Cuddle's, Kissing and Hugs. How important

[someguy 67067]

How important are kissing, cuddles and hug's in your sessions.

 

For me, it is very important for the full enjoyment of a woman.

I love a woman that kiss and cuddle. It's nice to be welcomed with a nice hug and kiss when you first meet. It's nice to say good by with a nice and kiss.

 

Kissing is important in any encounter with either SP or MA, it can make or break a session. Sex is good, but without kissing or cuddling in between, it's just not the same. Cuddling and talking after the deed has been done is a nice way to relax and get to know a person. It's nice to be held and I find it more intimate some times then the sex itself. It shows that the person trust's you allow you to cuddle with them.

 

What's your opinion?

 

Do you women like to kiss, cuddle and hug during the session with a new person? or only after a 2nd or 3rd session.

[Guest **cely***r***ne]

For me it is very important...But to each their own. (ymmv applies)

 

I like holding the person with whom I am sharing intimate moments with. Sitting on their lap fucking them and just holding them and kissing them...rubbing them all over...But it all depends on the type of encounter for me.

 

If it is a gfe session well of course kissing, cuddling and all things associated are included...it wouldn't be a gfe without that would it?

 

But for pse encounters...yes I'll kiss you with my dirty mouth. I'll snowball you too, if it is what we want..but I save the cuddling for afterwards...while you catch your breath and wait for more..

[Motorbykerider 4754]

Jesus, I'm getting a chubby just reading this...

[Midnite-Energies 110563]

Kissing is something that turns me on no end and is connected to just about every part of my body. When done right, I crave more...passion, intensity. There is also something terribly erotic about the slipping and sliding of tongues that makes me envision the sliding of cock or wet lips, both above and below. Love that connection during as well although sometimes the passion sweeps you up and mouths are busy making other noises recognizable throughout the ages.

 

It's different on this side of the fence because to me, it's more about your pleasure and sharing in that then getting what I want. I get what I like/want from what you are prepared to share/give. If you are a kisser/hugger/cuddler, then the visual of the "touchdown dance" ensues because I love those aspects. If you're not, I'm still going to enjoy just within the boundaries.

 

I'm very oral and very hands on, that's my nature. Flesh under my lips and hands is like fresh air in my lungs. Breathing is just a little shallower without but still good.

[HarveySpecter 1908]

All very important.

Introductory hugs with little chat teasing towards some kisses or a long deep kissing session, tongue on tongue, lip on lip and body on body.

After deed is done some cuddling and chatting about whatever comes to mind then hugs/ kiss good bye

 

Those introductory moments always set the mood for me so very important and great if the lady leads/ is into it as well.

[Fresh start 17467]

Cuddling, kissing and hugging, for me is the whole reason for me seeing these lovely ladies. That sort of intimacy, is so therapeutic for me. Happy ending or getting off is secondary. Even if its only for a moment or its temporary, but when engaged in theses activities it provides me a sense of love, which for me is one of my needs I require. For someone who has been diagnosed with depression this is something I found clear my mind and keep me happy even if its for a moment. Reminding me and giving me hope when I'm really down that I can still feel good, and these sad feelings will eventual pass.

 

Oh and on a side note this gets me off. Sex for me is just as much psychological as it is physical I have to feel the intimacy. Kinda why pse ain't for me cause I'll pass out from exhaustion before I orgasm.

[McGuinessDraft 2240]

I think the vote is unanimous, especially with a "GFE" Thats the basis of what makes a girlfriend. It helps to break the ice, create comfort and enhance intimacy. Half the fun of an encounter is gently caressing and looking at a womans body after sex. Anything else just seems forced and robotic.

[Luckyme 41401]

To me, cuddling, kissing and hugging are part of the GFE that I crave and cherish so much. The whole GFE is why I go to see my ATF's again and again. I would venture that the time spent on cuddling, kissing and hugging contitutes about 70% of the total time I will spend with my beautiful ladies.

[Boomer 33202]

I would agree with the general consensus. However, I don't think it's something that can always be expected and forthcoming. Many girls are reticent about the kissing for a number of reasons, health, and it is a very personal thing that they might reserve for their boyfriends or SOs. That said I do like kissing and cuddling and tend to go back and see the girls that are receptive.

[Guest webothscore]

It adds to the "wow" factor. I mean, lying on your sides, man's chest against a lady's back, while he caresses her breasts as she brings his face in for a kiss. Perfect!

[Danielle Jackson 465]

I am basically a GFE kinna guy there fore Cuddling and DFK must always be an option when I book a SP

[Guest realnicehat]

I get as much, if not more, from the affection than I do the sex. It is the reason I tend to book multiple hour appointments and seek out those ladies who advertise these services.

 

Let's be honest, each and every one of us can give ourselves an orgasm at any time. The pornography and sex toy industry is booming and largely focussed on self pleasure.

 

So why should I even leave the privacy of home? Because to the best of my knowledge there has yet to be a product invented that can provide basic human affection. The warmth of another body, the gentle caress of a hand, a soft breath against your neck.

 

For me, laying with a women in my arms, chatting and laughing, is heavenly. Would I prefer to have this in my everyday life? Of course. But until I find the right person (people?) for that I will seek comfort in the beds and arms of the wonderful women I stumble across in this highly entertaining world known as Cerb.

 

I don't expect magic from every encounter, I realize that everyone doesn't always fit together, but more often that not I walk away recharged having received (and given) all the affection I can handle. Not to brag, but I'm a pretty fucking awesome cuddler...

[Cozmic 250]

Agree with all the above, and after reading these posts boy what I would give right now for that kind of encounter. The intimacy, soft touch, tease is what I would be craving also. Otherwise as others have said, why bother going out. Being greeted at the door with a soft kiss and hug, lots more kissing and caressing leading up to the boiling point, with cuddling and more kissing after would be what I envision.

 

So do you ask if this gfe is available up front, I know ymmv applies too but would it include cuddling, dfk, daty, etc. Most ladies prefer to communicate by text, but would it be better to ask these questions by phone as a follow up. Think it would also be nice to hear each other's voice before an encounter?

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[747LeftSeat 699]

How important? On a scale of 1-10, 11.

[Guest realnicehat]

Most ladies prefer to communicate by text, but would it be better to ask these questions by phone as a follow up. Think it would also be nice to hear each other's voice before an encounter?

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I'm sure after a few texts you could arrange a phone call at an agreed upon time. Texts are probably easier to manage and offer greater discretion during their everyday routine but I'm sure if you are respectful and appear serious they will accommodate you at a more convenient time.

[redmana2 2754]

I would agree with the general consensus. However, I don't think it's something that can always be expected and forthcoming. Many girls are reticent about the kissing for a number of reasons, health, and it is a very personal thing that they might reserve for their boyfriends or SOs. That said I do like kissing and cuddling and tend to go back and see the girls that are receptive.

 

Another reason, which more that one SP has given me for excluding any kind of kiss from the session, is that it greatly increases the intimacy of the date. Thereby increasing the likelihood that one party will develop an undesired emotional attachment. Not everybody can always separate physical and emotional love. I can respect an SP wanting to minimize the chance of a guy getting an unhealthy crush (or vice versa).

 

Overall I consider kissing a nice bonus, but not a requirement for good GFE date.

[loopie 15358]

I like to take things slow and kiss 'n cuddle lots both before and after.

[Brad 49548]

Just adding to the consensus here.

 

I'm thrilled when kissing and cuddling take place, and it can make an already stupendous encounter stupendoser (I'm declaring that a word!). But I also respect and understand that it isn't always offered, even with GFE.

[Frank7 3939]

Extremely important. If it's not an option, I won't book. As someone else said, I can always give myself an orgasm alone, but those things, I can't.

 

I understand that some ladies don't want to and respect that. However, that's my needs. Just like I wouldn't go see an RMT if I want a happy ending, or a MA if I want FS, I'll stick with the ladies that gladly offer what I love. =)

[TiffanyXXX000 21415]

I love, Love, LOVE kissing cuddling and snuggle time with my guests! It gives each of us time to chat, snuggle and just run our hands all over each others bodies. Lots of heated passionate kisses before and sweet little pecks and smooches after while in each others arms is a perfect encounter for me!

As an MA I find it very important to offer a very intimate and personalized in the moment encounter, finding my way there through kissing, and cuddling is all part of the fun :)

Kisses!

XoX

[emiafish 30979]

I love, Love, LOVE kissing cuddling and snuggle time with my guests! It gives each of us time to chat, snuggle and just run our hands all over each others bodies. Lots of heated passionate kisses before and sweet little pecks and smooches after while in each others arms is a perfect encounter for me!

As an MA I find it very important to offer a very intimate and personalized in the moment encounter, finding my way there through kissing, and cuddling is all part of the fun :)

Kisses!

XoX

 

I fully endorse everything Tiff wrote. There is an instant intimacy created by kissing. IMHO this adds greatly to any encounter. Of course, good oral hygiene is a must. There is nothing worse than kissing someone with bad breath. But, soft lips, sweet breath and an inviting, playful mouth are always welcome.

[futileresistenz 28253]

On this question, I don't seem to be any different than most here, as I consider cuddling and kissing to be very important in a GFE encounter. It adds so much to the experience that I just wouldn't book anyone that I knew that didn't offer it.

 

The ones that don't have their good reasons and I respect that, but for me it's nothing short of a deal-breaker to not be able to feel the closeness, body heat, and intimacy these activities offer (although of necessity within time and other limits). I always cherish those make-out moments among the most.

 

And so far I've not fallen deeply yet, as I know to separate the worlds.

FR

[someguy 67067]

I'm glad to see that Kissing and cuddling is important to many of the people here. It add's to the true GFE session. Nothing better to end the session just kissing and cuddling and holding each other. It's just something that some of us need to comfort us and make us happy. I've been very lucky and have met many woman who like to kiss and cuddle. I would find it very unsatisfying to have FS with no kissing :(.

 

But I've been lucky so far :) and have had many great experiences, and each new experience seems to be better then the last :)

[6dave9 4008]

Cuddling, kissing and hugging, for me is the whole reason for me seeing these lovely ladies. That sort of intimacy, is so therapeutic for me. Happy ending or getting off is secondary. Even if its only for a moment or its temporary, but when engaged in theses activities it provides me a sense of love, which for me is one of my needs I require. For someone who has been diagnosed with depression this is something I found clear my mind and keep me happy even if its for a moment. Reminding me and giving me hope when I'm really down that I can still feel good, and these sad feelings will eventual pass.

 

Oh and on a side note this gets me off. Sex for me is just as much psychological as it is physical I have to feel the intimacy. Kinda why pse ain't for me cause I'll pass out from exhaustion before I orgasm.

 

Indeed, I could not have said it better... but I would not go as far as saying the climax is secondary though, the glide back down to earth WITH the hugs and cuddling is the total package..

my 2c..

[MightyPen 67414]

Totally depends on the nature of the session.

 

Most of the time I'm after some mutual affection and a sense of connection at least as much as any sexual "release". For these GFE sessions there's lots of gentle intimacy, strokes and cuddles, and laughter -- humour is one of the most important parts of a human connection for me and lets me know I'm comfortable and in a natural shared headspace with my companion. Plus kisses, cuddles, and just curling up and feeling each other breathe.

 

But that said: sometimes I'm after something a bit more purely lustful and irrational, a little darker and fetishy, maybe with some roleplaying that makes the situation purposely artificial. In that case... sometimes that shift in context is part of the point, and affectionate strokes and cuddles would get in the way of that other emotional space you're actually aiming for. It's a matter of: which part of my sexuality wants to come out to play today?

 

What I can tell you is that if I'm after that second kind of encounter, the lady will know in advance so we're both on the same page from the start (!).