jerican 657 Report post Posted November 7, 2009 Well I do like bread a lot! But I have to agree, I have met some of the most wonderful women I could ever hope to, I have made some good friends and I am not too proud to say I have learned a few things that make me a better lover. Let's not forget that I have had mindblowing sexual experiences that left me panting and wanting more. And while I know physical appearance isn't the end all be all, I have felt even more inspired to step up my exercise routine and feel and look better then I ever have. It is not all tied to the hobby, but the appreciation of the hard work during it is always nice! Also the anticipation and excitement leading up to my pre-planned encounters always leaves me feeling happier and willing to handle annoyances easier which helps my day to day life. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Annessa 22743 Report post Posted November 8, 2009 And while I know physical appearance isn't the end all be all, I have felt even more inspired to step up my exercise routine and feel and look better then I ever have. It is not all tied to the hobby, but the appreciation of the hard work during it is always nice! Also the anticipation and excitement leading up to my pre-planned encounters always leaves me feeling happier and willing to handle annoyances easier which helps my day to day life. Jerican, you are so modest on your good looks.....unless before us ladies saw you, you weighed way more (which wouldn't matter even if you did ) you have nothing to worry about....i on the other hand, need to get myself to the gym!! lol I appreciate what you say about the anticipation however. For some of us SPs, thats the most exciting part of the job...for new clients, we never know who is on the the other side of the door. sometimes I listen to voicemail messages over and over just before seeing that client. its exciting! I think I said it before once but its kinda like that secret agent type feeling...we have a mission, but our target is unknown until that last second. i love the butterflies feeling :-) Being able to open the door to a stranger however under those circumstances has definitely helped my confidence in other aspects of my life. I'm self employed in my "other" trade and there is no board meeting that I dont own the minute I walk into the room, no one-on-one meeting for a new project that I dont present myself properly at from minute one, no phone conversation where I dont lay out my rules and regulations while stuttering or thinking. Being an SP has truly turned me into a proper business-woman. Confidence in social settings has never been a problem for me, but exuding confidence when you're selling your skills (industry related or not) was always a trial and error for me until now. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Cato 160314 Report post Posted November 8, 2009 Lots of sex with gorgeous young women Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Report post Posted November 8, 2009 Oh, Cato. I could just keep you. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Cato 160314 Report post Posted November 8, 2009 Oh, Cato. I could just keep you. The feeling's mutual, Peachy! This is exactly what I mean about this hobby. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Ou**or**n Report post Posted November 9, 2009 I agree whole-heartedly with Annessa that this hobby is the best thing since sliced bread. My reasons for feeling this way are somewhat different... Unlike many here I am single parent with a teenager living with me full time. Life is busy and I try and be the best parent I can. This means working hard, keeping up the house and cooking as well as being a taxi driver to my teen's various activities. I also of course, ahem.. have 'needs'. I am male, red blood flows through my veins. Currently I find it much better to fulfill those needs through encounters with the wonderful ladies one meets here. It is much more economical in terms of time and 'mental energy' than finding ways to get 'free' sex. I am home and both mentally and emotionally there for my teen at this time in their life. My mind and energies are not being wasted trying to meet and string some lady along. I'm not absent a couple of evenings a week out at bars or taking shots at women through online services. Yes, the hobby does cost money. I balance this with the needs of my teen. I am fortunate enough to earn enough to more than take care of my family and yet still have some left over (and oh when that spousal support ends.. ). Of course a teen has never ending needs for things but I know my teen also needs my emotional and mental energy. When my needs get met I am a better parent. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
GHT 798 Report post Posted November 9, 2009 whats the one thing that this industry has done to improve your life, your relations with people, and just your well-being. The best thing that hobbying has done is to make me a happier person. This seems to have many affects on my life. For example: - I laugh more, I'm more fun to be around. - I seem to be more "in the moment" when talking to people. I'm not all caught up with my issues. - I have renewed interest in making myself a better person. - I have more confidence in any situation. - I enjoy being with people more (I've been know to be anti-social at times). Some of the lady encounters I have had are amongst the most thrilling and memorable events I have had in my entire life. It makes me realize even more that life need not be stagnant (even at my age). If I don't like some aspect of my life, and its under my control, I should change it. It's for the better. GHT 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Parker 19761 Report post Posted November 9, 2009 What a great thread, kudos to Annessa for starting it! ;-) One of my favorite parts of being an SP is being able to show off my lingerie... cute outfits, heels... even better when wearing such gets such a great response from whoever I'm wearing it for. I've learned things, been told fascinating stories and have been taken to beautiful places.. all by some of the sweetest and most interesting people you'd ever want to spend time with. And of course there's always great sex.. can't forget about that.. xo Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MandalayBay 575 Report post Posted November 9, 2009 I only escorted for 4 months, but it changed my life in so many wonderful ways. It gave me the opportunity to experience sex with some of the most incredible lovers on earth. (CoachG, for example) Gentlemen like CoachG taught me so much about sex and how amazing it could be. Some of my regular clients were well-known professionals who I had only read about in the newspaper before becoming an escort. Escorting brought me closer to my boyfriend (who I retired to settle down with). The fact that he chose to love me during the time I was escorting means so much to me. He opened up to me about his sexual past and now there is absolutely nothing we can't talk about or do together. It gave me confidence and a completely different outlook on life. I sometimes miss escorting, but am so happy and in love with my partner that I have no regrets about retiring. Thanks for this great thread Annessa. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
YoungStud 468 Report post Posted November 9, 2009 Mandalay: Succinct, positive, well-written, honest and kind of inspiring. I wish all posts here were like that. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
pjrd 324 Report post Posted November 10, 2009 you wouldn`t believe how much this hobby has changed my life for the better. I`m single and in my early sixties. I now have many lady friends my age that I don`t even think of having sex with. I can go have a drink at the bar without thinking of trying to pic anyone up. My life is so much easier now that I don`t have to try to keep someone happy that is never happy anyway. No more relationships for me ( would not have said that five years ago, always thought I had to be with someone) Anyways I`m so happy to have been involved in this wonderful hobby. You girls are awesome and mean more to me than you know. luv ya pj 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Auralie (retired) 227 Report post Posted November 10, 2009 Although I've only been working for a short time, it has definitely increased my confidence. As a student I spend a lot of time at home in front of a computer, and go to the store in sweats and t-shirts, so getting dressed nicely and having the great men I've met compliment me and treat me like a queen is really wonderful. Sometimes I feel like I have a secret super power, so I'm just walking down the street and think "these people don't even know how sexy I am..." It's pretty thrilling. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wade 101 Report post Posted November 10, 2009 I have been seeing ladies for 10 or 12 years now. I only just found CERB about 2 months ago. Until then I would find a lady I liked and become a regular so as to not run into the scam side of the industry. I have been with 3 different ladies over my career in this. With CERB I think I will shop around a little more. I am single never had real good luck with relationships. But as people have been so honest in this thread I will too. Being 44 I am not into nor have ever been into bars and whatnot. I also believe I am a better person socially because I can feel free to talk to women anywhere as I have no need to play games trying to pick them up. I only wish I had a little more money to play at my hobby. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
VedaSloan 119179 Report post Posted November 11, 2009 Becoming an escort changed my life. Before, I was adrift, unfocused, unsure of what to do or where to go. I was depressed and felt that my life had no point. When I found escorting, I felt I had found my niche, I was home. It also gave me an avenue to put my goal of "making change" into action by getting involved with POWER and actively working to reduce the stigma we face. Escorting has allowed me to go back to school to study something I'm passionate about. So basically, escorting is the shit and I'll continue to do it until no one will pay me anymore. :) Great thread Annessa! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
boatbuilder 101 Report post Posted November 12, 2009 Seeing escorts has enabled me to preserve a good marriage... great in fact in every way except that my sex drive is 100 times hers. It wasn't always that way; we were pretty well matched sexually until she hit menopause. I do feel guilty though... and I worry about STDs but I don't think I'll ever be able to give it up. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest C****** K***e Report post Posted November 13, 2009 I have grown personally in huge ways since I entered the business. My self-confidence has sky-rocketed, and the way I conduct myself has improved so much. There are some things I had to shed to enter this business and it turned out that leaving them behind has been better for my life in general. That's not to mention some of the amazing people I've met, of course! So many clients have been absolute blessings to my life. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest C****** K***e Report post Posted November 13, 2009 And as Annessa mentioned, the money helps. I don't feel guilty about being an SP at all. Compare that to when I had to ask my parents for money every 2 months...I feel way better about myself. And likewise, my parents think I'm so responsible these days...:P Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bigdawg 474 Report post Posted November 13, 2009 I must say for me it has enriched my life by meeting some lovely women here on cerb, it also has helped me in more way's than one. Thank you everyone.:D Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
