FLESHPROP 120 Report post Posted July 26, 2013 I recently choose my first escort in about 10 years. Choice is probably the wrong word since my experiences were through an agency in Vancouver, but I've had some experience with the world's oldest profession is my point. I used a common website and how i went about my decision was based on whether or not they had a website. If they had one I figured they weren't some random girl looking to take advantage of a poor man's lonely libido. The more detailed their website the better. I also based it on whether they had toured their trade at all. Any lady willing to take the time and money to travel with no guarantee of making that money back and then hopefully a profit beyond that is, in my mind, legitimate. With that said the finally bit of criteria is their email etiquette. If it takes you more than 48 hrs to respond to my email, then I'm going to assume that I said something wrong to offend you or you don't respect my time and money. Communication is key for all professions even for ladies of the night. Unless you've been in the hospital or someone has died or something else tragic has happened then there is no reason to not conduct your business. If you have time for your twitter account then you have time to respond to my email. Just some thoughts for the newbies out there trying to find the right first lady. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Meaghan McLeod 179664 Report post Posted July 26, 2013 Welcome Fleshprop to Cerb. One thing I would point out. Not everyone works 24/7. Sometimes we take time off. Sometimes this time is pre-planned and we usually announce this. Other times it is spur of the moment, and so there might not be an announcement. Sometimes technology fails, and we can't get to our emails (or text messages or pm's), or we are not in a position to answer our inquiries within a reasonable amount of time. It is ok to resend your email if you don't get a response. Make sure you are following her protocol. Most ladies require specific information before they will respond. Always be respectful in your inquiries. The one thing you did not include in your options are the recommendations on this board. That is usually a great starting point for your search. Now, one more post, and you come out of moderation. Have a great day! 3 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
roamingguy 300292 Report post Posted July 26, 2013 I have to agree with Meghan. I have sent emails to ladies and as it turned out they never received them. So I do resend Sometimes the lady is on a couple days break and doesn't answer her emails during that time (ladies need a rest too you know, remember for the men an escape, the ladies, their livelihood)...so they give themselves a "weekend" on occasion, That "weekend" means nothing related to their livelihood...they need a break Ladies may also do this part time, and have another job as well Some ladies tour, and not all parts of the country have good internet or cell phone service, so that may explain a delay And not all emails sent are polite, respectful...some are rude and vulgar, don't ever expect a reply to those So my advice is if you send a email and have no reply, me, since I plan far ahead, I give it one week approx. and then re-send, if I haven't heard a reply. Something else, after you send your email, also send a PM (this amongst other things confirms your board handle) saying you sent her an email A rambling RG 4 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest fi****ek Report post Posted July 31, 2013 If it takes you more than 48 hrs to respond to my email, then I'm going to assume that I said something wrong to offend you or you don't respect my time and money. Communication is key for all professions even for ladies of the night. Unless you've been in the hospital or someone has died or something else tragic has happened then there is no reason to not conduct your business. If you have time for your twitter account then you have time to respond to my email. Just some thoughts for the newbies out there trying to find the right first lady. Why are you taking things so personally? You're not in any position to dictate how a lady conducts her business and admonishing her to attend to her business within a 48 hour time frame or else, makes you a problem high maintenance client, she probably would be wise to avoid. As a newbie, why in the hell would I adopt such an aggressive attitude? Since its obvious, in your mind, that you didn't say anything wrong, then if a lady doesn't answer in your arbitrary 48 hour time frame, its because she's disrespecting you. Communication is key? Yeah, well, so let's letting things slide and rolling with the punches. If you get let in five minutes past your appointment, are you going to throw a hissy fit and lecture her about professionalism? About the importance of being on time? I've learned from bitter experience, to not get defensive, to soften my approach with women, to speak gently and attempt to present the best possible version of me instead of the worst. Their game, their rules, if you want to play, adjust and make allowances. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Winnipegcub 21293 Report post Posted July 31, 2013 Everyone has their own approach to this. I will add one aspect which has worked extremely well for me. PLANNING - I know it doesn't work for everyone but the encounters I've been able to plan well ahead of time are generally better. It allows for any technical glitches or absences so that we have time to initially connect. It presents an opportunity to have some exchange in advance on all business aspects. I can provide a little more about me and learn more about the lady to better know if we might click. It gives us (ME) time to anticipate and get excited over days prior to our meeting. If you can plan ahead a little - my sense is the odds are with you that things will work out well. Cub 7 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mprobert 170 Report post Posted August 27, 2013 I know I haven't been with a lot the sp's out there. But the ones i have been with, were totally worth the time! My suggestion is to be upfront and ask the questions you want. Lots of them. Details, go there and if you don't get the answers you want, then maybe that one isn't for you. There are plenty of sp's out there, it's up to you to filter out the ones best suited for you! Hope this bit helps. Cheers and have fun! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
JackShagsJill 225 Report post Posted August 29, 2013 ...in hobbying as much as is in life :-) Take the time to research and plan ahead using polite communications, knowing ahead of time, once again like life in general, not everything in hobbying works out - due to many understanding reasons. Take any clear 'unprofessionalism' on behalf of either party simply as a sign the stars are not meant to align for you at this time in space - thus move on, it's not worth stewing over (just live and learn), as there are many more beautiful ladies out there whom are mature professionals and can more than satisfy your cravings. Believe you me! ...and as part of your research - Welcome to CERB! Check out the recos here, as they can help guide you toward more reputable ladies - the info and community are here to help, as you can see :-) (...and don't forget to leave a reco if you have if you have 1 to share - Thx!) Now, once you find the right lady for you - then the journey will only make the destination taste that much more sweet :-D Among other techniques and perspectives, I call this: Zen and the Art of Hobbying ;-) Wax on, Wax off young Grasshopper! 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
