qwertyaccount 15793 Report post Posted October 29, 2013 (edited) I've come to learn that most ladies like naughty talk, even though many civilian ladies don't like to admit it thinking it isn't "lady like". So, ladies -- What do you like to hear in the sack? What really gets your heart racing? What have you heard before that you never want to hear again? I have a great memory but it only lasts for 3 minutes so plan on making a "cheat sheet" of "dos & don'ts" and taping it to my arm. Edited October 29, 2013 by qwertyaccount Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cat 262460 Report post Posted October 29, 2013 For me, a racing pulse is stirred more by the tone than the words themselves. The velvet purr combined with hot moist words delivered anywhere near my neck area will send shivers throughout my body and goosebumps appear in the most delicate places. Whispers first of want, then carnal need primes me for the action to follow. Words with hard C's seem to ring my bell more than soft s's. The one thing that really doesn't work for me is being commanded to come more than is humanly possible. If you are here for a play date, know that I will come as my body allows and doesn't follow direction of that nature. The words "Come for me again" dries me out quicker than a sun shower lasts in Arizona... cat 8 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Midnite-Energies 110563 Report post Posted October 29, 2013 For me, the hottest thing that can come out of a man's mouth (besides his tongue) is the truth. Any dirty talk that flows naturally and in the heat of the moment is a turn on for me. I wouldn't put myself in a situation of being with someone who was into things outside my boundaries so it would be highly unlikely degrading or hard limit directives would come out. I have been with partners who weren't comfortable with dirty talk and it was a turn on to hear them learning to express their desire vocally. It's not what you say, it's the way you say it that has the most impact. As for the turn off scale, honestly guys who have unreasonable expectations or ones based on someone else. We are all human and we all have our own reactions and abilities. Just because lady A squirted with little to no effort doesn't mean I will react the same. Nor does it mean I can come multiple times in 5 minutes or even within 5 minutes. If you have expectations that every woman is the same and can all perform the same it puts unnecessary stress on our time and turns it more negative then positive. B open, explore, learn...don't expect! Also, because something happened one way one time, don't expect it to be that way all the time. People and situations can change, be aware. For me, be present in the moment, enjoy one another and have no expectations beyond enjoying what happens. 8 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
qwertyaccount 15793 Report post Posted October 30, 2013 Thank you for your feedback ladies - much appreciated! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Wolf Knight 29667 Report post Posted October 30, 2013 The one thing that really doesn't work for me is being commanded to come more than is humanly possible. If you are here for a play date, know that I will come as my body allows and doesn't follow direction of that nature. The words "Come for me again" dries me out quicker than a sun shower lasts in Arizona... cat Wow cat this is a really great point and not something I've ever thought of as a mood killer but I can understand now how it might be. Thanks for the heads up because I'm sure that this one actually happens a lot to ladies. For me talking of any type during sex feels very awkward and especially with dirty talk. My biggest fear would be that we'd be really hot for each other and in a moment of passion I might say something and the resulting response because I didn't know the ladies preferences, would be the equivalent of that needle scratched across a record sound. Because I fear that I usually keep my thoughts to myself which has in the past caused a lady or two to question if I'm ok and actually having a good time. Thanks for the thread I could sure use the pointers :) 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
CristyCurves 169032 Report post Posted October 30, 2013 I love dirty talk, but it has to be real, not forced. I want to know if he is into me, if it's real it'll just flow and be hot;) 3 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cyclo 30131 Report post Posted October 30, 2013 I love dirty talk, but it has to be real, not forced. I want to know if he is into me, if it's real it'll just flow and be hot;) I totally agree Cristy. Dirty talk that sounds like it was lifted from a really bad porn movie does not produce the desired response for me. I either start laughing or get turned off! Dirty talk that comes from uninhibited pleasure and is in the moment... well, now we're talkin' :-) 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
6dave9 4008 Report post Posted October 31, 2013 (edited) A little dirty talking is something that I am truly wanting to experience. It would a real turn on for me to hear some real steamy talk from the lady. As it has been mentioned above the, I am not referring to the awful porn trash talk found in most porn. I am convinced that the lady doesn't need to be reminded "to suck it" as she is performing oral.. Ughhh..!! Now, I have tried to gently entice a lady to talk to me by asking 'tell me what you want...' or 'tell me what you are what you want me to do...' just to get the ball rolling .. so to speak.. and .. umm well... it would seem I haven't found the right partner.. :-(. or I am not pushing the right buttons.. Ladies.. any thoughts? (PS i dont mean to hijack the thread..) Edited October 31, 2013 by 6dave9 gramatics Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
