how to contact SP

[blues34ca 100]

how do you contact SP and feel safe doing so

[Brad 49548]

The short answer blues34ca is "by whatever means she requests".

 

Many ladies will advertise in their ads or on their websites if they prefer contact by email, text, or by phone (usually from an unblocked number).

 

As for feeling safe, keep in mind it is usually the lady who has more need to feel safe than the client. The ladies aren't in the habit of posting your contact info to the web and (unless you request a call back) you can generally assume that they won't randomly call you back more than a few minutes after leaving a message (if you're truly worried about that, just don't leave a message). Some people around here mention they use a separate cell phone just for hobbying to help ensure their discretion.

 

If anything, the ladies do a better job keeping the gents discretion and privacy protected than the other way around!

 

So do your research, pick a reputable lady, contact her in whatever manner she advertises, and enjoy!

[qwertyaccount 15793]

The only "unsafe" way of communicating with an SP is in a public place (shopping mall, parking lot, lobby, bar, etc.), and only because doing so is illegal. No SP you'd want to connect with would communicate with you in such a way.

 

All private communications, made by whatever means, are legal.

[roamingguy 300292]

Both Brad and Qwertyaccount are right

Always, always contact the lady by her preferred method of contact

If she wants email, then email.

If by text, then text,

If by PM then by PM

And never in public

Also provide the lady with all information she requests. Very often ladies utilize screening/verification. You are asking the lady to see you intimately and Brad is quite right, it is the lady who needs to feel safe far more than you

As for protecting your information and feeling safe, in my experience, the ladies absolutely protect your information, your privacy...discretion is important to them. There are some ladies I know that I trust far more than people I know in "civilian" life.

So go ahead, be open and contact a lady that interests you and be the gentleman that the lady can trust as much as you want to trust her (hope that makes sense)

A rambling

RG

[cat 262460]

... you can generally assume that they won't randomly call you back more than a few minutes after leaving a message (if you're truly worried about that, just don't leave a message).

 

A more efficient method is to leave a message with appropriate times to call back or a DO NOT CALL AFTER time. Not leaving a message leaves a question mark. Providers often get ripped online for not returning calls so they may assume you need a call back. Just leave a detailed message about what is acceptable in your particular case and it saves everyone in the end...

 

cat

[Guest]

Following any instructions is important. An escort may not call you back at all, if you don't reach her right away. An escort may explain this in her ad or website and she may include other ways to contact her. Escorts are all different and we all have methods that work for us individually. Keep that in mind and you should be fine.

 

Oh, yes, recheck websites and or ads if you haven't seen an escort in a while or contacted an escort in a while. Schedules and things change sometimes. This may be updated on the escorts website and or ad. As websites, blogs and ads are the most effective way of communicating with clients, without going to clients directly.

 

For safety stick with reputable ladies on boards like this and read "The Cowboy's Diary." The diary is only available for Ottawa though.

 

Most of all, have fun!!!

[qwertyaccount 15793]

...recheck websites and or ads if you haven't seen an escort in a while or contacted an escort in a while...

 

Great advice.

 

Also, phone numbers sometimes change too -- calling an old number brings only frustration.