I orgasm very easily, am I doomed?

[misskathryn44xoxx 170]

It's really hard to discuss with a provider as well because you don't really know them the first time. I think it would be really cool if some providers listed that they offer this service in their ad.

 

From my experience it'd just how much you do it. The more times the less it makes you nervous and you can relax which helps you last longer. I know a guy who bought the ring which helped him a bit.

 

I like this idea of advertising somehow that we are trained in prolonging orgasm? Would that be a good way to define it?

 

Also just wanted to mention that for some gents, they worry so much about not cumming quickly, they psych themselves out and can't climax at all. Definitely a lot of good advice here to discuss with your SP beforehand even if it is first contact. I find many appointments have round 1 ending within 5 minutes but then round 2 can go on another hour and it can be spectacular. Don't be worried or shy if it's been a while or you're really hot -- I say better twice than not at all sometimes :)

[Highsexdrivebabe 11800]

As some ladies have said, some of us like I do, entitle MSOG. I am multi-orgasmic myself and really don't see the point of preventing a gentleman to cum as much as he wants. But even so I like to spend time cuddling, kissing and talking between each fun and I am pretty sure U will enjoy this GFE time with the ladies who offer MSOG. We, both U and I or the ladies, R not machines so take your time in between each orgasms and enjoy and I do understand it was different with some ladies U have been seeing but like most said U R in the right place on CERB.

 

Now U have fun but most of all relax and enjoy!

 

Barbara

[saluki17 1144]

As some ladies have said, some of us like I do, entitle MSOG. I am multi-orgasmic myself and really don't see the point of preventing a gentleman to cum as much as he wants. But even so I like to spend time cuddling, kissing and talking between each fun and I am pretty sure U will enjoy this GFE time with the ladies who offer MSOG. We, both U and I or the ladies, R not machines so take your time in between each orgasms and enjoy and I do understand it was different with some ladies U have been seeing but like most said U R in the right place on CERB.

 

Now U have fun but most of all relax and enjoy!

 

Barbara

 

However, there are guys like me who have little chance of having a second shot in an hour or 90-minute session. So an orgasm in the first 15 or 20 minutes puts a serious damper on the rest of the hour. I like chatting, cuddling, etc. before and after, but let's be honest - the highlight is the build up to the big O. Once it happens, and you know that's it from the physical perspective of why you're there, it can be easy to get distracted and move on mentally to what awaits you next in the real world. That's why I appreciate it when a provider is willing to prolong it as long as possible. And that part is also on me as well!

[Highsexdrivebabe 11800]

Hi Saluki17, I mostly agree with U and do have to admit my bad habit is too jump on the gentleman's attribute once we R undressed but always inquire if the gentleman is into MSOG or not for if he has booked an hour he's entitle to have fun last as long as he can.

 

But I have to share an experience with now a regular with U. On our first encounter and when I asked him about MSOG he said unfortunately not and it's perfectly fine for all of gentlemen R OSOG. But he said no matter want it's the way I will want to cum (BBBJ).

 

We played a lot before he said please suck me again and after his huge fun (he had giving me some too with a great DATY) we were kissing and I was still caressing him when he said I want to have more fun and after covering himself he started taking me in the pussy and after not too long I saw his eyes got wide open and his mouth open and honestly I thought he was having a heart attack and I freaked out!!!! Then he went I am cumming!!! After he cummed for the second time he told me Thank U Barbara it's the first time in my life it has happen to me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I felt I was really blessed.

 

All this to say be confident in the lady U R spending time with as it this might happen. It did with a very mature client of mine of whom I wrote an ad and who could cum 2 times and said I want the thriathlon!!! And I succeed as well but was frigging stressed not to be able to.

 

CERB ladies R divine and really do wonders. So confide in them and let them do their wonders.

 

Barbara

xxxxooo

[McMonkey 456]

I happened across the Ottawa Men's Clinic website while looking for a clinic to discuss Viagra/Cialis (ended up just going to Appletree). OMC also had a page on premature ejaculation. It mentions many treamtents which don't work and some which do: the Squeeze Method, the Stop/Start Method, Drug Therapy, and Counselling.

 

Most of the previous posts seem to fit into the Stop/Start Method and the Rub One Out method (not mentioned on the clinic page). I'm really intrigued by the Squeeze Method, which was developed by Masters and Johnson (ironically named, given the subject matter). Google Masters and Johnson Squeeze Method and there's lots of info including some videos (haven't watched yet). It seems like the squeeze method lets you get really close and then then stops the orgasm, training you over time to do it without the squeeze (M & J reports 98% success rate!!!). It can be done solo or with a partner. It also requires open communication with your partner, which improves intimacy.

 

I don't typically have an issue with premature ejaculation, although there have been times when my partner's enthusiasm has been much greater than expected, over-ruling my planned pace. Even without PE problems these activities sound like a blast. I wonder how long I can hold off and how explosive it'll be. I certainly plan on finding out.

 

I absolutely think this would be a major perk for any SP who has read up/practiced these methods to put in an ad.