What to do for a hobbyist retirement?

[CoolCucumber 2610]

Hi all. Although I am new here, I am not new to hobbying. Recently, I have decided to drop out of the hobby as I am not getting younger but the SPs are. I had a few favorites over the years and I had a few regulars recently. I decided to offer my absolute favorite escort a large sum to accompany me on a weekend as my retirement party. We have both been very comfortable with one another and I have seen her almost monthly for two to three years. But we never had an overnight. I was planning to overpay, as part of it is to thank her for the excellent service she has given me. But, without going into details, it won't happen. So now I am looking for a final adventure that will have me leaving this hobby with an amazing final experience.

 

Assuming money is no object, what would you do for your final SP experience?

[mrgreen760 37785]

Interesting question, I'm on the cusp as well and have set the date where I'll fade away. I've never been a "bucket list" kind of guy within this game or real life. I expect I'll see a regular or favorite and likely won't tell her either until after when I send my usual thank you email or text.

 

But that's just me.

 

Peace

MG

[kissnbandit 203]

That's a fun question to ponder. If money were not object, stock your weekend location with SP's like a candy store and I'm sure together you'll come up with something memorable.

[CoolCucumber 2610]

My original idea was to go with one favorite to have an experience that didn't include having to hurry up and get dressed and leave because the next guy was coming. And a sleepover. Since sleepovers require a certain level of comfort (familiarity) and are between 1000-2000 per night, then having many girls would probably make money an object :-). But maybe a parade of different girls over the weekend would be fun...

[Chanel Reign 28097]

She will be a very lucky woman. I have done Staycations in the past where I am with a Gent for hours and hours. I have also gone on vacations with some very happy results.

 

So speaking from experience, treat her well, firstly. For your chosen Lady, perhaps ask her what she might like and if it suits you, do it.

 

Flowers and good conversation or a spicy movie might work, you won't be "active" the whole time. Also try something you have never done before. Perhaps an agreed upon third playmate for an hour or so?

 

Or do what you wanted and have a parade with your favourites. It is your weekend after all! Make it memorable.

 

I would like to note here that I am always sad to see men leave because of age. Either theirs or the SP pool. But especially when they think they are "beyond" an acceptable age. You might be stunned to know that there are some very sexy and desirable older Gents out there that hobby well into their 70's and even 80's. It is always a pleasant surprise.

 

If the SP's are getting younger to a hobbiest, and I am not trying to change your mind here, sometimes one needs to find someone they are more comfortable with. Again, it's been my experience that sometimes it's not all about the sex, but comfort and connection, which of course then brings out some amazing sex, in whatever form it takes.

 

Of course if you like variety, then I wish you the best choices CERB has to offer. :icon_smile:

[steveyK 4311]

Mike, go with your original idea, only since the one you want won't go, and you were going to pay extra anyway, get two or three for the wknd... hehehe

[bcguy42 38594]

Going to the OP's actual question, what would I do for a last hurrah if I knew, for whatever reason, I was leaving the game?

 

I would figure out how to explain being gone for 24 hours.

 

I would arrange to spend those 24 hours with a specific terribly wonderful lady.

 

We would spend 22 of those hours just being... chatting, walking, drinking wine, holding each other in bed.

 

Interspersed in there we would spend one hour on a duo with her and another specific lady. We would spend another hour just the two of us being as intensely sexual as possible.

 

And if everything went according to plan, at the end of the 24 hours, the EMTs would show up to take me to recovery.

[CoolCucumber 2610]

Mike, go with your original idea, only since the one you want won't go, and you were going to pay extra anyway, get two or three for the wknd... hehehe

 

Not a bad idea. It is an away trip so the girl I intended to come with me and I could go out in public without fear of being recognized and it is a work trip, so I have to leave the room for about 6 or more hours each day I am there. Without a regular girl, sleepovers are out. I'd never be able to sleep with someone i didn't trust in the room with me. So I guess the best thing to do in this case is invite girls from that city to come and meet me, but a few duos and/or trios would certainly be a good way to go out with a bang (pun intended).

[Peachka 4334]

Not a bad idea. It is an away trip so the girl I intended to come with me and I could go out in public without fear of being recognized and it is a work trip, so I have to leave the room for about 6 or more hours each day I am there. Without a regular girl, sleepovers are out. I'd never be able to sleep with someone i didn't trust in the room with me. So I guess the best thing to do in this case is invite girls from that city to come and meet me, but a few duos and/or trios would certainly be a good way to go out with a bang (pun intended).

 

You may want to consider a Caribbean vacation at Viking or another resort!

 

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[Winnipegcub 21293]

I've thought about this too and great question to ponder.

When I leave I would like to celebrate how I've approached this. Many gents are unique in what they like from these activities. I would say to look back and consider what brought you the most happiness and pleasure and expand upon that. So for some it might be something more erotic. Might be something more risky or kinky. Might be more private/intimate. Might involve multiple partners.

Etc...

 

For me if I've been at this for awhile and now leaving, I would go with what I've enjoyed most. And in my case it is about a 5 day get away to somewhere half way around the world. It would involve much art, music, culture and food. I would want it to memorable that we would both never forget. And I would want her to have something that she would cherish and keep, so she could look back on our relationship and final time together. (Ok now I'm excited and sad...and not quite ready) Cub

[CoolCucumber 2610]

 

For me if I've been at this for awhile and now leaving, I would go with what I've enjoyed most. And in my case it is about a 5 day get away to somewhere half way around the world. It would involve much art, music, culture and food. I would want it to memorable that we would both never forget. And I would want her to have something that she would cherish and keep, so she could look back on our relationship and final time together. (Ok now I'm excited and sad...and not quite ready) Cub

 

This is similar to what I had proposed to my favorite SP, only it would have been two or three nights and not that far away. But all expenses paid, shopping, fine dining etc. All the things we didn't do as client/SP in town. And, no strings attached, as always. But, she mistakenly got the impression that I wanted more despite my assertion that she read too much into it. Her loss.

[Chanel Reign 28097]

This is similar to what I had proposed to my favorite SP, only it would have been two or three nights and not that far away. But all expenses paid, shopping, fine dining etc. All the things we didn't do as client/SP in town. And, no strings attached, as always. But, she mistakenly got the impression that I wanted more despite my assertion that she read too much into it. Her loss.

 

Wow, I am so sorry this happened. It sounds like it would have been a very memorable and wonderful experience for both of you. Sometimes miscommunication can happen, and in this case must have been a real let down for you.

 

And yes it is her loss. In this business trust and discretion are utmost. At least to some of us. This is why I am more of a "regular" Lady. I trust the Gents who visit my home, so the doubts and uncertainties are not there. I find this makes for a more enjoyable experience for both of us, allowing us to be, well...us!

 

While most SP's prefer multiple clients daily, not all of us do. I see one Gent a day and usually not on weekends. My hours of operation are just like any other business. Of course there are times when I will see a new Gent/Lady and yes I am as nervous as they are. Some come back, others don't.

 

Again I am truly sorry this happened to you. After that many years of seeing the same person, I would have expected that trust would have not been an issue and the miscommunication would have been cleared up by your words. I sincerely hope this has not tarred us all with the same brush.

 

Good luck with your endeavour, whatever that might be.

[CoolCucumber 2610]

Wow, I am so sorry this happened. It sounds like it would have been a very memorable and wonderful experience for both of you. Sometimes miscommunication can happen, and in this case must have been a real let down for you.

 

And yes it is her loss. In this business trust and discretion are utmost. At least to some of us. This is why I am more of a "regular" Lady. I trust the Gents who visit my home, so the doubts and uncertainties are not there. I find this makes for a more enjoyable experience for both of us, allowing us to be, well...us!

 

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Again I am truly sorry this happened to you. After that many years of seeing the same person, I would have expected that trust would have not been an issue and the miscommunication would have been cleared up by your words. I sincerely hope this has not tarred us all with the same brush.

 

Good luck with your endeavour, whatever that might be.

 

I don't blame her and the experience hasn't tarred anyone. Events in my private life started to leak into our conversations and I'm pretty sure I came across as needy in the weeks leading up to my decision to walk away from this lifestyle. But, rest assured, the last thing I want in my life is a relationship with anyone. I've had lots of them and married the one who I loved most of all. We had 2 great kids but in the end, I realized life is best for me when I'm unattached. Now I find myself here and I'm having lots of fun. Organizing this "retirement party" has been a blast so far :-)

[Phaedrus 209521]

Assuming money is no object, what would you do for your final SP experience?

 

[roamingguy 300292]

Assuming money is no object, what would you do for your final SP experience?

 

Well for me it would be a longer encounter, like maybe a week long escape (as long as the lady is agreeable) Whether a holiday somewhere, or get a hotel in a Canadian city don't know, that would be done in discussion with the lady. Mind you, at least for me, to some degree I do that now. I schedule longer encounters (now three to four hours) and am planning a weekend escape for 2014. Point is, I won't wait till retirement to plan a special experience, I'm always hoping each and every encounter will be special in some way

Also, if money is no object (and your single) why retire. Even if getting older (and I am too) well seeing a companion, at least for me, is more than just about sex. It is about an escape, companionship, maybe friendship, with no strings attached. If you can continue to afford this lifestyle and enjoy it, why retire

A morning rambling

RG

[CoolCucumber 2610]

I'm in London, UK at the moment. I came here for work related reasons. But I had yesterday (Tuesday) off. So Monday night, I went to a restaurant and then a pub. When I got back to the hotel, I decided to look around different sites. After at least an hour, I called an agency with a girl listed as spanish whose incall is in the same neighbourhood. I'm in her room about 20 minutes later. She's spectacular looking. And there's no way she is spanish. Her accent reveals her to be Persian. We have an amazing encounter. At the end, I ask her (conversationally) what she is doing. She replies that she has no plans. I propose she spend the day with me as my escort. She accepts. We agree on financials and I tel her where I am staying. The next day, she arrives at my room a little past lunchtime. We have some fun. Then we go out and she takes me all over the place, showing me tourist attractions, little known restaurants and pubs etc. After a long day of fun, we return to my hotel and have a different kind of fun. At the end of the day, I kiss her on the forehead and tel her that spending the last day with her was amazing. She kisses me back and says, "Keep it to yourself." She gives me a big hug and we say our goodbyes.

 

That was the best experience ever in this hobby. I doubt I will ever experience something that good again. This is the one to go out on. This was my retirement party. If I had a "type" that girl was it. She made my trip memorable. Thanks everyone for your comments. Mike

[Hector17 9215]

That was the best experience ever in this hobby. I doubt I will ever experience something that good again. This is the one to go out on. This was my retirement party. If I had a "type" that girl was it. She made my trip memorable. Thanks everyone for your comments. Mike

 

Good for you...an Sp told me once...you shouldn't have a plan when it comes to what happens during a rendez vous.

Wise words...good advice!

[LuvAlts (AKA BownChickaBow 438]

Great question OP to get one thinking :)

 

My example to you is based on previous experiences I have already had with special ladies, which when combined, is how I could see one retiring happily...

 

Step 1 - Do a tour!

Re-visit all the top ladies you have seen in your career. Thank them for their time and company, and the joy they brought you.

 

Step 2 - Complete your list!

Finally go see all the top ladies you have on your 'short-list' of ladies whom you have not had the pleasure of seeing yet, but always wanted to. Try something new, maybe a wild PSE if you haven't before.

 

Step 3 - The 2-Part Grand Finale!

Part 1: Go fancy schmancy! Book your fave interactive duo for a limo dinner date. Have them go to the spa and pamper themselves, getting their hair done and dressed-up in gowns for a formal dinner at your fave restaurant. Do a limo tour along the Canal and by Parliament. (I can honestly say, there is something a little extra fun about getting head while driving by Parli and shagging along the Canal hehe) Have a meal, have flowers brought out, drink some wine, return to the limo for dessert. Chocolate dipped strawberries, more champagne and of course - them! Return to your house or a hotel (for example) and swing from the chandeliers til the rooster crows!

Part 2: Go on a getaway! Take Via Rail downtown Montreal with your fave lady and stay at the nearby Le Square Phillips hotel, their top suite. It's a short walk to Old Montreal with a boardwalk, you can do the Horse Carriage, grab an ice cream and find a really nice restaurant. As well, not far in the other direction is the Montreal inner-city train which easily takes you to the Botanical Gardens. Then hit-up the Gardens Cafe too. All very serene and horny, imo :D Taking the trains allows you to walk around holding hands and talk more, as compared to driving to Mtrl yourself, or taking a cab to the Gardens. If during hockey season, then go see a game right next door. As well, don't forget the amazing lingerie modeling afternoon you will have while shopping for sexy lingerie on Catherine Street - she will thank you later! hehe (...and you will retire one happy man) *Cue the song: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5O6widyfaeI*

 

...then proceed to bask in the afterglow as your fade to black on a high note - top of your game even!! ;)

 

All the best in whatever you decide upon. I'm sure the lady(ladies) whom is(are) chosen will be appreciative.

Take care weary traveler - may the force be with you!

[CoolCucumber 2610]

OK, I'm back from London and came across an SP who I only saw once back in May but I talk to her here on CERB often. I appreciate our chat and PM conversations. Her sense of humour is very high brow. So I made arrangements to see her today despite having had my retirement party in London earlier in the week. I believe someone suggested to do a final tour of all of my favorites. And even Gretzky still puts on his skates once in awhile even though he's retired, so I thought "what the hell?" Am I ever glad I did. Great conversation, sexy girl, infectious smile. Thanks cutie.

[Guest c**io**m7]

My favorite lady would know my plans and I would definitely invite her for an extended stay...preferably a nice out of town trip...somewhere south and warm. I would not be able to think of a better retirement party than an extended visit with that one lady. I think it would be a sad good-bye, but, it would be the best good-bye this hobbyist could ever ask for!

[LuvAlts (AKA BownChickaBow 438]

My other suggestion would be a Trio for 2 hours. A Four-o even ;)

[CoolCucumber 2610]

My other suggestion would be a Trio for 2 hours. A Four-o even ;)

 

You present me with a dilemma. An overnight trip with a favorite girl sounds like fun since it's been a long time since I did an overnight with an SP and my favorite part about the SP-client relationship is the pillow talk afterwards (and no expectations of going to meet their parents afterwards - that's another good part about this "hobby"). But, economically speaking, a 2 hour "four-o" might actually be less expensive and certainly a once in a lifetime thing (I've had duos but never a trio let alone a four-o). I'd need to be wealthier to live out all of these fantasies. All of these fantasies with so little time...

[Cute0aza0Button 21399]

OK, I'm back from London and came across an SP who I only saw once back in May but I talk to her here on CERB often. I appreciate our chat and PM conversations. Her sense of humour is very high brow. So I made arrangements to see her today despite having had my retirement party in London earlier in the week. I believe someone suggested to do a final tour of all of my favorites. And even Gretzky still puts on his skates once in awhile even though he's retired, so I thought "what the hell?" Am I ever glad I did. Great conversation, sexy girl, infectious smile. Thanks cutie.

 

girl sounds great. you should write a rec to that extent

[HalifaxMan58 2206]

OK, I'm back from London and came across an SP who I only saw once back in May but I talk to her here on CERB often. I appreciate our chat and PM conversations. Her sense of humour is very high brow. So I made arrangements to see her today despite having had my retirement party in London earlier in the week. I believe someone suggested to do a final tour of all of my favorites. And even Gretzky still puts on his skates once in awhile even though he's retired, so I thought "what the hell?" Am I ever glad I did. Great conversation, sexy girl, infectious smile. Thanks cutie.

 

There was also another great hockey player called Mario Lemieux who came out of retirement. There is another option! ;)

[CoolCucumber 2610]

girl sounds great. you should write a rec to that extent

 

Great is not a good enough word to describe this Venus. If I took the words spectacular, sexy, pretty, sexy, orgasmic, sexy and magnificent and combined them into a word, it still wouldn't do her justice.

 

(Was that a little over the top? Perhaps some hyperbole? Maybe but damn is she smoking.) Did you go for a swim tonight?

 

Additional Comments:

There was also another great hockey player called Mario Lemieux who came out of retirement. There is another option! ;)

 

If you're implying that I'm the Mario Lemieux of sex, then that would make me the Magnificent One of sex. We'll have to ask the girls if it's true. I don't share my cerb handle with anyone (except for today's beauty), so I'll have to ask in person. Let's make a list.