Why do you repeat with the same woman?

[futileresistenz 28253]

Why do I repeat?

 

Put simply: A known quantity, 0% chance of B&S (can't beat those odds!) and guaranteed good times. Plus many (or all) of the things people have said above.

 

Chemistry, trust, warmth, a heightened sense of connection, mutual respect and appreciation, oodles o' fun, repeatability (apparently, I just invented a word) and so much more.

 

Nothing wrong with a little variety either, on occasion. I enjoy both when the session starts with a warm, welcoming embrace.

[Triple HHH 12345]

Year two with the same lady has begun for me with an amazing extended visit, the Chemistry with this lady from the first hug has being nothing but unbelievable, she is drop dead gorgeous plus she excites me like no other whether in private or beside me in public. The comfort level between us is at a level I never dreamed of when I sent that first email. The added bonus she only lives ten minutes away so I am a very lucky man, a very lucky man indeed.:)

[Guest s******ecan****]

For me I repeat based on my overall satisfaction with the provider. Chemistry is a big factor but not the only one. Professionalism and confidence are very important considerations on my part. As well as sexual appeal (YMMV) and comfort level.

 

Essentially I repeat with the SP's that are very good at what they do, which always goes beyond the purely physical (although that is very important :) part of the experience.

[spencer2 278]

I contributed to this thread some time before and, at the time, I was visiting this very special lady on a regular basis to the exclusion of all others. About two years ago I move back home to Florida and I tried, without success, to find a suitable "regular" companion/lover.

So I arranged to fly back to Ottawa to stay connected to THE woman that has always met and exceed my dreams/expectations. I may say that I found more than an escort; I found a warm vibrant friend who shares my feelings and I daresay my love because what I feel for her is way above a satisfying sex fling....Of course we always have extremely satisfying sex and after the luving, I am still in love with her! Incidentally, I am coming back shortly to drink her sight, her sex and her charming persona....I

I am "hooked" and I love it!

[Triple HHH 12345]

Since we are into 2016 I now have 18 months of happily repeating with the same very special lady I still get butterflies before entering her room, she excites me like no other plus it just gets better and better, I am a very lucky man.

[spencer2 278]

I visited a lady for almost two years before I moved back to the US and now, I still keep in touch and I have returned when I have the chance and

spend as much time with her as I can and I am very much looking forward to see her again in the Spring. She has become my best friend and confident and she dominates my thoughts and desires...!

If only I was younger I would not hesitate to try to seduce her into spending our lives together!

[shaved 3174]

I repeat with the same Lady all the time, for all the reasons mentioned. I have been seeing the same Lady of and on for years now.

 

I love seeing her we have fun together we have good conversation and Great you know what together.

 

She is beautiful has a great figure. Every time I'm with her it's like the first day we meet each encounter just kept getting better and better.

 

I am comfortable with her we laugh and just have a GREAT time.

[nntsci 11076]

I have a similar thing going on... been seeing her for a year and 3/4... and almost only her for the past year.

the particular lady in question seems to know exactly how to please me... has since the first time I met her...

Last week, I told her she was fantastic and her response was "still? after over a year". I said "yes"... in fact every time I've been with her its been fantastic... that not the case with most of the ladies I've been with (always good, but not always fantastic).

 

 

I've thought of seeing another woman... but decided to go with the gal I know will be fantastic...

[Guest Prufrock Cummings]

I have repeated with the same woman for 4 years now. Our schedules sometimes don't match the best, so sometimes we may go as long as 2 months without seeing each and other times just a week apart.

 

Why do I repeat? I enjoy what we have in common. We have a great deal of similar interests so the excitement sometimes just to talk and get caught up can be as exciting as the other things.

 

She is also one of the best kissers, our make out sessions tend to go on until we are both dehydrated and need a break.

 

I repeat because I like her and respect her, and enjoy what we share when we meet.

 

I will continue as long as possible with her!

[Tempted Monk 5057]

Over the years, I had several regular Ladies for different reasons.

But with that one it was very simple - I just could not see the other Ladies. I thought about her being with the other woman and such a date did not have any sense. This made her not just regular but exclusive one.

 

I always waited for our next date and I missed talking to her, I missed her smile, the feel of her body when I hug her, taste of her kiss, her laughing eyes, her silky skin... I have forgotten long time ago that I can feel something like this. And I will be always grateful to this woman for that wonderful year when I felt really alive again.

[Triple HHH 12345]

Up to 22 months now seeing the same special lady, I am always thinking of ways to describe my visits with Carley after yesterday all I can say for a two person band we continue to make beautiful music together, I am one very lucky man:)

[someguy 67067]

Women who really like me and are great kissers. Thet do their best to fit me in their schedules. They keep in touch and seem to remember our conversations. And they are do much fun and relaxed when we spend timentogether

[nntsci 11076]

In the past 2 years I've only seen two ladies... both are friends (with me that is, not each other) and we have a great time together.

[someguy 67067]

I have met many new providers that I would like to repeat with. But not enough time and money. It's taking me longer to be able to repeat with some of the women that I have met a while back ago. But if they are great kissers and the chemistry is there. I shall return sometime. And if I have a awesome experience I will be back as soon as I can :)

[nntsci 11076]

I used to avoid repeating... because I was worried I'd get too attached to the lady... but the experience was often so good, I started repeating.

 

perhaps I am no longer trying to avoid getting too attached... not sure.

 

I do enjoy the experience of a meeting a lady for the first time and sometimes its great, but seeing the same lady if you have a good report with her is even better because she knows exactly how to please me

 

So why do I repeat... because the experience is amazing.

[Kadie Lux 1860]

Kudos to the OP for creating this damn amazing thread.

 

Very enjoyable and informative thread. I'm glad you've posted it sir!

Within my couple years of being in this industry I've noticed that having regulars is KEY and very important.

 

I enjoy building a relationship with them, trying new things each time we meet, and just generally getting to know them as a person. Not to mention I love to fulfill all their sexual desires of course! :icon_biggrin: This is the type of

"job" you either love or hate. And I love it! Don't think any SP would last a week doing this if she truly didn't enjoy it.

 

I love having regulars mainly because it eliminates me from meeting TONS of new men every time I work. I'd rather see 4 regulars in one day than 6 new gentlemen. That's just me! Doesn't mean I don't enjoy meeting new gentlemen, in fact I love it and enjoy the anticipation of meeting someone new.

 

I think regulars and hobbyists repeat for the reasons you have mentioned.

Service quality, comfort of knowing the SP you're visiting, excitement of trying new things each time you get together and maybe even having mutual feelings for each other. Tons of reasons! These are just my opinions and observations. Obviously, I'm not a hobbyist LOL. But, from my perspective this is why hobbyists most likely repeat with the same woman.

 

Seriously A+++ to the OP though. I really enjoyed reading through this thread. Great info! I always tell men newer to the hobby that visit me to try and stick to 1-3 SP's. IMO it's just a good idea to do this. Why risk seeing random Service Providers when you've found a few reputable, fun and caring SPs to continue visiting. We will satisfy your needs in a different and unique way every time you visit!

 

Have a good day everyone!

Kadie Lux xo

 

Additional Comments:

I have met many new providers that I would like to repeat with. But not enough time and money. It's taking me longer to be able to repeat with some of the women that I have met a while back ago. But if they are great kissers and the chemistry is there. I shall return sometime. And if I have a awesome experience I will be back as soon as I can :)

 

 

Maybe it's time for you to meet another special provider... :icon_lol:

She is coming to Ottawa in June.... P.S. I love kissing!

What's the point of having fun / getting off if you can't kiss the provider?!

 

Light kissing/Making out/Teasing with my lips is what usually gets me going and turns me on.... And if the man is a good kisser it's even more of a turn on... :biggrin: Gets me dripping!

[Guest v**do****g]

I will only repeat with SP's that have a great personalty and we have good chemistry with one another.

 

It is as simple as that.

[WhereIRoam 21825]

I recently had a friend say to me that if the good feelings in regards to a partner didn't hurt when we lost them we would take these feelings for granted. (Thx DM)

 

Another saying is that all good things must come to an end.

 

Even still, finding those ones that really make you feel special and feel like you are on top of the world even after you leave are precious. We shouldn't fear them, we should embrace them. It is so seldom that we find these people with whom we connect on so many levels that I am quickly starting to realize that the ones who I don't click with I no longer have time for.

 

Whether you prefer to have one, two, three or more doesn't matter. What matters is that when you do find those you really connect with repeat, repeat, repeat!

 

Wisdom does not come with age, it comes from experience and mistakes.

[nntsci 11076]

I recently had a friend say to me that if the good feelings in regards to a partner didn't hurt when we lost them we would take these feelings for granted. (Thx DM)

 

Another saying is that all good things must come to an end.

 

Even still, finding those ones that really make you feel special and feel like you are on top of the world even after you leave are precious. We shouldn't fear them, we should embrace them. It is so seldom that we find these people with whom we connect on so many levels that I am quickly starting to realize that the ones who I don't click with I no longer have time for.

 

Whether you prefer to have one, two, three or more doesn't matter. What matters is that when you do find those you really connect with repeat, repeat, repeat!

 

Wisdom does not come with age, it comes from experience and mistakes.

I agree, don't fear that connection. It enhances the experience.

But don't expect it to last forever; one can only possess her for the moments you are together.

My lady is a free spirit and has told me she is in this business because she didn't want to lose her independence.

Didn't want a relationship or to depend on anyone but herself.

When we are together she loves with all her heart... and then we part, after a passionate kiss, my free-spirit flies away... well, until our next date.

I recently calculated that I've seen her about 40 times in 3 years... and that's roughly 80 hours of pure bliss, lol...

and I've already booked my next two dates with her...

[Guest st*****ens**ors]

I repeat with the same provider for a simple reason: I miss intimacy more than anything else. I'm not looking to have an itch scratched, or indulge an appetite for variety.

 

Spending time with someone who is affectionate, engaged and friendly to talk to, and who slips into your arms as easily and naturally as a lover of many years isn't something you can develop in a series of first meetings with different providers.

 

I've met a few lovely ladies in HRM, but I was really looking for one with whom I felt a sense of connection and some genuine affection. Having found someone I really like, I'd rather see her again, if I can, than explore other options.

[nntsci 11076]

I repeat with the same provider for a simple reason: I miss intimacy more than anything else. I'm not looking to have an itch scratched, or indulge an appetite for variety.

 

Spending time with someone who is affectionate, engaged and friendly to talk to, and who slips into your arms as easily and naturally as a lover of many years isn't something you can develop in a series of first meetings with different providers.

 

I've met a few lovely ladies in HRM, but I was really looking for one with whom I felt a sense of connection and some genuine affection. Having found someone I really like, I'd rather see her again, if I can, than explore other options.

 

I started repeated for a very different reason.

 

I didn't used to repeat because I was afraid to get attached and wasn't looking for anything in particular. I was not looking for a special person. But I wanted to get someone off my mind. So I found a lady who looked like the person I wanted to forget. And she agreed to some hilarious role play and presto. I kept seeing her... Later she agreed to let me use her as a model in a painting (6 in total; 4 as a mermaid). I kept seeing her for 4 years including after she retired and I still think of her as a friendl. My fear of getting too attached had ended.

 

The lady I see now, I just enjoy the experience so much... I'm probably too attached to her, but I don't care anymore.

[frednorth470 3830]

It is nice when you find someone that 'clicks'. She knows what I want and I know what she wants. We don't have to say anything if we don't want to. She remembers what we were talking about last time and asks about my weekend and is genuinely happy to see me. Overall, it is because she makes me feel like I am the only one, but I know I am not. But for that time, there is no one else and we have each others complete committed attention. There must be a reason I have seen her for the last year or so at least once a week. An unbelievable woman and someone who I could easily fall for in different circumstances.

 

When the last time is better than the time before, you know you have something special and that we are enjoying sharing each other as much as possible. I feel quite fortunate that we met.

[NotchJohnson 214129]

I have found 3 ladies that I repeated with since I joined Cerb/Lyla, the first one in 2009 stole my heart and I was there every time she visited. We really had an amazing connection and it felt very comfortable when we were in each others arms. I have not seen her in many years but plan on seeing her again soon.

The second lady which is still around was really easy to talk to and have fun, I have only seen her 3 times and one of those was a threesome with another gorgeous lady.

So far these ladies are in my age group so it was easy to talk about family and life experience and include their sexual experience in the dates we had.

The last lady is so much younger, early 20's and she is so beautiful and I never felt rushed when I was with her. I have seen her a few times and I do not feel the age difference when talking with her. She loves everything that I do and is a excellent listener and I can't forget an amazing kisser.

 

Why do we all repeat with the same woman, the answer is in all of the comments you have been reading for the last 12 pages. We get a connection with those ladies and we enjoy their company including the kissing and what we know about each other.

[GoinDown 3669]

Oh my goodness these stories are all so gosh darned heartwarming !

[Guest 1***otd**]

This is such an amazing thread... Thank you

 

I agree with everything on this thread and I'm so happy that there are people of the softer sex, the beautiful women within this community who share their experiences in wanting to continue seeing clients they have developed wonderful chemistry and made connections with. Thank you for sharing as you validate what the men have shared and experienced

 

I too look for the intimate chemistry connection. It's an emotional connection that brings the SP/Client experience to a place where SP/Client is no longer felt but a sense of closeness between two friends who truly enjoy each other's company. I've been seeing a lovely woman for quite some time and I still get excited when I step through the door and see her beautiful face with the engaging eyes......

 

..... This is why I repeat