xxxAxxx 21016 Report post Posted August 24, 2013 Unfortunately not an option. That's why this is titled GANG BANG and not ORGY. Sorry to dissapoint you.... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
JustJack 4689 Report post Posted August 24, 2013 For me its just timing. I've attended a few over the years and always had a great time. I've rarely seen your posts about GB's until after they had occurred. One suggestion could be to have it the same time every month, example, first Saturday of each month, so interested people would know about it and plan for it. Maybe one in the day and one at night as some are only available at night and others prefer during the day. Feel free to let me know about your next one. 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ngtime 560 Report post Posted August 25, 2013 We have all seen videos of this, but the actual event scares many off. As roaming guy said many of us are looking for the GFE. While many of us have wild fantasy thoughts about this, it ends there. Concluding I believe it appeals to real small minority who would actually participate in such an event and of those using the 10% rule of those who show up? There's your answer... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PistolPete 61421 Report post Posted August 25, 2013 That some that have commented on this thread, have never experienced the lifestyle. Having said that, I've did a couple of gang bangs quite some time ago AND also experienced MMFF, and MMMFFF more of an orgy ;) But I enjoyed both scenario's :) Your poll is revealing that nerves is the biggest issue, but I have a funny feeling that those that "want/like" to experience the gang bang never have before, and therefore the poll is misleading. CH and JJ nailed it, it is more about the "timing and advertising" although I think you also advertise in the "gang bang social group". My days start pretty early, and I look forward to getting home to BBQ and R&R throughout the week nights. Now on the other hand if there was that option during the day, and I was available I would attend, but I'm a minority so I NEVER give a "I like to" or in fact on a "mailing list", it gives false pre tense to the lady. When I want to attend, hopefully the timing is good and the lady would accept ME as possibly a late "entry" LOL... I like that..late.... entry... :) :) 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Jazzitup 5652 Report post Posted August 25, 2013 I did not participate in the poll. But I did want to make the point about timing. I think during this time of the year there are a lot of people on summer holidays and so they are not in their regular routine. This makes it very hard to commit to any events. Once September rolls around things will settle down to their usual pace. If you make it a monthly event, I think you should change it up making it some combination of weekend/week day/afternoon/evening/night time. This may attract different guys and you would also get a sense of what works for these clients. Just advertise it a month in advance. Good luck with this. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
VexingVixen 2519 Report post Posted August 25, 2013 I love GB, but its always difficult to get a good number to actually show ;) Once summer is past though, people fall into more of a routine and you should have fewer drop outs! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jg24 3708 Report post Posted August 25, 2013 Alexis thanks for the thread and post For me I have always wanted to try one of these events for me the drawbacks are I enquire as I have with you and when I think about so no For afraid to meet someone I know as I have kept my hobby private for a ver long time Performance will I be as good as the next guy I'm no jock and if 4 other guys were I would feel out of place For me I have been asked to do a 3some 2 guys and a lady and have backed out I applaud you for trying to get us guys involved wish I could get by My insecurities and try it just once. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BradGalt 140 Report post Posted August 28, 2013 I would totally commit to a GB with you, Alexxxis. It's always about timing for me.I never hobby in my home town, and visit Ottawa about twice a year. If I ever saw that you were hosting one when I was in town, I'd be there...no bailin'! Xox Brad Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Hastings56 1148 Report post Posted August 29, 2013 I'm new to cerb (six months) and I think this is a terrific site! I would like to try this activity so, I will watch for up cumming Gang Bang/poly party events!.......(sorry couldn't resist that....lol) Looking forward to meeting more Cerb friends at the Sept social! Cheers everybody!! :icon_wink: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
castle 38816 Report post Posted August 29, 2013 Well I have never been to one but I must say that your ads for this have intrigued me, Alexxxis. I've definitely thought about it but can't say for sure if it's my scene...therefore you may want to disregard my vote for "nerves" since I've never attended one (I voted before I read your first post lol). That being said it is an act that has always interested me and has me very curious. I've seen a fair amount of GB porn in my day and it's almost always a turn on for me. Of course I realize that with all things in porn, it's probably a poor reflection of reality....but that almost unrestricted and.....for the lack of a better term..."slutty"...aspect of a GB between consenting adults has always turned me on. The reason I haven't made the plunge IS nerves. I tend to prefer PSE style encounters so the lack of intimacy isn't really an issue for me...at least I don't think it is lol. The thing is, I'm shy by nature...and with a one on one encounter I KNOW who I'm going to meet. Not so with a GB. Also, what if I can't perform because of the stress of it? Lets face it...it happens to the best of us. Dealing with the embarrassment of something like that in the presence of a friendly and understanding SP is one thing. But in the presence of said sp AND a room full of guys I've never met? That's another ballgame entirely (pun intended :p). Plus....Ottawa is a very "small town" in a lot of ways. And the hobbying community is even smaller. It's not too far fetched to imagine that I would show up at one of these events and find a friend, one of my co-workers, or *gag* a relative there. My anonymity is something I take relatively seriously when it comes to this lifestyle. So that's also a concern. So I wouldn't go as far as to say that the GB scene doesn't interest me.....clearly it does....I just gotta work up the balls to take the leap! My long winded of saying that the reason I haven't RSVP'd is nerves lol. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
redbeard 324 Report post Posted August 30, 2013 I don't understand why people are so afraid of seeing someone they might know at a gangbang, we all like our privacy, if he outs you, he outs himself. Don't think he'd out you on his death bed. Probably the last thing that worries me frankly. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
castle 38816 Report post Posted August 30, 2013 I don't understand why people are so afraid of seeing someone they might know at a gangbang, we all like our privacy, if he outs you, he outs himself. Don't think he'd out you on his death bed. Probably the last thing that worries me frankly. Not really worried about someone I know outing me. It would just be awkward as all hell. For me personally, seeing someone I know would completely ruin the experience for me. I kinda view "Castle" and the real me as 2 separate people....sounds a little schizo I know lol......kinda like how in Seinfeld there was Everyday George and Relationship George.....at no point can the two meet or worlds would collide! :p Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Cohiba69 1158 Report post Posted September 4, 2013 Personally, as much as the whole scenario turns me on, the initial "plunge" (i.e. getting naked with a bunch of guys I don't know and getting the GB started) would be like diving into a cold pool on a hot day ... and would probably have the same effect on my "boys" hahaha. And the last thing I need in that situation is shrinkage! But seriously, a little lead-in time would definitely be beneficial. Just my 2 cents worth. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
spiff 110 Report post Posted September 4, 2013 Nerves are not my issue....now. They were when I first gave this a whirl while visiting London a while ago. Once I got over my apprehension, I had a blast! http://www.adultpartieslondon.com/PARTIES/gangbang.htm Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Ni**t*****t Report post Posted September 4, 2013 Personally, as much as the whole scenario turns me on, the initial "plunge" (i.e. getting naked with a bunch of guys I don't know and getting the GB started) would be like diving into a cold pool on a hot day ... and would probably have the same effect on my "boys" hahaha. And the last thing I need in that situation is shrinkage!But seriously, a little lead-in time would definitely be beneficial. Just my 2 cents worth. I agree... the idea is very hot and appealing, but actually taking the plunge is another matter... I would love to try but, like many, am afraid to really go ahead, get naked, getting it up, joining in with a bunch of other naked guys who got it up, etc. Some sort of "training" session might help? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rabuf 100 Report post Posted September 14, 2013 Just a thought.... Would it make a difference if there were a couple of ladies involved? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wishing34 110 Report post Posted September 21, 2013 I am a huge fan of gangbang porn, and prefer pse encounters. That being said I have been afraid to attend a ganbang for fear of being too shy to take what I want in that situation. I am horribly introverted by nature, but also quite perverted. I would really like to overcome that fear / concern and just enjoy. For some reason I get concerned that I would keep trying to go anal and getting frustrated at being cock blocked. I don't know what the etiquette for this type of thing would be. Do you have a clock or timer so that you regularly switch positions holes whatever so no one gets left out of the fun. Maybe ganbang light trials, with just 3 guys or something to act as ice breakers or qualifiers for bigger events? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
spencer2 278 Report post Posted September 23, 2013 I don't think a gang bang is a suitable venue for an introvert. You just go with what is available, anus, pussy, mouth or her hands. Essentially, there is room at the "table" for 5 guys so the star of the event is always fully occupied! You will find that by the end of the session, everyone is fully satisfied specially the lady! Be bold go and enjoy it Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
canuckhooker 19203 Report post Posted September 23, 2013 Whoa!!! There is a misconception about this, based solely I think on what guys see in porn movies. Yes, I have seen ladies handle multiple guys, (never up to 5 at once as that takes a lot of planning) but that is for a very short portion of an event. That is tiring and demanding for the lady. For the most part it would be one or two guys at the same time, with people swapping out. If you had more than one lady, even the better. The best thing to remember in events like this is that "sharing is caring" so you take turns. There is not script, you go with the flow, everyone gets to participate, and everybody is happy. If you go to the event thinking that your penis is going to be in contact with the provider for every minute of the event, then you are going to be disappointed, and more importantly annoy the other participants. 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
xxxAxxx 21016 Report post Posted September 27, 2013 I think part of the adventure is also a certain amount voyeurism too, you have to be able to stay excited watching a lady with another man, elsewise why on earth are you here? LOL This has been a very helpful thread poll, I thank you all for the input, ideas, votes and opinions too! :) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Viccowboy 120 Report post Posted October 4, 2013 So where do I get on this list? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Viccowboy 120 Report post Posted October 9, 2013 Any gb plans for November? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
xxxAxxx 21016 Report post Posted October 9, 2013 Thinking about planning one for next week and possibly another in mid-november yes :D Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
irwin0072003 236 Report post Posted October 9, 2013 I think sometimes I'm a little dominate and aren't sure how I would feel if some other dude is where I want to be, I could spend the better part of a day DATY, while some other dude is tryn to jam it in at the same time, it could be disappointed, ah fuck it I'm. I haven't seen one talk about cost, we all know that secretly that is a Factor. Call me baby would love to be in the next one. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
xxxAxxx 21016 Report post Posted October 9, 2013 I'm a little confused as to why you want in, when you spoke of such an event in a negative light? U don't like to share, I don't think you'd enjoy this type of party....and yes, there is a cost involved. Thought that was implied considering the site we are on? 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
