PurpleHaze 140 Report post Posted May 31, 2013 I'm a nineteen year old virgin looking for a high class escort that is comfortable with inexperience, good looking, and is willing to teach someone the basics. After finishing my first year of university I am now working full time during the summer so I have the money to spend. By finally curing my virginity I hope to demystify sex, reduce sexual anxiety, and finally get to try sex out and know what it feels like. Do not recommend me anyone if: 1) They have four pictures of different woman yet claiming to be the same person (as seen on BP). 2) Will not show a picture of their face. What are they trying to hide? 3) Their ad refers to themselves in the third person. Obviously a unintelligent pimp. A good escort would be someone such as Emily Marie however unfortunately she is no longer in Kingston. Or Emily Rushton. They actually show pictures of themselves, have reviews, and a website. A bonus would be: 1) If they allow a souvenir photo to be taken (you only lose your virginity once). 2) They do a blowjob without condom. I understand for their own protection but I clearly do not have STDs. Looking forward to hear back from people on what they think is best. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TheSanityAssassin 160 Report post Posted June 4, 2013 She was Kingston's #1 for a long time and retired about 6 months ago. But she just posted up on BP that she'll be back for 2 weeks....I'd seek her out for sure! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Calitos 226 Report post Posted June 4, 2013 It's the first time I see her post... Was she that good? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest ***nsut***jr Report post Posted June 4, 2013 You really need to do more homework. Like you say "you only lose your virginity once" so you could maybe plan a trip to a bigger city which gives you a better selection of great ladies. It seems that you are looking for ladies with good marketing which is a great thing but there are many other ladies that advertise in a more low key manner that would be a good choice. Don't be afraid to ask questions and if you are sincere and polite you will soon have some great choices narrowed down for the big event. Good luck, relax and have fun. J Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Midnite-Energies 110563 Report post Posted June 4, 2013 I'm including a previous thread from two other members who were candid enough to share their experiences. http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=89049 The ladies of CERB do not participate in B&S scams and those who do are generally caught. The MOD"s here are serious about keeping this a safe and sane place for everyone. Most ladies here are in the business seriously and have good business standards and practices. Having said that, some do not show their face because they have lives separate from their professional lives and do not wish the two to cross. Some have other jobs, family who wouldn't understand or numerous reasons. Not showing their faces is a legitimate choice for them. If, to you, this is not acceptable, you will need to research those who fall into your guidelines. Please do not judge people on whether they would show their face or not. I'm not sure you would want your face posted so everyone knows you're a hobbist. You must be new to CERB and not have explored much of this site. The ladies place ads here to titillate and excite and we like to get a little creative. Just because it is written differently does not mean there is a pimp involved. Research reco's, profiles and talk to other hobbyists. You will gain more insight and better information this way. Most ladies here have recos' and participate in some way. As for a photo of the occasion, you will have to speak to specific ladies and ask them. Many would not allow this to happen for their own safety. Pictures are proof that could end up anywhere and be used in many ways that are not acceptable. Again, ask! BBBJ again are the preference of the lady, so ask. Only YOU can determine who you are attracted to and whether they meet your needs. Communication is key. I will offer one small piece of advice based on your thread, some of what you said comes off rather judgmental and negative. Most ladies here are wonderful with newcomers and with new to sex partners as well. They are welcoming, warm and have your best interests at heart. Talk to people, start conversations, ask questions and above all, make sure this is the right route for you. Read threads on what makes a good client and be that person. Good luck with your search 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PhantomKnight 7914 Report post Posted June 4, 2013 First off, Welcome to Cerb, you've come to the right place to find a great lady to lose your virginity with. As said above if you're extremely picky about who you lose it with don't confine yourself to just one city. Explore cities nearest yourself and decide from their. Many beautiful ladies like to keep their face hidden in pictures as to keep their work life hidden from their personal lives. They have families and themselves to protect. I recommend you check out the recommendations section from each city you're considering. As well as look at the advertising section for FS SP's. If you have any questions for the ladies your interested in, don't hesitate to PM them. They won't bite... Not that hard anyways. ;) Enjoy your time on CERB and good luck finding the right lady for you! Pk Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Meg O'Ryan 266444 Report post Posted June 4, 2013 I must say that I am a bit irked that the perception exists that if a provider does not show her face then she has something to hide. I choose not to show my face as I do not wish to intermingle my private and professional lives. Not deceitful at all nor does it make me any less of a provider than those who do show their faces. Anyhow, do your research, read reviews and begin communicating with those providers who interest you. Ultimately, you and your intuition should be able to determine which beautiful lady will rock you world! Best of luck. 9 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Genevieve Marceau 68000 Report post Posted June 4, 2013 Will not show a picture of their face. What are they trying to hide? Their privacy maybe............. Their ad refers to themselves in the third person. Obviously a unintelligent pimp. We are not on a dating site here...An SP refering to herself at the third person in a Ad is simply using a different writing style to promote herself. Using offensive language will certainly not get you a date with a high CLASS escort. They do a blowjob without condom. I understand for their own protection but I clearly do not have STDs. Oh well since we got your word, it must be true then! No seriously, there are many SP offering bbbj, but if you come with the "I'm a virgin" excuse to those who don't, you will not be considered as a potential client. 6 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest realnicehat Report post Posted June 4, 2013 Their privacy maybe............. We are not on a dating site here...An SP refering to herself at the third person in a Ad is simply using a different writing style to promote herself. Using offensive language will certainly not get you a date with a high CLASS escort. Oh well since we got your word, it must be true then! No seriously, there are many SP offering bbbj, but if you come with the "I'm a virgin" excuse to those who don't, you will not be considered as a potential client. Well, I don't know who the OP is going to see, but I kind of want to meet Genevieve now. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
piano8950 32577 Report post Posted June 4, 2013 I'm a nineteen year old virgin looking for a high class escort that is comfortable with inexperience, good looking, and is willing to teach someone the basics. After finishing my first year of university I am now working full time during the summer so I have the money to spend. By finally curing my virginity I hope to demystify sex, reduce sexual anxiety, and finally get to try sex out and know what it feels like. Welcome. That's a nice way (not unlike mine) of looking at it. But here are a couple of things you need to check yourself before you see anyone. Do not recommend me anyone if...(she) will not show a picture of their face. What are they trying to hide? A great deal. I won't make any assumptions about your background or how accepting the people around you are, but even in our so called liberal society, we're a very sex negative society. And paying for it?!? Well shit, you must be so butt ugly and undesirable, and the girl must be so desperate for drugs that something like this goes on. <- Unfortunately, that's a common assumption people make about this industry. We are far from treating this industry like any other. And even though most, if not all the men and women here are happy with their circumstance, and enjoy it thoroughly, very few people here have the lucky privilege of having family and/or friends that are completely accepting of what they do. Hence the privacy. I recommend taking a softer approach to finding out the ins and outs of the industry before making assumtions. They do a blowjob without condom. I understand for their own protection but I clearly do not have STDs. There are women who offer blowjob without condom (bare back blowjob or bbbj), and some that allow you to complete in their mouth, and some that will even swallow. That is for the lady to decide her comfort level, and while there are some that will advertise all these services, if they see/smell anything off with your dick, say goodbye to all those blowjob fantasies. And another thing you need to remember, there are many people who lie here. You know you're a virgin, you know that you're clean, but for all that matters to an escort is that you're another client, and the exact same precautions need to be taken. Imagine how dangerous it would be to you if the escort you do eventually see just accepts at face value that you're a virgin, would that not make you suspicious that she might have given some allowances to another client that made the same assertion, whether or not it's true. You seem to have so valid reasons for wanting to see an escort, but before you do, please check out the many threads on how to approach your first appointment, how to get in touch with one, etc. And check out the reviews, I know you want your first time to be special, and would like to find someone you are attracted to, hence the face request, but reviews can give you an extremely good assessment of a lady's physical beauty. I can tell you, I have always stuck with well reviewed ladies, and have found all of them to be nothing short of stunning. 5 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PurpleHaze 140 Report post Posted June 5, 2013 Didn't expect to get this much feedback. I understand now the logic behind refusing to show a face picture given the negative stigma with this line of work. Personally I could not care and even posted my own picture that would be recongized by anyone who knows me. The reason I requested a face picture was because I got my orginal negative impressions from BP, where half the ads are low quality and they couldn't even be bothered to make a website ($5 domain, free hosting, basic HTML/free template) so the face picture was an easy way to determine if it was a fake or low quality ad. Given the way this site works with the reviews and moderations, that should not be an issue. However; ads in the third person are still are a red flag so that will have to be avoided. I cannot understand why a lady would refer to herself that way and morally I will not have sex with someone who is pimped out. If I was allowed to give negative feedback I would post links to examples of those ads in third person so you have an idea of what I mean. You can tell just from reading them that something is off (new account, no reviews, etc). Given the advice above and understanding that Kingston has a limited selection it seems like my best option is to wait and periodically check in to see if ladies from out of city are travelling through. Really wish I lived in Ottawa lol. Thanks for the help everyone! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
piano8950 32577 Report post Posted June 5, 2013 BP ads are usually ignored here. My recommendation, check out a VIA rail ticket, make a day trip out of it. Roundtrip from Kingston to Ottawa is very reasonable, and the bus connections from the station in Ottawa is quite good. A few escorts are located downtown or close to, which is a direct bus ride. And good for you on your attitude towards exploited women. I understand your fear to see one, it was a big concern of mine when I was new. I was able to get around it by using this forum. If I saw an ad for someone I liked, I'd check out her recommendations. While this forum does not allow for bad reviews, glowing recommendations one after the other will usually indicate that if even bad reviews were allowed, she probably wouldn't receive one. And if she posts regularly, you might start to feel confident that she is doing this on her own accord, and not because of some pimp or addiction to drugs. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
