Who is the best incall to go the first time

[soleil2009 100]

Hi Guys,

 

I am new to CERB. I am 25 years old and I admit that I am still a virgin :oops:, I want to get my frustration off by going to an incall.

 

Can you please tell me who do you think is the best lady to go to if I want to loose my viriginity. I may be nervous the first time so I want to go to a lady who actually can understand this.

 

Thanks!!

[m**k 153]

I think that you will want to find a girl that you like because you wouldn't want this to be anything else but the best time you've ever had. There are many wonderful ladies here that offer incall. Personally, I like Peachy and Jazy but look at the recommendations section and select a girl that suits your fancy. Also, there are many ladies who mainly do outcalls but often post their availability for incalls, so read the schedules section once in a while.

 

Once you've picked the girl of your dreams, I suggest that you book for 2 hours, get a nice bottle of wine (ask her what she likes first), take your time, treat her like the princess that she is... and enjoy the ride.

 

I wouldn't recommend going through an agency for your first time, unless the girl is well recommended and she is what you are looking for physically.

 

hope this helps

 

P.S. stay away from CL

[etasman2000 15994]

Can you please tell me who do you think is the best lady to go to if I want to loose my viriginity.

 

The best lady to go to is one that you find

 

 

• physically attractive
  
• intellectually simulating
  
• emotional chemistry
  

 

The first one is easy enough, look at their pics either here on cerb or their individual websites.

 

The last two would require you to read any recommendations they might have and write and have a dialogue with them before the visit. Yes this does take some prep work on your part.

 

Now, if your end goal is just to lose your virginity then looking at pics to make your initial selection and narrow down using their recommendations would be sufficient.

 

Most, if not all, of the well recommended ladies would be glad to help someone new out.

 

My 2 cents.

[sexnonstop724 1727]

I suggest you look for a lady who has more experience. She would be able to help you overcum some anxiety.

[v*****m*n 220]

for the first time I would stay away from Lili Love, she will ruin you for life, on the other hand, hell go for it, she is a wild one.

[ekimout 188]

for the first time I would stay away from Lili Love, she will ruin you for life, on the other hand, hell go for it, she is a wild one.

 

That's funny; I was thinking the same thing, Lili love!

Wow! She would be awesome for a first time. Be sure to let her know it's your first time though and she may go easy on you...who am I kidding, she will blow you away.

 

All joking aside, there are a lot of great ladies on CERB who would be more than happy to accommodate your request, answer any questions you have and provide you with a great experience. These ladies have seen it all and have the experience to deal with any situation.

 

I would recommend as it's been previously stated in this thread, pick an SP that you are attracted to by viewing the albums on this site. Check out Escort Canada as well (there is a link at the bottom of the main page here). Read through the recommendation section on CERB for the ladies you are interested in. Make contact with an SP you would like, let her know it's your first time and ask questions.

 

I also reccomend if possible you spend two hours with the SP of your choice. It will give you an opportunity to relax, take your time and not rush things.

 

You will not be disappointed if you do a little research and pick an SP you feel comfortable with.

 

Good Luck, and let us know how it turns out.

[Guest]

Hello, Soleil2009

My first time was so special. That I still remember it today. I think you should take your time on this. I think you should talk to not one but as many girls as you can, on here. I'm sure that the girls will be understanding about this. We all started with no experience. You came to the right place tho, hun. We will take good care of you. Wink, wink. Take a look at my website and pm me anytime. http://www.peachyval.com/

 

P.S. Monk your the best (teehee)

[geo007 203]

Very good advice from above. Depending on your character and feelings, I'd suggest you be careful not to fall in love with your chosen SP. After the first time, select a few others to visit and put things into perspective. Bonne chance...

[Starla 100]

I'd suggest you be careful not to fall in love with your chosen SP. After the first time, select a few others to visit and put things into perspective. Bonne chance...

 

 

Does this happen often?

I have had a few clients who quickly wanted to become a boyfriend and not a client.

[bigdawg 474]

I'm sure if you check the rcommendations section you will find what you are looking for.

[ottawadave 136]

Hi,

 

If you want my reco for this situation, I nominate Jenna Lynn whose user name here is sexystar420 or something like that (just do a quick search).

 

I'll tell you why:

 

- Looks are subjective, but she's very fit & attractive IMO

- She has a lot of energy and will lead the way if you want her too

- But at the same time will be very understanding of your situation

- Her incall location was one of the most clean and professional I have ever seen (She may work out of different locations, but the one I saw her at was immaculate)

- Reasonable rates for the level of service

- Probably will be very close to the "escort experience" that you have in your head as opposed to some others who may be rushed, etc.

 

My 2 cents

[soleil2009 100]

People in this forum are very helpful, thanks for the suggestions

 

As u guys suggested, I will go through the recommendation and try to make an appointment for this weekend

[cordsboy 184]

1. Pick someone with good reviews and recommendations.

2. Pick someone you think you'll be comfortable with.

3. Pick someone you are attracted to.

 

Ah the hell with it call up a duo, ask for MSOG and empty your sack...

 

Good luck and choose wisely, treat her well and you'll be treated like a king. ;-)

[Grass_Hopper 18263]

I would suggest you read the newbies section, before starting any thread... Sorry to kill this one, but some would have told you way more roughly...

 

Second, you may want to PM the older cerbites... They have seen most of the girls around (if not all...) and they are the ones who could help you...

 

Otherise, I think you encourage shill and unwanted encounters... You never know who you're dealing with...

 

And if you can find a bit of B&S (it is a escorts website...) I agree with Monk... UNLESS A GIRL IS VERY WELL REVIEWED, STAY AWAY FROM CL...

 

Hi Guys,

 

I am new to CERB. I am 25 years old and I admit that I am still a virgin :oops:, I want to get my frustration off by going to an incall.

 

Can you please tell me who do you think is the best lady to go to if I want to loose my viriginity. I may be nervous the first time so I want to go to a lady who actually can understand this.

 

Thanks!!

[Peachka 4334]

I'm going to play Devil's advocate here & ask the question "Is this the way you want to lose your virginity?" If so, that's fine but remember you only lose it once! I would assume you have thought this out completely so best of luck.

[Grass_Hopper 18263]

... to know how many clients ask us for this... Guys who's going to be married soon, who have found women of their dreams and want to know how to deal whit her... It belongs to the sp to feel if it's a good call or not...

 

That's when you can feel the girlfriend experience... A real gfe will take the time to talk to you... To see if it's really what you want...

 

I'm going to play Devil's advocate here & ask the question "Is this the way you want to lose your virginity?" If so, that's fine but remember you only lose it once! I would assume you have thought this out completely so best of luck.

[Guest]

There is BS everywhere. Thankfully cerb is a positive place. Where newbies can get the help they need. It is a great place to ask questions and a better place to meet people. I hope you find what you are looking for. There is a great selection of ladies. So have fun selecting the lucky girl. XOXO. Peachy/Val.

[Banks 117]

I think you should think it through a little longer... You sure that's the way you want to lose your virginity?

[m**k 153]

Soleil2009 was planning on this weekend...so perhaps our boy is already man:roll: But seriously, he is the only person that can judge as to whether he wants to lose it this way. The benefit for him is that if he chooses the right sp, he will gain confidence with meeting women. I remember when I was still a virgin, it was terrifying to date because I didn`t know what to do or how I would perform. Sure, he could find a girlfriend who is cool with this, but chances are the sp will be more understanding than the average potential girlfriend. my 2 cents.

[Banks 117]

I agree it's not up to me or anyone else to decide how soleil decides to do his business...

 

I am just putting out my 2 cents as a friend or even member of this board. I just want to ensure that our friend has thought it over and is making the best decision for himself. After all it's something that you will carry with you for the rest of your life. We all have those stories of our first time and I'm sure they're all very memorable. I enjoy being able to look back on it and brag about it LoL.

 

Don't necessarily need to go out and find a girlfriend, but perhaps a night out with the boys. Afterall the fun is in the hunt ;)

[cat 262460]

I believe we all have the right to choose for ourselves the time, place and person for our first encounter.

That said, I have serious reservations about men choosing an SP for their first experience. There are many reasons to decide a professional is in order, but one must really understand the issues at hand. My concern comes from the many guests I have known, who are wonderful but obviously single men. They are smart, funny, accomplished, caring and would make great life partners. They don't date, or interact with women except on a surface level.

 

The Problem? They were shy and had difficulty asking girls out when they were younger. Instead of learning how to approach girls their own age, and develop confidence and knowledge thru the process, they opted to seek out a professional. Instead of gaining confidence by having intimate experience they found an outlet that allowed instant gratification. They never developed the necessary life skills to get into a long term relationship. They have continued to use professionals because it was the easier path. I have had dozens of these men come thru my door. Sometimes I sit quiet when they leave and reflect. A hand full of them are truly happy with their lives. They have freedom and live every day. Many of them tho, long for something more, but now they have reached their 30's and 40's struggle to learn the necessary skills needed to have a more encompassing relationship. For anyone considering this as a first experience, remember that the easier road is not always the path you want to take.

 

Cat

[Banks 117]

I believe we all have the right to choose for ourselves the time, place and person for our first encounter.

That said, I have serious reservations about men choosing an SP for their first experience. There are many reasons to decide a professional is in order, but one must really understand the issues at hand. My concern comes from the many guests I have known, who are wonderful but obviously single men. They are smart, funny, accomplished, caring and would make great life partners. They don't date, or interact with women except on a surface level.

 

The Problem? They were shy and had difficulty asking girls out when they were younger. Instead of learning how to approach girls their own age, and develop confidence and knowledge thru the process, they opted to seek out a professional. Instead of gaining confidence by having intimate experience they found an outlet that allowed instant gratification. They never developed the necessary life skills to get into a long term relationship. They have continued to use professionals because it was the easier path. I have had dozens of these men come thru my door. Sometimes I sit quiet when they leave and reflect. A hand full of them are truly happy with their lives. They have freedom and live every day. Many of them tho, long for something more, but now they have reached their 30's and 40's struggle to learn the necessary skills needed to have a more encompassing relationship. For anyone considering this as a first experience, remember that the easier road is not always the path you want to take.

 

Cat

Wow Cat, very thoughtful and extremely well said :)

[m**k 153]

I believe that there is more to it than who the first sexual experience is with and I would suggest that the lack of a positive experience may in fact exacerbate the problem. Cat, you suggest that their shyness and difficulty asking girls out when they were younger leads them to a lifelong inability to form lasting relationships. That is the problem...and perhaps this inability cannot be simply overcome by sheer will. Having a positive sexual experience, whether or not with an sp, may increase confidence and at the very least, impart some knowledge that will help in approaching girls. Then again, many researchers suggest that the foundation for one's ability to form lasting long term relationships are formed way before someone reaches adulthood and if they are right, then all this is moot.

 

Just for the record, I'm not suggesting that this is the reason why Soleil decided to keep his virginity.

[howld 100]

A lot of wisdom there Cat.

[cat 262460]

I believe that there is more to it than who the first sexual experience is with and I would suggest that the lack of a positive experience may in fact exacerbate the problem. Cat, you suggest that their shyness and difficulty asking girls out when they were younger leads them to a lifelong inability to form lasting relationships. That is the problem...and perhaps this inability cannot be simply overcome by sheer will. Having a positive sexual experience, whether or not with an sp, may increase confidence and at the very least, impart some knowledge that will help in approaching girls. Then again, many researchers suggest that the foundation for one's ability to form lasting long term relationships are formed way before someone reaches adulthood and if they are right, then all this is moot.

 

Just for the record, I'm not suggesting that this is the reason why Soleil decided to keep his virginity.

Only Soleil knows his situation, and what I am writing is simply my experience with these types of situations.

 

Across the board, the guests I refer to have the ability to have lasting relationships, most have good relationships with family and friends, they simply never moved into the dating realm. Positive intimate relations do not increase confidence on a social level and it is not sheer will that will overcome the challenges at hand. What is necessary is a life skills plan that enables them to move thru the steps and acquire the confidence and know how necessary to interacting with women. It can be daunting, and most would benefit from having an accredited mental health care professional on board to help. Not because they are broken or sick, but to learn skills they don't have. Unfortunately asking for help isn?t something on the to-do list.

 

The easier route is simply picking up a phone and setting up an appointment with an SP. My guests threw themselves into academic and professional accomplishments and allowed that to be the main focus of their days and most nights. Achieving success on these levels offers a tremendous sense of accomplishment which allows them to justify the lack of dating in their lives. They leave that aspect as something that will come in time, but they never seem to make time to allow it to happen.

 

I often give the analogy of sitting at a piano and learning to play Chopsticks in a 10 minute lesson. Even if you practice it every day, you can?t say ?I play the piano?. You must learn the fundamentals of the instrument, master them, and then allow the music flow out thru you to be a pianist. Relationships follow the same principles. You must commit time and effort and learn the fundamentals. Visiting an SP as the only outlet to get your itches scratched equates to being able to play "Chopsticks" and does not make you a pianist.

 

One must simply be clear when choosing an SP for a first experience what the reasons are. If it is the fear of embarrassing yourself with your girlfriend because it?s a new experience that?s one thing. If you have never had a girlfriend or even gotten to second base, then there are deeper issues at hand and turning to an SP can create lifelong habits that are difficult to break. It potentially can become the Band-Aid to a situation that needs stitches?

 

Cat