cat 262460 Report post Posted October 5, 2009 Last night I received an email from a potential guest that set me off, and I would like to take a moment to express to those men out there that think they can lie to SP's and get away with it. His emails and pm's were polite and respectful for a couple of days and then out of the blue the request for bbfs comes. I chose not to answer it, and simply deleted his emails. Today I find out he has contacted other SP's with the same request but a completely different story line. He gave me a story to elicit sympathy, tailored to play to my nature. He has obviously read my posts. His entire approach was intentionally manipulative and I thought I would put this out there for the members of CERB to see. CERB is a closer knit community than many realize and those that lurk in this membership intending to take advantage of SP's need to move to another board. This behavior is completely unacceptable and I for one, will not tolerate it. This is the only online community that I maintain an online presence because of the exceptional attitude that MOD works so hard to ensure. For those of you out there who are up to no good, find somewhere else because your kind are not welcome here. Cat 19 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
v*****m*n 220 Report post Posted October 5, 2009 you should have replied back to him outling all the dangers because he obvoiusly does not understand whats out there. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest f***2f*** Report post Posted October 5, 2009 He's a jerk and you treated him the way jerks should be treated...TOTAL IGNORE!! With respect to your nature...you are an outstanding person...I just want to go on record saying something that many of us already know...you're a class act baby!!:-D Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jg24 3708 Report post Posted October 5, 2009 Well it is to bad you can not out the person here if he is a memeber.I know in chat I have had lots of guys send whispers asking of ladies and did I see them. I always look at the persons reviews before answering unless the name stands out that I know is a contributor. If the person has not contributed he gets know info except try the search function. But some people will try anything I guess 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest S***e Report post Posted October 5, 2009 Catherine: What also disturbs me is that he may eventuallly obtain bbfs from someone (not to insinuate a CERB lady would provide this to him) who doesn't possess your intelligence and experience. Very bad Karma on his part. Excellent Karma on your part Catherine. Ladies like you are a credit to the profession and to humanity in general. The only thing Mr. bbfs has coming to him is a bad reputation and worse poor health for his total stupidity. Keep the lines of communication open. Great rant and thread. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
canuckhooker 19203 Report post Posted October 5, 2009 Actually the b****rd should be outed on here because he represents a danger to us all, but I would hope that you have at least put his name and info in the SPs section. On the other note, I too am careful before I give you any info about an SP (or MA) on this board. Too many guys PMing or whispering in chat wanting info I am not willing to give out. If you want to know what services a lady offers, PM her, don't be asking me if you can get her to bend the rules she works with. I guess that is the price I pay for writing recommendations. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Emma Alexandra 123367 Report post Posted October 5, 2009 i'm sure mod knows who it is by now and will take care of him.. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mod 135639 Report post Posted October 5, 2009 If any of you have his IP (you can get this from most email by looking at the header in the "Originating IP" comment or his username here on cerb I will remove him from the site and block the IP. Please DO NOT post the IP but PM it to me and I will do a search. I can search his EMAIL address on here for you as well if you send that to me. We have removed guys before for the same reason. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cat 262460 Report post Posted October 5, 2009 you should have replied back to him outling all the dangers because he obvoiusly does not understand whats out there. He knows exactly what he's doing, and is doing it intentionally. I think this is someone who perhaps has an axe to grind, and something of his own to spread. It follows the MO of these types. cat Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Meg O'Ryan 266444 Report post Posted October 5, 2009 I had the same message!!! I went to his profile and noticed that there was a lot of traffic and figured he is doing this to tons of other nice people! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
fortunateone 156618 Report post Posted October 5, 2009 He knows exactly what he's doing, and is doing it intentionally. I think this is someone who perhaps has an axe to grind, and something of his own to spread. It follows the MO of these types. cat Yep, that is my number one POV about anyone asking for bbfs ... that they have something and deliberately want to spread it around. Maybe it is revenge cuz they blame a woman for giving it to them, or whatever vengeful idiocy, but here is a warning for those who do this for that reason: You can be charged with ASSAULT if you knowingly and willfully engage in bbfs with someone when you have HIV/AIDS or other stds. There are very public cases of men who have AIDS who know that they have it and deliberately have unsafe sex with partners. Some women have died, these men have been charged. And that was with casual partners or setting up these women as if they were their gfs. A significant number of board members from various boards threaten, coerce and blackmail (or try to) to get favours from escorts either with a promise of a good review or the threat of a bad one. Fortunately, cerb members have less power with this kind of threat due to the nature of this board. Exposure is the surest and swiftest way to deal with these kinds of lowlifes. Another warning to these guys: this information IS SHARED all over the place, on other boards in private areas, in public Neighbourhood watch sections, in threads and posts and so on. You will be exposed, to the people who it affects the most. One day you will approach someone who you really should not have and your a** will be toast. :twisted::twisted: 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Grass_Hopper 18263 Report post Posted October 5, 2009 Think about it... For sure, some idiot will accept extra cash for it... In Mtl, that's what's called PSE... Totally unprotected! Instead of looking for the guy who ask for it, streaming among the girls would also be a good idea... I had this offer more than once... I would do it... In your dreams! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
fortunateone 156618 Report post Posted October 5, 2009 Think about it... For sure, some idiot will accept extra cash for it... In Mtl, that's what's called PSE... Totally unprotected! Instead of looking for the guy who ask for it, streaming among the girls would also be a good idea... I had this offer more than once... I would do it... In your dreams! That's the other side of the problem. The ones who have no clue that there is anything wrong with it; the ones who think if there is no CIP there is no problem. Well, when you think about it, how different can it seem to them if they look at a bbbj and a bbfs and they ask you what is the difference? Some cultures don't have the info. I saw a CNN report not that long ago where a young sp in China thought that someone had given her a shot so she was "okay". bbfs is not uncommon in asian micros either, just not talked about. And not usually for extra $$, just for repeat business. If people lack education about stds, which we know they do otherwise no sp would do a bbbj, then they are going to think everything is "okay". Certainly teenagers don't think anything will happen to them, otherwise the rate of stds would not be so high among the 15-20 year olds and the incidence of bbfs is much higher there too. :ablow: Ack! Don't get me started, lol. Pet peeves. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Gabriella Laurence 301887 Report post Posted October 5, 2009 Think about it... For sure, some idiot will accept extra cash for it... In Mtl, that's what's called PSE... Totally unprotected! Instead of looking for the guy who ask for it, streaming among the girls would also be a good idea... I do not want to start a debate over the meaning of GFE and PSE BUT please, know that in Montreal, the Ladies who advertize themselves as PSE are NOT advertizing BBFS! xox 4 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mod 135639 Report post Posted October 6, 2009 A significant number of board members from various boards threaten, coerce and blackmail (or try to) to get favours from escorts either with a promise of a good review or the threat of a bad one. Fortunately, cerb members have less power with this kind of threat due to the nature of this board. Exposure is the surest and swiftest way to deal with these kinds of lowlifes. They have NO POWER here at all.. Anyone even tries something like this and they are removed right away (no matter how many posts or how popular they are) - Cerb will remain SP FRIENDLY! I do not want to start a debate over the meaning of GFE and PSE BUT please, know that in Montreal, the Ladies who advertize themselves as PSE are NOT advertizing BBFS! I hear this a lot, seams that because a lot of porn is shot without protection many guys are assuming that this is what this means. If you advertise PSE you may want to make sure you add a comment about PSE does not mean unsafe sex. 1) this would help stop guys from expecting it 2) Many SAFE guys might stay away from you because they assume you do something unsafe with others. This is the problem with using abbreviations.... it leaves room for assumptions and that can be bad. I am sure we could start a list of funny confused abbreviation meanings where people assumed it meant something other than what it did. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PistolPete 61421 Report post Posted October 6, 2009 All I got to say it did not take me long to figure out who this guy is/was. And good for you Cat for bringing this to everyone attention.:wink: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PistolPete 61421 Report post Posted October 6, 2009 you should have replied back to him outling all the dangers because he obvoiusly does not understand whats out there. Oh no, this guy totally understands, he just does not carry any blood to his brain, or his other brain. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Gabriella Laurence 301887 Report post Posted October 6, 2009 Oh no, this guy totally understands, he just does not carry any blood to his brain, or his other brain. PP, you are way too kind and give too much credit to this "gentleman"! 2 Brains? :rolleyes:LOL I personally don't think his blood has anywhere to circulate to and from Sorry MOD if this sounds negative! xox Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PistolPete 61421 Report post Posted October 6, 2009 PP, you are way too kind and give too much credit to this "gentleman"! 2 Brains? :rolleyes:LOL I personally don't think his blood has anywhere to circulate to and from Sorry MOD if this sounds negative! xox Yes my dear, you are correct about giving far too much credit. I was going to go on a tantrum, but thought it would be best to leave what had happened to him. The thoughts that came across my mind were... why would anyone want to ask a lady this? does he actually think that he could prey upon ladies? does he not have any type of morals? did he actual think he could take advantage of the ladies by asking or if he did thought he could hold this over them? did he actual think ladies here are immature and don't understand the severe consequences? The ladies here, and on EC are for us gentlemen to enjoy their companionship,friendship and of course intimate times together. Not to try and take advantage of them, or ask for services that nobody on this planet would even phantom of trying. Everyone knows the golden rule or at least they should- "Play safe and have fun" protect one another. I think Igotaboner put it best- JERK. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest f***2f*** Report post Posted October 6, 2009 These people are the lowest forms. They prey on the SP's trying to get this service and if they don't get it they will try to destroy the SP by spreading rumors about them (yet another reason to ignore rumors people tell you). In this day and age with all the reports on STDs and the sex ed classes there is no way that some one can claim stupidity and say that they didn't know that BBFS was risky. If anyone is asking for this service they know what they are doing and they know the risks, so either this person is already infected or they have a death wish. Either way it seems best to just ignore them and not feed them any info that they can use to further their sick plans. ........................... *I saw an ad on CL last week or the week before I can't remember when but it was a guy saying he wanted to lose his virginity and he wanted an SP to give him records of her tests to show that she was clean because he wanted it to be all bareback. If that wasn't insane enough that he asked, he puts that he would be offering 9.00 - 14.000/hr. That skips the dumb factor and goes straight into delusionally retarded. Here's the guys ad, this is a sick individual who should be locked away not losing their virginity.- "Currently looking for any ladies that are interested in making a few extra dollars (anywhere from $9.00-$1.40.0 an h.our) that are interested in meeting me for a 1 time only session to help me loose my virginity. Must be clean, STI card is a must have since everything will be Bare/Back. Ladies must be interested in do the following: B.B.B.J, Gr.e.e.K, ri.m.m.ing, and c.i.m. Please contact me with a valid e-mail address, recent pictures are required, and a phone # to reach you at, at a later date. Please if your going to complain about this keep it to yourself, I'm a virgin and trying to go out with a big bang. Please no fakes." Please tell me you are making this shit up!! ha ha ha Heck why work at Tim Horton's when you can make the same money for having bare back sex with a total stranger?? ha ha ha I'm going to support your promotion of this guy from dumb to Retard.:handjob: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Suzirider 737 Report post Posted October 6, 2009 (edited) (anywhere from $9.00-$1.40.0 an h.our) maybe a typo, maybe means $90 to $140 Please no fakes. [/qoute] Me thinks a fake virgin here. trying to go out with a big bang. :ablow::shock: Alarm bells going off here. This dude needs psychiatric assessment. Does he plan to take anyone with him ??? Edited October 7, 2009 by Suzirider added line, formatting Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NatalieWood 6427 Report post Posted October 16, 2009 I know who this is. I have been trying to ignore him, even when he would create new accounts with excuses like "hi, it's me. My account was deleted by accident!" I thought that by ignoring him he would get the hint. Fast forward to last night I arrive at an Outcall for someone who is "in town for business" and who opens the door but him! Girls, he even looks like a scary dirtbag! And thankfully I knew it was him from the dozens of photos he would relentlessly send me of himself flexing in a mirror (not once did I ask for a photo) Is there any way to have his IP address permanently banned? I don't want to answer any messages from people with moderated accounts anymore Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
etasman2000 15994 Report post Posted October 16, 2009 Is there any way to have his IP address permanently banned? Unfortunately not really. I have something called a dynamic IP address, it is *suppose* to change every few days. The reality is it changes every couple of weeks. Internet Providers are motivated to have dynamic IP because they can service more customers using a smaller pool of IP addresses, the theory being not all their customers are on all the time. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kih 458 Report post Posted October 16, 2009 I know who this is. I have been trying to ignore him, even when he would create new accounts with excuses like "hi, it's me. My account was deleted by accident!" I thought that by ignoring him he would get the hint. Fast forward to last night I arrive at an Outcall for someone who is "in town for business" and who opens the door but him! Girls, he even looks like a scary dirtbag! And thankfully I knew it was him from the dozens of photos he would relentlessly send me of himself flexing in a mirror (not once did I ask for a photo) Is there any way to have his IP address permanently banned? I don't want to answer any messages from people with moderated accounts anymore He appears to be a conniving scum bag -- If he is a member here or former member (after the mod gets him) -- why not reveal his many identities to all to benefit the community. Just a thought! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PistolPete 61421 Report post Posted October 16, 2009 I certainly hope that you ladies are revealing this individual in your SP area for Dangerous Encounters, give each other all the IP addresses that he may use, cell number any contact info on him. Protect yourselves from him. "My account was deleted by accident" ya right... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
