Iceberg2011 180 Report post Posted November 26, 2013 I've heard it said that any girl can make you orgasm but a real woman can blow your mind. Are there any experts out there who can bring a man over the edge without touching the genitals? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Midnite-Energies 110563 Report post Posted November 26, 2013 There are so many potential situations for orgasms that yes, this is possible. In my research and experience though, it's not a situation where "hey let's meet and make me cum without touching me". It is two people who are not only comfortable and trusting of one another but also have taken the time to learn the other person. This sort of experience is more mental than physical which means that you have to get into the other persons head and learn what buttons they have and how to activate them. How to weave the fantasy in their mind so that the physical body reacts. This takes time unless it's a really amazing situation. There are people who can do this to themselves but adding another person to the mix is not a short process. If this is the experience you're looking for, I wish you luck in finding it. So many things to explore! 3 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest realnicehat Report post Posted November 26, 2013 I've heard it said that any girl can make you orgasm but a real woman can blow your mind. Are there any experts out there who can bring a man over the edge without touching the genitals? Yep. Porn stars, actresses, singers, models, your friends mom, high school teachers, cerb ladies, that girl that comes in to the coffee shop right after yoga every morning. I can't count the number of women who have made me cum without touching my genitals, or any part of me, or spoken to me, or been in the same room as me. You didn't say I couldn't touch my genitals ;) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Butterfly Kisses 2301 Report post Posted November 26, 2013 I met a young lady who might be my mate for this type of experience. While we were seeing each other we were both amazed at how quickly I would become hard when she was near. One night we were out for a warm late night drive. We parked in one of our favorite parks hidden in the trees, but had full view of the skyline in our sight. The music was good, we were both in summer shorts trying to cool off with an occasional breeze flowing through the windows. My lady looked at me and said, you want to fuck me right now. By the time I opened the door and went around to her side of the car I was hard as a tree trunk. She put the seat back quickly and I was inside her warm wet pussy before she had time to think. Many nights when she came to bed and snuggled close to me, bingo, my heat seeking moisture missile was ignited and needless to say sleep was put off until we were both exhausted from our play. A soft touch, a light kiss, or a simple hug and I am ready to go when with her. We never had a total orgasmic non genital session, but if it was possible, I think she would be the closest to anyone who could do it for me. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Iceberg2011 180 Report post Posted November 26, 2013 I have been working on building my sensitivity to respond to the slightest of stimulus. I'm increasingly curious about this non-touch approach, especially as I am more aware of the energy that women around me command of me. The nuances of the mating program that runs within us are powerful enough to draw this energy out of us. If only we can dial into it and become receptive to it. Anyone can grab the tip of our "glue whistle" and command the orgasm, but being able to coax it almost effortlessly as a result of attunement would be a phenomenal experience. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
roamingguy 300292 Report post Posted November 26, 2013 Well technically speaking a lap dance while your wearing your pants, there is no genital to genital contact, or any contact with your genitals. So if you have an orgasm from such a lap dance that would meet your criteria wouldn't it. And what about a prostrate massage. As long as your genitals aren't touched, you could achieve orgasm without genital touching RG Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest realnicehat Report post Posted November 26, 2013 Well technically speaking a lap dance while your wearing your pants, there is no genital to genital contact, or any contact with your genitals. So if you have an orgasm from such a lap dance that would meet your criteria wouldn't it.And what about a prostrate massage. As long as your genitals aren't touched, you could achieve orgasm without genital touching RG Well, if you're going to get that technical wouldn't a CBJ be considered as no genital contact? And CFS? The genitals are stimulated but by your definition not touched. If the condom is between me and the lady then am I actually having intercourse with her or with a latex sleeve that happens to be inside of her? Shit, I think I might still be a virgin! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
roamingguy 300292 Report post Posted November 26, 2013 Well, if you're going to get that technical wouldn't a CBJ be considered as no genital contact? And CFS? The genitals are stimulated but by your definition not touched. If the condom is between me and the lady then am I actually having intercourse with her or with a latex sleeve that happens to be inside of her? Shit, I think I might still be a virgin! Damn wish I had thought of that to use as an example too RG Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest realnicehat Report post Posted November 26, 2013 I have been working on building my sensitivity to respond to the slightest of stimulus. I'm increasingly curious about this non-touch approach, especially as I am more aware of the energy that women around me command of me. The nuances of the mating program that runs within us are powerful enough to draw this energy out of us. If only we can dial into it and become receptive to it. Anyone can grab the tip of our "glue whistle" and command the orgasm, but being able to coax it almost effortlessly as a result of attunement would be a phenomenal experience. Actually, I have to disagree on this point. As someone who has walked away from 2 hour appointments without achieving what some would consider the ultimate goal, I can attest to the fact that it isn't always as simple as grip/stroke/repeat. There are times when it is exactly that simple, others when no amount of coaxing will get little RNH to fire. It is rarely the lady's fault, sometimes I just can't get out of my own head long enough to get something out of my other head. That being said, I have never been disappointed on those occasions where I haven't cum. After all, I can knock one off in the shower any time but I can't simulate human contact and affection. I do agree that it would be a phenomenal experience to achieve that level of pleasure without genital stimulation. I think you would have to build up an incredible rapport with your partner so I would be surprised if the OP could find a lady that would advertise this skill. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
whiteman 14028 Report post Posted November 30, 2013 I've had it happen on a couple of occasions, but it's not something that I could say is a something that can happen consistently, nor is it something that any provider could specialize in. One time, I was in getting a massage, when the the MA and I just got to talking. We decided to stop the massage, and we lay in each other's arms and kept talking. What we were talking about, I don't remember, it wasn't sexual in nature, maybe we were talking about our respective lives, or we were talking about the weather, who knows? But we spent at least a couple of hours cuddling in each other's arms, and all concept of time-watching ceased. At the end, I just blew my load from the romantic situation. The MA didn't even want to take my money, she said she didn't think she even did anything! We were both surprised that I exploded just from the talking, even I wasn't expecting it, although obviously a few seconds before it happened, I could feeling it starting to happen. Usually, it does take a specific type of personality to get off on talk. Usually it's the types that like dirty talk, so any woman talking dirty can make them cum, but I'm not one them. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jdstar 1065 Report post Posted November 30, 2013 My ex used to cum from nipple play until she also found out that she could cum from sneaking around fucking one of my old friends. I no longer keep track of what gets her off now. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Salinaflower 5512 Report post Posted December 2, 2013 i would do my dam-dist to try to figure that one out :) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites