ringo14 100 Report post Posted December 17, 2009 41 yr old male, great shape, 2 things, is it normal to have sex 3 times daily, either masturbation or partner?? Is it normal to have a fetish of licking womens bums, I can`t stop thinking about it, gets me hard just thinking about it, is this normal and why, thanks Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
geo007 203 Report post Posted December 17, 2009 Well, not being a psychiatrist or doctor, I'd say you are bit far out there... at least for the 3 times a day if this is every day of the week, month, year,... Licking bums to me is a fetish which is OK cause a lot of us have specific fetishes which may seem weird to others. Kidding aside you should ask your doctor about the frequency thing cause any nut like me will have their own opinion which is worth not much...:motion: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
belladonna 279 Report post Posted December 17, 2009 NO! You are a healthy individual. Wanting sex, needing sex, thinking about sex all the time--it makes us human! Freud was up to something, you know! Masturbating and having sex often, as long as it doesn't stop you from functioning normally, is fine! We all have fetishes. I like spanking, some like licking butts, others like to watch and some like to take off all their clothes. I'm sure you'll get people telling you there's something wrong with you, but those people are stuck in the bourgeois mentality. They've been indoctrinated to fear sex/sexuality and renounce it as though it was the devil himself! Ignore their prudish behavior and express your humanity with a three times a day, butt licking orgy. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest S**a*Q Report post Posted December 17, 2009 I agree with Belladonna here. As long as what you do, doesn't affect your environment or the relationships around you, it isn't an unhealthy habit. Sure three times a day may sound extreme to someone who does it less, but it may seem like a issue to someone who does it more than that. We're all individuals, shaped by the events in our own lives, we can't say that someone else is wrong, as long as they are the best person they can be. If they aren't hurting or wronging anyone else, then it's fine. Fetishes are an individual thing... Again, it's your thing, if I don't like it, that doesn't matter... Fetishes are a personal thing. Great if you can share that with someone, (and I'm sure with butt licking you totally could, that's hot :) ). Fetishes are what cause us to have fantasies, and who wants to live without those... ? A final point... Orgasming that many times a day would release a lot of happy sensations... I bet you he's way more pleasant than most that don't get off 3 times a day... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
buggernot 588 Report post Posted December 17, 2009 41 yr old male, great shape, 2 things, is it normal to have sex 3 times daily, either masturbation or partner?? Is it normal to have a fetish of licking womens bums, I can`t stop thinking about it, gets me hard just thinking about it, is this normal and why, thanks Normal is what makes you feel good when it doesn't hurt anyone, including yourself. Everybody is different. I think going to church is fucking painful, but some people think it's normal. I have a close friend whose boyfriend is obsessed with ladies assholes. He's always rimming her, his favourite porn is girls licking other girls assholes, and he wants to have a threesome with her and another girl where he just watches them eat each other's asses. And he's as normal as they come. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TracieGold 282 Report post Posted December 17, 2009 Then, if you are off "the norm" does not mean you are off the wall.... However I have a couple of questions for you: as we all know "quantity and quality" are not synonyms, then said that I ask you how are those 3 times? all the same? very satisfying? or just kind of "quickies"? and, have you tried to have a two hour of intense sex with one of us and see if after you still need 2 more sets? Let me know, I am really curious.... Thanks and I am going to call you from now on Wonderman.....lol Tracie:bddog: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest S**r***e Report post Posted December 18, 2009 I pretty much have to agree with what everyone has said here. Your fetish is your fetish. As for the number of times in a day regarding sex...everyone is different. I know there is barely a moment that goes by in a day when I'm not thinking about it. If I get the opportunity to have sex or have some self gratification I take it, whether its my 2nd or 4th time that day. In short, I believe you to be normal. There have been times that I self gratified at least 8 times in a day. That was quite some time ago, not sure if I can still do that. Mostly because I don't have the time but also because I was younger then. (not that I'm really that old now though) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ringo14 100 Report post Posted December 21, 2009 This all deppends if it is quallity or quantity, I have had sex for 1 hr average, alot of touching etc, I have also had Tantric lessions that really did not work, by all means I am not a minute man, I love the feeling of getting there as much as unloading, if you know what I mean,I just love SEX, Thanks for everyones reply, wow what a site, its great talking about this stuff, thanx Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ringo14 100 Report post Posted December 21, 2009 Thanks for all the responses, this is truley a great website, Sometimes you do not have anyone to tell things to, great place to get things off your chest, again thanx all. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
outforthenight 100 Report post Posted December 22, 2009 I don't feel the need to touch myself for a couple days after I have a good session with an sp.. Sex 3 times a day?That would not be a big deal when you're really young. But at the age of 41?! If it doesn't mess up things in your life..then no big deal. Props to you on the killer sex drive man! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
hunknhot 1067 Report post Posted December 22, 2009 There is no normal.. Just whatever feels right for you. It's your life, find what makes sense to you. Moderation is key, as will all things excess has a negative affect. I agree with you ringo14. This is the best place to seek advice. You know that pile of stones you passed on the way here? Well now one will be casting one at you here. At least not this ;) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Jazzitup 5652 Report post Posted December 22, 2009 My take on this is it is all about discovering who and what you are. So you are a three times a day guy. That's easy to accept. It may even help keep you sane. As an aside, this reminds me of a wild weekend an old GF and I had in Montreal. I had something like 15 orgasms during our time there. Bottom line, I think you are within my concept of the norm. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
pjrd 324 Report post Posted December 22, 2009 hey Ringo, are you bragging or complaining. Go with it, you`ll soon be old like me and three times a day is rare but doable with the right people and all day to do it.:motion: PJ:jackoff::69::bddog: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ringo14 100 Report post Posted December 23, 2009 I don't feel the need to touch myself for a couple days after I have a good session with an sp..Sex 3 times a day?That would not be a big deal when you're really young. But at the age of 41?! If it doesn't mess up things in your life..then no big deal. Props to you on the killer sex drive man! I have not been with a escort yet, still on the fence if you no what i mean, I have been to tons of massages though, I am really afraid that I am going to love it with a escort and then I do not want to loose control of my sex drive or go broke spending time with them, they are all so beautifull and its hard to find the right one. any thoughts on this thanx. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kih 458 Report post Posted December 23, 2009 I have not been with a escort yet, still on the fence if you no what i mean, I have been to tons of massages though, I am really afraid that I am going to love it with a escort and then I do not want to loose control of my sex drive or go broke spending time with them, they are all so beautifull and its hard to find the right one. any thoughts on this thanx. Start with the recommendation section. Make contact and discuss your fetish. Book your date with one that catches your fancy! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest f***2f*** Report post Posted December 23, 2009 3 times a day in your forties?? why not dude?? sounds great!! I was not lucky to be able to do that in my forties due to a monogamous relationship at the time that didn't see me getting it more than 3 times a month...I would have killed for 3 times a day. I did a lot of jerking off though and I used to think that was kinda abnormal till I realized that most people jerk off a lot too. I love to eat pussy and ass so I think it's perfectly normal. I think someone else put it well when they said there is no such thing as normal. There's uptight and there's open minded...I think those are the two poles and anything in between is fair game! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ringo14 100 Report post Posted May 20, 2011 ya lets hook up i am into that. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cflpoolboss 160 Report post Posted May 20, 2011 Iam 46 and I still need a release everymorning...then if I get some that night its all good...to each their own... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Wolftongue 136 Report post Posted May 20, 2011 As long you are happy and healthy... keep up pumping the good works... sort of speak. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Studio 110 by Sophia 150333 Report post Posted May 20, 2011 Well it is said that if want to know if something is "normal" you need to ask if it interupting a healthy lifestyle? Is your life hurting because of the activity? Perhaps your "pleasure center" in the brain is larger than other's? People with addictive personality usually tend to have the "pleasure center" to be larger. If it is a real consern for you, then I would suggest exploring that with a trained professional. As your fettish, sure that is normal. many of us have fettishes. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Apex2006 1071 Report post Posted May 20, 2011 What is normal these days, what ever floats your boat is what ever you like. Don't ask people if what turns you on is normal! If we are clssed as F__ked up by what turns us on, I think every single person on this site would be F__cked up with me at the top of the pile! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
roamingguy 300292 Report post Posted May 20, 2011 Don't fret the three times a day, anyone thinks it's weird is probably secretly envious of you As for the bum...on a woman, head to toe, whatever floats your boat, as long as it's OK by the lady RG Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Gentleman11 10508 Report post Posted May 21, 2011 Love that expression used by a couple of guys here "whatever floats your boat" G11 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
