survived70s 582 Report post Posted August 13, 2009 Hello All, I am kind of new to this hobby and e-community. I have had a couple of great experiences going through the contact infomation.. Thanks ! :-) I recentley went through a run around with a SP that I found through the EC site... She was visiting for a few days and I was quite turned on by all reports of her. She delayed her arrival, promising a 50. discount, that sure sounded fair.... We had arranged a 5PM rendez vous the night before. I was looking forward to it.. then ... I realized that I couldn't make it ! Damn - My numb brain forgot that I had family commitmets and the excitement of the chance to meet the hottie was too much for me to think rationally.. In the morning I texted her a few times (didn't want to leave her waiting). I asked if anything was available in the afternoon.... then, in the afternoon, I got a response, "Now" (I had taken the afternoon off and was on my way into a SC), so off I went to the Weston. Got there and texted looking for room number... no response for 45 minutes (guess that her booking did show up).. then a response "Give me 5 minutes".... 30 minutes later, it was apparent that the next guy "came" on time... I gave up and texted her that I was giving up on her after 4 emails and 10 texts and the response was "Can you come back ?" I would have given my right arm and all of my wallet to have been able to, but my son had to go to football and it just couldn't work out. my initial rsponse was "I don't want to go this all over again" and then I asked "Can we just meet for a minute so that I can see if there is chemistry ?" Figured it would have been nice to at least see the beatiful hottie for follow up next day, but no response, meaning a cold "no". Is this a common occurance with visiting SPs ? (then I will avoid them) I did bring it onto myself by screwing up on the timing... Thanks Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mod 135640 Report post Posted August 13, 2009 This does happen in Ottawa a lot from what I hear... I suspect the reason this happens is because Ottawa seams to have a very large number of NO SHOWS (where the client does not show up for the call and the lady is sitting around wasting her time). I suspect that some of the escorts who are fed up with this would overbook to make sure they are not the ones waiting for guys to show up. I would suggest doing some homework on cerb first. Make sure you find recommended ladies - these ladies live off their reputation and will most likely not pull this with you... especially if you book them with PM's from cerb. Keep in mind that if you book them using cerb and you don't show up your name and info will probably go into the BAD DATE database here on cerb in the SP ONLY area and you will be blacklisted as a client in Ottawa - because of this I think the ladies trust that the men from cerb will show up and not take a chance overbooking. Also... some of the ladies are just really bad at scheduling time. Avoiding them because of something one did is silly but be sure to find her ad on EC and click the REPORT PROBLEM button on her ad and let EC know she did this. They will not pull her ad with one complaint like this but if enough people report problems she will not be permitted to advertise on that site. She will also get a warning letting her know she could loose her advertising ability if it continues. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Andee 220524 Report post Posted August 13, 2009 When making an appointment ahead of time, I always ask the gentleman to confirm a half hour before showing to make sure he is coming or if he knows ahead of time he can't make it, to let me know. That's what you did - you gave lots of notice. As for her saying "come now", obviously she thought she had a no show and was going to squeeze you in so to speak. Since it's obvious the other guy showed up, she should have either texted you right away to let you know, or give you another appointment time not already scheduled. Or the alternative (depending on how late he was), blow him off in favour of you. Either way, in my opinion she did not act very professionally, and I do not believe her behaviour is the norm because I know lots of SPs who do not operate that way. The MOD is right, there are some girls who are not good at scheduling as is there are some clients who don't bother to call and cancel, show up late or even show up early which can be problems. But it's part of the business that unfortunately we have to deal with. :butt: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
