Emma Alexandra 123368 Report post Posted September 15, 2009 Everyone relax ...take a deep breath...now let it out...everyone has a different opinion on this subject well on any subject really...and that's that....lets all just be happy and enjoy what we enjoy big kiss and hug to all of you, Emma A:-) Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
drakkar 131 Report post Posted September 15, 2009 Once again this old debate is about tolerance and how to coexist in peace, setting limits based on our own limits and experiences, thus assuming that we are right. Everybody is entitled to do what they want as long as is their free will and shouldn't be judged for doing so. The poly activities are just that, group activities, after all we humans are sociable. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ragnaglar 440 Report post Posted September 15, 2009 Agreed this turned from asking for tolerance and respect of an adults decision to choose or not to choose an activity, to stories of why I think Greek is bad and drugs causing bad decisions. . Listen drugs (even perscribed) it's still the individuals decision to choose, and the participants choice not to. Lets all agree. Free will is good, choice is good drugs and clear headedness do not go hand in hand a person has a right to participate and do so without fear of assault ( verbal or otherwise ) and just to be a broken record. No one is asking to be saved. No damsels in distress, no victims..I recall this forum to be about the Canadian Escort recommendaion board, not the girl scouts/Christian Womans league.... you get my point. if you do not like an activity, do not participate or even more, inform yourself of said activity, it will make you happier in the end. If you do something and it hurts in not a good way stop or don't, you are a grown up you can make up your own mind. And the whole Greek thing is blown out of proportion. .I have a great PDF on the subject of Greek by Tristan Taormina called Pucker-up. Pm me for more info or go to your local adult entertainment store like Venus envy or the like.. . Once again this old debate is about tolerance and how to coexist in peace, setting limits based on our own limits and experiences, thus assuming that we are right.. Everybody is entitled to do what they want as long as is their free will and shouldn't be judged for doing so. . The poly activities are just that, group activities, after all we humans are sociable. Posted via Mobile Device Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TRman 536 Report post Posted September 15, 2009 Interesting thread. I was informed of the "sub-human" wording last week and was quite shocked. Very strange comment from anyone to anyone. As can be easily seen, there are some very intelligent people on this board. Consulting acts amongst adults is no business of anyone except those involved as long as our imposed so-called moral standards (laws) are upheld. We could have laws that target idiots, but who would make them? A wide reaching stereotype is insulting to hear and should just be chaulked up by the ignorance of the message sender. I do agree that GB has a certain negative connotation, poly does sounds better - thx Annessa for that observation. Life is about the experience. Keep judgements to the bathroom mirror as they should be. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ragnaglar 440 Report post Posted September 15, 2009 Life is about the experience. Keep judgements to the bathroom mirror as they should be. lol... I agree, a great statement! Posted via Mobile Device Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Report post Posted September 16, 2009 Reading the many posts. Just highlights Dummpy's example. That sexual judgment is everywhere. Okey stop, take a step back and look at yourself in the mirror. Think of all the things you have done. Okey, now judge. It is easy to say this and that about someone. But think about what you would feel like. If the same was said about you. I also have to add. That this is a positive site. I think saying that a girl is on meds and so on and so on. Is a private matter. If the girl really said this. You should not be spreading this. This is a private matter. SA, really, come on. If that girl really can't think for herself. You should not be with her at all. I will say again. I was in some group play. I am 110 pounds. I was not dominated at anytime and I also had a blast. I enjoyed the guys and even more enjoyed the lady. I'm smiling about it right now. I have said many times. That greek is kind of like when you first start having sex. When you are a begginer. You have to take it nice and slow. use lots of lube. That does not mean, I don't like it. If it's done right. It can be very enjoyable. All I have to say is think before you post something. about others. That could be very damaging to that person. XOXO. Peachy/Val. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TRman 536 Report post Posted September 17, 2009 ...and Peachy, this is why I must see you! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mod 135640 Report post Posted September 17, 2009 I think we can put this one to rest for now right? secret_admirer voluntarily removed the posts he made here. He will be taking a few months away from the site as he agreed that he could use a break (we can all tell he needed one - including him). Let's let him have some time away and hope he comes back with his thoughts sorted out and back to his old self. We don't want to dwell on the negative as we all get out of sorts at times. He will be welcome back in a few months if he chooses to come back. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites