Age does it matter?

[Fresh start 17467]

To some like me age is just another number. Over the years I've notice that for some age seems to determine the value of respect you get. When I was a young boy my aunt would always say respect your elders which was good but I believe it is a two way street. Being only in my late 20 I am still young but I look even younger, I don't mind this at all and find it amusing at times. I often find myself treated differently because of it. A few examples are I often get under estimated. Being young and in charge of people who are older than I often creates a friction, they think I don't know anything but truth be told I would not be where I am if I didn't. Because I'm young often people try to lie or bullshit me which I find disrespectful, as a foreman subcontractor often argue to get out of work saying its not their job but when my boss is around a whole different story. When I went to buy my first car and in my name the seller was trying to sell me a used car when I wanted a new vehicle. He kept insisting for a person my age the best thing for me was a used car for my credit. Well last I checked the financing company does the credit check not this shmuck. What annoy me is when I often hear me young guys don't want to work, well excuse me but I work just as hard as them if not harder. Another saying that gets real old real fast it "when I was your age it was harder you're lucky" often referring to my salary which fine yes it is much higher then it was 25-30 years ago but so is cost of living. Food, gas, housing market all much higher than it was before heck I'm sure sp charged less. I understand time changes and things are different but does that really make anybody a betters or worse person cause of it? We should treat each other with the same amount of respect. Not judge by how young they look or anyway for that matter. Just like the saying goes never judge a book by its cover.

 

I'm sure everyone has been guilty of this sometime in their lives. I remember my first cerb provider, i almost didn't meet her cause of her tattoo, was a little intimidating but she was very pretty. Thankfully I did cause she was so nice and friendly and I really enjoyed her company. Lesson learned, thanks Cleo.

 

How does your looks affect what people think of you, I sure you've got at least a few stories.

[Gentleman11 10508]

This comment refers to the "age" heading in the thread and not the "looks" question. My daughter reminds me from time to time (especially if she wants something) of a bumper sticker we saw a while ago. It read "remember to be kind to your kids, they will be choosing your nursing home"....

[Guest]

I must admit that I have had older people talk down to me like what I was saying was irrelevant because I am younger than them.

 

I have a soft sweet voice and I'm soft spoken, so people think this equals door mat or dumb. I'm also cheerful, I like to joke around and I giggle a lot, so I guess this is looked at as dumb by some people. I must admit I do have a lot of ditsy moments, lol, but I'm not stupid. I have come to accept this and don't really care what people think of me. I keep people around me that like me for my ditsy self, lol. I always get, is the lady of the house around, yes, your speaking to her,lol.

 

I'm petite, yes it is natural but I also gain weight and I can pack on the pounds fast too. People think I just wake up and don't do anything to maintain my body. Wrong, I exercise all the time and this is my reward for my hard work. I encourage people to join me in the gym when they say things like that to me.

 

I guess I look hungry too because people always want to feed me, even when I'm not hungry or full.

 

I am confident in myself and like who I am. I am by no means upset by what I am sharing. I am just sharing some experiences I have gone through for the theme of the thread, big smile.

[Nicolette Vaughn 294340]

Empty83, I used to think the same way you do but because I'm a few years older than you and out of my 20's, that doesn't seem to happen that much anymore.

 

When I was in my 20's, I thought I had to prove a lot of things to other people in order to feel more grown up or accepted. I bought my first house at 23, a 60k vehicle and the whole nine yards. In essence I was keeping up with the Jones' who were 10 years older than me while many people my age still lived at home. I was also dealing with a lot of older people in my business and felt I couldn't relate to those who were actually my age because I left home at 19 and settled down at 22. By all outward appearances, I looked like I had my shit together but chronologically I was still 23 or 24 and was still viewed as "young".

 

I believe life experience brings maturity ( not to say you are immature) and life experience brings you more self acceptance. I used to consider myself a materialistic person but have since learned that this does not buy happiness. I found once I just accepted myself for who I was ( flaws and all) that brought more inner confidence. When you know who you are as a person, you will reflect that and people will begin to take you seriously. Don't take this too much to heart about feeling too young. The more you feel this way about yourself, people will get the same vibe off of you and think the same way.

 

Yes, you are still young ( assuming by your handle that you were born in 1983?) but enjoy your youth while you can and don't sweat the small stuff. When we're young, we want to be grownups, do adult things and be accepted. Sure, people judge a book by it's cover but don't get too caught up in trying to prove a point. When we do this, we aren't trying to prove this to other people but more to ourselves. As long as you know who you are, there is nothing to prove. Don't worry though, you will begin to see this in time as you get to know yourself better.

 

And interestingly enough, I sound very young. I've had telemarketers call my home phone and asked if my parents were home. lol. I always laugh and take it as a compliment. Grandparents call and they think they're talking to their grandchild when it's really me! I just laugh esp when people still call me "Miss"!

[Soleil Sublime 38108]

Regarding your age question, I think it's hard to matter when so many lie about it. I know many would-be clients have steered away from me because they make an assumption I'm too old. Despite the fact I could have easily and believably lied about my age by up to 10 years, I didn't. I was hoping it was going to reflect positively on me that I was honest about my age. Instead, those who only want SPs under 30 are still seeing girls who are 30+ but they don't know it because they claim to be 28 or 29. So I guess honesty doesn't always pay. :(

I never judge anyone myself, because of their age. I will see clients under 30 unlike many who wish not to.

[Johnny Canuck 5347]

You know I can definitely agree with Empty83 more than what he has written. Every word written is a testament of the truth and I think a lot of young men in particular suffer as a result of this negative perception of age. Being in my late 20's I can say that I have experienced a lot of people who seem to think that even though I am in my 20's I am naive and do not have the life lessons in which they do as they are older. It is a shame because I for one would never judge a person based on their age as to me it is just a number and does not equate the type of person they are.

[Guest B**na***oy]

Regarding your age question, I think it's hard to matter when so many lie about it. I know many would-be clients have steered away from me because they make an assumption I'm too old. Despite the fact I could have easily and believably lied about my age by up to 10 years, I didn't. I was hoping it was going to reflect positively on me that I was honest about my age. Instead, those who only want SPs under 30 are still seeing girls who are 30+ but they don't know it because they claim to be 28 or 29. So I guess honesty doesn't always pay. :(

 

Soleil, I assure you that most people appreciate honesty. I would also say that many men value the maturity that comes with the experience and the years behind it.

 

I don't doubt you lost some potential clients over the accurate reporting of your age, but you also gained some over the same issue. At the end of the day, you loose some and you gain some over the same issue. You likely end up with a better clientele in the long run by being honest than by being deceitful.

[CristyCurves 169032]

To answer the question -age does it matter- It depends on who you ask. There is ageism just as there is racism, sexism, people who prejudge a person based on their weight, and other forms of judgement. Its a flaw a lot of people have -prejudging a person based on ones outward appearance-. In this business in particular ageism is rampant, many hobbyists have the believe that a woman's" shelf life" expires after the age of 30 as do many sps. Some may not admit it but it clearly is obvious. I hear some sps mocking others all the time because of their maturity. Causing many to have no other choice but to lie about their age in order to get business or to maintain peace of mind. There are many that prefer a more mature provider but I do think the common census for this business is that its for the young, by that I mean if you ask anyone what are the common ages for sps most would say 20-30, not over 35.

Some people make prejudgements about the young, some about the more mature. What is important to remember is anyone who judges anyone without knowing them is being shallow and not worth your time or mine. As any age has is redeeming qualities and just like fine wine-we-(women) just get better with age:)

[Bianca Jaguar 39183]

Very interesting thread... age is just a number for me also! Often younger man (20s) contact me and ask if it bothers me...it doesnt in the slightest! I find there is always good in everyone and would never say ''sorry you're too young''... Chemistry has no age!

[BrettonWoods 4365]

I agree that age should not matter but I will suggest that it does not matter. Some of the most wonderful women in the business are well over 35. I am near 60 so you can take that into account. I am sure we know women who paid for their education by escorting and then left, or left due to other life circumstances, or simply no longer had the desire to be in the business. So there may not be as many over 35 providers, but I know more than one outstanding provider who is well over 40. Women who take good care of themselves have just as hot bodies as younger women and I can attest that as far as charm, seduction and pure eroticism; if you have it you have it.

[Angelic 423]

not sure if it is off topic, i always find depending on the countries some clients will go for more mature escorts, and some others country they will go for young slim type model escort.