Wunderbar81 100 Report post Posted June 22, 2013 Hi All, I was just wondering if could get some quick advice. I have never been with a Service Provider before and definitely want to give it a try. Honestly I am quite nervous about it as I am not 100% sure of rules/procedures etc. Can anyone provide tips/comments on how things usually happen? Sorry if this is a lame question,...but I honestly have no clue. Thanks. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SexxxyRebecca 57989 Report post Posted June 24, 2013 Hi, Welcome to Cerb and the Hobby... you can take a look to the "New to this" section.. a LOT of tips about etiquette... etc http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/forumdisplay.php?f=207 Good luck & Have fun!! 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
IsaMassage 54318 Report post Posted June 24, 2013 The number one rule is respect, so from your very first contact with the lady of your choice is adress her with Respect, there is no dumb questions but you can certaily find lots of useful information on the threads! Read read read and keep reading, you would be surprise how even more experienced hobbiest and even SP s or MAs still have new things to learn.. Godd luck and WELCOME to CERB! Xo V 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Antimatter 296 Report post Posted June 27, 2013 If your first time is anything like most people's, you'll be nervous. Remember to have your donation in a plain envelope and either present it to the SP shortly after arriving or place it on a nearby surface in plain sight (coffee table, etc). Your best bet is to read the SP's etiquette type stuff on their website if they have one (or what other SPs prefer), in their ads, the forums, etc. Letting the SP know this is your first time with a provider would probably help, you'll most likely start with some talking, getting to know each other and so on. I'd also recommend a shower when you arrive as well as this will not only make sure you're clean (which EVERY SP appreciates), but also relax you a bit. If you aren't nervous, go ahead and take the lead after getting to know the SP a bit with some kissing and move on from there. If you are, she'll probably take the lead and go from there. Unless you're Don Juan I'd recommend at least a 2 hour session for your first time, it'll help having the extra time in case any issues arise (or don't! lol). 3 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PhantomKnight 7914 Report post Posted June 27, 2013 I used to take a courage shot of vodka. One shot just enough to warm my body, but not enough to have me acting stupid. It's more the positive mental effect of it that's a trick I use. :) Oh and read all of the section that was mentioned and linked above. PM if you have any more questions! 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Wunderbar81 100 Report post Posted June 27, 2013 Thanks to everyone who took the time to respond and help a newbie out. It is appreciated. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
