How do you select who to see next?

[Hastings56 1148]

I like to PM the ladies first too! But, I love the Idea of meeting at the Cerb Social's! It's a great way to meet. For the ladies and the guys! I first met Emily J and Cleo Catra at the spring social and later for more intimate and personal sessions.......WOW!!!!!! AWESOME Ladies!!! Definitely More too Cum.....lol :bigclap::hump:

 

Additional Comments:

Oh Cleo.....(sigh) ......You are definitely more than just a pretty face Luv! You have an Awesome Body too!!!....OMG!!! Your Body Rocks!!!!!!

I do look forward to "Cumming" to seeing you again pretty Kitty!

Purrrrrrrr.........Lol

Hastings56....oxox

[Ice4fun 78407]

Lol.... i don't seem to move on that much when I am happy with what I have.... but that said.....sometimes the wonderful lady you want is not available so I look for someone completely different so I won't make the comparisons and be disappointed.

[nntsci 11076]

I have a new idea about how to select a person. Her stage name.

 

I want to forget about someone, or at least displace some somewhat unpleasant memories, so I'm thinking of booking a rather sexy new girl at an escort agency that goes by that same first name. The name is actually a very common name, but I've not seen very many SPs who go with that name as a stage name (perhaps its too ordinary).

 

Its all in jest. Its been a long time since I've seen the person who I'd like to forget. But her name still occasionally triggers my memory of her (e.g., if I see her first name in the credits for a TV show... or as a character in a TV show -- as I said its a common name)... I think it would be kind of fun to disrupt that memory and give myself a more pleasant association with that name.

[qwertyaccount 15793]

I have one of these:

 

 

I write the ladies names in each segment and then give the wheel a spin!

 

Actually, for someone new it's a matter of who I think I'll click with.

[Guest c**io**m7]

For me, it always depended on my mood at the time. If I wanted PSE, I had my shortlist. If I wanted GFE, I had my long list. If I wanted something completely unknown, I had a couple Asian agencies and if I wanted to just feel really good, I had my very short MA list.

 

The lists were created by reading ads, looking at pictures, trial and error as well as PM/email conversations. Lots of money was spent creating these lists but, when I was active, my lists never failed me and my mood was always satisfied.

[Wolf Knight 29667]

Well often my selection of who to see next is often driven by proximity. (What ladies happen to be where I am) I'm not much of a last minute appointment type guy unless I know the lady well so I usually get to plan and decide. In St. John's obviously we have a limited number of ladies offering services and in this area. We're fortunate that we have a few local ladies who are world class and fantastic and I do tend to repeat with ladies I have a connection with. In addition we have a constant stream of touring ladies and that's where more decision comes into it.

 

I am a man so obviously visually something about the lady has to appeal to me however more than that I tend to notice ladies with well put together ads. I have been and still am drawn to intelligence. To me intelligence is super sexy so if a ladies ad conveys a sense that she's intelligent and has more to offer than just her physical attributes then I'll contact her. Her response to my very well thought out and respectful introductory message to her will determine if I'm going to see her or not. If her response is warm and intelligent (it can still be short) I'm likely in for an appointment, if it's cold, distant and cookie cutter, I'm out.

 

When it comes to ladies I see when I travel, I'm usually governed by my interactions on CERB. I do have my short list of must see Cerb ladies and that's primarily based on intellectual (mental) attraction as opposed to physical attraction. I've learned that I don't hobby for the sex, I hobby for the connection and chemistry (which is a mental aspect) because without the connection and chemistry I won't have attraction and without attraction I don't want the sex.

[piano8950 32577]

In Ottawa, I was very happy with one SP, and I felt no need to find any other.

 

With MPs, it's a slightly different story. I have enjoyed myself with different ladies, but I feel that each brings something very different to the table. So I've seen a few, but try to limit myself, because I do wish to go back to those who have been so absolutely fantastic.

[someguy 67067]

Recently I saw two MA's that were new and that I had not had any contact with. They had no reviews but looked nice. The session was good, but not gfe and the conversation not as good as I have had with other girls. But that is because I did not know anything about them and what we had in common. I think from now on I will see girls that I have some knowledge of and have had some sort of communications with before I meet them. I think this leads to a better experience, as there is some soft of comfort level as you know something about each other, and have topics that you know you can talk about.

That is my opinion based on my experiences so far. But then sometimes a woman comes around that has a sexy album, that you just have to meet :)

[nntsci 11076]

I have a new idea about how to select a person. Her stage name.

 

I want to forget about someone, or at least displace some somewhat unpleasant memories, so I'm thinking of booking a rather sexy new girl at an escort agency that goes by that same first name. The name is actually a very common name, but I've not seen very many SPs who go with that name as a stage name (perhaps its too ordinary).

 

Its all in jest. Its been a long time since I've seen the person who I'd like to forget. But her name still occasionally triggers my memory of her (e.g., if I see her first name in the credits for a TV show... or as a character in a TV show -- as I said its a common name)... I think it would be kind of fun to disrupt that memory and give myself a more pleasant association with that name.

Well I did it, I selected a girl because of her name. LOL. Ok, well the D cups and beautiful body might have factored into the choice.

 

She was fantastic. I'm not sure it worked completely though. I haven't totally blocked out my memory of that other woman who had that name... I guess I'll just have to keep going back to that service provider until that memory is gone, LOL. Oh darn it.

[someguy 67067]

It seems in 2014, there has been an influx of new girls into the MA industries. Lot's of girls moving around between the spa's and a lot of new beautiful sexy girls showing up at the spa's. I've started chatting with many of them in Chat room and have gotten to know them pretty well. I'm tempted to meet most of them. and hopefully eventually I will. Trouble is I've met so many women of cerb that I have connected with and have repeated with and want to repeat with again, it is too hard to find time to meet some new girls. But I am doing my best :). There are just too many sexy women out there and not enough time and money :(. But where there's a will, there's a way :). But so far my best sessions are with girls that I have gotten to know over time in the chat room.

[someguy 67067]

It's almost the end of 2014. And the choices are unlimited :)

I keep meeting women that I want to repeat with and am still interested in meeting new women as they keep getting more beautiful, sexier.

[Guest D***el B***e]

I've posted her before but I'm revising my thoughts, lol. A key thing is how hot (in my eyes) the lady is. Sometimes I go on a whim, sometimes it's long planned, sometimes I need to go NOW, I don't have a set method to determine who I see next. Maybe we've exchanged a reply on a post and I'll look further into the profile and decide it's good for me, there's really no structure into my intentions to see the next girl. One thing is certain, I always gravitate back to my atf because I know I can see her whenever I need to, she'll welcome me with open arms any time.

[Triple HHH 12345]

I am in a position that I never even thought it would be possible when I started here on Lyla, I have a very sexy lady who lives close to me who has become my regular. Each time I visit I am amazed with the Chemistry between us, you think we knew each other for years instead of only seven months. Whenever I am in a position to visit all it takes is a message to her and I get a very excited reply back.

[Tempted Monk 5057]

It is interesting how many different way are there to find out which provider could be the next.

As many of other guys, I prefer to meet the girl whose personality is attractive and who I believe I would enjoy to spend time with. And I found pretty effective way to get some impression about the woman I am interested in - Twitter. Most of ladies have Twitter accounts nowadays and publish it on their web sites or adds. Spend half an hour on reading Twitter postings and you can understand if you have something in common and have something to talk about. For sure, you will see if this is "no go" case. At least it works for me well

[someguy 67067]

These day's I will see only women that have been reviewed here and that I can contact with thru pm, email or text. I like to get to know them a bit before I meet them to make sure we have things in common. Plus these day's I like to know ahead of time if they kiss. I find many MA's these days don't allow kissing. Before I used to think they all kiss.

I find it more fun to meet someone who you have communicated with for a while. that way she is curious to the person that she has been chatting with. Dropping in at a SPA to meet someone that you don't know something about is a hit or miss situation.

[Guest jake_cdn]

These day's I will see only women that have been reviewed here and that I can contact with thru pm, email or text.

 

I couldn't agree more with Someguy. These days there are so many rules / law changes that one is ever sure of the validity of the post. I have come to respect and rely on the user community here for verification.

 

The unfortunate part is that since the law changes there have been fewer posts and less use of the chatroom on this site and more on less reputable sites like * backpage.

 

This site / community remains a valuable and trusted resource for me.

[cometman 35115]

I'll stick to CERB ladies. I have no desire for surprises of the bad kind and good rapport on here usually means good rapport in person. I have had such good experiences in the past that there is really no need to look further, but dayum.......there's some awesome ladies I have not yet met and would like to.

[Wolf Knight 29667]

As a cerb member who went on hiatus for an extended period and recently decided to return I'm grappling with this question. Some ladies that I'd seen are still in the business and many more have since moved on. I'm inclined to return to a lady that I've seen and built a rapport with, although after many months I'm not sure that the connection will still be there. Only time will tell if the connection will return can't wait to find out though :)

[in2funtimes 483]

I have the same opinion, I always like some written communication prior to the first date. Usually it's easy to see if there will be a connection or comfort level with an escort. Not all escorts have the time or want to engage in conversation and I understand and respect that completely. I now have several escorts that I'm comfortable with, as they are with me so when one can't accept a date I know I will be happy with one of the others. Just MHO.

[someguy 67067]

I started meeting new women again and have met some awesome women recently that I want to repeat with again. But then I have regulars that are more fun each time I see them. But it is getting harder now as there are so many beautiful new girls entering the business these days. But I only see girls that I have communicated with for a while. I like to get to know them to see if they are interesting and that i would be compatible with.

Women that I pm me back for a while, I will try to meet one day.

But so many choices is making my life difficult.

[someguy 67067]

This year I have been using twitter a lot more. Lot of beautiful girls have twitter pages and can be communicated with there. They seem more open to communications and often have daily updates and pictures and post any recent recommendations that they have received. I keep meeting great women and have had great experiences. Now there are too many women that I would like to repeat with again. I having troubles seeing regulars that I used to see now as it is hard to decide who to see again. As I have met so many?

[jafo105 39057]

When I first started out in this hobby in 2011. I used the following method to find a SP: I try to stick with ladies from my own age group +/- 10 years; Non-smoker; Non or social drinker; Drug free; etc... etc...

 

1. I do as much reading as I can about the ladies. This includes their ads, posts, blogs, and website.

2. While doing all that reading I take notes of the ladies that caught my attention.

3. Here comes the hard part. Shortening that list of possibilities down to 2, or 3 ladies max.

4. Then I try to setup a 2 hour social date with each lady. Just to see if there is chemistry and a connection.

5. Now that I have met each lady. Comes another hard part -- Shortening that list down to one special lady.

6. Once that I have found that one special lady. I will arrange to see her for two or three hour dates, once or possibly twice each month. On a long term basis.

 

I use this method because I prefer hosting in my own home.