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[sonoma 431]

I am looking for someone who is into giving long sensual manual release with a lot of tease and manual caress no bj no fs just a good old hand release.

 

I've ask a couple of ladies and the response I received were not very they went from you are crazy to pay for only a hj to i'm not an mp i'm a FS provider...

 

if you know someone who enjoy doing this or you are a lady who enjoy this, let me know

[Sweet Emily J 172062]

Just about any SP would do this if you approach her properly and pay her regular rate. It's not an unusual request at all. I don't really understand why you would have trouble finding this, unless there is something you have left out. I also don't understand why you wouldn't just see a regular, recommended MA, as this is their specialty.

[sonoma 431]

Thanks for your reply Emily,

 

it's such a comon request that you're the only one who replied;) if i would of ask for more a hardcore thing i would of receive alot more answers;)

 

MA you are right this is something most the lady provides but i tried twice to very politely to ask for the release without the massage and and on both occasion the answers i reveice where that they were not escort / service provider and they don't provide that service alone

 

As far as compensation i never discuss that part i do my homework when possible before contacting a lady and i ussually know what will be ask and i've always respected that.

[Meaghan McLeod 179664]

Ok, so you are not looking for a massage. You are looking for a long hand release. No biggie. I know that most sp's will do this, but I know that most ma's will also do this, just cut out the massage part.

 

Just because you got no for an answer, doesn't mean others will also say no.

 

My opinion, get the massage, as this is the part that makes the hand release so great - they go hand in hand.

[IsaMassage 54318]

Thanks for your reply Emily,

 

it's such a comon request that you're the only one who replied;) if i would of ask for more a hardcore thing i would of receive alot more answers;)

 

MA you are right this is something most the lady provides but i tried twice to very politely to ask for the release without the massage and and on both occasion the answers i reveice where that they were not escort / service provider and they don't provide that service alone

 

As far as compensation i never discuss that part i do my homework when possible before contacting a lady and i ussually know what will be ask and i've always respected that.

 

You have to give people some time to get answers.. U cabt expect to receive 10 answers within 5 nmin of posting... As much as I love participating and reading posts .., sometimes is not the right moment or place to reply to a treath..

Anyway.. Here is my 2 cents.. As an MA I don't see why any MA would refuse to provide u the release without the massage.. Again as Emily said... That's MAs specialty.. Unless u are asking for oither type of release different from a HJ I don't see why would any MA give yoy the " Iam not an escort answer" the only time I answer that way is because I get asked for SP services...

 

Additional comments: yes meaghan the massage n the hj go well together.. I enjoy starting with the massage as it helps me bound.., helps break the ice and give us time to break the ice ;)..., but again.. If the request is withoit the massage part.. I have no problem in doing that.. I am there to please

[Guest realnicehat]

it's such a comon request that you're the only one who replied;) if i would of ask for more a hardcore thing i would of receive alot more answers;)

 

Yes, you probably would get more answers if you were requesting information about any service other than the one most guys perform on themselves regularly.

 

While I'm not opposed to a good manual finish I would think many guys would agree that they are looking for other things in an encounter.

 

The fact that you are just looking for a long slow handy does make your request not an everyday one but I am surprised that you are having trouble finding a willing participant. I can't imagine any of the ladies here saying no if approached in the proper way.

 

Perhaps a lady you have spent some time with previously might be more willing to accommodate? I find having somewhat of a rapport makes special requests easier.

[withpassion 914]

Or, more likely, the SP thinks you are mentioning this request in order to get a discount. As Emily J first indicated, perhaps you should lay out that you would be providing regular rates before mentioning your request. Good luck.

[loneskater 25635]

Or, more likely, the SP thinks you are mentioning this request in order to get a discount. As Emily J first indicated, perhaps you should lay out that you would be providing regular rates before mentioning your request. Good luck.

 

Exactly!!! I have been in this business for over 30 years. I seen many SPs/MAs all across Canada and abroad and I never met any that were not willing to put there hands on my wiener. I even had to mention a few times its not an orange, no need to squeeze it tight to get the juices out lol

 

As long as your willing to pay their regular rates, Ladies will just sit and talk if that's all you want.. Therefore the OP must be coming across as wanting just a hj for a lower rate!!!

[conquistador 18487]

As long as your willing to pay their regular rates, Ladies will just sit and talk if that's all you want.. Therefore the OP must be coming across as wanting just a hj for a lower rate!!!

 

Not sure why you are assuming this??...he did mention that the lady said you are crazy for paying just for a HJ, nothing about paying less.

 

so who knows really, shouldn't just assume...hopefully someone will help him out.

 

cheers.

[Winnipegcub 21293]

Agree with others that I would think most ladies have no problem with this. They are in a service business of making their clients happy. And if this is what you seek...it doesn't seem out of the realm of what they would do.

 

Perhaps it was your approach. I would either go back or select a new lady and try again. Be precise in your PM/Email and explain what you want. Something like;

 

'Hi Jane(insert name). I looked at (your ad on CERB)(your website) and am very interested in spending time with you. I notice your rate is $x for x minutes. An (outcall)(incall) works best for me and I am hoping we can meet on; (date).

 

My request may be somewhat unusual in that all I am looking for is a nice rub of my penis and handjob to finish. (or what you would like to say). For this visit I'm not interested in any other services. (likely don't need that line)

 

I look forward to hearing back from you and even more excited about the opportunity to meet you.

 

XOXO

 

(add name here)

[sonoma 431]

Thanks conquistador for reading and understanding my message as it was! instead of assuming i was not telling everything or trying to low ball

 

This thread can now be close

[loneskater 25635]

Not sure why you are assuming this??...he did mention that the lady said you are crazy for paying just for a HJ, nothing about paying less.

 

so who knows really, shouldn't just assume...hopefully someone will help him out.

 

cheers.

 

I didn't assume anything. If u read the post previous to mine, that

I quoted in my response, it is that member who mentioned: quote Or, more likely, the SP thinks you are mentioning this request in order to get a discount unquote.

 

Neither that member or I said he was trying to get a deal we just said maybe some ladies think that since never heard of this situation being a problem.

 

Maybe before accusing others of assuming things you should follow your own advice by reading their post properly!

[conquistador 18487]

Loneskater, I guess i should have been more specific in which quote i was highlighting -

 

Therefore the OP must be coming across as wanting just a hj for a lower rate!!!

 

So i'm assuming you wrote this then??...i'm confused, it reads as saying the OP wanting a lower rate when that's not what he wants...maybe you can clarify things, as i guess i'm missing something here.

 

...or this is what an SP is thinking and not you??

[whiteman 14028]

Thanks for your reply Emily,

 

it's such a comon request that you're the only one who replied;) if i would of ask for more a hardcore thing i would of receive alot more answers;)

 

MA you are right this is something most the lady provides but i tried twice to very politely to ask for the release without the massage and and on both occasion the answers i reveice where that they were not escort / service provider and they don't provide that service alone

 

As far as compensation i never discuss that part i do my homework when possible before contacting a lady and i ussually know what will be ask and i've always respected that.

I'm not sure why you wouldn't want a massage along with the HJ, but to each their own. Many find that the massage builds upto the climax. You could even request that they only do a teasing massage rather than a hard one. I know plenty of MA's that would just massage your dick, without massaging anything else if that was your request. Whoever you saw previously weren't really properly customer-focused, I would guess: they shouldn't have said something like that to you.