Cara Silver 32412 Report post Posted September 26, 2009 Just a word of advice about using me as a reference- it helps if I know who you are AND have seen you. If I have not seen you I cannot give you a reference. I would've thought that would be obvious... Lots of exasperated kisses, Amelia :roll: 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
drlove 37204 Report post Posted September 26, 2009 Too funny! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Emma Alexandra 123368 Report post Posted September 26, 2009 Yes gents Amelia is correct. We have to know you. The usual way is that you would ask us first if you can use us as a reference..then you give our name to the lady..She will then connect us and we can confirm that we know you. The process is easy and all we want to know is that you are safe. kisses, Emma Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
c***y 181 Report post Posted September 26, 2009 I am only new here and one would think this would be a no brainer.:lol: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
hellojoe 108 Report post Posted September 26, 2009 It's like trying to get a job reference from somewhere you never worked Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
fisherman48 815 Report post Posted September 26, 2009 But I have seen u so many times in my dreams lol Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
geo007 203 Report post Posted September 26, 2009 I've asked a couple of SPs I've met for their concurrence to providing a reference. Basics no? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Emma Alexandra 123368 Report post Posted September 26, 2009 I've asked a couple of SPs I've met for their concurrence to providing a reference. Basics no? all we want to know is that your cool...we don't go into detail... example-you ask an sp/ep you know if you can use her as a ref..she says yes then you email the sp you want to see and say you can contact so and so for a reference...{we want someone that is known-example with a website or member of a board} she would then email or call the sp herself and clarify ...simple... some ladies are not sp friendly but i think most of us are. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
redmachine 1916 Report post Posted September 27, 2009 all we want to know is that your cool...we don't go into detail... example-you ask an sp/ep you know if you can use her as a ref..she says yes then you email the sp you want to see and say you can contact so and so for a reference...{we want someone that is known-example with a website or member of a board} she would then email or call the sp herself and clarify ...simple... some ladies are not sp friendly but i think most of us are. This is a great system............I recently had a ep request I provide a ref. from another ep before meeting me.............All they want to know is that we are safe and will show up.........Its a win win situation:grin: 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
boomer01 5564 Report post Posted September 27, 2009 Sounds like a wonderful idea...I think a lot of awkwardness or uneasyness would be avoided if the SP new her new potential date was a normal decent guy who will show. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Emma Alexandra 123368 Report post Posted September 27, 2009 This is a great system............I recently had a ep request I provide a ref. from another ep before meeting me.............All they want to know is that we are safe and will show up.........Its a win win situation:grin: excatly :wink: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Cara Silver 32412 Report post Posted September 27, 2009 But I have seen u so many times in my dreams lol Lol- yeah me too! I would definitely give you a reference so you can keep seeing other girls in your dreams! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Cara Silver 32412 Report post Posted September 27, 2009 Actually it IS kinda funny. At first I was just really annoyed at how stupid some people can be but now I see the humour. Thanks, dr. love, for reminding me to laugh more! xoxoxoxoxoxo Amelia Too funny! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest C**Tra****er Report post Posted September 28, 2009 These kind of things always make me laugh. I've had people ask me to provide them a work reference that I've never worked with. Sure we attended some classes together in university, but why would I provide you a reference when I've never worked with you? I've seen it from the other side too... I interviewed a guy for a job and the interview was progressing very well. The guy was very well spoken and seemed to be a great candidate. I asked him where he went to university and he said in California. Naturally I asked him which one. His response....."I DON'T REMEMBER." LOL Guess who I didn't hire! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sexnonstop724 1727 Report post Posted September 28, 2009 Canadian Hobbyist Reference Board. Why should the ladies get all the glory??!! Hobbyist A On time for appointment. Good Hygiene Well mannered Funny Not a clock watcher Good tipper Smells good Clean shaven Did not hang out forever after appointment Posted Good review after appointment Respectful . . LOL Probably a pretty quiet board? Nonstop724 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
