Guest ***rgi*****9 Report post Posted June 5, 2013 as per your question - customers don't behave as customers anymore.they've expected me to "spend the night" with them- for free(because others do this - so they say), -go on little dates & outings - for free -take trips with them - for free -talk on the phone with them, when they are bored or lonely -do drugs with them and also get drugs for them (because others do), -pick them up & provide them with taxi service so they can get money or go buy drugs -provide them with cheap incalls or cheap outcalls because they don't have much money, have no job & because other girls give them cheap rates it's fine to "ask" -- but to expect these things & be nasty & abusive if they "don't get their own way" is very immature and ridiculous. act like "men" not spoiled "little boys" and women will want to be around you. Many of the "locals" have had very unrealistic expectations - and it is a huge turn off WOW are you kidding me that is just asinine!!! I guess in this day and age nothing should surprise me anymore. As CZdrummer stated though talk about loser clients!!! I'm hoping this is much more the exception then then the rule out there... pathetic Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Soleil Sublime 38108 Report post Posted June 5, 2013 as per your question - customers don't behave as customers anymore.they've expected me to "spend the night" with them- for free(because others do this - so they say), -go on little dates & outings - for free -take trips with them - for free -talk on the phone with them, when they are bored or lonely -do drugs with them and also get drugs for them (because others do), -pick them up & provide them with taxi service so they can get money or go buy drugs -provide them with cheap incalls or cheap outcalls because they don't have much money, have no job & because other girls give them cheap rates it's fine to "ask" -- but to expect these things & be nasty & abusive if they "don't get their own way" is very immature and ridiculous. act like "men" not spoiled "little boys" and women will want to be around you. Many of the "locals" have had very unrealistic expectations - and it is a huge turn off Wow. That really sucks Stefanie. I'm very sorry that you have to deal with all that crap. If I had to deal with those types of clients on a regular basis, I'd prefer my phone not to ring at all. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest D***el B***e Report post Posted June 5, 2013 as per your question - customers don't behave as customers anymore.they've expected me to "spend the night" with them- for free(because others do this - so they say), -go on little dates & outings - for free -take trips with them - for free -talk on the phone with them, when they are bored or lonely -do drugs with them and also get drugs for them (because others do), -pick them up & provide them with taxi service so they can get money or go buy drugs -provide them with cheap incalls or cheap outcalls because they don't have much money, have no job & because other girls give them cheap rates it's fine to "ask" -- but to expect these things & be nasty & abusive if they "don't get their own way" is very immature and ridiculous. act like "men" not spoiled "little boys" and women will want to be around you. Many of the "locals" have had very unrealistic expectations - and it is a huge turn off hummmm .... maybe you're seeing the wrong people. Maybe time for you to step back as well because I certainly don't see myself as fitting ANYWHERE in your list. I respect all the providers I see way too much to even think of behaving like that. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
DeeperConnection 19567 Report post Posted June 5, 2013 These situations you have mentioned are often emotionally and mentally draining. Should there be wiggle room in your situation to do so, I would attempt to at least stop communicating with a few of the worst cases. "energy vampires" come in all forms. Try to treat yourself to a relaxing time or book. Never let them drain the happiness out of you. I do hope your inquires become more realistic. Many of the situations you mention are plain ignorant to expect of any sp. I do agree the number of negotiators, and expectations to have it their way are getting out of hand in responses to my bp ad. Also notice a strange increase in extremely late night callers, who will even call back 3 times for rates between 2-5a.m even after I respond I am done for the night. I do hope you have things balance out by some good quality gentlemen. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Desiree Delights 2210 Report post Posted June 7, 2013 as per your question - customers don't behave as customers anymore.they've expected me to "spend the night" with them- for free(because others do this - so they say), -go on little dates & outings - for free -take trips with them - for free -talk on the phone with them, when they are bored or lonely -do drugs with them and also get drugs for them (because others do), -pick them up & provide them with taxi service so they can get money or go buy drugs -provide them with cheap incalls or cheap outcalls because they don't have much money, have no job & because other girls give them cheap rates it's fine to "ask" -- but to expect these things & be nasty & abusive if they "don't get their own way" is very immature and ridiculous. act like "men" not spoiled "little boys" and women will want to be around you. Many of the "locals" have had very unrealistic expectations - and it is a huge turn off Also to clarify & be fair to the customers, these issues occur with the "local" Winnipeg customers - the visitors & business travelers here seem more educated, less demanding, don't haggle over the rates & are more pleasant & fun to be around. they don't expect "free sleepovers," little dates, phone chat anytime of the day or night, they aren't asking inappropriate questions or making rude, insulting comments, they don't demand & expect you see them for ridiculously cheap rates.....etc. they are generally more respectful & mature. I understand that a lot of the local callers are used to very cheap rates here for in & outcalls but it isn't reasonable to expect everyone to provide services for 100.00 or less "because other's do" & because that is what they are "used to paying" or because they call someone once a week and can't afford more. you can ask, but to get abusive & nasty because "you don't get your own way" is not acceptable. not all the local callers are like this, and for those that have been respectful & fun I say "thank you very much - I appreciate it!" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
DwayneR 2105 Report post Posted June 8, 2013 Also to clarify & be fair to the customers, these issues occur with the "local" Winnipeg customers - the visitors & business travelers here seem more educated, less demanding, don't haggle over the rates & are more pleasant & fun to be around. they don't expect "free sleepovers," little dates, phone chat anytime of the day or night, they aren't asking inappropriate questions or making rude, insulting comments, they don't demand & expect you see them for ridiculously cheap rates.....etc. they are generally more respectful & mature. I understand that a lot of the local callers are used to very cheap rates here for in & outcalls but it isn't reasonable to expect everyone to provide services for 100.00 or less "because other's do" & because that is what they are "used to paying" or because they call someone once a week and can't afford more. you can ask, but to get abusive & nasty because "you don't get your own way" is not acceptable. not all the local callers are like this, and for those that have been respectful & fun I say "thank you very much - I appreciate it!" As a local, for me it's all about the mutual fun. An event, a very short party. Which always includes respect. Now I see why your ads cater to travellers. It's difficult, but try not to own, these bad experiences, take them for what they are worth (nothing) and focus on the good ones with good clients. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
supertrucker 2007 Report post Posted June 11, 2013 What was this thread about again? Yet another CERB thread hijacked and taken way off topic. Hey Wild Thing. A little advice. If you want to complain about all the apparent "local" scumbag hobbyist's.....START YOUR OWN THREAD!!!!! It's not fair to the original poster or any other members who would like to post their opinion on the original post. Just my opinion. 3 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
piano8950 32577 Report post Posted June 11, 2013 What was this thread about again? Yet another CERB thread hijacked and taken way off topic. Hey Wild Thing. A little advice. If you want to complain about all the apparent "local" scumbag hobbyist's.....START YOUR OWN THREAD!!!!! It's not fair to the original poster or any other members who would like to post their opinion on the original post. Just my opinion. Since it seems to have really pissed you off, kindly direct that anger to the correct person...me Not to go off-topic, but how do most customers behave? Wild Thing was nice enough to respond to my question, and had a bunch of follow up questions by other members. Yes it did go off topic, like many threads do, but perhaps not pointing fingers might be a more polite way to go about it. And feel free to bring this thread back to topic by responding to the OP. Honestly, I think you derailed it more :S Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Desiree Delights 2210 Report post Posted June 11, 2013 What was this thread about again? Yet another CERB thread hijacked and taken way off topic. Hey Wild Thing. A little advice. If you want to complain about all the apparent "local" scumbag hobbyist's.....START YOUR OWN THREAD!!!!! It's not fair to the original poster or any other members who would like to post their opinion on the original post. Just my opinion. I never called them "scumbags" - those are your remarks. I pointed out that it's unlikely to develop "feelings" for men that behave in that manner. I've never developed "feelings" for customers - so it is relevant to the discussion. .....just being honest about what I (and many others) have experienced with the "locals" Additional Comments: .....I've dealt with men from across the world - and they never had the expectations many of the "locals" have had. I realize $160.00 is a lot of money to some people here and they want the "most bang" for their buck but expecting free sleepovers, free dinner dates, cheap incalls (many offers of $80.00 or less), being expected to provide them with drugs, or do drugs with them, provide taxi service. the list goes on & on. it's o.k to ask but to get abusive when you did not "get your own way" is just ridiculous and not respected. many do NOT behave like that - and it is really appreciated. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
supertrucker 2007 Report post Posted June 11, 2013 Well first of all Piano8950 you didn't take it off topic Wild Thing did that way back on page 2. You just got pulled into it. And there's no reason to try to get back onto the original topic after 10 posts off topic. I am not angry or directing anger at anyone. It just really annoys me when someone takes the time to start a thread and other members take the time to share their opinions and experiences all to have the thread hijacked by someone who takes it way off topic. I fully understand a thread can go in another direction, it happens. But in this case, it went from SP's falling for a client, to how bad the "local" clientele is. That's a major shift in topic and tone. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest D***el B***e Report post Posted June 11, 2013 (edited) What was this thread about again? Yet another CERB thread hijacked and taken way off topic. Hey Wild Thing. A little advice. If you want to complain about all the apparent "local" scumbag hobbyist's.....START YOUR OWN THREAD!!!!! It's not fair to the original poster or any other members who would like to post their opinion on the original post. Just my opinion. kinda rude I think ... There's other ways to deal with people. Edited June 12, 2013 by D***el B***e typos Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Desiree Delights 2210 Report post Posted June 13, 2013 (edited) everyone is entitled to their opinion - and to voice their experiences. if I angered & upset mr. supertrucker (and anyone else)then I apologize. a member asked ME what the customers were like - that is why I replied. it is my error in replying on the thread - next time I will reply in private to avoid any hostility, anger & to avoid upsetting anyone. there was no "evil plot" or evil plan to hijack the thread - someone asked a question.... Edited June 13, 2013 by wild thing spelling Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nikitabbw 570 Report post Posted June 13, 2013 I've been lucky and haven't had to deal with this issue directly. I've def met some good friends along the way, however. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Phlipspecial69 1449 Report post Posted June 18, 2013 Thank you everyone who responded with feedback and their opinions. I just let it be and move on, as one user noted, we are all human and connections happen. Now i am looking for a new SP in this city to visit and enjoy our time(s) together. There is a few in mind who have great reviews from other users and long time members. Cheers PS69 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
nntsci 11076 Report post Posted July 27, 2016 Hello, Has anyone ever been in this scenario, and if so any ADVICE?? Clients fall for SP's i hear and see often, but when an SP falls for the client, how do i still keep that professional relationship together? I just seen a regular SP of mine last night and it felt like i just a lost a friend, she told me she cannot see me anymore because our connection has reached an emotional level (even though she still has other regular clients) and just like that it was over. I know this isn't a relationship board-but is this common!??!?! The husband of a friend of mine left his wife for a woman he met through an escort service. Apparently he drove away in a Ford escort (his x-wife jokes). The relationship didn't last long. The divorce has lasted. I think she was very wise to break off the relationship because of her feelings. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
