raimes83 101 Report post Posted December 8, 2009 Hello, I understand that there maybe a ton of threads of similar discussion, and I have been browsing the forums but I have yet to find something specific. I've seen pieces of information, but I wanted to ask this to any SP or Clients: As I prepare mentally to the idea of "crossing the line" or "taking the jump" into this adventure that I've been thinking off especially over the past 6 months. I wanted to know if it is expected to bring a gift? Chocolate? Wine? I don't want to show up and disappoint whomever my date is. Second question, I'm 25, have some experience but not extensively and I've got this fear of... how do I put it? Taking an hour appointment and "lasting" 10 minutes! Any suggestions how to avoid this scenario.. lol Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Report post Posted December 8, 2009 Hello, Raimes83 A gift is nice but it is not expected. So it's the thought that counts. When you get to know the sp a little better then you can build from there. Hey a little box of chocolates to me is great. As to you being disappointing anyone I wouldn't have any worries. Us escorts are used to all shapes and sizes. If you look at the threads. Attitude has a been thing to do with attraction. So put you best foot forward and look forward to a good time. Psss, if you blow in the first ten minutes. That means you can go again. So why worry? A good girl will take care of you. Have fun and play safe. XoXo Peachy/Val Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Cato 160314 Report post Posted December 8, 2009 Good advice, Peachy. I'm still nervous before meeting someone for the first time, and I don't want to disappoint, etc., but it's always been fun. Every woman I've met on cerb has been fantastic, and they'll take good care of you. So relax and have fun. And share your adventures. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
E.D. man 691 Report post Posted December 8, 2009 If you are inexperienced at sex tell the SP. Some SP's enjoy the fact of a virgin. Where others hate to teach. And I'm sure there are some SP's who would enjoy having you for dinner or would you be dinning:-P:lol: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Emma Alexandra 123368 Report post Posted December 8, 2009 We were once first timers too...so just relax and enjoy yourself... kisses, Emma Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Annessa 22743 Report post Posted December 8, 2009 a gift isn't necessary, just as peachy perfectly put it (say that five times fast!) once you get to know your SP perhaps something will come to mind to bring her. aside from what Peachy said about going twice...if you tell your SP to "be gentle' with you you could possibly have the most wonderful prolonged hour and a wonderful release at the end...complete with some naked-time pillow-talk after. Ease into the session slowly if you're concearned about bursting your bubble early...no need to get "right down to business" if you are worried about not being able to go a second time (physically I mean, not due to the SP). Wishing you some happy hunting and good luck on your first session! let us all know how it goes :-) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
raimes83 101 Report post Posted December 8, 2009 Peachy perfectly put it...peachy perfectly put it...peachy perfectly put it... My mind is confused even typing. Thank you for the quality (...and remarkably quick) response. Although the "its your own discretion" or "the thought that counts" answer is alot of pressure! This is why I can't maintain a quality relationship :grin: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
whatsup 11893 Report post Posted December 8, 2009 Hello, I understand that there maybe a ton of threads of similar discussion, and I have been browsing the forums but I have yet to find something specific. I've seen pieces of information, but I wanted to ask this to any SP or Clients: As I prepare mentally to the idea of "crossing the line" or "taking the jump" into this adventure that I've been thinking off especially over the past 6 months. I wanted to know if it is expected to bring a gift? Chocolate? Wine? I don't want to show up and disappoint whomever my date is. Second question, I'm 25, have some experience but not extensively and I've got this fear of... how do I put it? Taking an hour appointment and "lasting" 10 minutes! Any suggestions how to avoid this scenario.. lol Q1 It is not expected that you bring a gift but it is certainly a nice gesture. If the lady that you are going to see has a website you may find details as to her preference of a gift and If she is a member of Cerb you can PM her. Q2 Take your time with your new found friend, talk it up. Enjoy the moment, Most of all. Read many of the posts from these threads (Good advice and pointers) http://cerb.ca/vbulletin/forumdisplay.php?f=207 A good tool is http://cerb.ca/vbulletin/search.php Cheers and Happy Hobbying Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NotchJohnson 214123 Report post Posted December 8, 2009 Hello, I understand that there maybe a ton of threads of similar discussion, and I have been browsing the forums but I have yet to find something specific. I've seen pieces of information, but I wanted to ask this to any SP or Clients: As I prepare mentally to the idea of "crossing the line" or "taking the jump" into this adventure that I've been thinking off especially over the past 6 months. I wanted to know if it is expected to bring a gift? Chocolate? Wine? I don't want to show up and disappoint whomever my date is. Second question, I'm 25, have some experience but not extensively and I've got this fear of... how do I put it? Taking an hour appointment and "lasting" 10 minutes! Any suggestions how to avoid this scenario.. lol I'm 42 and always a virgin.......with any new lady that I see for the first time. If you don't bring any gifts they will not let you finish what you came there to see them for.lol From experience its sometimes important to get to know the sp before bringing her a gift.IMHO Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sexnonstop724 1727 Report post Posted December 8, 2009 (edited) It is not the final act that counts for a good encounter. Explore your fantasies. Feel the curves, take small nibbles, taste the sweet lips, smell the sweat and perfume, listen to the moans, watch her clench the sheets with her hands, embrace her body in your arms. If you got thru it once, do it again!! Hope you are booking for multiple hours!! SNS724 BTW, a gift when you show up would likely help break the ice and earn your brownie points. But I much prefer leaving a tip at the end. And extra especially super important for agency ladies on outcalls or 4 star Hotel incalls. I don't know any agencies, drivers and Hotels accept chcolates for paid. Edited December 8, 2009 by sexnonstop724 add content Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cordsboy 184 Report post Posted December 8, 2009 It is not the final act that counts for a good encounter. Explore your fantasies. Feel the curves, take small nibbles, taste the sweet lips, smell the sweat and perfume, listen to the moans, watch her clench the sheets with her hands, embrace her body in your arms. I agree 100%, I prefer the kissing, touching and anticipation over the actual sex but that's just me. Just take it easy, spend sometime to know the SP first (conversation is an art form); before you know it your hour is up and you will have wished you booked 2hrs. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
buggernot 588 Report post Posted December 8, 2009 Thank you for the quality (...and remarkably quick) response. Although the "its your own discretion" or "the thought that counts" answer is alot of pressure! This is why I can't maintain a quality relationship :grin: Don't worry so much about a gift...the best thing you can deliver is to be polite and respectful, the girls love that. And you sound like the type to be able to provide that, so it's one less thing for you to be anxious about! Same goes for how long you last - don't worry about it. Most girls here are way cool and you'll have a good time chatting and getting to know them before and after the deed is done. And as has been mentioned, if you are done that quick, you'll probably be back to full mast in no time for some more soon after. Although that might be one thing to clarify beforehand - some girls may restrict you to one shot. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Cato 160314 Report post Posted December 8, 2009 I like this thread. It brings out the best in everyone, and shows what this community is all about. Mutual aid. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
enigma 145 Report post Posted December 9, 2009 I agree... this is a great thread and great community. It has been very informative for me, as I am also a SP virgin :oops: and contemplating "taking the leap". Thanks to all for the great advice!:bowdown: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Annessa 22743 Report post Posted December 9, 2009 If you don't bring any gifts they will not let you finish what you came there to see them for.lol I'm pretty sure you were joking here tho right T'Storm? just wanted to clarify. gifts are not a key to the golden door......a good attitude will win a lady over more than any gift on a first encounter.....just wanted to be sure that was a jest, lol :-) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Emma Alexandra 123368 Report post Posted December 9, 2009 I'm pretty sure you were joking here tho right T'Storm? just wanted to clarify. gifts are not a key to the golden door......a good attitude will win a lady over more than any gift on a first encounter.....just wanted to be sure that was a jest, lol :-) I do think he is referring to "the donation" . I call it a gift or a present as some other ladies do...lol kisses Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
geo007 203 Report post Posted December 9, 2009 As to your second question, if you do have a quick shot you will have a great opportunity to explore your partner's treasures while your stamina rebuilds. It's a good time to cuddle, kiss, lick and suck to your hearts content. Allows for intimate discussions and comments. Enjoy, enjoy, enjoy,...:grin: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Annessa 22743 Report post Posted December 9, 2009 I do think he is referring to "the donation" . I call it a gift or a present as some other ladies do...lolkisses ahhh, t'was unclear :-).......maybe the same as some men ask "how many roses should I bring"? hehe Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sexnonstop724 1727 Report post Posted December 9, 2009 Two three hundred roses showing up at the door pretty much throw discreet out the door!! LOL SNS ahhh, t'was unclear :-).......maybe the same as some men ask "how many roses should I bring"? hehe Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Andee 220524 Report post Posted December 10, 2009 a gift isn't necessary, just as peachy perfectly put it (say that five times fast!) once you get to know your SP perhaps something will come to mind to bring her. aside from what Peachy said about going twice...if you tell your SP to "be gentle' with you you could possibly have the most wonderful prolonged hour and a wonderful release at the end...complete with some naked-time pillow-talk after. Ease into the session slowly if you're concearned about bursting your bubble early...no need to get "right down to business" if you are worried about not being able to go a second time (physically I mean, not due to the SP). Wishing you some happy hunting and good luck on your first session! let us all know how it goes :-) I think you have been given some good advice here. I presume you may be interested in a lady from CERB. I would suggest pm'ing them ahead of time to let them know you are a first timer and to see whether or not they might be the right fit. There are plenty of nice ladies to choose from, many with recommendations. Have fun and enjoy yourself - as Emma said, we were all first timers ourselves. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
