Has young child in next room while client there

[Andee 220524]

A friend of mine who likes to hobby and check out adventure by seeing different girls went to see this SP from CL

 

When he got there, he said she was pretty and the place was clean and as he puts it "didn't look like a drug addict", but said it disturbed him when he heard a young child in the next room.

 

She told him to never mine the sound, that the child was fine.

 

He was unable to perform and left (still paid her).

 

Sounds like potentially dangerous situation for not only the client, but her.

 

Has anyone else had this experience?

[Megan'sTouch 23875]

That is very disturbing, Angela. I recognize that sex work puts me at increased risk of violence, which is a risk I'm willing to accept, but I can't imagine putting a child at risk! It sounds like that woman needs help. A sad story all around.

[Cowboy kenny 50799]

Agreed, it is disturbing but how accurate is a 3rd party account? I don't doubt your credibility Angela, how can we be certain about this information.

Considering the provider in question is a member of this community it might be best to address her directly and discreetly by pm about the concerns rather than posting these details publicly.

[i****v***** 310]

Wow! This thread will be interesting to follow as the lady in question is a member of CERB. *making some popcorn*

[buggernot 588]

If true that is totally not acceptable. Another thing to note is that she is a member here on cerb and most people are going to recognize who that is.

 

I don't know what to suggest here because there are implications that could very well lead to CAS getting involved. Hopefully she will see this or someone can get through to her.

[JustJack 4689]

Obviouly, this thread should not have been posted publically in a way that identified the SP involved.

 

Strongly recommending deleting the part that specifically identifies the SP.

[loneskater 25635]

I agree information that identify this lady should not have been posted and as CK mentioned we don't know the details and if ppl are concerned a PM to the SP would have been more appropriate.

 

I hope MOD will see this tread and delete any reference to an SP. This is like writing a negative review on someone which is not allowed on CERB.

 

Obviouly, this thread should not have been posted publically in a way that identified the SP involved.

 

Strongly recommending deleting the part that specifically identifies the SP.

[lil.ms.summers 122]

I agree with Loneskater & JustJack.

I no the situation is very disturbing, but she still is an Sp. This should be taken down.

[kih 458]

Have to agree that its disturbing and to me doesn't fall into this category B & S, scams or dangerous encounter. No doubt this parent will be faced with a moray of investigations soon based on hearsay.

[m**k 153]

This is a damned if you do, damned if you don't situation.

 

That being said, I am going to side with the reputation of the OP who must have had credible evidence to post. In the interest of all this is important to know and at the risk of stating the obvious...that ain't right and shouldn't be encouraged or supported (i.e. by seeing the sp in question) or ignored by stating that it is a personal matter to be resolved via pm.

 

my 2 cents

[Megan'sTouch 23875]

Agreed, it is disturbing but how accurate is a 3rd party account? I don't doubt your credibility Angela, how can we be certain about this information.

You're right, Cowboy Kenny. I've been a teacher for 8 years and on one occasion I was accussed of striking a child. I never did so and nothing came of it, but it was one of the most terrifying experiences of my life.

[Loki318 1631]

Reminds me of a story about a TV watching Grannie and yapping dogs......

 

Loki318

[Two Thirty 1422]

This is my first-ever public post because the matter is so serious I am compelled to write.

 

I subscribe to the cerb policy, "If you do not have anything nice to say... Please don't say anything at all." But, subject of this thread is really serious -- a child is involved.

 

I agree with CK i.e. yes, it is 3rd hand info, but enough info has been released to identify the SP, who has rights.

 

Practically speaking, the child is probably already cognizant of the SP's activities. Whether or not the child is capable of actually corroborating the allegation(s) is besides the point i.e. the child's welfare is the concern.

 

This is a serious matter, but no one should jump the gun. If those in the community are concerned and want to pursue this matter, I would suggest doing so privately via a PM to the SP, conveying your concerns so as to respect her rights, and give her a chance to remedy the situation. When (and if) the CAS gets involved, there are no winners, not even the child.

 

On a final note, I would ask MOD to take down this thread.

[irwin0072003 236]

yup, I didn't know until after I blew in her mouth and she swallowed, as I said hey we still have time she said she could ask one of her friends from down stairs to come up and join to make i go quicker. I said forget I'll just head out, then when we went to walk down the stairs I noticed another bed room door open slightly and could see a 5 or 6 year old girl playing with dolls on her bed.

 

wow, never called her again

[Malika Fantasy 144625]

It's totally wrong...

 

I can understand that this SP may need quick money and putting low price is easy way to have some...but don't do it when your kid is there!

 

Service Provider and hobbyests are adults, we all consent (at least members on the board) to do this activity knowing the risk that may occur. But putting someone, a child that isn't aware of this ,No! He is innocent, he doesn't have to know what his mother do for work or if he know one day, not this way! I know some SP here have some kids and they seem to hide this part of there life well, why cannot she do it that way? A child...no, not when he is there

 

Don't put someone innocent and that cannot defend himself in a situation like this

[Andee 220524]

Agreed, it is disturbing but how accurate is a 3rd party account? I don't doubt your credibility Angela, how can we be certain about this information.

Considering the provider in question is a member of this community it might be best to address her directly and discreetly by pm about the concerns rather than posting these details publicly.

 

Normally, I would not have gotten involved, and if was someone I hardly know, I would not have passed along the information. But not knowing this third party, I can appreciate Cowboy Kenny's concerns.

I cannot find anyone here on CERB with the same phone number. I don't even know her working name. I just went by the info. my friend referred to by the CL ad. However, as we have seen from this post, Irwin0072003 posted that he saw her as well and confirmed same.

 

It is not my intention to cause this SP grief or get her into trouble. However, I am deeply concerned, mostly that if something goes wrong, this child could be a victim of a date gone bad. I am hoping if she is reading this she re-thinks her approach to working with a child in the place. I know SPs who have children and always have a babysitter available when they work.

 

If the MOD feels that this post should be deleted, I will stand by his decision.

[Megan'sTouch 23875]

Okay, this is a little random but if this service provider needs a babysitter, I'd be happy to do so free-of-charge as it fits my schedule. I am a teacher and can provide references.

 

Angela - While I appreciate your concerns, I've thought about this for a bit and I think that advertising this fact may be potentially bad. The "good" guys out there will be turned away and "bad" guys will be attracted to her since she has a daughter. Just my thoughts.

[iwantagoodmp 110]

whoa this is disturbing. For one having a child nearby would freak me plus also whos watching that kid? The big boyfriend?

 

But yeah I could not get in the mood if there was a child crying or screaming or whatever in the next room.

 

Very strange

[Parker 19761]

At the same time though there have been pregnant SPs, an not a person here jumped down their throats OR made posts about it.

 

I get that people won't agree with it, some people will find it wrong and immoral...

 

But, there are a lot worse situations for a child to be in.

 

Beatings, starvation, the other day I saw a documentary on meth and the parents were smoking these chemical drugs not 4 feet from their 5 and 6 year olds.

 

So.. while some of us may not agree with it.. I don't really think it's our place to judge. Not here anyways.

[buggernot 588]

This is not something I believe that can be remedied by merely sending a pm or banning the provider from cerb or whatever. Anyone that does not understand how wrong this is to begin with has deeper problems.

 

I hope she sees this and realizes the error of her ways, because the next step here will ultimately lead to losing her child. And what can we do? Nothing. If she doesn't get the shit scared out of her from that possibility, she can be tossed from cerb and will go back to getting more dates on CL. One day, all this info will come out and she will have her child(ren) taken away.

 

And for all intents and purposes, this should stay as a warning here because I wouldn't want to be in that apartment with my pants down when the police and/or children's aid comes knocking.

 

Most accounts of this sp have generally said that she is shy and pleasant, and chances are she is a decent person trapped in some way into what she's doing where the consequences are not prominent to her. Who knows what that trap is - financial, psychological, coercion, etc. But my opinion is that we can do nothing. No one really knows enough to take it upon themselves to contact the authorities...that could effect a few lives in a very serious way.

 

And if the sp in question reads this, please seek help for your situation. You may even find some people here that can assist you.

[AdoraRose 100]

What kind of a mother would do that though? SP OR NOT... YOU DONT PUT YOUR CHILD AT RISK FOR ANY REASON! If shes making 80$ for that load she can afford to pay a fucking babysitter. That makes me sick.

[buggernot 588]

At the same time though there have been pregnant SPs, an not a person here jumped down their throats OR made posts about it.

 

I get that people won't agree with it, some people will find it wrong and immoral...

 

But, there are a lot worse situations for a child to be in.

 

Beatings, starvation, the other day I saw a documentary on meth and the parents were smoking these chemical drugs not 4 feet from their 5 and 6 year olds.

 

So.. while some of us may not agree with it.. I don't really think it's our place to judge. Not here anyways.

 

You're quite right Naomi, but regardless of how anyone here judges the situation, if CAS catches wind of this she will likely lose her child.

 

I know a provider that lost her 2 children for what CAS perceived as endangerment. Now she never worked with her children around - the incident was regarding someone else that she was not supposed to be in contact with - but the kids are gone and apparently for good.

 

People do bring it on themselves, but I still cannot imagine anything worse than having your child taken away from you. Unfortunately, it is usually justified.

[Parker 19761]

You're quite right Naomi, but regardless of how anyone here judges the situation, if CAS catches wind of this she will likely lose her child.

 

I know a provider that lost her 2 children for what CAS perceived as endangerment. Now she never worked with her children around - the incident was regarding someone else that she was not supposed to be in contact with - but the kids are gone and apparently for good.

 

People do bring it on themselves, but I still cannot imagine anything worse than having your child taken away from you. Unfortunately, it is usually justified.

 

 

And I am in complete agreement with you, I just don't think this is the place to be discussing such at all.

 

This is not a morality or family forum... This is an escort forum..

People here largely practice activities that some people find just as offensive as we may find what this SP is doing.

 

I only worry if we start judging her, it opens us up to judge on others... and this is the last place where anyone should feel judged or worry about the possibility of such.

 

I would just rather this site be about our lovely ladies and the good times we have with. While I know this forum is open to other discussions, I'd rather them not be as controversial or judgmental as this one...

 

...Also... These forums are not private. Anyone can read them.

Are we not increasing the chances of her getting caught simple because police can see this thread here and connect it to the one on CL?

 

There's too much to think about here, and none of it is my business...

 

Nai, out! xo

[Andee 220524]

Okay' date=' this is a little random but if this service provider needs a babysitter, I'd be happy to do so free-of-charge as it fits my schedule. I am a teacher and can provide references.

 

Angela - While I appreciate your concerns, I've thought about this for a bit and I think that advertising this fact may be potentially bad. The "good" guys out there will be turned away and "bad" guys will be attracted to her since she has a daughter. Just my thoughts.[/quote']

 

From what I am gathering, the "good guys" who would visit her probably wouldn't again. Eventually she might get a "bad guy" who would catch on there is a child there, with or without this posting - which is exactly what I am afraid is going to happen.

 

I don't mean to sound harsh, but I think attracting a predator from CERB is the least of this woman's concerns.

 

If she is indeed a member of CERB, then I only hope she reads this and does the right thing.

[Megan'sTouch 23875]

From what I am gathering, the "good guys" who would visit her probably wouldn't again. Eventually she might get a "bad guy" who would catch on there is a child there, with or without this posting - which is exactly what I am afraid is going to happen.

 

I don't mean to sound harsh, but I think attracting a predator from CERB is the least of this woman's concerns.

 

I only hope she reads this and does the right thing.

What I meant is that the "good guys" of CERB that we want her to see won't be visiting her anymore while this post might attract someone who is interested in harming the girl.

 

I don't think a regular CERB poster would go after her daughter, but this isn't a private forum and I'm quite sure we have at least 10 "lurkers" per actual poster. I think a creep lurking viewing this thread and paying her a visit due to her daughter is a very real possibility.