bk2011 681 Report post Posted June 24, 2013 Any recommendations for an SP who likes to take a bit of control when they are with a client? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Cleo Catra 178382 Report post Posted June 24, 2013 We will definitely need a bit more info on what you mean :) If it's simply an SP who takes the lead, makes sure there is no awkward dead time, a woman who can get the action started, I'd be willing to say every lady here fits the bill, as it's part of what we do :) However, if you're looking for control in the form of domination, that is something different, and there are some ladies on here who specialize in that type of play and I'm sure some gentlemen could help you find the right one for you :) 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bk2011 681 Report post Posted June 24, 2013 Just someone who can take the lead and ensure a good time for both the client and SP Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest t****ster***ke Report post Posted June 24, 2013 in that case, sounds like cleo gave you some pretty solid advice. if you prefer the woman to lead the way, just about any sp will take that knowledge and make sure you enjoy yourself - they are in the business of making you happy after all :) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Boomer 33202 Report post Posted June 24, 2013 I find the question to be quite interesting. I've only once been with a dom, and have never really embraced that sort of date. However, at times I think I would appreciate a woman who can read a situation where she can control the activity, and takes the initiative to exert her will but still knowing when it's time to back down. Let's just refer to it as a fleeting and fairly mild form of dominance. It does require seeing a provider a number of times and getting to know one another, probably best when expanding into new areas. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
piano8950 32577 Report post Posted June 25, 2013 I can vouch for Peachy. For the first time I saw her, I had absolutely no idea what to do, and she took the lead, and did it so effortlessly, it made me comfortable and enjoy the entire evening I was with her. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
castle 38816 Report post Posted June 26, 2013 She was modest enough to not mention herself but I'll put out there that Cleo Catra is superb when it comes to taking the initiative and making you feel comfortable. First time I met her I was nervous as hell, but that ended about 5 seconds after she answered the door :) Posted via Mobile Device Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Fresh start 17467 Report post Posted June 26, 2013 My advice to you is find an sp you like and ask her to take the lead. Like Cleo said all sp should be good but you must let them know. Maybe even tell them what you like. Also both peachy and Cleo will make you fell comfortable they are both sweethearts. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites