothel... Where? I don’t really care as long as it’s clean, tidy, discrete and I get laid. What about discretion, shower, drugs, and all those details? Discretion is not a detail. I provide it, so should she. Shower is a nice option if you’ve had a busy day, though I usually plan my dates and shower and change at my place just before them. As for drugs and alcohol, I’m not really interested in fucking someone who’s too stoned to notice. I prefer to be sober for sex, because I enjoy it most that way, though a glass or two of wine or a couple of beers before can be fine. I don’t seek it out in an escort situation, but will have drink if it is offered. Wich way should she dress? In public, tasteful casual or business dress. What you’d wear to the mall or to the office. In private, surprise me, though nothing too extreme. We’re just going to take it off anyway. Lol. Not a big leather or latex fan and certainly not a fetishist, but occasionally my LTR/Fave wears this black leather thin strap matrix metal-studded bikini that unsnaps in bits and strips in all the right places to provide satisfying access without taking it all off. Lol. How do you react if B&S, but the "replacement good" is even better? By definition, in B&S, the replacement is never better. Lol. Any safety rule you want to respect, or area you would avoid at all cost? Just the usual common-sense ones about protection and safety. What if she is drunk? See above reference drugs and alcohol. Or beautyfull body with ugly face? I’m very much into balance and proportion. I like the shorter spinners but you can also be tall, full-figured or in-between, as long as you are well-proportioned and have a face I consider attractive. You don’t have to be a “classic” beauty. But you should have an interesting face (including a great smile and warm eyes); ideally one I can feel is beautiful. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
veronikahouse 210 Report post Posted August 6, 2009 You asked about clothing, I started a thread awhile back about what clothing men would like their SP's to wear. I have provided the link here for you. http://cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=12673 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
