roamingguy 300292 Report post Posted July 5, 2013 Also check the lady's website If she has this icon on her website She is a reference provider Ladies and gentlemen in this lifestyle understand it's poly amorous nature. I personally can't fathom a provider expecting exclusivity on the part of a client if she has more than one client. If she expects her client to be exclusive to her, she by the same token should be exclusive to only him. And if exclusivity and monogamy take over this lifestyle, not only would the need for references be gone, clients would no longer need to write recommendations. But professional companions understand that providing a reference is about keeping other woman safe, it's not about not providing a reference in order to keep clients to themselves. Ladies want to keep each other safe, and we, as gentleman who enjoy the company of these women should do everything including screening/verification to make this a safe lifestyle Of course, icon or not, always ask the lady you wish to get a reference from if she will in fact provide you with a reference And to those ladies who have provided me with a reference, thank you A rambling RG Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites