Helena D'Orville 33237 Report post Posted January 30, 2015 I love what I do and have trouble calling it "a job". I only started 6 months ago, and had the chance to be "mentored" by two wonderful professional independent ladies (thank you again my friends). I feel so lucky to have met them exactly at the moment I needed them. I quit two part-time jobs to get into this activity because I needed to experience something else, but also because I was - and am - totally reviewing my vision of life, in general. Let's call it a "big review". This is for sure one of the best decisions I have taken in my life, and absolutely do not regret it. There is way more companionship and psychology involved in doing this, than it is about the "adult games". The real intimacy is this, being human with someone, exchanging with someone. What a gift to give and to receive. And sometimes, it can even become a luxury, because our lives are so stressful, complicated, painful etc... I shared some time with a gentleman a few days ago who just wanted to talk for hours. Just talking and sweetness. This is what he truly needed and wanted. It is moving to think that by just being me and listening to him, offering some sweetness, I helped him a lot. I think that this is one of the best jobs in the world. I also think that people who do not get this job do not get a big part of what being human is. And this is so sad. 11 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
someguy 67067 Report post Posted April 4, 2015 Nothing better then spending time with a woman that love's her job. My favourite cerb women love their job and couldn't think of doing anything else. That's what makes them so highly recommended and popular. You got to enjoy your job to enjoy your life. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Victoria Phoenix 3403 Report post Posted April 10, 2015 I too, am new to the industry, less then a year, when I first started, I was hesitant, nervous, anxious, but within the first week, I knew, this is for ME! I marvel, at all the compassionate fun loving down to earth gentlemen I have met! I don' t like calling this a job either, to me, it's more of a chance to show a gentlemen a wonderful time of seduction and the true meaning of The Girlfriend Experience, I love having them leave, and Know I will definitely be seeing them again, and already looking forward to it( for both of us!) All I can say is, fantastic topic and I honestly LOVE what I do, I will not give it up, even with the new laws, my thinking, keep the Laws comin, I'm not Leaving! 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Grass_Hopper 18263 Report post Posted April 10, 2015 I'm sorry, this will be rather long, and my English is not the best... I think this is a job. And I like to think we are specialists doing it. But each moment spent with a client is a new challenge... What does he likes? What kind of personnality does he have? Will it click? Well, as every profession, to do it right and to do it well, it requires passion. As an urgentist that is saving lives by putting all his heart into it, it's the same with us... We do it from all our heart, and eventhough there's some ''less fun moments'', if you compare pros and cons, this is the best profession ever! Passion never leaves, it's in our blood. This is what we are meant to be. Plus, we get spoiled, massaged, kissed, and well... We are well taking care of... ;) 3 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
someguy 67067 Report post Posted September 24, 2015 Recently met a few more new woman that I had a great time. You can tell that they truly love there job and it shows in there service. When the connection and chemistry is there, you can have a truly amazing and passionate session. These women I tend to repeat with often. They do it because they enjoy it and the money is just an extra bonus for them. 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LisbethNova 5627 Report post Posted September 29, 2015 Being an SP is one of the best jobs I have ever had. The benefits to having a flexible schedule and enjoying the company of many awesome clients has been super rewarding to me. I really appreciate how this industry has benefited my life. 3 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
someguy 67067 Report post Posted March 3, 2016 I've met many women over the last 6 years. And the best experiences have been the ones that truly enjoy meeting and pleasing men. They had told me they had started to do this to pay the bills. But after a while they felt liberated and enjoyed pleasing men and pleasing themselves. They found joy in giving and bring pleasure to others. Making lonely men happy if only for a while. At the same time making a descent living and supporting their families while doing something that brings them pleasure at the same time. You can tell by your session that she enjoys what she is doing and enjoys her time with you. Time flies and sometimes your time goes over and it doesn't. Others have you out of the door when you are done, or they seem dis-interested during the session. They just seem to want to get it over with. Luckly I have not had to experience this more the a few times. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest S****r Report post Posted March 6, 2016 I've met many women over the last 6 years. And the best experiences have been the ones that truly enjoy meeting and pleasing men. They had told me they had started to do this to pay the bills. But after a while they felt liberated and enjoyed pleasing men and pleasing themselves. They found joy in giving and bring pleasure to others. Making lonely men happy if only for a while. At the same time making a descent living and supporting their families while doing something that brings them pleasure at the same time. You can tell by your session that she enjoys what she is doing and enjoys her time with you.... One of my favourite quotes is: The happiest people in life are those who do two things: 1. Figure out what it is they love to do. 2. Figure out a way to get people to pay them to do. It took me 'til my 40s, but I finally figured it out! I wish such happiness to all of you! :-) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
someguy 67067 Report post Posted November 10, 2016 I have met many women who truly enjoy what they are doing and it shows by the care and kindness that they show us men. And others that do it because they need the money and have no other source of income. The difference is night and day. You will be back with those that love their work. And you won't be back with those that don't,,'t as there won't be any chemistry or connection. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Meaghan McLeod 179664 Report post Posted November 10, 2016 As someone who has semi retired, I have the flexibility of choosing if I want to see someone. I truly love my favorites, and when we connect, it's amazing. 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Brody Boivin 8445 Report post Posted November 29, 2016 Such lovely and wise words! I wouldn't continue had I not enjoyed myself with the lovely people who have entered my life. At the start of my SW ventures I learnt a lot from my guests and still to this day try to take away something positive from each and every experience. Life is a gift when you are surrounded by good people and like to ensure I make others lives better. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
someguy 67067 Report post Posted August 13, 2017 I've been going to the Brass Club for a year now. And all the MA's there love working there. It's a great clean, safe and fun environment. They have a great boss Jessica who trains and looks after the girls. The girls often com in early and miss coming in on their days off. The girls are friends with each other and play games between sessions. They really enjoy the work and go out of their way to ensure client satisfaction. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Katherine of Halifax 113932 Report post Posted August 13, 2017 (edited) I've met many women over the last 6 years. And the best experiences have been the ones that truly enjoy meeting and pleasing men. They had told me they had started to do this to pay the bills. But after a while they felt liberated and enjoyed pleasing men and pleasing themselves. They found joy in giving and bring pleasure to others. Making lonely men happy if only for a while. At the same time making a descent living and supporting their families while doing something that brings them pleasure at the same time. You can tell by your session that she enjoys what she is doing and enjoys her time with you. Time flies and sometimes your time goes over and it doesn't. Others have you out of the door when you are done, or they seem dis-interested during the session. They just seem to want to get it over with. Luckly I have not had to experience this more the a few times. I don't think we want to get it over with . However a respectful client considers out time . When you book an hour or two we need to keep on schedule . We do have other guests and they must be considered. If you stay late we can't clean up and be fresh for another pre booking. Respect of time please. Edited August 13, 2017 by Katherine errors 3 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
KarynSvensen 2074 Report post Posted August 29, 2017 someguy, you're completely right about that. I started as an SP in Montreal 5 years ago to be able to go to school after a pretty expensive teenage. I started purely because I needed money, like a big part of us I am sure of that. I quickly started to enjoy doing it. Being a very sexual person I was at first meeting two of my basic life requirement from this. I eventually started to appreciate all the psychological and social behind it and it just hooked me. After a few months, I actually stopped to see it as a job and instead started to see it as a hobby. Since this day, I've actually never had a day where I was available without work :) Since I moved in Ottawa, I started MA and really met my passion. It is just soooo enjoyable to see your satisfaction eyes, hear your moan and knowing all the pleasure I provide you. Having those serious or kinky conversations with you, getting those moments that you don't offer to anyone else. Be the one that let you be yourself without judgement. I started all of this to go to school, I now have completed my MSc and still do it because I love it :) 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Brody Boivin 8445 Report post Posted October 10, 2017 Being Shay Lovell has really given me the opportunity to discover more of myself and really had me grow as an individual. It's opened new experiences and gives me the oppurtunity to try something new and learn something new. I aim to ensure that I can do the same for others. Bring out the insides that scream to get out and explore. Did I mention it's a lot of fun? 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites