Time-Wasting Opinions!

[jimmytatro 100]

Second I got to say..I was shaking my head at the reference of your age been close to sps not like other...you do realize this isn't plenty of fish right?

 

Yeah definitely realize this, still figuring this out, I guess maybe it was inappropriate for me to even say that but I think I was trying to express the level of comfort I had for those SPs that did have the time to initiate conversation with me, without me texting them first.

 

You didn't realize that openly shopping could be a slap on the face so we are like car..were you can kick the tire

But you don't like think about paying and an escort reason you leaned toward the one that was Very friendly to the point you wish you could have met them in a bar

Wow this is a full bag of chips isn't it?

Realize that it is a business transaction involving intimacy....fragile and delicate on both sides

If you don't wish to be treat like a dollars sign..you need to treat the lady as a lady not a product

 

Yeah it is a delicate balance and I am getting the feeling that while there are some universals, you can't apply the same thing to everyone but thats why I am spending time learning in the "New to this" section.

[Wolf Knight 29667]

Although I have the expendable income to be involved in this if I can't pick between two girls that offer the same services and I find equally attractive I may go for the slightly cheaper one (against the whole, get what you pay for thing I know).

 

 

I don't mean to hijack my own thread but because you're new I want to highlight this one point. I'll impart a little knowledge to you for whatever it's worth. The phrase, "you get what you pay for" is a good one in most instances however, I will tell you as many clients can attest, price should be considered a VERY POOR indicator of what type of experience you'll have with a companion. I have had experiences at the $200 price point that have equalled and exceeded those at the $400 price point. The reality is that you'll just "click" with certain ladies differently and thats what makes the experience.

 

Thanks for indulging my hijack.

[LeeRichards 177238]

 

I think maybe you shouldn't take it personally. I didn't mean that you should never initiate any exchange with an SP unless and until you're ready to book. Just be genuine. If you're just passing time or looking to get to know someone better, don't act like you're trying to set up an appointment that you probably wont keep keep. You wouldn't believe how many guys do that. But then, I suspect, that's not your style.

 

(Cheez Whiz? No. ... NO.)

 

Christine the first problem I see here is the "NO" !!! No to Cheez Whiz ? Honestly I am verklempt here ? ;)

 

I didn't take it personally ... no worries at all there. I honestly truly admired your comments as I always do but also got a chuckle from it too for my own silly reasons... Ooops.

 

Sometimes I just shouldn't reply on a serious thread me thinks

 

You like peanut butter then ?? hmmm ??

[SmartnSexy 2089]

The phrase, "you get what you pay for" is a good one in most instances however, I will tell you as many clients can attest, price should be considered a VERY POOR indicator of what type of experience you'll have with a companion. I have had experiences at the $200 price point that have equalled and exceeded those at the $400 price point. The reality is that you'll just "click" with certain ladies differently and thats what makes the experience.

 

Thanks for indulging my hijack.

 

Man where were you a couple weeks ago??? ;)

 

I've had this debate once already on the board and while I certainly share your opinion, it is apparently not the majority opinion. :(

 

Additional Comments:

If you don't wish to be treat like a dollars sign..you need to treat the lady as a lady not a product

 

A very poignant point mademoiselle.

 

To be clear to jimmytatro, treating the lady like a lady is important, but unfortunately it doesn't guarantee that she won't treat you like a dollar sign regardless. To elaborate on VJ's lovely quote, I'd say that if you treat her with disrespect, why should she respect you?

 

There's a certain risk on both sides of this equation. A lot of ladies are looking to provide a good service in an environment that's comfortable for everyone. Some are not and just want your money regardless, it's unfortunate, but its true. Reviews and recommendations help determine which is which, but every time you walk through that door (or vice/versa) you won't know how this session will go. When it doesn't go well it feels terrible, like you've been had. But when it does... oh boy, is it ever great.

 

I see your very reticent to take the plunge and I can understand that, just remember, at one point you're going to have to jump in, I doubt you'll ever get to the point where you're completely comfortable with it until you've done it.

 

Best of luck!

[fortunateone 156618]

I don't mean to hijack my own thread but because you're new I want to highlight this one point. I'll impart a little knowledge to you for whatever it's worth. The phrase, "you get what you pay for" is a good one in most instances however, I will tell you as many clients can attest, price should be considered a VERY POOR indicator of what type of experience you'll have with a companion. I have had experiences at the $200 price point that have equalled and exceeded those at the $400 price point. The reality is that you'll just "click" with certain ladies differently and thats what makes the experience.

 

Thanks for indulging my hijack.

 

 

I agree, and prices do not vary significantly in my opinion that they should even be on any list of selection criteria. Once the client has his budget in mind, then anyone and everyone that fits into that budget should be in his viewpoint. And from there, narrow it down to attraction, availability, location, and last before price would be services. I can't tell you the number of people who come to see me inspite of my restrictions, simply because of the way other sps treated them when they called them up, tho.

 

Given a choice between an sp with a higher rate, but who treats you like a welcome guest who isn't a time waster with silly or offensive questions, choose the one with the higher rate everytime. An sp who is patient at first contact is definitely the one to choose to see.

[Guest Miss Jane TG]

Each provider has her own way of gauging time wasters. Some have low threshold and others have a high one. I personally belong to the first group.

 

To claim that providers should react in a similar way to other business is not the most convincing argument in favor of those who advocate for a more tolerating attitude from providers.

 

Try to go to a high end jewelry store with a pair of jeans and start wondering around asking many questions, you will be neglected and passively intimated! Take it up a notch and you will be escorted to the exist door!

 

When a provider chooses to put an effort into her business, create a professional website, put all the necessary information, then the message is clearly "READ MY WEBSITE FIRST".

 

Over the last year I accumulated more the 600 numbers labeled as "WOT" (i,e Wast Of Time) and had the pleasure of meeting somewhat slightly less number of legitimate clients.

 

Did I loose some potential legitimate clients out of the 600? Probably 10% (i.e. 60) at best. But I saved a potentially wasted time on 540 actual time wasters. This is a cost that I am willing to pay to have the peace of mind to focus on my legitimate clients to give each and every one of them a memorable experience so they are for sure repeat clients!

 

Now, you can guess what my clientele base would be on the long run! I don't run a corporate of providers and I do certainly have a limited capacity. This is not the case of Apple Store where the target is every single human being on this planet but rather a jewelry store!

[Ice4fun 78407]

I kinda think i might be considered a time waster by some SP'S but i think i am probably just high maintenance as a client. If i contact a new SP it is usually with the intention of booking so I don't waste her time in that regards but i do tend to message SP'S who I meet regularly as I enjoy staying in contact. I have justified this in my own mind by saying that it us ok because I see the person frequently...but who knows what they think. This thread has given me food for thought...thanks for starting it. if you are a SP who I have met...and i was a time waster for you...feel free to drop me a PM with the feedback.