B.I.G. - It stands for Beautiful Intelligent Girl

[xxxAxxx 21016]

I wanted to take a few moments to thank not only the gentlemen but the entire Cerb community for one of the best changes I've seen since my return to the hobby ( had been gone since 2008 )...

During the pre-chatroom era ( circa 2005-2008 ) I was often chastised for being an SP who wasn't a size 0.

I'm a size 12.

You know who else was a size 12?

Marilyn.

I don't need to write out her last name, you know damn well who I am talking about.

Over the last few months, I can see that the diversity of cerbites has increased greatly, which shows in cases like preferable women's sizes no longer being a biased, one-sided affair. Even if women my size are not your cup of tea, the respect shown concerning "to each their own" is staggeringly exceeding my expectations. Thank you cerbites for believing in "all women are beautiful in their own way" !!!

An especially BIG thanks to the mods also, as this chastisement was allowed to take place on "the other board" which is the main reason for my switch to this one only :) I love your no tolerance for BS!

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FOOD FOR THOUGHT:

 

1. Marilyn Monroe's body measurements:

Height: 5'5

Weight: 118-140 lbs

Bust: 35-37 inches

Waist: 22-23 inches

Hips: 35-36 inches

Bra size: 36D

 

2. Dove's "REAL BEAUTY" campaign:

http://www.dove.ca/en/Social-Mission/About-the-Movement.aspx

 

3. Definition

beau·ti·ful

adj.

a) Having qualities that delight the senses, especially the sense of sight.

b) Excellent; wonderful.

beauti·ful·ly adv.

beauti·ful·ness n.

 

Synonyms: beautiful, lovely, pretty, handsome, comely, fair

 

All these adjectives apply to what excites aesthetic admiration. Beautiful is most comprehensive: a beautiful child; a beautiful painting; a beautiful mathematical proof.

Lovely applies to what inspires emotion rather than intellectual appreciation: "They were lovely, your eyes" (George Seferis).

What is pretty is beautiful in a delicate or graceful way: a pretty face; a pretty song; a pretty room.

Handsome stresses poise and dignity of form and proportion: a very large, handsome paneled library. "She is very pretty, but not so extraordinarily handsome" (William Makepeace Thackeray).

Comely suggests wholesome physical attractiveness: "Mrs. Hurd is a large woman with a big, comely, simple face" (Ernest Hemingway).

Fair emphasizes freshness or purity: "In the highlands, in the country places,/Where the old plain men have rosy faces,/And the young fair maidens/Quiet eyes" (Robert Louis Stevenson).

 

4. Most importantly:

BEAUTY LIES WITHIN THEY EYE OF THE BEHOLDER

[CristyCurves 169032]

I'm glad your feeling more appreciated, I'm sorry if there was a time when you didn't feel acceptance or appreciation for your beauty. In this business, an in life there is room for all types, ages, all personalities, intelligence and motivations. I'm glad that message is becoming a strong one in commercials, society and boards like this. Why some try to make others feel less than I will never understand and unfortunately it is usually women. We are far more critical of one another than men are of women. I have been called a rusty old hag, by a woman on this board, some have said my legs were crooked, my hairstyle was stupid, lol, I didn't realize hairstyles could be stupid. All parts of my body have been criticized and made fun of and all these criticisms and comments were by other women, yes other women in the business. It happens and sadly often. I've learned that its pointless to try and understand hate and dislike towards others and specific types the important thing to know is that beauty is as much internal as external and yours, mine and hers is all wonderful and should be celebrated, accepted and appreciated, as there is no other like it. Embrace yourself for being you, unique and special just the way you are:) A big thank you to those who want and accept different types because wouldn't it be boring if we all came from one mold:)

[PhantomKnight 7914]

I love me some "B.I.G" women!!!

 

Screw all the people who are haters and embrace the fact that you are beautiful. :)

[SexxxyRebecca 57989]

 

:) :) :) :)

[Guest]

I love seeing threads about being confident in yourself and embracing your body/who you are. We are all shapes and sizes, not one is more beautiful than the other. We all have special features and things that make us uniquely beautiful. I hate that anyone gets picked on for their body or the way they look. Beauty is most certainly in the eye of the beholder. No one has the right to say you are too big or too small or too this or too that. I'm so happy that we are attracting kind people to cerb, that can embrace all shapes, sizes and looks. Cheers to you cerb for being so great.

[yabut 1460]

Can say from first hand, you look simply stunning XXXAXXX and a great person to spend time with, yes beauty is in the eyes of the beholder and my eyes were definitely looking at beauty

[someguy 67067]

I've only seen you on Cam in chat and your album's. And I've always found your face and hair quite beautiful and sexy. You have the sexiest eyes and lips and hair that I have seen. I enjoy watching you on Cam when you are relax and smiling and playing with your hair.

And in my eyes. You are very beautiful :)

[evamarie 453]

Well, I am not a huge woman, but I am not small either, and I am very lucky to come across people who love every curve.....I agree that everyone has a preference and that beauty varies depending on each and every person.

[xxxAxxx 21016]

Thanks everyone who's thanked my post, or had some feedback... I'm glad people appreciate and/or agree with me on this.

For the record, I have never felt like I didn't belong in this profession, nor do I have self-esteem issues. This thread was about the respect shown towards women who aren't "what you're looking for" .... and the lack of it years ago.

[Carrie Moon 68826]

Thanks for the thread. I'm a size 16 and 5'11", 190 lbs.. so I'm not a small girl either.. but I love my curves and so do my friends and fans :) You go girl!

[Nippongakki 3843]

As a man who enjoys a woman with ample curves, it's nice to see so many beautiful, confident ladies here on cerb who appear to love their curves as much as I do! Nothing's sexier than a B.I.G. girl with the confidence to shake what their mama gave them!

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[Nicolette Vaughn 294340]

Admittedly, I could lose 20-25 lbs for health reasons even though I'm considered healthy but the way I am built, I will never be stick skinny and I've come to accept that. I hit 110 lbs one time and my face looked sickly and gaunt and was told I looked like a 12 year old elf. I'm the only one in my family with boobs, ass, an hourglass figure and am proud of it.

 

I don't listen to haters or those assholes on other sites who tell me I'm too fat. I really couldn't give a flying fuck. I'm an attractive woman and my track record in this business speaks for itself with my long list of regulars and new clients. Self acceptance is one of the greatest freedoms I have ever experienced!

[xxxAxxx 21016]

[Ga***ping G*ost 224]

Well said, Cristy

 

I couldn't agree more

[Bianca Jaguar 39183]

I always say....''different strocks for different folks'' thats why there is a place for each and everyone of us! older, younger, thin, curvy, muscular....gents can have their pick ;)

Feeling good in your own skin makes you beautiful :)

[Frank7 3939]

Good point BW, I wonder what gay dudes find so appealing about toothpick ladies?

 

I'm sure it was innocent, but please don't say things like that about thinner ladies. Some are naturally like that and nobody should be put down.

 

 

 

 

 

As for XXXAXXX's post, I'll never understand why people feel the need to

voice it when someone isn't to there standards. If you have nothing nice to say, keep quiet, nobody wants to know that they aren't your type (unless they asked). Seems it's just bullying for no reason.

[xxxAxxx 21016]

I'd have to agree fullheartedly as the whole point of this thread was commending members for not alienating any type of women. Big & tall short skinny plump redhead blonde brunette big tits lil tits green eyes blue eyes or brown, tattoos, tans, piercing, short hair long hair ... Every1 has a preference in physical features they find appealing, some prefer inner beauty, whatever.

Whatever flotats your boat! There's something out there 4 everyone!

[Nicolette Vaughn 294340]

I also find that personality and other qualities are attributed to a woman's beauty. I've seen some beautiful women with the worst attitude and that made them not so attractive in my opinion.

[crankF 12893]

I'm sure it was innocent, but please don't say things like that about thinner ladies. Some are naturally like that and nobody should be put down.

 

 

 

 

 

As for XXXAXXX's post, I'll never understand why people feel the need to

voice it when someone isn't to there standards. If you have nothing nice to say, keep quiet, nobody wants to know that they aren't your type (unless they asked). Seems it's just bullying for no reason.

My bad, "toothpick" was not the best word choice. Hope no slim cerbettes took offense!

[xxxAxxx 21016]

[xxxAxxx 21016]

 

Edit:

Oops! Re-reading through this thread I noticed I had already posted video! heehehehehehe, oops!

OH WELL! That just goes to show how good it is, I just had to post it twice! ;)

 

The bigger the figure the better I like her, the better I like her the better I feed her, the better I feed her the bigger the figure, the bigger the figure the more I can LOVE!