Secret-Silhouettes 3385 Report post Posted August 21, 2013 I am still giddy from yesterday. It's nice to be around men... who enjoy being around a curvy woman. I do however have a REALLY hard time taking compliments. I always say yeah yeah, or hush, or what ever. I have been getting better (since I became an SP two months ago) to where I can say "thank you" and not follow it up with a snarky comment. However..... Do compliments have less meaning to you if they are just silly things like.. "I want to motorboat you" translates to nice boobs You have beautiful eyes. (really? you havent looked at them once dude) on the other hand... You are amazing You are stunning things like that just make me melt. While they are all compliments, some feel more heartfelt.... have more meaning behind them. is it just me? What do you like to hear? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest webothscore Report post Posted August 21, 2013 In addition to what some members will respond with, you are welcome to peruse this link on compliments. I recall another as well... http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=145205&highlight=compliments Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
fortunateone 156618 Report post Posted August 21, 2013 I always just say Thank You. It is nice to hear, but I have in the back of my mind something a friend said about me that she appreciated I didn't respond with a fake modesty or denial kind of reply. Doing that tends to look like fishing for more compliments, just saying thank you shows appreciating the comment, and nothing wrong with that. Also saying thank you doesn't mean you necessarily agree with the compliment, lol, and that you have a big ego. You'll find you get compliments for the very things about you that bother you, or that you'd like to keep hidden. Funny but true. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites