Ironsman1 1461 Report post Posted August 20, 2013 Well I see there is no one here representing the other board's point of view, so I might as well be the first. Allow me to state my case. I used to be a big fan of this board, and I still use it to check schedules and the odd discussion. However, I recently have migrated over to the other board and use it as my main source of information. As a client who pays upwards of $250 an hour plus tip, I really appreciate being able to read honest reviews both good and bad. Yes there are a lot of children on that board who are keyboard warriors, but most of us are smart enough to not take them seriously. I do not condone derogatory comments, but I do support fair reviews. I think it is actually doing the SP world a disservice by having only positive recommendations. Some ladies work really hard to maintain their shape, some go above and beyond to provide amazing service, and some go to great lengths to maintain their appearance. To say that every SP is wonderful is unfair to both clients and SPs. Not every client is wonderful, and not every SP is wonderful. I have met some wonderful ladies through here, and I have also met some not so wonderful ladies through here. Even though there have been good recommendations for them, some experiences were less than stellar. I don't agree with putting them on the same level as the ones who completely went above and beyond to make the experience amazing. If everyone is wonderful, then no one is wonderful. So really I don't think it is too much to ask to be able to know exactly what I am getting. As a working class citizen, I really don't have the funds to find out by trial and error. Some of us have specific preference, and pay big bucks to get it because that is our fantasy. So yes sometimes we are looking for nice firm breasts, or a toned bum and flat stomach. If the lady's ad is giving the impression that this is the case, then it is reasonable for us to expect that. I think I have the right to know if a provider is misrepresenting her appearance, or using outdated photos. I say again, I do not agree with some of the childish postings on the other board, and I have recently been a victim of such. However, I rely on that board a lot more when doing my research. As a client, I have been using Cerb less and less because I personally don't find the recommendations as reliable. Personally, I tend to save my money for the SPs who are well recommended on that board. How can one possibly rely on recommendations when they are ALL positive? I am ready to admit that the other board is very rude and is not the best environment. But I must also say that this board is all the way on the other end of the spectrum, where really no one can say anything bad at all. Would be nice if there was a happy medium. 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Gntlmn 796 Report post Posted August 20, 2013 When I go to the strip clubs I obviously can't see every woman there so I choose the ones I like, often not the "hot" ones, either, just the ones that "click". But when any approach me I make sure to say something nice to them, regardless, and let them know I still think they're very attractive. Between the dancers, massage, and escorts I try to make a point of thanking them, when I see them, for making themselves available for a schlub like me. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
livefast1098 2151 Report post Posted August 20, 2013 Thank you Ironsman1 for that counter argument. I thought you made an excellent point of what I referenced as Cerb being too rosie. I really would like this site to become more "balanced". What I see as the big challenge however is: what is a good balance and how do you police it? I'm sure the other board (if we agree on one in particular which we can't name) didn't start out as a "bashing board". But who's going to decide what's appropriate to say? One's comment might be perceived as disrespectful by one SP while another might just see it as constructive criticism. I also don't believe that the primary intention of this post was to quash any form of criticism but was intended as an homage to the diversity of wonderful ladies on this board who provide us with a very special kind of service and that no one deserves the type of "intimate" attacks the author witnessed elsewhere. I strongly believe your point warrants it's own thread to create a healthy debate about accurate recommendations. I encourage you to start it. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Wolf Knight 29667 Report post Posted August 20, 2013 White Knight? I have no problem being dubbed that. I'm not on escort boards trying to impress other clients in the hopes that they'll deem me worthy to have an intimate encounter with them. Further I'm really not a fan of the "old boys club" mentality where guys sit around make comments and then slap each others back in a good job/way to go fashion. Some weaker men need that sort of stuff however and need that external validation and will jump on a band wagon to try to fulfill that need. Me I find that somewhat pathetic. While I agree that there exists in this business companions that I may not personally "click" with and have that special attraction I realize that it is only my perspective. I'm sure that there are others who would find that companions particular qualities and physical attributes desirable. I personally have visited with ladies who were/are very highly recommended and "reviewed" but I just did not click with some reason. As a result, those experiences were only ok (or in one case disappointing) but I don't feel that I should deem myself the authority and openly disparage that lady for what amounts to my issue. Do I believe that if a companion blatantly misrepresents herself, knowingly misleading clients should continue in this business unchecked? Definitely not and neither do other companions who are trying to squeeze out a living from this business. However, I'm sure if any of these expert "judges" of perfection on other boards were subjected to the same public scrutiny of their physical appearance openly by SP's they'd haul in their horns pretty quick and disappear. Realistically, paid companionship or not, most of us clients are lucky as hell to have "any" woman be willing to be intimate with us. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
emiafish 30979 Report post Posted August 20, 2013 Please allow me to add my voice to the chorus. Since joining CERB, I have met some of the most beautiful and amazing women in all my many years of hobbying. I am no male model, nor would I get paid for an underware ad. All of the special women with whom I've spent some time are beautiful inside out. That is, their inner beauty informs and reflects their outer beauty. My thanks to the self described hobby rookie for reminding us how lucky we are to have these ladies and for having CERB to help bring them into our lives. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
roamingguy 300292 Report post Posted August 20, 2013 Well I for one am happy with CERB just the way it is. Nothing wrong with having a positive escort recommendation board in a internet world full of escort review boards I like having a community where both the ladies and gentlemen are equal participants and the ladies feel safe here My fear if CERB becomes a review board, a lot of the ladies won't be here posting, and may even close their accounts. Not to mention the Mod and Town Council have a hard enough (and do a great) job of moderating this site. Do they wanted the added burden of having to police a review board Guys that want a review board, well there are already a lot out there, why the need to turn CERB into one too escapes me. And if anyone doesn't like CERB the way it is, a question, why are you here My two cents worth RG 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
all-in 300 Report post Posted August 20, 2013 Both sides of the discussion are represented well, and I have to say that I also no longer use this board for reviews because the rules keep them overly positive. I agree that providers are people too, but like any job offering poor service, or misrepresenting yourself should carry consequences. By most standards this industry pays handsomely; a girl fulfilling your sexual fantasies is paid more than a doctor saving lives, or 8 times what a police officer gets for risking his life keeping us all safe. If a client feels cheated or unfulfilled in any way, a negative review can be justified. I also cant help but point out that 95% of the OPs reviews on either board are about 100 pound submissive young asian girls with perfect skin. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ironsman1 1461 Report post Posted August 20, 2013 I am here because I have been a member for a long time, and I have met some wonderful ladies through here. I believe in seeing both sides of the story, so I am on here from time to time to check out the discussions. Plus, CERB is the best source for Asian agency postings in Ottawa. However, when it comes time to spend my money and make a decision on who to see, I rely almost completely on the other board. I know for a fact that there are a ton of people in Ottawa who do the same thing (ie. hang out on cerb but make their decisions based on the other board's reviews). I agree some of the posts there are completely out of line, no doubt about that. My point is simply that I, along with many others I am sure, do not rely on the recommendations here. I do enjoy CERB for the discussions and the ads, but really I think you are actually doing the SPs a disservice by having only positive recommendations. You are taking away from the high performers and rewarding the not so stellar ones. If only the recommendations were allowed to be more balanced, I think you would get a large influx of new posters which would result in more clients for the ladies. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest N***he**Ont**y Report post Posted August 20, 2013 Cerb is my home and I come here to read the recommendations of the ladies I would like to meet. I am a member of some other boards that are review boards and some are not that great. In fact they are down right disrespectuful to ladies. IMO Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LeeRichards 177238 Report post Posted August 20, 2013 Well I see there is no one here representing the other board's point of view, so I might as well be the first. Allow me to state my case. I used to be a big fan of this board, and I still use it to check schedules and the odd discussion. However, I recently have migrated over to the other board and use it as my main source of information. As a client who pays upwards of $250 an hour plus tip, I really appreciate being able to read honest reviews both good and bad. Yes there are a lot of children on that board who are keyboard warriors, but most of us are smart enough to not take them seriously. I do not condone derogatory comments, but I do support fair reviews. I think it is actually doing the SP world a disservice by having only positive recommendations. Some ladies work really hard to maintain their shape, some go above and beyond to provide amazing service, and some go to great lengths to maintain their appearance. To say that every SP is wonderful is unfair to both clients and SPs. Not every client is wonderful, and not every SP is wonderful. I have met some wonderful ladies through here, and I have also met some not so wonderful ladies through here. Even though there have been good recommendations for them, some experiences were less than stellar. I don't agree with putting them on the same level as the ones who completely went above and beyond to make the experience amazing. If everyone is wonderful, then no one is wonderful. So really I don't think it is too much to ask to be able to know exactly what I am getting. As a working class citizen, I really don't have the funds to find out by trial and error. Some of us have specific preference, and pay big bucks to get it because that is our fantasy. So yes sometimes we are looking for nice firm breasts, or a toned bum and flat stomach. If the lady's ad is giving the impression that this is the case, then it is reasonable for us to expect that. I think I have the right to know if a provider is misrepresenting her appearance, or using outdated photos. I say again, I do not agree with some of the childish postings on the other board, and I have recently been a victim of such. However, I rely on that board a lot more when doing my research. As a client, I have been using Cerb less and less because I personally don't find the recommendations as reliable. Personally, I tend to save my money for the SPs who are well recommended on that board. How can one possibly rely on recommendations when they are ALL positive? I am ready to admit that the other board is very rude and is not the best environment. But I must also say that this board is all the way on the other end of the spectrum, where really no one can say anything bad at all. Would be nice if there was a happy medium. What is an honest review or recco ? Whatever board you are on. We are all different. One individuals comments in a pissy moment can damage a reputation of a provider unnecessarily and unwarranted if they don't see tits and ass pardon the expression the same as the next guy. That's all I am sayin. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Gabriella Laurence 301887 Report post Posted August 20, 2013 I believe both Ironman and all-in have some very good and valid points in their posts. Both Cerb and other reviews boards have their advantages and down falls. But I think what the OP was trying to say is that even though "you" are posting anonymously on a review board, people should still show a little respect and maturity and not degrade and dehumanize women/people in a disgusting hurtful way. It's just wrong. I think there is a way to communicate your (negative) experience without putting down, trashing and bashing the ladies. What is an honest review or recco ? Whatever board you are on. We are all different. One individuals comments in a pissy moment can damage a reputation of a provider unnecessarily and unwarranted if they don't see tits and ass pardon the expression the same as the next guy. That's all I am sayin. I think by "honest", he means comments like: - She is not the spinner type or a perfect 10 but pretty enough... - She doesn't offer the best BJ in town but it was still ok - Her rate is too expensive. She was nice but not for that price. Next! - etc. I guess a little "negativity" will prove that the reviewer is objective and honest in his review/reco. 3 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest N***he**Ont**y Report post Posted August 20, 2013 Yes I am member of the ""rb boards across the country and I do read the reviews and have posted reviews as well but it is as Lee said we are paying a premium dollar for our encounters and we need some balance to make our decisions. This board is still a tremendous help in making my decisions easier and as I make more friendships here and elsewhere I want to make sure I have an enjoyable experience. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
all-in 300 Report post Posted August 20, 2013 (edited) I think it comes down to honesty. If I go to a fancy restaurant and order the 90$ kobe steak touted by their chef as being the culinary experience of a lifetime and I am served an overcooked minute steak, you can bet a scathing review on Yelp is forthcoming. If I go to a lowkey diner and order the 8$ late night chef's special and get served the same steak, it might get a positive review. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, we all have our preferences and that shouldnt be judged. But sadly, I've yet to read an ad stating "come enjoy my triple chin and play with my overlapping fat rolls while my toothless gums bring you to extacy and my facial acne squirts its delicious pus into your mouth as you lick my jaw." Someone may be into that out there, but if you portray yourself as a runway model in your ad and thats what the client ends up getting for his hard earned money, the reviews should reflect that. Edited August 20, 2013 by all-in Typo 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Miss S. Lane 67128 Report post Posted August 20, 2013 I have been "hobbying" for about 18 months now, still kind of a newbie and am an active member on several 'erb' boards. Now, of course, cerb is kind of rosy so this note really may not apply here but, on some of the other erbs, well, some of them need to read this as I really do get my back up and get borderline disgusted by some of the things I read. SPs and MAs (for brevity, let's just use the term "providers"), are not 'dirty sluts', many of them are moms and, dare I say, grandmothers, making a living...some from necessity, some from enjoyment. We, as men, search out these providers for various reasons but, in the end, we are the market demand, how dare we stereotype them ourselves into the social stigmas that so many 'holier than thous' tend to do? I read a post about a provider who had a 'baby pouch' and 'disgusting stretch marks'...for Christ's sake, this woman bore one or more children and her body is displaying wonderful reminders of one, or many, of the best days of her life. Or how about the one who's tits have been 'destroyed' by gravity? What about the one who's ass had so much cellulite, she looked like an 'orange peel? What about the 'gross' acne? And then there is the 'fat pig'...the list goes on...and on...and on...sadly. Gentlemen, these women are not ugly, they are not dirty whores and you are certainly not worthy enough to post these types of things publicly...and here is why. The baby pouch and stretch marks...women with these are displaying some of the most natural beauty that you can find anywhere. For nine months, these women carried within them, the most wondrous miracle known to mankind and this woman before you, naked and pleasing a perfect stranger, could very well be putting healthy food on the table for these miracles who shaped her body as such. These physical characteristics are not flaws, they are reminders of the most beautiful things in her life and she should be commended, respected and enjoyed. Okay, so another provider's breasts are sagging too much for your liking...maybe your balls are starting to hang a little lower than she likes. Trying carrying 10 extra pounds of flesh on your chest for 15-20+ years and keep them from getting lower. Does this make her ugly? Does this make her less of a woman? Tell me something, when she is on top of you and you are fondling them with relish, do they not feel great in your hands? I bet they do! Ah yes, the cellulite ass and the fat pig...get naked in front of the mirror and analyze every part of your body. What do you see? Did you take a moment and talk to this woman? Did you learn a little about her? When she speaks, and you open your mind to listen, did you hear how beautiful she is? Did you hold her for a minute, feel her against you, listen to her heartbeat and feel her breath on your neck? Take a minute, close your eyes and use all the senses you have and you will realize that what lies before you is not a fat pig but, in reality, a vision of beauty. And, oh my God, you visited a provider and she had gross acne. Uh oh, stop the world from turning...she had acne and you thought it was disgusting. We are a physical presence society and women in particular are being conditioned commercially and through peer pressure to have perfect looks. How hard do you think it is for this lady to bare all with a stranger to earn a living knowing full well that society reduces her beauty because of pimples that may be a result of the skin ph that she was born with...that miracle that resulted in another woman sporting a baby pouch and stretch marks? So, she comes online and reads a post about how a recent visitor is "warning" others of her grossness...wonder what her self-esteem was like afterwards? Did she fall asleep crying? Guys, come on...seriously? Spinner, Average, Voluptuous, BBW, short, petite, tall...it really doesn't matter...every single one of them has a beauty that we can never have and she agrees to meet you to share that beauty but, we as hobbyists are too friggin blind to see it because the angel before us may not fit that societal image of perfection. And, how do we thank her for agreeing to show us her beauty? Of course, we pay her salary but, then we hit a board and tell everyone about her physical flaws...stay away from her, she has stretch marks, or is fat, or has pimples etc...etc. Tell me, how did she, as an individual treat you and make you feel while you were with her enjoying parts of her that are most private? Shouldn't that be the real story behind your posts? Every female body is a temple, a sculpture of perfection, a palace of pure pleasure for us...just, sometimes, we need to look deeper than we do. Every woman is a vision of beauty, a flower, sunshine during the darkest of storms but, most of all... ...a woman is not a fat pig, she is not an orange peel, she is not disgusting, she is not to be criticized for showing her childbearing trophies and she is not a piece of meat (okay, some advertise like they want to be treated as such however, that is part of the fantasy we are buying). She is beautiful, she is...a human being...she is a mom, a daughter, a grandma, a sister and I love spending time with every one of them. I am blessed that they allow me into their lives. I am honoured that they learn to trust me enough to talk to me, ask about my life and tell me about theirs. I am humbled that, unlike many of us, will do whatever it takes to pay the rent, put food on the table and get ahead in life. And I am grateful that they allow me, even for a short time, to worship at this temple, to study each line of the sculpture, to smell the flowers and bask in the sunshine. To every provider on cerb, you are beautiful and I thank you. I want to thank you from the bottom of my heart for such a genuine, heartfelt and well thought out response. If all clients were as kind and considerate as you are, us providers would feel much safer in our chosen profession. To the men who speak this way, I pity them. They are projecting their lack of self confidence onto providers - when, regardless of shape, size, acne, stretch marks or otherwise -- SP's tend to be, in my observation, among the most confident, strong women I know. Thank you again, OP. you are a sweetheart and a gentleman. Xoxox 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
roamingguy 300292 Report post Posted August 20, 2013 I think it comes down to honesty. If I go to a fancy restaurant and order the 90$ kobe steak touted by their chef as being the culinary experience of a lifetime and I am served an overcooked minute steak, you can bet a scathing review on Yelp is forthcoming. If I go to a lowkey diner and order the 8$ late night chef's special and get served the same steak, it might get a positive review. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, we all have our preferences and that shouldnt be judged. But sadly, I've yet to read an ad stating "come enjoy my triple chin and play with my overlapping fat rolls while my toothless gums bring you to extacy and my facial acne squirts its delicious pus into your mouth as you lick my jaw." Someone may be into that out there, but if you portray yourself as a runway model in your ad and thats what the client ends up getting for his hard earned money, the reviews should reflect that. First, no argument, there are some bad providers out there, just as there are some bad clients. That said, if you have a bad encounter, there are already review boards out there to post a review of that encounter. No need for CERB to become another review board Second, recommendations on CERB are written for ladies who provide great or good encounters. If a lady doesn't provide a good encounter, she isn't going to be recommended, well at least I wouldn't recommend her. Point I'm getting at the recommendations here are about ladies who provided good encounters. Want to read and write negative reviews, well there are the erb boards, and other boards too RG 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
livefast1098 2151 Report post Posted August 20, 2013 (edited) Wow! already at the "if you don't like it here just leave" phase and we're only a few posts in to this hijack of the OPs thread. I, and a few commenters, didn't say we hate it here, we are saying a better balance would be nice. And yes, as I've stated before maybe this utopia of balance is impossible to achieve but wanting a debate about the feasibility of it shouldn't be met by "take a hike"! I'll give you a great example of why I'd like more balance. I responded to an ad from a provider when I first started being a member of Cerb after checking out her reviews here (she had a few). Turns out she was a crack-whore (literally) tricking out of a run down motel. Now a more "balanced" set of recos would've helped avoid a very awkward and very uncomfortable situation for a newbie hobbiest that was seeking a high-class provider. Now, for the record, a spend 99.5% of my "board time" on Cerb, so I'm not "that guy" that comes over from the other boards just to bitch about this one. In fact I just logged in to the other one today just to check if my login still worked because I hadden't been on for at least 4 or 5 months! So yes I like Cerb. Could I see a few tweeks making it better? Absolutely!! Should I feel bad about expressing that? Absolutely not! Additional Comments: I believe both Ironman and all-in have some very good and valid points in their posts. Both Cerb and other reviews boards have their advantages and down falls. But I think what the OP was trying to say is that even though "you" are posting anonymously on a review board, people should still show a little respect and maturity and not degrade and dehumanize women/people in a disgusting hurtful way. It's just wrong. I think there is a way to communicate your (negative) experience without putting down, trashing and bashing the ladies. I think by "honest", he means comments like: - She is not the spinner type or a perfect 10 but pretty enough... - She doesn't offer the best BJ in town but it was still ok - Her rate is too expensive. She was nice but not for that price. Next! - etc. I guess a little "negativity" will prove that the reviewer is objective and honest in his review/reco. Thank you! Exactly what I'm trying to get at. Plus I should be able to say if her photos, ad and other representation of herself and her services are accurate. Edited August 20, 2013 by livefast1098 Not too familiar with the Quote button! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PistolPete 61421 Report post Posted August 20, 2013 Two things a) I also belong to the other board, and my name (handle here) has been dragged through the mud other there, by those that frequent this board and the other. BUT always speak here with "fork" tongue. If YOU really don't like my recommendations, don't see any the ladies I have given them a rec for. b) I MAINTAIN always YMMV and no 2 encounters are the same. They may say over there she is a 4/10 where someone here might simply say she was outstanding. Lets not get into semantics like she only likes to give a CBJ, and then she ridicule by others that her service was terrible for only giving a CBJ. Or her BBBJ could of been much better, as she didn't know how twirl her tongue on the end of some guys dick. The difference is huge, I like it here better but I do look over there to see those that speak with "fork" tongue. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
all-in 300 Report post Posted August 20, 2013 The whole mentality that if a Provider has or doesnt have a review here is a sign of good or bad service is flawed. First, everyone has off days. If the provider had a good day and received a positive review here, but then 10 bad days and provided bad service to clients who saw her because of the positive review with no rebutals here, how is that fair to the clients on the 10 bad days? They cant reply to the glowing review that remains posted and pulls in unfortunates daily. Also, the whole system here encourages shilling. Post a shill review saying you're fantastic, no one can reply stating the contrary. Would you use a tripadvisor equivalent where only positive reviews are allowed to pick a carribean resort? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Gabriella Laurence 301887 Report post Posted August 20, 2013 Also, the whole system here encourages shilling. Post a shill review saying you're fantastic, no one can reply stating the contrary. Positive feedback only and shilling have nothing to do with one another! lol If a lady is established and has 10 pages+ of recos (and also has multiple recos in various cities), are you still going to think that the majority of the members who posted about her are all shillers too? Or does it just apply in some cases? I would be more worried about someone who is bitter and has a personal agenda when posting negative feedback and, at the same time, blatantly trashing the lady(s) he spent time with. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PistolPete 61421 Report post Posted August 20, 2013 For the other board, you read all you want into a review over there, but the same issue arises, so the system there encourages the same> Shilling <, poor judgement, and use of words while describing a lady and marking her out of ten as where you might think she is 9/10 because of your likes, may not be the same as mine . Also, the whole system here encourages shilling. Post a shill review saying you're fantastic, no one can reply stating the contrary. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SexxxyRebecca 57989 Report post Posted August 20, 2013 I think there is a difference between posting a honest review and bashing on people!? Im not against the others review board as long as they are respectful. I dont think that the OP or nobody here is trying to say that the other board are bad! I understand it is a useful tool for a lot of hobbyiest... I believe this is what the initial post was refering to.... To dont forget we are human after all! 3 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Lowdark 5613 Report post Posted August 20, 2013 Whoa. What happened? How did this thread devolve into discussing the validity of positive and negative reviews and/or recommendations? Balance or fairness has nothing to do with what the thread is about. Those debates have their valid points and merits on both sides, I'm sure, but this thread was started as an apology to the ladies for the juvenile idiocy they sometimes have to put up with. The OP's intent was to basically say "Look guys, they're people too, so if you're tempted to call them degrading things, y'know, don't." I'm paraphrasing. The debate this has turned into should be another thread entirely. On that note, we should probably let this one cool down a bit. I remember a lengthy thread a little while ago on the insensitivity of some words used to describe ladies and things got heated and I'm pretty sure the fallout included some suspensions. Food for thought. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
livefast1098 2151 Report post Posted August 20, 2013 Would you use a tripadvisor equivalent where only positive reviews are allowed to pick a carribean resort? When any of you use Tripadvisor do you only book with the hotel ranked first? I know I don't. I look at the general score, make sure I'm not choosing a dump, and read a few positive reviews and then a few negatives. From there I match the positive and negative with my set of prioritized criterias for what constitute a good trip for ME. For example: if the resort I'm interested in as bad reviews of it's beach and I mostly spend my time at the pool it won't deter me. However if they say the place is paradise but the food sucks and food is at the top of my list, well then I'll look elsewhere. I welcome the fact I can make an educated decision of spending my hard urned money based on MY set of critirias. And I'm sure the "good" resorts welcome the fact that the shady establishments aren't all bunched up with them making everybody look bad. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ironsman1 1461 Report post Posted August 21, 2013 Excellent point. Some resorts offer more services than others, some resorts also have more friendly and accommodating staff. Often times, there are hidden fees that you don't know about. Finally, some resorts are also safer than others and are in more upscale locations. Thank goodness for tripadvisor lol When any of you use Tripadvisor do you only book with the hotel ranked first? I know I don't. I look at the general score, make sure I'm not choosing a dump, and read a few positive reviews and then a few negatives. From there I match the positive and negative with my set of prioritized criterias for what constitute a good trip for ME. For example: if the resort I'm interested in as bad reviews of it's beach and I mostly spend my time at the pool it won't deter me. However if they say the place is paradise but the food sucks and food is at the top of my list, well then I'll look elsewhere. I welcome the fact I can make an educated decision of spending my hard urned money based on MY set of critirias. And I'm sure the "good" resorts welcome the fact that the shady establishments aren't all bunched up with them making everybody look bad. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest c**io**m7 Report post Posted August 21, 2013 I think there is a difference between posting a honest review and bashing on people!? Im not against the others review board as long as they are respectful. I dont think that the OP or nobody here is trying to say that the other board are bad! I understand it is a useful tool for a lot of hobbyiest... I believe this is what the initial post was refering to.... To dont forget we are human after all! The reading of all the comments has been interesting, to say the least. Dearest, and damn sexy, Rebecca...you hit the nail on the head. Listen guys, I have had experiences where I have paid in the area of 2 bills and had some of the shittiest sex of my life. I have also laid on the bed and had some of the most amazing chats with these same ladies. Did I feel like I wasted my money? Yup. Did I feel like I wasted my time? Nope. For me, it all comes down to one thing. There are times when I want to lie on my back and watch a lady make slow, sensual love to my penis with her mouth followed by sensual and passionate intercourse with amazingly erotic kisses, actions to steam any room. There are times when I want to bend her over and give it hard, sometimes with a greek trip and grab the back of her head and force myself as far into her throat as she can take. Now, that one thing...think about it...I am a stranger and, for just a few bucks, she is allowing me into her and acting out either the sofy girlfriend or the nymph porn star. It cannot be easy. Just imagine the range of different guys these ladies work to satisfy. I am certain many are "fat pigs" or covered in acne and maybe even with bad body odour etc...etc. Each lady is unique. To set the record straight and clear a few responses. I never once said all ladies on cerb give great experiences. I said they are all human and beautiful, and I stand by my words. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites