Are you a Voyeur or Exhibitionist

[Ice4fun 78407]

Are you more of a Voyeur or an Exhibitionist... Would you rather have sex with someone watching or watch while another couple has sex?

 

For me this is really a tough question.... I have never had sex with anyone just watching...while in theory I find the idea interesting lol I wonder if in the actual moment it would have an impact on performance...lol worry it would be negative.. hope it would be positive. Likewise I have never been just a Voyeur and watched others have sex... but this is way less risky so given the choice it would be most likely what I would choose... i know what you are thinking "chicken" lol

 

What about you?

[Guest]

Yes, and yes, yes, yes, yes.... opps. I like both. Both are fun and different to me. With the right people!!! I would only do this with people I know and feel comfortable with.

[PistolPete 61421]

No to your answer of performance. ;)

 

AND

 

Actually YES to both, as in watching a *couple* of ladies having sex (voyeur) :) while I'm standing naked and stroking myself (exhibitionist).

 

You never specified if it was MFM or MFF or MMFF Now if it was the later MMFF I have had the opportunity to participate in those a couple of times, and there was some voyeur, and all of us were were hanging out ;) (pun intended ) and having a good old time. :)

 

I think once you are deeply involved with the lady, you really do forget there is anyone else in the room. :)

 

Over my time, exploring my sexuality I have opened a window that sometimes goes beyond thinking outside the box, and I never found myself to be chicken to explore these ideas, as long as they were safe, and I was 100% certain I wanted explore these new adventures.

 

A lot of it is mind over matter for some, take for example a Poly event, being able to perform around 3-5 other gents with one lady.Once you explored something for the very 1st time, you want to do it more often so your performance really becomes secondary.

[Brad 49548]

I'd pick voyeur, myself.

 

Absolutely nothing wrong with being an exhibitionist, of course (indeed, if you like the idea of being a voyeur you have to count on someone else being an exhibitionist, don't you? :) ).

 

I suppose I'm just happy enough to concentrate and perform for the lady I'm with, so the idea of having an audience doesn't do much for me. I can see how it would be a thrill though, and having never tried it I suppose I could be surprised. Wouldn't be the first time something I thought something I had no interest in turned out to be a turn on.

 

On the flip side, well, anyone who watches porn has at least a bit of voyeur in them, no? So I'm fairly sure I'd enjoy watching others enjoying themselves. I think my biggest difficulty there would be resisting the urge to join in!

[Guest S*rca****sid]

Can't someone be both? I know I am.

[Athos 108589]

Yes as well ... something I haven't had the opportunity to do, but is definitely on the bucket list.

 

Now I just need to find the right people to make fantasy become a reality.

 

Porthos

[jdstar 1065]

I really enjoy both, but I'd have to say that I'm more of an exhibitionist. I especially enjoy being an ehibitionist if it helps get the voyeur off. I met a couple once, and the guy wanted to watch his girlfriend give head and take a facial. It was really exciting being sucked on and watching this guy stroke off to his girl feeding on my cock. Even when I'm a voyeaur, I can't help but wanting to stroke myself, so inevitabley I'd turn into an exhibitionist even if I'm there to watch.

[NotchJohnson 214123]

I'm equally both even though I have not done much voyeurism per say, only 3 times in my life. As for being an exhibitionist I just love getting caught by surprise and showing off my goods.