H***r_d*h 147 Report post Posted September 14, 2009 So I've read all 8 pages on this thread and I'm actually amazed that noone's approached this from the male side of things. While many don't want to admit it, men are frail and sexually insecure beings. Women may have the current fashion and media generated stereotypes to contend with, but men have the old "bigger is better" and "a man's man" stigma weighing down hard on them. Honestly, have you seen the sizes of the "I'm your average Joe" huge cock porn star? Have you seen how many male enhancement pills and do-dads are on the net and in sex shops? So even though I've been with all shapes and sizes of short & long-term non-SP women, most of which expressed being satisfied as I was (Gosh, I hope they weren't lying!), that stigma is still hooked to me like a pitbull on a rubber ducky. So how do I go about stroking my poor ego now that I've decided to join the hobby? That's it, hire a spinner. Oh yeah! My cock will look soooo big in those tiny little hands and I will dominate her with my manly stature :bddog:. Perfect! And to complete my catharsis I will write about my manly conquest so that all may see that I am a "Man's man". It's just a thought, for what it's worth (usually $0.02)! 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ariane Valmont 332 Report post Posted September 14, 2009 hellojoe, I have very generous breasts and my nipples are super sensitive. And they were as sensitive when I was a D cup than they are now that I am a G cup. So either I'm an exception to the rule or what you heard is just an urban legend. ;) Homer_doh, sad to say but I think your explanation is right in many (not all!) cases. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kathryn Bardot 99339 Report post Posted September 14, 2009 and I will dominate her with my manly stature :bddog:. Perfect! And to complete my catharsis I will write about my manly conquest so that all may see that I am a "Man's man". Wouldn't it be a greater show of "manliness" to "conquer" something that isn't the size of a teacup chihuahua? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
etasman2000 15994 Report post Posted September 14, 2009 Wouldn't it be a greater show of "manliness" to "conquer" something that isn't the size of a teacup chihuahua? LOL ah but a small petite thing needs our manly protection :rolleyes: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Emma Alexandra 123367 Report post Posted September 14, 2009 So I've read all 8 pages on this thread and I'm actually amazed that noone's approached this from the male side of things. While many don't want to admit it, men are frail and sexually insecure beings. Women may have the current fashion and media generated stereotypes to contend with, but men have the old "bigger is better" and "a man's man" stigma weighing down hard on them. Honestly, have you seen the sizes of the "I'm your average Joe" huge cock porn star? Have you seen how many male enhancement pills and do-dads are on the net and in sex shops? So even though I've been with all shapes and sizes of short & long-term non-SP women, most of which expressed being satisfied as I was (Gosh, I hope they weren't lying!), that stigma is still hooked to me like a pitbull on a rubber ducky. So how do I go about stroking my poor ego now that I've decided to join the hobby? That's it, hire a spinner. Oh yeah! My cock will look soooo big in those tiny little hands and I will dominate her with my manly stature :bddog:. Perfect! And to complete my catharsis I will write about my manly conquest so that all may see that I am a "Man's man". It's just a thought, for what it's worth (usually $0.02)! bigger isn't always better that's for sure....sometimes the dudes with the giant cock thinks he doesn't have to do anything because your so mesmerized by his member that you will cum just looking at it...lol... the perfect size for me is average-it hits all the right spots... as far as the do dads go they are just trying to make money of a man's insecurity... so far that has been my experience..... Quote: Originally Posted by YoungStud I totally agree. There's really no correlation between breast size and nipple sensitivity. Small and hot, big and hot; doesn't matter as long as those nips are on the mainline to an orgasm. Lol. My understanding was that smaller breasts will actually tend to be more sensitive, as the nerve endings are more concentrated. i have size 38dd's and my nipples are so sensitive that i can cum just from you playing with them just right...so your understanding is wrong...lol Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
VedaSloan 119179 Report post Posted September 14, 2009 bigger isn't always better that's for sure....sometimes the dudes with the giant cock thinks he doesn't have to do anything because your so mesmerized by his member that you will cum just looking at it...lol...the perfect size for me is average-it hits all the right spots... as far as the do dads go they are just trying to make money of a man's insecurity... i have size 38dd's and my nipples are so sensitive that i can cum just from you playing with them just right...so your understanding is wrong...lol And I've got 38G's and they are not sensitive. You can put clothespins on those babies, and I'd be in heaven. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cat 262460 Report post Posted September 17, 2009 An great experience is not limited by the size of the players. Size is a subjective term with no 2 people?s definitions meaning the same thing. This thread reminds me of the racism issue at home. Most people would not intentionally say a slur, nor would they think they are racist. They would not choose an unqualified white man over a qualified black man, and don?t hesitate to sit in a restaurant beside a different race, which 40 years ago was unheard of. But when the baby brings a different shade home to meet the parents, it?s a challenge to those dearly held social beliefs. Weight discrimination is out there, even if we don?t acknowledge it. The degree varies, like color discrimination. The lighter the skin...the better. The thinner the woman?the better. It?s not conscious, but it?s there. It is a societal perception and not reflective of all the individuals in the society. Discussion brings things to light, and with the light darkness cannot exist. If someone relies on a particular body type rather than the person within for the attraction stimulus, it simply means they are focused on form which is linear, rather than essence which is depth. It is not better or worse, it is simply the way they see the stardust we are all made of. Yes, the proportions have to be symmetrical to be appealing to the eye most of the time, but not always. Yes, as a society; most tend look for those bodies that visually balance. We have had decades of Playboyesque female forms to shape what we define as beautiful. To say what you like today isn?t shaped by the filters of how you view the world (which are formed over a lifetime) is simplistic. We all do it. I have 4 daughters, 1 spinner, 2 average curvys and one that is a BBW. They are all beautiful facially. The BWW is as pretty as the others, and at times even more beautiful. Shes outgoing and smart, but she is the one sitting on the couch with me on Saturday night. Only older men ask her out, and at 18 she finds that a little too weird still. In time she will realize that age isn't a factor. In the meantime she waits. I was never a spinner. I have been volumptuous from puberty, and often times just plain ole fat. I had no confidence about my body when I was young because I wasn?t slim hipped with a little ass. Did the centerfolds taped up all over my dads garage influence how I felt about my body? Absolutely! I would sit in the office and look at the "perfection". No false breasts back then, just natural, slender women. It was the '70's and I was a '50's shape. Just didn't fit the mold, but I was too young to realize. As I matured my body changed. With childbearing my hips widened, my breasts softened and internally did weird and wonderful stuff. The curves to me now represent life and all the changes that I regard as amazing. I would not trade my body type now, I embraced it years ago, but it took being an escort to realize I was attractive and desirable. We come in all shapes and sizes, which is the wonder of human beings. I think there is an issue, but it will change with time if it's recognized. It always does? Cat 6 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Report post Posted September 19, 2009 Cat, I have to say. This is the second post of yours, that I read. You should be a writer. You not only put thought into what you are writing. It is interesting to read. I have to say you are right on the money. Where I come from the mojority of people are bigger. So I was the odd one out. So I got teased and picked on.I was judged on my looks. I don't look back at that because it made me the person I am today. It's to bad that some people even still today. Just can't see past looks. But you are right. Talking about it makes us think and maybe take the negative out of it. Unfortunately there will always be negative people out there. So you first have to start with yourself. No matter what size you are, color,or sexual orientation. Let your ture self shine and possibly that will touch someone in the right way. I can see it being human nature. To choose the type of woman. That is in the spot light because every where you go. There are glamorus pictures. Of girls even skinner than me. I believe the more that this is challenged and the more woman are proud of their bodies. You will see all types of bodys in hollywood. For example Kim Cardashian. (I don't know if I spelled that right.) I think that someone else had put in their post. That throughout history. The image of beauty has changed. For example full figured woman were once considerd beautiful. Lets hope that all women will be celebrated. If not around the world at least here on cerb. My last thoughts on this. XOXO. Peachy/Val. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest f***2f*** Report post Posted September 19, 2009 The Cat is back....rawr!!!!!:mrgreen: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest S**a*Q Report post Posted September 19, 2009 Bodysize, looks, physical aspects of someone... That's something that can and will change. Although it is the first thing that attracts us to someone else, as we know nothing about them. However, it's personality or chemistry between two people that moves it past the lust and will create a mental relationship. I was, what my mom liked to call me, "big boned" in high school... (Nice way for mom to say "fat"... hehe) It was still rough on me, as kids are cruel and fitting in is all you want at that time, but what I lacked in physically, allowed me to build a personality, since I didn't have looks to attract people to me. I was the funny one, which I still kinda am, but I think having been "thin" a spinner or whatnot, may not have allowed me to become the person that I am. I'm not saying that those who were thin have no personality, everyone is different, I just think that in my life, not having the looks back then, saved me in a way. I had to build something to make me interesting... Now at 31, I stand 5'9 at 140 lbs. I guess I'm considered "normal", but I have that personality still ;) I love people and I strive to build relationships with everyone I meet. Of course it's easier now to tempt people to meet me, or whatnot. I wonder though, if the caliber of people I meet has changed, having physically changed myself... Does superficiality affect the relationships we're in with others? Do I now attract people that maybe I don't need to meet to grow personally? When I was heavier, were the relationships more fulfilling as I just want to meet "real" people? I went off on a tangent there a little, but I think that bodysize only makes up for a little... Once you talk to the person, people can become sexually more attractive, it's all about chemistry & personality. The spinner complex may just seem more apparent in this industry because we are attracted to the physical appearance first... Hating labels, not wanting to be "average"... I chose my own, I prefer "Hottie VonFunsexual" If I like you, I hump you and I'm cute... Hehehe :D Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
