Emma Alexandra 123368 Report post Posted August 26, 2009 Althought this doesn't happen very often with me quit the oppiste actually..but once in a while a gentelman will come to see me and lets just say things happen very quickly :wink:...say less then 30 mins into the apt. Then he thanks you and gets ready and leaves... My question is why? Why leave when you still have time? I'm not a clock watcher as you know. I like my guys to totally get their money's worth. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jerican 657 Report post Posted August 26, 2009 As you know Emma I never leave till you let me leave! I am in this for the intimacy, passion, interaction and fun...if things come to a head quickly I would fill the time with more foreplay (afterplay?), cuddling, kissing, or just naked conversation in bed....I have no idea why someone would leave before the time is up. Althought this doesn't happen very often with me quit the oppiste actually..but once in a while a gentelman will come to see me and lets just say things happen very quickly :wink:...say less then 30 mins into the apt. Then he thanks you and gets ready and leaves... My question is why? Why leave when you still have time? I'm not a clock watcher as you know. I like my guys to totally get their money's worth. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
coachg 388 Report post Posted August 26, 2009 Why anyone would want to leave the company of you before the time is up, makes them certafible in my book, but there could be various reasons...past experiences were always like that, it was just about them getting their "rocks off" and once that is done, why stay...could be nervous newbies or pangs of guilt just drove them away. A final reason could be they were totally scared of falling in love with Emma A, so they figured they better get the hell out of there! Rest assured it was not you or anything you had done, I'm sure. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
antlerman 17064 Report post Posted August 26, 2009 OK...I think I can answer this...... When I first started intot he hobby I felt that once I was done...I felt I should leave. part of that is due to the feeling that this lady gave me her time and that if I finish early then I leave. Another part is the possible feeling of in-experiance some men may have with post-coital cuddle or wind down time after sex.......they could possibly be used to the get in...get off..get back to the kids before they find us......and are unaware of the nice time you can have after the act. Is it guilt of...."Oh my God I just did this and the sooner I get out the less guilty I will feel"..or...."I am embarassed of my naked body and my sexualtity and feel insecure with a woman paying attention to me after sex......" Or they are in a hurry to light a smoke or are affraid they will roll over and fall alsep on the lady as per a possible usual habbit...... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
v*****m*n 220 Report post Posted August 26, 2009 Wow, but I know we have never met but I am sure I would stay as long as I could with you. Maybe he knew he could not go a second time and did not want to say anything so he left before being embarrassed Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest s******ecan**** Report post Posted August 26, 2009 I can't imagine why anyone would want to leave early, but as they say to each his own I guess. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Andee 220524 Report post Posted August 26, 2009 I asked one of my guys the same thing, and he basically said, he knew he was welcome to stay to talk or try for a MSOG, but he was "good to go". I think since little head is now happy, he retreats and big head takes over again and resumes with the tasks at hand for the day. I find it happens more with day appointments when clients are doing the "dine and dash" thing over a lunch hour or when they're supposed to be out and about doing work or errands. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest S***e Report post Posted August 26, 2009 Last week, I called a local lady and she was at her workplace (non-SP) and she took her lunch hour to accomodate me. I knew she had to return to work, so after 45 minutes and two shots on goal, I got dressed after noting the time and that she would have to go back to work soon. I did it as a matter of courtesy in appreciation of the fact she joined me for a nooner. Normally, I don't leave beforehand unless I'm running late or am not having all that great a time. It's a rare thing for me to leave early. As said previously, to each their own. Old Spike Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
etasman2000 15994 Report post Posted August 26, 2009 My question is why? Why leave when you still have time? I'm not a clock watcher as you know. I like my guys to totally get their money's worth. I had encountered SPs who basically said 1 hour 1 shot, you shot you leave. It might be possible that given this as a past experience they assume the same with you. Other plausible reason is guilt as mentioned before. Seriously without asking the gents involve we but can speculate. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
YoungStud 468 Report post Posted August 26, 2009 OK...I think I can answer this...... When I first started intot he hobby I felt that once I was done...I felt I should leave. part of that is due to the feeling that this lady gave me her time and that if I finish early then I leave. Another part is the possible feeling of in-experiance some men may have with post-coital cuddle or wind down time after sex.......they could possibly be used to the get in...get off..get back to the kids before they find us......and are unaware of the nice time you can have after the act. Is it guilt of...."Oh my God I just did this and the sooner I get out the less guilty I will feel"..or...."I am embarassed of my naked body and my sexualtity and feel insecure with a woman paying attention to me after sex......" Or they are in a hurry to light a smoke or are affraid they will roll over and fall alsep on the lady as per a possible usual habbit...... All good points Antlerman. (Re: your last ones: lol) Additional providers can weigh in here, but from quite a few conversations with escorts over the years, I think there are many more clients than we might expect who are "in and out", so to speak, in under half an hour, no matter what they've paid for, especially the newbies. It's the client's choice, for the variety of reasons already noted, even though the professional providers are always certainly happy to provide a full unit of time to anyone who books it. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Labrador 248 Report post Posted August 27, 2009 They may have only been with agency girls who rush them out the door! Go indy. ;-) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
etasman2000 15994 Report post Posted August 27, 2009 My question is why? Why leave when you still have time? I'm not a clock watcher as you know. I like my guys to totally get their money's worth. its the monkey...... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
phigment 3310 Report post Posted August 27, 2009 Emma, I think it's important to remember here, that often its not really the action that some one is purchasing, so much as the right to a clean departure. The timing of that departure is best left up to the guy. You need to be a little careful here. Not every guy can go MSOG, thus you could convert an otherwise satisfied sensation into a sensation of inadequacy. Preferable to part on a high note I think. Furthermore too much post coital attention might send the wrong guy the wrong message. I doubt very much these guys that get done in 30 mins , thank you, then leave, are feeling theyre not getting their moneys worth. Its much more likely that you're just that good. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Emma Alexandra 123368 Report post Posted August 27, 2009 Emma, I think it's important to remember here, that often its not really the action that some one is purchasing, so much as the right to a clean departure. The timing of that departure is best left up to the guy. You need to be a little careful here. Not every guy can go MSOG, thus you could convert an otherwise satisfied sensation into a sensation of inadequacy. Preferable to part on a high note I think. Furthermore too much post coital attention might send the wrong guy the wrong message. I doubt very much these guys that get done in 30 mins , thank you, then leave, are feeling theyre not getting their moneys worth. Its much more likely that you're just that good. well from now on i will make sure they take care of me first ..over and over and over again...just to make sure they stay until their time is up...hehe Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
AttilaTheHun 356 Report post Posted August 27, 2009 Maybe he didn't know how "to take care of you" or felt intimidated by the variety of toys you have. All kidding aside, I suspect that is very inexperienced in the hobby world and or sex in general. He may have felt that he did his duty and you should be happy with that as he has always "done it" that way. ATH well from now on i will make sure they take care of me first ..over and over and over again...just to make sure they stay until their time is up...hehe Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ragnaglar 440 Report post Posted August 27, 2009 I think it has to be one or all three of these things, not all hobbiests are comfortable with the hobby itself Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Emma Alexandra 123368 Report post Posted August 27, 2009 thanks for all the replies...i was just curious...i'm thinking its just because he was a new client with me and probably just shy...its all cool...just to let everyone know that doesn't know me... i'm cool and want everyone to enjoy their time with me to its fullest......kisses n licks Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
etasman2000 15994 Report post Posted August 27, 2009 i'm cool and want everyone to enjoy their time with me to its fullest......kisses n licks ahem....from your website "And remember if I don't cum you don't leave!" i would escape as soon as i can too :shock: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Annessa 22743 Report post Posted August 27, 2009 I had this with one client...he'd leave and I would almost be astounded how much time was left on the clock....and that he had left quickly and always left the proper donation untouched (as I thought the reason he left so fast was because he might had deducted it, lol) and the second time it happened I asked him what the rush was, he said soething to the effect of "I rush into things like this without my head...and it feels awesome and you're amazing but once I have my release I cant help but fee there are a couple things nagging in the back of my hed while I'm just laying back and conversing. things I should be doing on my day off...its fills my head and I have a hard time focusing around my lovely company while i th back of my head I'm making myself feel guilty because I shold be getting around to other things" totally understandable and totally honest, mind you this guys was what I would describe as one of the busiest businessmen I knew. and I would never want to be the reason he felt stressed about his daily duties. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest f***2f*** Report post Posted August 27, 2009 I think it's the same reason that some people prefer fast food over fine dining....it's quick, satisfies a need and it's on to other things. I prefer fine dining myself!! The food is better, I stay satisfied longer and the company is awesome!:mrgreen: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jerican 657 Report post Posted August 27, 2009 But there are sooo many fun ways to make sure she lets you leave! I always make sure I give her many reasons! :twisted: ahem....from your website "And remember if I don't cum you don't leave!" i would escape as soon as i can too :shock: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NotchJohnson 214123 Report post Posted August 27, 2009 It's plain and simple the reason why is because the city of Ottawa does not know how hard it is to leave from emma's place. They have those parking meters in front of her place set for 1 hr max. and every time I visit emma I always end up running out to put money in those damn things naked. Maybe this guy was too shy to run out and add some coins in it or was out of them.hahaha. Too bad is lost. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest w**lb**l Report post Posted August 27, 2009 Too often you are sent away after 20-30 minutes! Even from women on this site! That is what makes spending time with Emma so amazing! Bill Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bigdawg 474 Report post Posted August 27, 2009 probabley he felt quilty, or had an app'tt to go to, because from what I can see, he should be in a rush to get there, not to leave:D Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shymale 10234 Report post Posted August 27, 2009 i can't understand why, with a great looking lady like emma, i'd take all the time i had to cuddle with a beautiful lady. if i had to cut the time short for a reason or another i would explain to the sp the reason so she wouldn't be tinking why i left to early. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
