cordsboy 184 Report post Posted September 7, 2009 Okay this question has been on my mind for sometime... How important is it to you that the SP offers kissing? Personally I much prefer spending time with an SP when kissing is included; I find that it makes the experience much more exciting and sensual. Now I tend to only see SP's that offer GFE so this is in most cases a non issue. While I can understand why some SP do not offer kissing I would like to hear from SP's as well as to why or why not (just curious). Thanks :-? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Emma Alexandra 123368 Report post Posted September 7, 2009 Well for me if you don't want to kiss me i don't want to see you. Kissing is the promise of things to come...sensual and passionate. I can tell by the way you kiss what kind of lover you will be..must love to kiss.. Emma A Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
coachg 388 Report post Posted September 7, 2009 Well for me if you don't want to kiss me i don't want to see you. Kissing is the promise of things to come...sensual and passionate. I can tell by the way you kiss what kind of lover you will be..must love to kiss..Emma A It is very easy to kiss those sweet lips of yours Emma....and the promise of things to come is deeply fulfilled...just think...it all started with "just a kiss"...but what a kiss. Kissing is definately a must in my criteria of a SP, that is where the passion all starts. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
d*mm*y 887 Report post Posted September 7, 2009 I think it is an important part of the GFE experience and without it it's just not GFE it's just a shag. I spent time with some ladies that are not open to it, however I do not repeat. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shymale 10234 Report post Posted September 7, 2009 kissing is very important, it hads to the sensuality of the experience. if kissing is not permitted i will not repeat. this is a must for me. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
teched 418 Report post Posted September 7, 2009 I would like to see the SP side of this discussion but as a hobbiest kissing adds so much to the fantasy. It is one thing I watch for in a recommendation. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jerican 657 Report post Posted September 7, 2009 Kissing to me is essential to the experience, it is the first steps towards each other, the way you gauge your progression with someone and the start of the passion and intimacy. Without kissing it just devolves to a mechanical process imho. I make sure (as best I can) that anyone I see is OK with all types of kissing. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PistolPete 61421 Report post Posted September 7, 2009 I think it is an important part of the GFE experience and without it it's just not GFE it's just a shag. I spent time with some ladies that are not open to it, however I do not repeat. Likewise, I just don't go back.,sorry ladies:-( Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
s********m 116 Report post Posted September 7, 2009 Kissing is a great ice breaker an absolute must with me !! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kathryn Bardot 99339 Report post Posted September 7, 2009 Kissing to me is essential to the experience, it is the first steps towards each other, the way you gauge your progression with someone and the start of the passion and intimacy. Without kissing it just devolves to a mechanical process imho. I make sure (as best I can) that anyone I see is OK with all types of kissing. This, exactly. Without kissing, there is very little passion, very little fun. Unless, of course, it's part of a roleplaying scenario.. ;) Posted via Mobile Device Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
lookinggg 125 Report post Posted September 7, 2009 Ms Kate and SoccerMom >sign me up please! This, exactly. Without kissing, there is very little passion, very little fun. Unless, of course, it's part of a roleplaying scenario.. ;)Posted via Mobile Device Posted via Mobile Device Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
pipercub 795 Report post Posted September 7, 2009 Kissing for me is a must. It sets the mood and level of passion and leeds into some really erotic encounters. The better the kisses the more passionate I am and the more I am willing to please my lady.:-D Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Capital Hunter 18263 Report post Posted September 7, 2009 Kissing is everything to me. A make or break, I would say. Whenever I used to call for ladies I used to spend plenty of time researching, to ensure that their (advertised) GFE services included kissing and I have an almost perfect record in finding the right one (with a few exceptions as one to remain nameless agency with a silver tongue convinced me of GFE service whereas they were not). In fact to be honest I feel more stressed (than before) if I have a lady and kissing/passion is excluded. I feel bad about myself. In the strip bars we kiss and kiss and kid so much in the CR (among other things), I feel like I am in heaven for a few hours. At least there I can stop the dance if kissing is not there after the first song but I rarely have had any problem with kissing part in the SCs. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
geo007 203 Report post Posted September 7, 2009 Personal opinion. Please don't get me wrong, I totally accept an SPs decision not to offer kissing as long as it's upfront. I'm on in years and in my life I have never had a girlfriend who didn't kiss me. For me, no kissing = no girlfriend just a friend who is a girl. It surprised and disappointed me when once an SP described as GFE would not kiss (nor DATY) . I call that false advertising. I can understand if an SP isn't into it but she should not be described as a GFE but just an SP. That is why I now count on cerb recommendations so I don't get f***ed again. Kissing is an absolute must for me as I would prefer to spend an hour just kissing, cuddling and fondling than just intercourse which I can replace with a personalised handjob. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Capital Hunter 18263 Report post Posted September 7, 2009 Kissing is an absolute must for me as I would prefer to spend an hour just kissing, cuddling and fondling than just intercourse which I can replace with a personalised handjob. If I may say so geo, you are a strip bar type of guy:smile:. In an hour you can kiss several different beautiful ladies of your choice (whom you can see in flesh and talk to prior to choosing) for the same price or less:-D. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
AttilaTheHun 356 Report post Posted September 7, 2009 Kissing is the first step to feeling out the persons passion. If they kiss well and with passion then I know the session will be great. I don't think I can even get hard without kissing, so for me its a must. If the escort won't kiss I'm sorry but I won't stay. Of course I will never show up in a condition where the escort would have a reason not to kiss me, ie unshaven, having eaten a garlic or onions or in a drunken state. ATH Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PistolPete 61421 Report post Posted September 7, 2009 I would like to add that some SP's that I've seen had advertised no kissing but in reality it is how each other really enjoy one another-chemistry. In other words, if you are a good kisser, and don't slobber,drool,lick their face, and are a great kisser, you may get the kissing portion.But if lick their face like a doggie..you could be shut out,which I don't blame the lady.:cooter: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
geo007 203 Report post Posted September 7, 2009 Tx for the info SA. I do strip bars once in a while but actually never even thought of kissing as was busy with other things when in the back. Must be dumb... :motion: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Capital Hunter 18263 Report post Posted September 7, 2009 Tx for the info SA. I do strip bars once in a while but actually never even thought of kissing as was busy with other things when in the back. Must be dumb... :motion: WOW, we must exchange PMs sometimes as what the other things are:smile:. And who the dancers are (just joking of course:lol:). No, likely I misunderstood your post. My impression from your post was that you prefer or like kissing much more than the other things like I do. My apology. I usually limit the other things to the special ones I have strong emotional attachments, not a dancer I have known for just 10 minutes. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kubrickfan 12836 Report post Posted September 7, 2009 Well for me if you don't want to kiss me i don't want to see you. Kissing is the promise of things to come...sensual and passionate. I can tell by the way you kiss what kind of lover you will be..must love to kiss..Emma A +1000! Without kissing, I dont think there can be the right kind of sensuality, or any kind of sensuality for that matter. Its a sign of caring and interest, not just some mechanical activity, and its a building block of trust that leads to many other wonderful things. Done properly, kissing can be the best part of the experience. I had one experience with a lady who did not kiss (although she advertised as GFE at the time, but that's another story), and although the lady was very sweet, the whole experience was fundamentally lacking. The best kissers that I have been with (Trish at OPG, Annessa, and Cameron as examples ... I haven't had the honor of meeting Emma A) will always be the best overall experiences. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bigdawg 474 Report post Posted September 8, 2009 for me kissing is a very important part, it leads up to more passion and tenderness. :D Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Andee 220524 Report post Posted September 8, 2009 I have to say at my discretion, just because some guys don't know what a toothbrush is... 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NotchJohnson 214136 Report post Posted September 8, 2009 Kissing is like drinking salted water. You drink, and your thirst increases. And this is a poem about kissing; Kisses kept are wasted; Love is to be tasted. There are some you love, I know; Be not loathe to tell them so. Lips go dry and eyes grow wet Waiting to be warmly met. Keep them not in waiting yet; Kisses kept are wasted. :cooter: A kiss is something you cannot give without taking and cannot take without giving. A peach is a peach, A plum is a plum, A kiss isn't a kiss, without some tongue, So open your mouth, Close your eyes, And give your tongue some exercise. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bylogger 136 Report post Posted September 8, 2009 Ah, T'storm, that was beautiful. Kissing for me is an exploration of the other, and expression of self. A giving and a taking. And yes, darn sensual. It is the range of kisses, the light, the gentle, the teasing, the impassioned, that add so much to the whole experience. And I brush. Kissing is like drinking salted water.You drink' date=' and your thirst increases.[/quote'] Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kathryn Bardot 99339 Report post Posted September 8, 2009 I have to say at my discretion, just because some guys don't know what a toothbrush is... Quite honestly, if their oral hygiene is non-existant, then other areas are just as bad, or worse.. Which will quickly earn them a "thanks, but no thanks"! Posted via Mobile Device 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
