Things That Men Want From Women but Are Afraid to Ask

[Cleo Catra 178382]

\For example:

Once in a while, for no reason at all, I would like for you to give me a quickie. Like, just come over, lock the doors, grab the remote control, pull up your dress, straddle me, unzip my trousers, take me inside you and proceed to do me until i come. Then, plant one, big kiss on my mouth, get off and proceed to the kitchen to fix us some drinks. All this before checking the donation....

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HOT!!! I've done that :D Personally and professionally :D :D :D (A note on the 'before checking the donation' though... I do hope you've at least put it out as soon as you enter. The sad reality is that almost every one of us at one time has not gotten it first, and even by some of our BEST clients... we've been ripped off. I rarely check the amount, but I don't get naked until I see it on the table. Not trying to get off-topic...). I'm so interested to read more of these sexy ideas :D

[CristyCurves 169032]

I am a blunt and to the point kind of person and would like anyone who is in my presence to be the same. So asking for a quickie, bj, fuck, anything within reason is hot! I think a lot of ladies like this so gentlemen open your mouths and excuse me for being a tad crude -and we'll open our legs and mouths, lol!

[jafo105 39057]

HOT!!! I've done that :D Personally and professionally :D :D :D (A note on the 'before checking the donation' though... I do hope you've at least put it out as soon as you enter. The sad reality is that almost every one of us at one time has not gotten it first, and even by some of our BEST clients... we've been ripped off. I rarely check the amount, but I don't get naked until I see it on the table. Not trying to get off-topic...). I'm so interested to read more of these sexy ideas :D

 

I would never dream of ripping anyone off. But that is a good point Cleo.

 

I always have the donation ready and in an envelope on the hall table, by the front door. I also put the ladies name on the envelope so there is no mistaking that it is hers.

 

Additional Comments:

I am a blunt and to the point kind of person and would like anyone who is in my presence to be the same. So asking for a quickie, bj, fuck, anything within reason is hot! I think a lot of ladies like this so gentlemen open your mouths and excuse me for being a tad crude -and we'll open our legs and mouths, lol!

 

That is not easy, especially if the gent is shy or a little inexperienced with women. Like I am. I am always afraid that being to forward may put off the lady. OR spoil the moment.

[LeeRichards 177238]

HOT!!! I've done that :D Personally and professionally :D :D :D (A note on the 'before checking the donation' though... I do hope you've at least put it out as soon as you enter. The sad reality is that almost every one of us at one time has not gotten it first, and even by some of our BEST clients... we've been ripped off. I rarely check the amount, but I don't get naked until I see it on the table. Not trying to get off-topic...). I'm so interested to read more of these sexy ideas :D

 

Fine then Cleo....on our next visit I shall hide the donation somewhere and I promise I won't touch your boobs until you find it ......here is a hint....it will be in my pants ;) Its a party ! IN MY PANTS :)

 

Seriously tho....all I want is a hug.

[Guest webothscore]

 

 

That is not easy, especially if the gent is shy or a little inexperienced with women. Like I am. I am always afraid that being to forward may put off the lady. OR spoil the moment.

 

It sounds like you would be tactfull in any situation so you are good to go. Also, if you join the "lost are of dirty talk" group, your chances are better ;)

[Nippongakki 3843]

I (like most men) am very visual. I have asked in the past to be lead into a ladies incall with my eyes closed so that whatever sexy outfit she has chosen can be revealed to me all at once! I'll close my eyes (a blindfold would be nice too) outside the door and have her lead me in, take off my coat (I have the envelope in my inside pocket, easily visible), shirt and pants and sit me down on the bed or couch in my underpants. Then she tells me to open my eyes when she's got everything where she wants it for the big reveal! Soooo HOT!

[Guest **cely***r***ne]

If one is confidant - as we all should be- given the job at hand, being this courageous shouldn't be a problem right?! Aaaah! If it were only that easy! I've wanted to just come in the door rip my clothes off and run at the gent waiting, and just please wildly! However, my darn shyness just gets in the way and I'm always afraid that its too bold/brazen! So thank you for this thread! Maybe when I return the first gent will be in for quite the surprise!

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[PhantomKnight 7914]

I would love to come home in between work and the gym period and to have my woman pin me down somewhere then proceed to give give me a BJ then once done, to get up brush herself off then tell me to get my butt to the gym. No hassle. Pure selfish joy for me. Just hot passion. Then encourage me to knock out my gym session. (Which is religious to me)

 

Sadly If I asked for it, it would lose its excitement and probably cause an argument. Sigh.

[jafo105 39057]

If one is confidant - as we all should be- given the job at hand, being this courageous shouldn't be a problem right?! Aaaah! If it were only that easy! I've wanted to just come in the door rip my clothes off and run at the gent waiting, and just please wildly! However, my darn shyness just gets in the way and I'm always afraid that its too bold/brazen! So thank you for this thread! Maybe when I return the first gent will be in for quite the surprise!

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Thank you for sharing. It is good to hear from you dear.

 

I would definitely want to be at the head of that line, Penelope.

 

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I wish women hugged like they did when I was a kid. Hugging was part of saying hello and good bye. Now a days it seams that people are afraid to touch or afraid that the hug might imply something else.

 

There is important energy that is passed between two people when they hug. We all need a hug at least once a day.

 

Brig back the hugs as a normal part of greeting each other. PLEASE!!!

 

I know you ladies do your part when with a client. I am talking about all the other times -- in every day greetings.

 

[Guest **cely***r***ne]

Thank you for sharing. It is good to hear from you dear.

 

I would definitely want to be at the head of that line, Penelope.

 

Additional Comments:

I wish women hugged like they did when I was a kid. Hugging was part of saying hello and good bye. Now a days it seams that people are afraid to touch or afraid that the hug might imply something else.

 

There is important energy that is passed between two people when they hug. We all need a hug at least once a day.

 

Brig back the hugs as a normal part of greeting each other. PLEASE!!!

 

I know you ladies do your part when with a client. I am talking about all the other times -- in every day greetings.

 

 

 

You got it babe! ;)

I love hugs there's no other way to greet a person! It is a must in my opinion! But you have to hug like you mean it! No awkward pats or taps on the shoulder, just big cuddle into you sensual hugs.

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[oldblueeyez 15475]

The last word? :P

[Guest M****ella's C****s (retire]

All this talk about random dirtiness is getting me excited! The wheels are truing in my head I think I might have to surprise a could choice people with some extra naughty attention!

 

And yes I agree Hugs are amazing and we really should greet people with a warm embrace and genuine heartfelt hug! There is nothing wrong with showing affection or care to people...Love is what we all crave its the core of who we all are...so embrace it!! (I don't mean a romantic love, I just me a pure natural love for people)

[Luckyme 41401]

A nice warm embrace, a heartfelt hug followed by some sensual dfk's...mmmmm..., that's a great start to an awesome encounter!

[jg24 3708]

I prefer to book on short notice for the reason it is a spur of the moment date

Sometimes you miss out but most often you will fiind a lady who likes the last minute no warning meetings Michella is one lady who most times can accomandate and no time waisted once behind closed doors and yes first thing is always a big hug

[toklat77 4616]

I'm part of the professional huggers association of Canada (HAC) and I hug women all the time as I have a card and we even give out Air Miles! When I first meet a lovely lady I like to find out (after the hug!) if she is aggressive or passive and if she is somewhat aggressive and likes dirty talk then that's even better as I am also a standing member of the Talk Dirty to Women Until They Cum Association (TDTWUTCA)! We have to be careful with our acronym as it is also a word in an African tribe in Kenya and it means "You did what with my daughter!"

[Guest webothscore]

I would think that staying within the borders of being tactful while addressing your fantasies as well is more than welcome. After all, the SPs do not seem shy about what they like and that's the beauty of it all.

[Wolf Knight 29667]

I don't really have something that I wanted to "ask" for but I will make an observation from my own personal experience. It's been mentioned before in this thread.

 

I had an experience with a lady that was our second visit together (if she read's this she'll definitely know who she is). The first visit was kind of a "getting to know you" visit and quite frankly we were hot for each other, and definitely not done when I left her. For a couple of days we traded sexy, hot, passion building messages. Finally, I literally couldn't stand it any longer and had to visit with her. I knew she had an opening in her schedule and I messaged her that I was coming to her. A little while later I knocked on the door. When she opened it not a word was said (honestly there was too much heat between us at that point) we just looked at each other and I grabbed her and pinned her against the wall right inside the door. We kissed hard and the passion raged wildly. No words were spoken, just desire. We tore at each others clothes and threw them on the floor. It was a raw animal need that just had to be sated. We had very intense, mind blowing sex and never even spoke (besides a few mid orgasm curses) until it was all finished about 40min later as we lay sweating and panting against each other. It was truly one of the most remarkable sexual experiences of my life because it was so raw and needy on both our parts.

 

So I will say this, ladies if you have a client that you've seen before and are comfortable with and want to blow his mind do this. If he contacts you for a visit tell him that you've been thinking about him hoping he would call and tell him that you're very hot for him. Build up the passion just prior to the encounter. When he shows up and you open the door just grab him and wildly go at it like you can't stand to be without him anymore. No chit chat, just be raw and needy. It'll make him feel so great to be desired in such an animalistic way.

 

I know Cleo mentioned the donation aspect but with a client you know and trust and have seen in the past you might feel more comfortable with this. You could even do the email transfer so there is no need for cash at all. Guys if you do need to pay in cash just have it in your hand when she opens the door so that she can see it easily and know its there and then just grab you and give you the time of your life.

 

Shit, I'm totally hot now and the lady I just talked about is not around today. Fuck that! :)

[Midnite-Energies 110563]

I love this thread and the raw passion emanating from it. Unfortunately when one is a MA/SP it is not so cut and dried. There are those I would love to pounce on but have only ever indicated that massage is their interest. In this case, my respect for their pleasure outweighs my own desires and I will reign myself in....be soaking wet at the end but behave myself.

 

Some have said that self torture can be good for you....

 

*rawr* wanty!!!

[Guest]

The way I see it is don't be afraid to ask a woman/escort anything. In an sp's point of view, I'm always happy to hear what clients want, any special requests and what direction the client would like the session to go into. I'm really good at guiding a session and finding out what clients want but I'm also not a mind reader. If I don't get the tell tale sings that you may want a particular act, I may not provide you with something you think is very important. Every client is different, one person may really like something and the other may hate the same thing. So if I don't see that you want something and or you don't communicate your needs, you may be unnecessarily going without. Communication, communication, communication. You may think that a sp doesn't provide a particular act, when she really does, if you don't ask.

 

Also a great way to get a last minute appointment is to look at the adds posted for that day. Call the ladies number and you may find out that, that lady is available. I know a lot of ladies have a mixture of pre-booked appointments, along with last minute appointments. I would be very confident that when a lady is doing last minute appointments, you will see an add posted. It is also important to read the add and or website too because every escort is different in her business style. This is just a helpful pointer. It's also important to know that with last minute appointments the first that come are the first that get served and sometimes a ladies time gets booked fast that way too.

[Wolf Knight 29667]

The way I see it is don't be afraid to ask a woman/escort anything. In an sp's point of view, I'm always happy to hear what clients want, any special requests and what direction the client would like the session to go into. I'm really good at guiding a session and finding out what clients wants but I'm also not a mind reader. If I don't get the tell tale sings that you may want a particular act, I may not provide you with something you think is very important. Communication, communication, communication. You may think that a sp doesn't provide a particular act, when she really does, if you don't ask.

 

Peachy is so right, we're all adults here, and this is a environment safe for sexual exploration and discovery. Talk to each other. I'm sure that there will be almost nothing that you will ask an SP that she has not heard before. These ladies are professionals completely prepared to blow your mind if you'll open yourself up to it. Plus, like Peachy said SP's are not mind readers, you'll actually be making her experience with you a whole lot more enjoyable without the stresses of wondering if she's providing you the experience that you want. The SP doesn't know the things that you like best unless you communicate them to her. Believe me they only want to give you the best experience they can so that they'll get a repeat client.

 

At first I was nervous to ask for things and lead the encounter and in the heat of the moment didn't feel right saying can we do "this" or "that". So now up front in my communication with the SP before the date I mention what I want from the experience and confirm her do's and don'ts. I prefer to lead the encounter, to give the lady the experience so to speak and with the limit's or ok'd acts set out before hand I'm completely open to take over and give her the best client experience that I can.

[Guest]

Thanks, Nlwoodchuck. I try to communicate with my clients through my blog, website, threads and email/pm. I hope that we all can be open enough to communicate our needs to each other.

[Wolf Knight 29667]

Getting back to the OP's first post. He specifically mentioned the fact that it's awesome if the lady initiates the sex. I think this is universal fact. Men love women who openly display their love of sex and specifically that woman's desire to have sex with said man. To know a lady is horny for you and can't get enough of you is amazing and every mans dream.

 

Too often it's the position where the man is reduced to begging for sex from their SO or having to go without entirely. Hence this industry. That's the amazing part about visiting with SP's many men who have felt "rejected" for a long time finally hear yes. However, if that "yes" by the SP is accompanied by apparent genuine lust for the man it takes his experience to another level. To feel wanted and desired is a powerful thing for us humans.

[piano8950 32577]

I came in to say that I appreciate this thread a lot. I've pondered on a sort of fantasy for a while that isn't even outlandish, just a bit selfish, so I've been hesitant about communicating it. Nice to see I'm not alone, and there are SPs so willing to entertain ideas (way more than I previously imagined)