What's a Full Day with an Escort Like?

[randyzak 3600]

Hey Hobbyists and SPs!...

 

I see lots of SPs offering full day rates and some even offering a "vacation" rate, so my question is:

 

For the hobbyists... If you've spent a whole day with an escort, how did it turn out (i.e., how much naughty time vs just hanging out) and would you repeat?

 

For the SPs... If a client was going to book you for a full day, would you have any expectations and/or limits for a whole day booking (on the assumption that you don't want to be treated like a blow-up doll for 24 hours by a guy hopped up on Viagara).

 

I would very much like to know... should I ever come into enough money and find the right miss to actually consider a whole day affair.

[olderguy 5797]

A whole day? EXHAUSTING! But very, very, very rewarding!

(Oh yeah - and memorable!) LOL :)

[roamingguy 300292]

Well I didn't do an all day, I did a sleepover. A lot of the encounter is social, it isn't all spent in the bedroom. In fact most of the time in the bedroom is spent sleeping. If you plan to have a full day with a companion something outside the hotel room should be planned.

In my case, I took the lady out to a restaurant for a nice dinner out. Then we spent the evening...well you can figure out how we spent the evening ;-)

We closed off the evening by watching tv together in bed, then falling asleep.

Now I'm planning a weekend escape with another lady, and I'm already thinking about what we can do on the Saturday. All day and night in a hotel room can't be pleasant for the lady. So an activity will be planned

Guess my point is, extended dates are more than just sex. It is very much a social encounter too. And something should be planned, be it dinner out, maybe a movie, something more than staying in a hotel room for a whole day

Just my opinion for what it's worth

RG

[steveyK 4311]

Well, just think about a whole day with a really hot lady on your arm...a bit of fun then off to a lite lunch, then the beach, just hanging out, talking, laughing, flirting but in a respectable fashion, then maybe some shopping on the boardwalk....then maybe a bit more fun hehe...a nice candlelight dinner, some wine, piano bar for a nightcap, then she goes on her way, tender parting kisses...this is what your day would be like, now if you were smart you would have booked her overnight too hehe

Now I would definitely suggest that you visit a few ladies for shorter encounters first, find the best connection, that's the one you want for the day/overnight!!

[LeeRichards 177238]

Well my opinion..... It is awesome !!!! It truly is.

 

My advise would be to get to know the lady and just have that gut feeling that you will get along just fine .... she will do the same.....and things will be golden ! Everyone must be comfortable in this case ....most ladies would like to meet you prior perhaps a time or two or otherwise have a fair bit of correspondence...that is just my opinion though

 

I have done all day visits and some overnighters. Don't plan toooo much. Just meet up and go with the flow and let things happen spontaneously and naturally as far as what you do, when you do it and just enjoy your time together. Enjoy. That's what it is all about. For both parties.

 

For my experiences.... it is Fun ! Relaxing ! and Orgasmic ! and FUN !!! ;)

[Guest webothscore]

Full day?

 

Make love!

Eat breakfast.

Have sex!

Eat lunch

Go for day snooze.

Fu**!

Eat dinner

Watch porn

Act out porn scenes!

Talk about your day together.

 

Repeat :)

[randyzak 3600]

Thanks everyone... I really appreciate the feedback so far!

 

It is obvious the first step is finding the right SP. The absolute best woman I have ever met is nowhere near where I live and because of her situtation, I know overnight or full day is unlikely.

 

On the upside, it means I gotta keep searching... :icon_lol:

[Guest K***e D****ls]

Okay, here's the lady's side of things. I travel a lot with gents for a minimum of 12 hours and the most I've ever done was 8 days with a gent. Depending on how long it is, dictates a lot of what goes on. Anything more than 24 hours, we do spend some time apart. Each person (I don't care who you are) needs to come back into their own head a bit and have some alone time. Generally the gent goes golfing and I go to the spa or do some shopping.

 

My overnights involve dinner and some sort of social activity whether it be a hockey game or a show, then off to the hotel for private time. A full day usually involves a lot of social time (like a football game with tailgating, a day at the pool, etc) with dinner and private time to follow that evening.

 

A lot of people think that 12+ hours involves all private time and that an overnight is a free-for-all. Ummm no. Us gals have full lives outside of this and most of us are past the up-all-night stage of life. We need our sleep. The point of an overnight isn't a fuck-a-thon- it's a GFExperience. It's having private time and drifting off to sleep leisurely, not having to get cleaned up and head out into the night. Breakfast in the morning, a little play and go our separate ways. I'd like to add that waking the lady up at 5am with your morning wood isn't usually appreciated or indulged. I make it very clear that I need to have proper sleep and waking me up at 5am isn't suggested.

 

I hope this gave some insight! :)

[Amelia Fox 9064]

I've went on vacation with a gentlemen few months back and for the first day we stayed in the suit played all morning, got freshened up for lunch. Did some hot tub fun, had a glass of wine, played more then he had a nap, I went to the gift shop got some souvenirs, checked out the resort. When I came back up to our suit I woke him, had sex again, then we got ready for dinner. Eat, had sex once more. He watched his history shows, and I ventured down to the ocean to swim. Next morning started same way but instead of naps and history shows, we went on an excursion and mingled with locals.

An entire day is a blast. Imagine 7days. Hehe..

[cat 262460]

Well said Kylie! I do multihour, day and extended visits often and having a fuckathon is not an option on my menu anymore. I'm a low volume provider so my busiest days are 2 guests and I don't feel the need to have sex 8 times in a day. A day visit would start with some playtime then out for lunch and perhaps an event like a wedding or a show. If we ate at the event then we would head back for more playtime and perhaps a hot tub and a massage. If someone wants a full day of play then it will be charged accordingly. 8 play sessions = 8 appointments so there would be no discount on my consideration. The same with an overnight. If a guest wants 6 hours of solid play at night and then wakes me up at 5am to start over again, it's going to be at the full rate. My multihour rates are very reasonable BECAUSE it's mainly social time...

 

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[Guest realnicehat]

The longest rendezvous I've had was about 26 hours and it was very similar to what is described above.

 

I was planning a few days in Montreal, and looking at all the possibilities for some playtime there, when I realized that having a companion for the entire weekend might be more fun. Coincidentally (although I have always suspected she can read my mind) someone I had spent a lot of time with in the past happened to send me a message out of the blue.

 

Arrangements were made and a few days later there I was, waiting in an underground station. The train arrived on time, an endless stream of passengers criss-crossed the station, but she was nowhere to be found. It wasn't until the room had almost emptied that I found her. Casually leaning against a stair rail on the far side of the lobby, in her hat and spring jacket she could have been anyone but that smile was unmistakable.

 

We went to the room to get her settled and then headed out for a nice lunch and a bit of sight seeing. I was quite content wandering hand in hand until she made a comment about her heels being made for "fucking not walking". Well, I may be a little slow on the uptake but I didn't need to hear that twice.

 

The afternoon was spent in bed, an equal mix of sex and napping (my two favourite activities!). We went to the hotel lounge for a few drinks in the early evening and while I had assumed we would head out for dinner she suggested enjoying room service in the plush bathrobes the hotel supplied. Again, who am I to argue? ;)

 

We spent the rest of the evening lounging, dining, laughing at a bad movie, cuddling, and of course enjoying each others bodies. I'm not sure when we fell asleep, it was probably earlier than I'd like to admit.

 

It was fantastic having someone to wake up with in the hotel room. While I love a luxurious room I sometimes find them lonely. We woke slowly, each at our own pace, and when it felt like the right time we headed out for a nice breakfast before it was time for her to depart.

 

My only advice is to be certain that you are very comfortable with the partner you choose for this. You are going to spend a lot of time in a confined space....someone's going to have to poop eventually ;)

[PistolPete 61421]

A while back I did a sleep over, so it was a total of 24 hours, we both went to golf resort (yes she loved playing golf too, and she was good at it!) At the resort they had of course dining lounge,bar area,spa etc etc. We played a round of golf together (4.5 hours), when we were done, I went for a swim in the pool and she had visited the spa. Later, when we did our own thing, we met up in the room had our fun for a couple of hours, then dined,had some drinks, and retreated to the room for some more fun. We actually slept through the next am and missed our 2nd day tee-off time for only 9 holes (we got up at 830am), so we decided to rent bikes and went for a ride through the mountains, I was hurting after that!

 

We had the late check out, so we played in bed for the afternoon, and then said our good byes.

 

Luckily for me, a) She loved playing golf b) We both enjoyed it immensely and gave each other our own space.

c) Kylie is correct it is not a fuck-a-thon nor did my expectations think that at all.

 

I've enjoyed many 1hour, 2 hours, 3 hours, and 1 sleep over date so far and the sleep over was great!!! as long as you both have a mutual understanding of expectations, and what you both like to do during that time with each other, other than the sex of course.

 

Oh and just to be a smart ass ;)

 

SO I will make another comment...Guys use the public washroom so your room washroom doesn't smell up, it shows the lady YOU have some class, it okay to go number one, but number 2, head for public washroom. LOL :) :)

[Wolf Knight 29667]

Thanks for this thread and the tips and pointers. The longest dates I've done so far have been a couple of 3 hours with a few 2 hours and many one hours. One hour dates it's pretty much down to business right away. 2 hour dates have usually been 1 hour chatting and 1 hour play. the 3 hour dates have been about 1.75 social and 1.25 play. I really do enjoy the social aspect a lot and exploring that person. This might be a little old school but I really get off on the "courtship" process even with professional companions. So I've always wanted to take a lady on a date so to speak as an aspect of our encounter. That type of thing is totally out when it comes to playtime in my home town so I've been contemplating an extended dates or a overnight on my next trip. I enjoyed reading the different thoughts on this matter and know how to approach it when I do.

 

Thanks for the contributions everyone.

[Guest realnicehat]

Oh and just to be a smart ass ;)

 

SO I will make another comment...Guys use the public washroom so your room washroom doesn't smell up, it shows the lady YOU have some class, it okay to go number one, but number 2, head for public washroom. LOL :) :)

 

 

Nah, everybody poops. The ladies know that. I would never drop a deuce at an incall but if I'm shelling out $300+ a night for a fancy hotel room I'm not crapping in the lobby john.

 

Besides, I want the opportunity for proper cleanup after. The fun of an overnight is the spontaneity. Being able to have have sex when the mood strikes you, not in a specific two hour window. So being clean at all times is a must.

 

At least now I know what that guy I saw get off the elevator with a room key in hand and rush to the mens was up to :)

 

ps. travel size air fresheners are your friend ;)

[PistolPete 61421]

You go for it ;) I just wouldn't, Regardless of the cost of the room. Also read this pointer through a forum which had this as a key point for a sleep over in a hotel.....now if it was a longer time spent together like 2 days or more things would be different. I just wouldn't, but that is your choice not mine.

 

 

 

Nah, everybody poops. The ladies know that. I would never drop a deuce at an incall but if I'm shelling out $300+ a night for a fancy hotel room I'm not crapping in the lobby john.

 

Besides, I want the opportunity for proper cleanup after. The fun of an overnight is the spontaneity. Being able to have have sex when the mood strikes you, not in a specific two hour window. So being clean at all times is a must.

 

At least now I know what that guy I saw get off the elevator with a room key in hand and rush to the mens was up to :)

 

ps. travel size air fresheners are your friend ;)

[Guest realnicehat]

You go for it ;)

 

I did. So did she. It wasn't a problem. :)

[LeeRichards 177238]

Okay, here's the lady's side of things. I travel a lot with gents for a minimum of 12 hours and the most I've ever done was 8 days with a gent. Depending on how long it is, dictates a lot of what goes on. Anything more than 24 hours, we do spend some time apart. Each person (I don't care who you are) needs to come back into their own head a bit and have some alone time. Generally the gent goes golfing and I go to the spa or do some shopping.

 

My overnights involve dinner and some sort of social activity whether it be a hockey game or a show, then off to the hotel for private time. A full day usually involves a lot of social time (like a football game with tailgating, a day at the pool, etc) with dinner and private time to follow that evening.

 

A lot of people think that 12+ hours involves all private time and that an overnight is a free-for-all. Ummm no. Us gals have full lives outside of this and most of us are past the up-all-night stage of life. We need our sleep. The point of an overnight isn't a fuck-a-thon- it's a GFExperience. It's having private time and drifting off to sleep leisurely, not having to get cleaned up and head out into the night. Breakfast in the morning, a little play and go our separate ways. I'd like to add that waking the lady up at 5am with your morning wood isn't usually appreciated or indulged. I make it very clear that I need to have proper sleep and waking me up at 5am isn't suggested.

 

I hope this gave some insight! :)

 

I set my alarm for 4:45 as a rule sexy pants ! early riser ;) .....

 

but on the serious side of things this is an awesome post Kylie !!! Extended visits can be sooooo much fun whatever it is you are doing !!! Just go with what the moment brings. And cuddlin up and sleeping with a sexy lady who you connect with and enjoy spending time with is pretty darn cool too........

[Ice4fun 78407]

I have not yet had the pleasure of an overnight...but it us certainly in my plans... for me it us not about the extra time for sex...lol who am I kidding...i will be long done for the night be fore her... i want that time after with her in my arms I want to watch her sleep and feel the warmth of her body in the bed next to me... i want to breath in her intoxicating smell all night.... i want to feel that great bum against my cock as we spoon....but most of all I want to wake in the morning and have the first thing I see be her beautiful face...and the first words I say to be Good Morning Beautiful and for it not to be a text.

[Miss S. Lane 67128]

I have had some wonderfully fabulous overnights, and some... less than desirable.

 

The ones that DIDN'T leave me pleased were typically those where I was 1) Expected to stay up WAY past my bedtime

2) Have a fuck-a-thon whenever my client felt the urge

3) Was woken up at 4 or 5 am with the expectation of sex

 

The ones that went beautifully are the ones that we were relaxed. We would go for dinner, maybe catch a movie, head back to the hotel for private time, eat candy in bed, snuggle, watch TV, fall asleep in each others arms. Wake up, eat breakfast, play a bit and then wrap up our visit.

 

SP's are people too. We need SLEEP (If I don't get enough I'm not a nice person, LOL), we get tired, we need a break from sex sometimes too.

 

Go into an overnight with the expectation of taking your girlfriend on a date and spending the night at her place, or inviting her back to yours. What would you do in that scenario? You sure as hell wouldn't fuck non stop. Yes, it's different with an SP for several reasons but that doesn't change the outcome !!!

 

Food for thought :)