MA vs SP

[Guest]

This is my opinion about this topic. What I'm saying just reflects my opinions/thoughts about this topic and no one else's.

 

Q) What do these things have in common: Stripping, Erotic massage, Escorting?

 

 

A) They are all part of the sex industry.

 

 

Each of these parts of the sex industry are all different in the fact that they provide different services. However, they are the same due to the sexual nature. Each of these parts of the sex industry cater to different peoples comfort levels. For example strippers provide dances that are sexual in nature but do not provide manual releases. Erotic masseuses provide massage and manual release. Escorts provide, well, full service.

 

 

Of course to certain people one is going to be better than the other. We have our preferences and there's nothing wrong with that. However, I don't think that one is more sensual than the other. I think that they are just different. Having been an escort and a ma I have had very sensual experiences in erotic massage and escorting. Of course you can go to an escort that provides m.s.o.g and receive as many releases as possible. However, not every man works like that. There are many men that can only have one release. For the men that can have only one release the service is no longer about m.s.o.g., it is about a sensual prolonged sexual experience. Also if you are looking to be pampered and selfish an escort can provide a pampering all about you experience too. It just boils down to communication, what are you looking for, what do you need and who provides what. I don't think a stripper is more anything than a ma and I don't think a ma is more anything than an escort, ect, ect. I do think that each service has it's own nice and appeals to different people though.

 

 

Having two left feet, I'm not a good dancer. However, I would have no problems being a stripper, a ma or an escort. Different is not necessarily a bad thing, it is just different. Some people like oranges, some people like apples and some people like pears. Luckily here on cerb there's many beautiful strippers, ma's and escorts. Have fun choosing what kind of provider who works within your comfort level.

 

 

The only thing to remember is to respect boundaries. If you want a manual release you wouldn't go to a stripper, if you want a blow job you wouldn't go to a ma. I think you get the point.

 

 

As far as titles. Things naturally evolve. G.F.E. may have meant that you get a certain service in the past but it clearly means so much more now. If things are not clear, I think the best thing to do is politely ask the provider your interested in, if it's not clearly explained in ads or websites. If P.S.E ma or G.F.E ma is really code for mas who provide blow jobs or extras that are not usually provided in a ma session, I don't think the mas can even advertise in the ma section. I think that any mas who wants to advertise that they provide blow jobs or extras that are usually not provided in the ma service, have to advertise in the escort section on cerb. The title thing can be very confusing but has different meanings to different people.

 

 

I think it's important to be open to trying different experiences. Who knows you may find a pleasant surprise.

[Robynxoxo 10509]

Very politely said ChantalSummers. I don't have much of an opinion but what I will say, is this:

 

When GFE session get into the ..."will you do XXX for this much" or "how much for that", its awkward. Makes me think money is an issue for you and I'm a garage sale.

 

 

 

It's very unfortunate that anyone would make you feel that way :( sorry to hear.

[Guest Ni**t*****t]

Now that I think of it, with a SP you know what to expect. Normally services/restrictions are either described on her website or she will let you know when you book or when you meet. Then your session is within these "rules" and is as you expected however, chemistry plays a big role as you all know. You can have a very mechanical session or an extremely hot sensual/sexual session.

 

With a MA, there is this build up that drives a guy crazy until. I love this... a lot is based on chemistry between the girl and you and when the chemistry is good, the build up and release will stop your heart. The sensuality of the massage is amazing and with the right person it will blow you away.

 

That said, I still cannot answer the question... which is better? both I guess... it's about you and the lady, mood, setting, etc...

 

what a wonderful world

[Guest ***rd**n]

I think curiousm7 said it best "If you want to get laid, go see sp. If you want sexual tensions released as part of a sensual overload, go see ma. " I have spent most of my time at strip clubs and it can be very sensual again depending on the stripper and of course yourself. However there is no release because you have your clothes on. With the MA you get to be naked too and you are expected to release. Don't always have to hold it in like at a strip club. Recently I had an erotic massage. The lady at the desk threw me into the hot tub room. Never went in there before. Me and the MA spent some time in the hot tub, it was just like a lap dance but in water and I don't even swim that well. It was very sensual. Wish I could have lap dances in hot tubs all the time.

[GHT 798]

I agree that the blurring of lines makes things confusing for every one.

 

What does GFE MA mean to me. Well I expect a massage and kissing for sure, possibly a BJ but maybe not on the 1st date. No FS, that's what SPs are for.

 

Please understand I'm not saying how things should be, just the way they are.

[Guest c**io**m7]

I agree that the blurring of lines makes things confusing for every one.

 

What does GFE MA mean to me. Well I expect a massage and kissing for sure, possibly a BJ but maybe not on the 1st date. No FS, that's what SPs are for.

 

Please understand I'm not saying how things should be, just the way they are.

 

I don't know my good man..."possibly a BJ but maybe not on the 1st date"...maybe that mind-set is okay for the indy side but, when it comes to a spa setting, don't get the hopes too high...I don't think all spa GFE MAs are game.

[GHT 798]

I don't know my good man..."possibly a BJ but maybe not on the 1st date"...maybe that mind-set is okay for the indy side but, when it comes to a spa setting, don't get the hopes too high...I don't think all spa GFE MAs are game.

 

No argument. Some MAs are game, some are not, some are YMMV.

My experiences are mostly with indys.

[loneskater 25635]

Ok guys, I need your feedback. I see a lot of activity in the massage section. Correct me if I am wrong but the cost of an hour massage is near the cost of full service - no? ...

 

Not quite true. Here in OT the prices for a massage whether it is at a spa or an indy is relatively the same. Prices for SPs do vary a lot based on the services they provide and other factors.

[Reuben Sandwich 13841]

Ok guys, I need your feedback. I see a lot of activity in the massage section. Correct me if I am wrong but the cost of an hour massage is near the cost of full service - no? Are the massage services that good? Interested in hearing your perspective.

 

From a guy from out of town and the massages sucked big time from where he was at.

 

My perspective on all of this is that there is no comparing what might happen between you and any provider.

You can debate cost over service over what may or may not happen in any given session but the biggest determining factor in all of this is 'you'.

 

Relax, be clean, funny, intuitive, quiet, smart, positive and any other number of basic social skills and you will more often than not have a good time.

If you are always comparing service rendered for dollar spent then you may be missing out on the simple pleasure of being nakedly intimate with a woman, be she sp or ma. That level of intimacy will vary even when you have repeat visits with the same provider.

 

There are many great recommendations on many new and established ladies so try out the activity that has intrigued you in the massage section and/or the sp section and let us know how it all went.

[Guest Ni**t*****t]

I couldn't agree more with arejayell. The bottom line is be yourself and just relax and have fun.

 

We need to remember we are dealing with another person and people are everything but black and white. Your experience with a particular SP or MA may be different than someone else's and there is nothing wrong with this. I think it can only be fun if the girl is comfortable otherwise the whole thing becomes awkward.

 

I think just being yourself, always clean and respectful and letting yourself go with the flow will provide the best experience with either a SP or MA. That said, I still can't answer the initial question... I love both!!!!!!!

[Guest]

We need to remember we are dealing with another person and people are everything but black and white. Your experience with a particular SP or MA may be different than someone else's and there is nothing wrong with this. I think it can only be fun if the girl is comfortable otherwise the whole thing becomes awkward.

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I couldn't agree more. That is my lesson in this thread. The only person you can really speak for is yourself. Other than some important law issues that were touched upon in this

thread. I'm for people doing whatever they want. I would say read ads, websites, ect, ask any questions you need to and just enjoy. Both sp's and ma's have their unique services, that can relax and excite you, have fun!!!