hunknhot 1067 Report post Posted December 12, 2009 The question is quite simple really. You enter the club and sit down, before you have a chance to order a drink you get approached a few times. Perhaps by someone you might actually want to chat with or go private with later once you are settled. How do you say "no maybe later" and not have to get up and go get them after without feeling like a total jackass lol Is it as simple as saying "come back later, I want to settle in first" ? That seems like a chemisty killer to me though. Thoughts? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Megan'sTouch 23875 Report post Posted December 12, 2009 Just let her know that you are just getting settled in but might be interested in a dance later. Nothing wrong with that :) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Cato 160314 Report post Posted December 12, 2009 I agree with the wise and beautiful Megan. Don't feel pressured. "When you're ready, they'll come." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mustard11 242 Report post Posted December 13, 2009 This is actually a topic in the Ottawa Stripper section. Under the title "Best way to say no". My policy in this matter is be as nice and honest as possible. I never go for a dance until I have atleast one beer. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites