mod 135639 Report post Posted September 4, 2009 Hi UK, I think you should stay away from CL (Especially as a noobie! we don't want your first experiences being a nightmare) have you tried http://www.escorts-canada.com? (or the more discrete http://www.lyla.com (Same ads but without the visiting ads). Escorts-Canada is much more reputable than CL. The ladies on CERB (especially those who have long recommendations) will usually not NO-SHOW on you as they rely on their reputation! You also should look up the legal threads here (in the newbie section) - your take on the laws is not 100% accurate but yes some of the ladies don't know the laws either and are very paranoid about talking about sex acts and money exchange (until they are in private with you that is). Please stay away from CL (It's just scam after scam) it has lots of good ladies too but you need to really be on the lookout and it's not a place for a noob! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
A***** A***** 510 Report post Posted September 4, 2009 I am sorry to hear about your bad luck, and more or less likely a case of blue balls (not fun) Welcome to cerb, and hopefully you will find what you are looking for. Hell if the champagne had been Gold Cristal i would have been all over it (only kidding ;-) ) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest s******ecan**** Report post Posted September 4, 2009 Stick with the ladies here on CERB. I've seen a lot of stories about negative experiences with CL. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jerican 657 Report post Posted September 4, 2009 Well written account UrbanKid...I am fairly new to the hobby (March)but had success fairly quickly because I am an avid researcher and I am very patient when I choose to do something. I think my introduction to this hobby went so well because I started with Massage Providers. Joining CMJ (search for it on the board)was one of the best things I could have done because it brought me into this world in a way that wasn't as intimidating or nerve wracking. Heck all I had to do was lie on a table and let a woman spoil me. After a few visits with MP's I found myself wanting more intimacy and adventure so I approached a very feisty redhead on this board and had a great first experience in the SP world (thanks Red!). It all came down to getting in my head what I wanted from the experience and taking the time to communicate with the person I wanted to meet. I think you now know the best spot to look for details on amazing women and many of them are incredibly approachable via PM on this board or e-mail. As mentioned I would avoid CL till you are a bit more savvy (and potentially always as I do) and look at the announcements and recommendations section to validate your ideas on what you want. CERB is a community and we are pretty protective of the women on here, but if you dig deep and show respect there are great discussions, great members and above all amazing women you can encounter. Good luck in the future! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shymale 10234 Report post Posted September 4, 2009 cerb is a great place for hobbiest, lots of input for the ladies, great exchange. it's a great place to find amazing sp. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
d*mm*y 887 Report post Posted September 4, 2009 In the good old days (early 80's) you just went window shopping on Clearance and Dalhousie. The ladies all had very short skirts and very tall boots lots of fun!! But I think striking out a week straight is a record!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
slurp 7020 Report post Posted September 5, 2009 Gee, that was a week of rotten luck but good experience for the real deal to come..... we hope! Makes me think maybe I could start a new career as a hobbyist's consultant. Send me your noobies and I send me back seasoned hobbyists ..... hmmmmmm OK, I'm gonna be an HC specializing in asian and redhead referrals .... LOL:razz: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
VedaSloan 119179 Report post Posted September 5, 2009 OK, that was so endearing, I want to hug you! Or ravage you, I'm not sure which ;) Welcome to CERB! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Andee 220524 Report post Posted September 5, 2009 Most of the people advertising on CL clearly state no e-mails. I would imagine some of them don't even post their own ads or have easy access to a computer. They are just in it for the short term gain. As suggested, stick to the reputable sites such as Escorts-Canada and CERB. I do advertise on CL, but I also advertise here, and I do answer e-mails. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
A***** A***** 510 Report post Posted September 5, 2009 Most of the people advertising on CL clearly state no e-mails. I would imagine some of them don't even post their own ads or have easy access to a computer. They are just in it for the short term gain. As suggested, stick to the reputable sites such as Escorts-Canada and CERB. I do advertise on CL, but I also advertise here, and I do answer e-mails. Same here. I advertise on cl, cerb and escorts canada. I only take emails through EC and cerb. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Annessa 22743 Report post Posted September 5, 2009 Thanks for sharing your experience with such a positive reflection. I know some wouldnt be as quick to laugh off a week of disappointment :-( Truly unfortunate your week in Ottawa did not bring you any luck and you had to go home unsatisfied. some good points you raised however were that sometimes investing in an SP takes more time than most think. A good idea in the future would be to message a few potentials the week before your visit. I often get many emails from gents who know they will be in town in a couple weeks and would liek to know if my schedule fits their visit plan. if they dont respond, then you have all the time in the word to se up your next batch of hopefuls doing something like this might help you secure something ahead of time as some girls book their weeks in advance. as for CL girls, definitely not the place to go if you are new to the hobby....as you will most likely get some girls who are new themselves. Mind you I (and some other ladies) post on CL as well but I think the ratio of cerb gals on CL to no-shows on CL are 1:10. I nodd my head to you that your experience has not left you with a bitter note to the hobby and you have looked at your experience in a positive note...however I really do wish the best of luck next time you visit. There are some real gems in this industry and hopefully you land one next time that will more than make up for this week for you :-) xo Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
teched 418 Report post Posted September 5, 2009 A very interesting and entertaining read. I feel bad that nothing worked out for you, but it will. I look forward to your first recommendation. teched Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
d*mm*y 887 Report post Posted September 5, 2009 It did cause me to reflect on my week last week.... hmmm very different :D Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
