What do you prefer ?

[Justin222 489]

Hi friends ! This question for guys and girls . Whats the best method for first timer anal , so that she is not feeling much pain .I am going to do it this weekend to my anal virgin girl friend .

[fortunateone 156618]

I think the most important thing that YOU can do is NOTHING, and that you remember that this is something that SHE is doing, not you. Keep yourself and your urges and your fantasy and your expectations completely off the table, and let her do everything, or nothing, whatever happens happens.

 

If you do not back off completely and allow her to make all the moves, other that the obvious ready or not, then you probably won't get a second chance. For one thing, it is she who should be reading the tips and the how tos, to a certain extent you can as well so you don't make any obvious errors, in action or judgment, but send her this link first. MOST of what women need for good sex is to have their minds on board, so it is pretty important that she be thinking about this for many days before she actually does it.

 

http://www.glamour.com/sex-love-life/blogs/smitten/2010/10/anal-sex-a-beginners-guide.html

 

 

Also i do not see this anywhere, but she needs to also prepare her body from the inside out, like light meals, lots of water, etc etc. She will probably be embarrassed by the aftermath of anal, so making sure there is as little as possible inside there is important. if it is too messy, she isn't going to be impressed by all the cleanup afterwards and again will be a deterrant to a 2nd attempt.

 

If you are successful and it does happen as planned, don't try to do it again the same day or even the next. if she is sore, tender or uncomfortable, she won't be impressed by the idea of going again right away. If at any time she says she hates it, wants to stop or doesn't want to do it ever again, you have to be OK with that.